It’s completely understandable to envy “jerks” when it comes to getting women. Watching as these bad boys score all of the hottest women while you, the nice guy, get left with the scraps can be painful indeed. There are some things you need to know about what’s really going on here, so pay attention to what I’m about to tell you.

Despite what it may look like, being a jerk does not equate to instant success with women. You will enjoy much more success by focusing on certain behaviors that you are almost certainly exhibiting that are actually repelling women. You see, trying to hard to be a “nice guy” usually just causes women to think that you are timid and uninteresting.

You can’t expect to have rock-star success with women by acting like a completely uninspiring wimp. You wouldn’t want to spend a lot of time getting to know somebody who was completely uninteresting to you, and hot women are the same way.

It doesn’t seem like it makes much sense, but many men seem to think that being as boring as humanly possible is actually a good strategy when it comes to courting or seducing women! Despite lackluster results with this approach, I see these guys try again and again to bore women into liking them. I know that nice guys don’t realize how boring they are being, but that’s what it comes across as!

Ironically, once you start putting in a little effort to “be a jerk” with women, you’ll start to realize that going a little overboard every now and then actually isn’t being a jerk at all. What you’re doing is being unique and exciting, something that every beautiful woman secretly craves. If you continue sucking up to women and worshiping the ground that they walk on, you’ll get stuck with the ugly ones time and time again!

Face it, women are sick and tired of being treated like celebrities just for being beautiful. They want to be challenged and entertained like the rest of us. They want to know what’s REALLY on your mind. They don’t want some sugar-coated reality made for princesses where she never gets to hear what’s really on your mind or what you really think of her or her behavior.

You want to know what the funny thing is about all this? If you understand the actual reasons that women love jerks, then you won’t have to actually be a jerk if you don’t want to be one. If you know how to be refreshing and entertaining, you can be as nice or as mean as you want to be, and still get with the kind of women that you want to. Don’t believe society’s hype about nice guys!

Whether you’re a nice guy or a jerk really isn’t the issue. Just remember what women are really attracted to, and you will attract them. It isn’t rocket science; it really is that simple.

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If your boyfriend is a flirt, chances are, you knew that when you met him. What do you do to tame this habit? The answer may shock you, but the answer is nothing. You either need to learn to live with it or let him go. Chances are, if you hold onto a flirting man too tight, he will just ease on over to greener pastures, where he can be more himself.

For example, I used to be a cocktail waitress, so I have observed men on their worst behavior. Often times, it is encouraged for the waitress to take a shot with her high paying customers, and often times, I did just that. I also flirted for tips. I have seen men slip off wedding rings, turn off cell phones and put them away, and flat out lie about their girlfriends or wives, even if they are at the bar with them. I have been slipped business cards with credit cards in the hopes that I might call one of these dirtbags. I never called any of them. I knew they didn’t mean it and I am one of those strange women that actually respects the bond of a relationship.

Men and women tend to get a little stupid when alcohol is involved. I always used the bar as my safety net. Not all women are like me though. Not all women care if your man is in a relationship. Here is what I noticed in the differences of nice guys that flirt and dirtbags that want to cheat.

Some guys like to be kept on a short leash. Not the flirt. The flirt needs to be kept in check, but he needs plenty of room to roam. Many times, a nice guy flirt will flirt with the waitress or bartender because he knows it is like flirting with a stripper. His attention is nice as long as he is tipping appropriately. You have to ask yourself how this makes you feel. How do you like the fact that he is giving his money to a total stranger? A beautiful, often exotic and sexy stranger. Instead of seeing it as a major blow to your relationship. Consider it from a more healthy perspective. Your guy needs to feel sexy, and if he is going out and spending his money on that, and he has the money to spend on it, then you could consider that a version of therapy for him.

Men desire attention the same way women do. They crave for someone to tell them how sexy they are. They long for someone to lavish them with attention, even if the attention isn’t long lasting. You have to ask yourself if you are providing that, and if you aren’t, expect him to go out and find someone that will, even if just for a second.

Also, before you jump to thinking he is a complete cheater, most guys, really aren’t cheaters. In fact, men get attached to women very easily. Especially when they are in a relationship. They don’t generally cheat. In fact, most men, if approached to actually follow through with someone they have been flirting with, will chicken out. The thought of being with someone new is exciting, but men are logical. If they have a good thing going with you, they aren’t just going to give that up for a stranger.

