It is tough to watch your son go through hard times. If you have ever asked yourself “why can’t my son find a girlfriend?” then I have some possible reasons that we have discussed on the dating women radio show that I co-host.

By the way, the advice you will get here is G-rated. It is our aim to get good women and good men into long term relationships so you will not get any sex talk here!

Is your son a “nice guy?”

This is a great attribute to have but could he be too nice? On our show there are guys that are too happy to be there with women. Everyone around these guys are surprised they do not have a girlfriend because they would treat someone so well. Problem is, the “nice guys” like this want to do too much, too soon, for the object of their affection.

Put it this way, what if you rolled into your local car dealership and declared that you would pay anything for the new car you just saw on the lot? Do you think you will make your best deal that day?

Same with women.

If he tells her (via his actions) that no matter what he will “pay” anything to be with her, then even the nicest girl is going to walk all over him and get bored.

You do not get what you deserve in life, you get what you NEGOTIATE.

Is your son the best he can be?

Does he take care of his mind and body with equal vigor? Women want a guy that can talk about things beyond sports and while he does not have to be a supermodel, in our visual society he has a better chance with MORE women if he is in physical shape, clean and wears stylish clothes.

You see, dating is a lot like sales. The better your product, the more chance you have to make a sale. It is not like you cannot make a sale with a limited selection but it makes it harder.

Put it this way, if you have 2 grocery stores side by side and one has the basics while the other has the basics plus a seafood stand, a deli that bakes its own bread and other amenities, which store has a better chance of making more sales?

Being the best he can be just helps him meet more women. Out of 100 women, maybe 20 are interested with the way he is now but he could up that number to 40 if he is in shape and wears nice clothes. It is no guarantee, but I like his odds more with 40 women versus 20!

Is he too serious around women?

As Cyndi Lauper said in 1985: “Girls Just Want To Have Fun.” Remember that song? It applies to dating and relationships with women. We tell guys all the time to keep it light and keep it funny when dating. She wants to laugh and have a good time on a date.

If your son does not have that kind of personality then encourage him to study the comedy greats, rent Cary Grant movies (who was the most romantic figure in movie history), and take improvisation classes or comedy classes.

Is he a mystery and a challenge?

This is related to the “nice guy” entry from the front of the article. Women like to WONDER about a guy that they are interested in. We tell guys not to tell girls anything personal about themselves during the course of a date and to wait 5 to 9 days between dates to call them. We also tell them NOT to ask for a date on a date.

Basically, you want her to do most of the talking, laugh a lot and then wonder if your son is ever going to call again! Her interest level raises naturally in a guy that she cannot figure out and is hard to get.

Is he a gentleman?

Eyes focused on her. Pull out the chair. Walk on the outside. Hold her door open for her. No sexual comments. Make her laugh (see how this is important since I mentioned it again?).

Also, he needs to be strong enough to be able to say no. If she is giving him static and he knows he is being played then he has to stand up for himself. Too many guys are just happy to be out with her because they are attracted to her. If I am giving respect, I expect respect back. A good woman will appreciate that she cannot walk over your son.

Guys today have lost the art of chivalry but good girls still want a gentleman!

Too many compliments and gifts?

He is allowed to give 2 compliments. When he picks her up, he can tell her that she looks nice. When he drops her off, he can tell her that he had a fun time. Tell him NOT to give flowers, candy or anything like that.

Listen, I am all about giving compliments, flowers, candy, thoughtful cards and other forms of affection to a woman if she is my girlfriend, fiance, or wife. However, in the INITIAL stages of dating, compliments and gifts are perceived as a weak attempt to buy her affection.

If excessive gifts and compliments really worked, then every rich guy with a glib tongue would be in happy relationships and poor, shy guys would be forever lonely.

Remember, she does not respond to your son GIVING excessive amounts of things to her, whether it be his attention or gifts. She wants to laugh, have fun but also WONDER how many women are chasing your son.

Does he put himself in the right position to meet women?

Does he play online Friday nights and then go to the nightclub on Saturday and then the sports bar on Sunday? These might be the wrong places to meet great women.

Online dating, speed dating, volunteer events, wine tasting, cooking classes, dance lessons are all viable options to meet great women. Plus, in those settings you have a better chance to get to know her as a person and of course, we want your son with a woman that has a flexible and giving personality that is clinically sane!

If you have ever asked yourself “why can’t my son find a girlfriend,” then I hope this article helped you.

How often have you spent weeks, or even months talking to that particular girl you like, then working up the courage to finally ask her out, only to hear those dreadful words:

“Oh, you’re so sweet, but I don’t really see you in that way. I only like you as a friend… “

When you hear that, it’s as if she has reached deep inside of your chest and ripped out your heart!

Hurts, doesn’t it?

Here are the biggest mistakes that men make and that you should avoid doing:

1 – They never tell the girls their true intentions!

This is the most common reason why guys eventually get friend zoned.

They like the girl; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, sleep with her, and eventually start a relationship. But they’re so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the issue, never clearly stating what they want and letting the girl know that they actually like her romantically!

You must understand that rejection is a part of life and that no matter what you do – not everyone’s going to like you.

That’s why it’s always best to let the girl know that you’re interested in her romantically, and that you’d like to go on a date with her.

If she says yes – great! If she says no – at least you know where you stand with her, and you can move on, saving yourself a lot of time!

2 – They treat her like a princess!

If you never disagree with the girl, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics that she brings up, even if they don’t interest you – the girl will notice this and won’t respect you.

If you’re constantly afraid of offending the girl or making her angry, always “walking on eggshells” so to speak – she’ll see that you are a spineless guy and lose all attraction towards you.