The best way to capture a guy with a wandering eye is to let your eye wander with his.

For example, my boyfriend and I were getting coffee. A beautiful young blond stood in line behind us. I watched my boyfriend shuffle and look away as if he didn’t want to get caught looking at her. I whispered in his ear that she was extremely beautiful and I saw her too. Instantly, he was put at ease and he didn’t turn to look at her again. I put a name on what he was thinking and he settled down.

My boyfriend is extremely attractive and I have watched women flirt with him right in front of me. What do I do? I flirt with the woman who is flirting with my man. This can really throw some of the ill-intentioned ladies off his trail. Basically, if you join forces with the woman flirting, you have a better chance of keeping your man close. If you complain and act jealous, he will stray for sure. Act like it doesn’t bother you. Trust your boyfriend unless he gives you a reason not to. Just like women, men like a little attention as well. As long as the attention is harmless, give your guy the benefit of a doubt and let him feel like a stud every once in awhile.

The other side of the coin is the dirtbag. They are out there and they are actually pretty easy to spot. In my next article I will discuss the warning signs of a the dirtbag.

Haven’t you always wondered why is it that some men seem to get all the women they please yet others end up shooting in the dark and don’t seem to get anywhere when it comes to women and dating? You see these guys seem to do things in a different manner and girls just come along the way even when they don’t try. You see attracting a girl isn’t rocket science if you know what you are doing and how you are doing it. Read on to discover some of the most mind blowing ways on how to become the ultimate lady killer and achieve stunning results…

Get rid of all the nice guy behaviors- You see nice guys do always end up finishing last under every situation when it comes to women. Women are always attracted to guys who are dominant and are firm decision makers.

Self control- Now this is what most girl magnets out there practice on a regular basis. You see in order to really get women you need to show a healthy sense of self control and you should know when you are suppose to stop and how to act according to the situation.

Treat yourself good- There aren’t many guys out there who even show a sense of respect for themselves in front of girls. You see when such a thing takes place a girl would lose all interest and respect for you even when you are the most good looking and wealthy guy out there. You see once her respect for you is lost it’s extremely hard to regain it and with respect your chances of scoring with her also go down the drain therefore learn to treat yourself well and show her your true worth.

Alpha males are the confident, powerful guys, the leaders of men. They are the executives, the business owners, the athletes and the celebrities. They usually have men crowding them wanting to be their friends, while they fight off women wanting them as romantic partners.

The opposite of an alpha male is a beta male. A beta male is a follower of men and dateless with women. Betas are the typical “nice guys” whom everyone thinks would make a good husband, but few women actually want to date. He is timid and has trouble asserting himself.

Would you rather be a beta or alpha? If you’ve picked alpha male, then keep reading to see my tips.

Demonstrate High Value

There are 3.5 billion men in the world. What makes you unique? Are you worth knowing? While women talk about the importance of looks, women typically pick men based on their power and strength rather than appearance (although good looks help). That means if you want to become an alpha male, you also have to be powerful and high value.

In contemporary society, value and power come through wealth, success, and leadership. So, ask yourself this question: are you high value? If not, you’ll need to find ways to show your worth. You can do this by becoming fit, taking positions of leadership, and even achieving fame and wealth. Whatever you do, find a way to show you’re unique, valuable, and worth knowing.

Be A Funny Guy

This may not seem like the best tip to become an Alpha Male, but it’s actually quite effective. Humor is so important because it’s a way to show your value to others (cheaply and quickly, I might add). The key is to be original and think on your feet. This can be accomplished through situational humor where you make jokes and observations based on the situation where you find yourself. This forces you to be unique, gives you unlimited material for routines, and can make your humor relevant to your listeners. You’d be amazed at how much others will like you if you’re funny.

Get An Edge

Earlier I mentioned how nice guys are often dateless and friendless. By nice guys I mean dudes who are agreeable, overly accommodating, and bland. That’s right. Guys who are wimpy and too nice are bland to women and other guys. The solution is to develop a bit of an edge. Now, this doesn’t mean to turn into a jerk. The world doesn’t need any more jerks!

You can avoid nice guy syndrome by standing up for yourself, freely expressing your opinions, and refusing to be a victim. You don’t want to overcompensate by being mean and nasty while doing any of this. In fact, you will show your power and strength by firmly asserting yourself. However, don’t deviate into aggression or violence. Then, you’ll just be another loser.

I hope you enjoyed my tips to become an alpha male. For more information, check out my author resource box.

You might have seen some guys who come across as “bad boys” being highly successful with women. It is a common misconception the women like ‘nice men’ but nothing could be further from the truth.

In fact, women like guys who they cannot understand so easily. These are the guys who have an aura of mystery around them. They seem to be much more exciting and original than regular men. Girls are not interested in guys who are predictable all the time and who they can read like an open book. This is why women tend to have more interest in the “bad boys” compared to the nice guys. Here’s how you can be a “bad boy” and get any woman you want…

“Bad Boy Seduction” – How You Can Seduce More Women If You Are A Bad Boy

Bad Boy Technique #1 – “Situational Control”. The bad guys tend to have more self-confidence – look like they are in control of a situation. This is highly attractive to women. In fact, it gives a woman a sense of security that she needs when she’s going to be around you.

Bad Boy Technique #2. “Challenge”. Women also like the challenge factor and they have a fascination in men are somewhat difficult to get. If you are easy and one of these ‘nice guys’ who constantly go chasing after women and flattering them all the time, then women will show very little interest in you – unless perhaps, you are extremely attractive and a flashing loads of money around.

Bad Boy Technique #3: “Fractionation”. This is arguable the best ‘bad guy’ technique…ever. Shockingly effective and completely “amoral”, fractionation is a type of hypnosis technique derived from the science of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP).

This is how the technique works – you send a woman on a psychological roller-coaster – and in the process make her become emotionally dependent on you. At this point, she were literally become your obedient love ‘slave’. Killer stuff indeed!

Ever since the dawn of time, people have disagreed about the kinds of guys that women usually like and to be honest, not a lot of people have gone far in this disagreement. Many people feel that women like nicer guys better; however, this can’t be true, since nice guys hardly every attract any women. (Seriously, how many nice guys have you seen with hot women who weren’t rich or good-looking?)

In all honesty, women prefer bad guys for a clear reason. Read on and find out why women prefer bad guys and how you can put this to use to your personal advantage.

3 Reasons Why Women Prefer the Bad Boys

Reason Number One: It is all about confidence. Women oftentimes go for the bad guys because they appear sure of themselves and confident. Whenever it comes to self-confidence, they look good pulling it off.

Reason Number Two: It is all about challenges. Bad guys are seen as challenges by most girls and it is human nature for people to opt for challenges. Since nice guys are constantly available to women, they do not appear challenging in any way. This would be a surefire way to ruin any kind of attraction in an instant.

Reason Number Three: It is all about intrigue. Bad guys are entertaining and can keep women amused for ages, while other guys are simply boring.

You should understand by now that women prefer tough guys; here is how you can turn into one of them. It is easy – learn all about tactics of bad boy seduction. One such tactic is known as fractionation and can be put to use to get women into bed in merely fifteen minutes. It is a highly powerful tactic that you need guts to do.

We’ve all heard it…and, to a degree, it’s true…”nice guys finish last”.

Why is that? I mean, wouldn’t YOU be flattered with someone who buys you everything you want, arrives promptly on time, thinks of you day and night, and always answers the phone on the first ring??

Actually, NO, I wouldn’t at all….

See where I am going with this??

Guys – women want us to be nice to them, but more importantly they want us to have our own LIVES. When, we shower and flatter them constantly, well that just shows them that they are VERY important to us – which might scare the hell out of them.

Perhaps we need to rethink this word “nice” and frame it in the context of being attractive. OK?

An attractive guy is someone whose life is in balance, and is focused on an aim. In fact, each area of a guy’s life should be focused on an aim: his career; his health; his relationships; his hobbies etc. In fact, a guy who begins to realize on a deeper level his true nature might even feel a sense of harmony with all of these areas, creating the necessary “balance” of autonomy.

Now, don’t let me lose you here. I realize I am getting a bit heady, but just know that aiming towards a goal is something we truly need in each area of our lives.

The feeling most guys project is a sense of desperation, and a lack of a strong footing. Once a guy can arrange his lifestyle in such a way as to help harness his focus (and energy) the sense of desperation tends to wane. His relationships with women lose the importance that they once had. Interestingly enough, he then is more attractive (READ: less desperate) to women.

Once a guy is centered in this place of, dare I say, personal power, he can then be truly nice to women. The former example is mere manipulation, and any woman with a head on her shoulders will smell you from ten miles away. So, stop seeking validation from women, and get your life in order. Once this happens, feel free to be as nice and considerate as you want.

I even tell some guys to STOP dating for some time while they get the rest of their lives in order. Only then is it fair to put yourself on the market. Until then, you will not attract a healthy mate to you, and will instead be looking for someone to fill a hole which they can not fill…that hole is your responsibility, not theirs…

So, just now, take a look at the following areas of your life:

Health/Fitness

Career

Social/friendships

Family

Financial

Hobbies/Other

Spiritual

And score yourself from 1 to 10. We have a more sophisticated way of breaking this down with our clients, and in our seminars, but for now this should suffice. Based on your HONEST answers, where do you need to put some focus? How much time do you realistically need to meet some goals? Also, if you were to raise your level in each of these areas, would you attract someone different than you might be now?

I think that’s enough for now – and you thought you were going to hear a discourse on how to be nice. Trust me, each of you knows how to be nice, but what your missing is a self connected with a true source of masculine power. Until you reach that, you will settle across the board, for less than you deserve…

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Dear Friend,

Are you:

• Tired of being ignored or rejected by women?

• Tired of playing second best to other guys?

• Tired of having to aim low to score?

• Tired of being alone?

• Tired of having no power in your existing relationship?

• Tired of having no control over how women respond to you?

• Tired of seeing a beautiful woman walking down the street with some guy who ain’t half the man you are and thinking “how the hell did he get her?”

• Frustrated because you don’t have sex as much as you’d like?

If you are in any of these situations then keep reading, your life is about to dramatically change…

For starters, let me give you…

3 Free Tips To Pick Up Women Now

# 1: Do Not Act Like the “Nice Guy”

Gentlemen, please understand that when it comes to attracting, meeting and seducing beautiful women, “nice guys” will always finish last. Women do not want to date a “nice guy.” She wants be with a confident and cocky guy who has personality and lots of attitude. Nice guys are too easy for her and fall into that dreaded “friend” category. Women want a guy who is NOT easy and when you’re the “nice guy”, women automatically think you’re easy.

Have you ever noticed that all the hot, sexy women out there never seem to be dating or attracted to a “nice guy?” and to make matters worse doesn’t it seem like all these beautiful babes are dating guys that are jerks?

Better yet…

Have you ever noticed that it’s always the girls that you are not interested in that are suddenly interested in you?

Why?

Exactly, because you were not interested in them and you were not trying to be overly nice or sweet to them.

Women don’t like “nice” guys. They are all too easy for her. Beautiful women, gentlemen, want a challenge! Always remember that!

They want to be intrigued when they first meet you; they want to be kept on their toes,

They want a challenge.

You have to learn how to give her that challenge…

# 2: Don’t Give Her a Compliment When You First Meet Her

What do most guys do the first time they meet a woman? Exactly they pay them a compliment or try to be the “sweet guy” The sweet guy is worse than the nice guy. Not only does it give her no challenge it actually turns her off from you. She will dislike you if you approach her and give her a compliment. Women don’t want to hear compliments and they don’t want to hear pick up lines. You will seem like a desperate loser in her mind because you are too interested in her and you’re much too easy for her.

Why?

Because women live for the thrill of the chase, the second they know they can have you, they will not want you anymore. Compliments and pick up lines backfire in your face. She might smile and laugh but in the back of her mind she’s laughing at you, not with you! It’s all a game and you have to learn how to play it!

There are 3 phases to the game…

The First Phase – Begins when you first meet her…

The Second Phase – Begins right after you have sex with her…

The Third Phase – Begins when you get into a serious relationship with her…

# 3: Don’t Sell Yourself to Her

Most guys meet a girl and realize that she’s a little apprehensive and then, the first thing they do is try to convince the girl to feel comfortable around them and to like them. Never try to convince a woman to like you. If she’s not attracted to you convincing her or persuading her to like you will turn her further away from you! Most guys meet a girl and try to SELL them the idea of being with him. Attraction cannot be sold gentlemen; it can be created but not sold. Don’t try to convince women to like you.

The more you try to convince her, the less she will like you. Create the attraction you desire by being the opposite of what she expects!

Before you read on I want to be straight with you. This is a complete and uncensored review and as such I will be covering the pros along with the cons of John Alexander’s book on how to pick up women. What you are about to read are essential details you need to know before grabbing a copy of the book yourself.

So what is John Alexander’s “How to Become an Alpha Male” book exactly?

How to Become an Alpha Male is a comprehensive guide on how to approach women, talk to women, sleep with women, and everything in between.

This book breaks down into great detail all of the aspects of dating women and is much more than just a dating advice book. Whether you are looking for more dates, more sex, a serious relationship, or even just to be friends with more girls this book explains every aspect and angle of accomplishing these tasks.

While you will find specific flirting tips and dating tips that you can implement immediately such as the 3 big behaviors that instantly will separate you from 95% of the men out there (more on this later), you will also find tons of different techniques specific to approaching women, attracting women, sleeping with women, etc. that will take a little practice to master. The great thing is John Alexander provides you with many different “practice” exercises that allow you to work on these techniques before you ever use them in real scenarios.

So often we hear about 2 types of guys: the nice guys (referred to as “beta males” in the manual) and jerks. While jerks often get more women and more action from those women than nice guys do, the fact is there is a 3rd type of guy that gets by far, and I mean BY FAR more women and more action than nice guys and jerks put together. This 3rd type of guy is called an Alpha Male – thus the title How to Become an Alpha Male. This book tells you exactly how you can separate yourself from the nice guys and the jerks and become alpha male. Once an alpha male, you get women on autopilot because at that point, all you have to do is be yourself and you will never be short on prospects, dates, sex, girlfriends, or anything else you could want from women.

The 3 Big Behaviors that Instantly Separate You From 95% of Guys

Avoid these 3 behaviors as John explains in his guide and you really will instantly elevate yourself above almost every other guy out there which gives you a huge advantage when picking up women:

1. Bragging

When talking to women don’t talk up your career, your car, or any of the good characteristics or qualities you think you may possess (even if you really do possess them!). This simply comes across to women as though you are needy, crave attention, or that you are compensating for some area where you are severely lacking

2. Putting Yourself Down

Put simply, think highly of yourself and women will be much more likely to think highly of you. Putting yourself down is a sign of weakness and low self-esteem.

3. Putting Other People Down

Don’t put down other men that are your competition. Jealousy and insecurities about other guys will make you less attractive, NOT more attractive to women.

What are the Cons of How to Become an Alpha Male?

· Some of the tips and advice John teaches will absolutely take you out of your comfort zone. While through his extensive research and experience he has minimized the amount of time you will be uncomfortable, some shy and quieter guys will find a couple of his techniques very uncomfortable (at first) to implement.

· A lot of guys don’t want to hear this, but John tells you that rejection is inevitable. Though it will happen much less often, even once you’ve completely mastered being an Alpha Male you will get rejected. John teaches you exactly how to react to rejection and how to utilize rejection as a tool to improving your success with women.

How About the Pros?

· This truly is a comprehensive, all encompassing guide. From flirting tips to having better sex with women, this guide covers all areas and aspects of your encounters with women.

· It is very straightforward and easy to understand. From self-hypnosis to the 7-Step Seduction System, John explains clearly and concisely numerous tips, techniques, and practice exercises and gives real examples of how to utilize and implement them.

· You will find specific things you can do and say (or not do and say) today, right now, so you will learn how to be more attractive to women: what you say and how you say it, your shoes, your hair, your posture, your eyes, where you should be looking and when, etc. Instantly increase your knowledge of how to talk to women and your success in picking up women.

· This book truly applies to all guys. The information John shares doesn’t just apply to the wealthy, the intelligent, the good looking, the ripped, or whatever else is holding you back. Every guy will learn exactly how to get women.

Conclusion – What Do I Really Think?

Overall, How to Become an Alpha Male is in my opinion the most comprehensive, zero fluff guide out there. It teaches the well below average guy who has had ZERO success with women up until now as well as the above average guy who has had a substantial amount of success with women (whatever they determine success to be, phone numbers, dates, girlfriends, sex, what have you) how to instantly become more attractive to women and more successful with them. John Alexander was still a virgin when he turned 21, not by choice or because of religion, but because he was socially awkward and terrible with women. He can teach you how to overcome anything that is holding you back because he himself overcame them. More than just dating advice for men, How to Become an Alpha Male contains dozens of golden nuggets that I myself have used with very good success.

I hope you have found this review helpful.