That’s exactly why “Bad Boys” get to have all the fun, while “Nice Guys” are left behind in the dust.

Bad Boys don’t fear rejection, aren’t afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They don’t give a rat’s behind about what anyone thinks of them and they don’t filter their thoughts when they speak – they tell it like it is.

That is incredibly attractive to the vast majority of women, and exactly the reason why most girls fall for these so-called “rebels”.

3 – They constantly doubt themselves!

Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a man can possess.

If you can’t make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when talking to the girl, touching her, leading her, and other similar things – you’re not going to get anywhere!

Women don’t like guys who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem issues. It’s best that you learn how to get those things handled!

4 – They bore women half to death!

This is another huge mistake that most men make.

When talking to girls, they start asking all the boring, and uninspired questions like “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”, “Where did you study?”, and so on and so forth.

Every girl has heard these questions a hundred times! You’re there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her – and not to conduct an interview!

Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other guys have asked her – and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a conversation. Skills like storytelling, joke telling, teasing, flirting, spiking emotions, etc.

Give her a reason to want to go on a date with you! Don’t bore her to death and show that you’re both going to have a fun time if she accepts your invitation!

If you follow this advice and always make your intentions clear, you’ll never land in the friend zone!

At worst, you’ll get rejected and know where you stand with her. Then you can quickly move on to another girl and stop wasting time!

Good luck!

How often in your experience have you seen the “bad boys” being the ones who get any girl they want? Some people still believe that girls really want a nice guy, but it’s just ridiculously untrue.

The fact is, women like men who present a mystery to be solved. Guys who are enigmatic just seem to draw girls in, because they seem more “exciting” than other guys out there. If a guy is completely normal, boring and predictable, women just aren’t interested. That’s why you regularly see hot girls on the arms of “bad boys” instead of nice guys. So how do you tap into this phenomenon and score the hottest girls?

The Bad Boy Techniques – How to Get More Chicks By Playing the Bad Boy

Technique Number One: “Control the Situation.” Bad boys are simply more confident and always seem like they own every situation. It’s a real turn on for the ladies. Ironically, it actually gives them a feeling of security which is very important for women.

Technique Number Two: “Be a Challenge to Conquer.” A lot of women like the idea of a guy who is unattainable – they see it as a challenge. If you’re the sort of guy who is always pursuing women and playing the lap dog, then chances are no girl is going to care – unless you’re exceptionally good looking or loaded.

Technique Number Three: “The Fractionation Method.” You want to talk about “bad boy” tactics, this is it. It’s brutally effective and frankly, totally unethical. Fractionation is a hypnotic technique based on concepts of NLP, or neuro-linguistic programming.

It works like this – you take a woman on an emotional thrill ride, making her feel hooked on your emotionally in the process. Once that’s done, she’ll become your willing love-slave. It’s insane!

In the summer of 1994 (can it already have been 18 years?), I used my first dating site. I forget the name, though I do remember the phrase “photo personals” in the title, and it was this phrase and the possibilities it spoke of (actually seeing hundreds of potential men to date) that convinced me to sign up – with much excitement. I was single and ready to mingle. And the prospect of leafing through hundreds (hundreds – not thousands – being a lot of dating profiles at the time) had me full of nervy anticipation.

However, I had a problem. I’m sure you can guess what it was. How was I to write a good dating profile? There were no online dating profile examples to attract men. Trust me, I checked – and checked. So I muddled through and cobbled together my first ever dating profile. It went something like this:

I’m 19 and Want a Boyfriend

I have no idea what to write here – which is super strange because I’m actually a writer (well, training to become one at University.) Anyway, where was I? Ah, yes. If you’re a nice, good-looking guy who isn’t an axe-murderer (sorry, no exceptions), please get in touch. If you are an axe-murderer, try to kill pillows instead; they’re less messy! If you want to know anything else (the nice guys that is), don’t be afraid to ask. Bye!

Not super terrible, right? But also not super good!

Let’s fast-forward eighteen years to the present. Here we are together, you and I. In nearly two decades, I’ve become a writer, a dating coach, and have written too many dating profiles to remember – some I wrote for myself to find a guy, others I wrote as examples to help others do so, folks like yourself. And the latter is what I’ll do now.

In the next few paragraphs I’m going to encapsulate some very powerful knowledge that will help you attract men on dating sites. And you will do it all with words. Let’s get started.

My Headline Here Just Sprouted Hands and Waved At You!

A headline should grab the attention. This is easier than you would think. The vast majority of dating profile headlines go as follows: “I’m Looking For A Man;” “I’m Lonely.” Say it with me: Boring! If you were a guy, scanning hundreds of dating profiles, would either of those headlines stand out and grab you by the lapels, and demand you read the body of the profile? I thought not.

When you look at most online dating profile examples to attract men (and I imagine you’ve read a few of them), rarely do they ever even mention headlines. How silly! Headlines are arguably more important than anything else. Because it is the headline, which grabs attention, that gives us the opportunity to tell our story to someone.

Your headline should zing. Imagine a thousand other headlines but one of those headlines is lit up by a spotlight and as you look closer you hear a marching band and as you lean closer still little arms reach out and wave in your direction. How could a guy resist checking you out?

Make your headline different. What’s different? Different is a million things. Your unique brain and life-experience will dictate something to you. To help, though, let me give you a few tricks.

How can we catch a man’s attention and compel him to read our entire profile (in order for us to attract him)?

You can use humour. It’s eye-catching and creates a good first impression.

Certain unusual words and phrases – ones we didn’t expect to see – are equally powerful.

The question mark at the end of an enticing question is a nice trick, too. People are compelled to read questions and answer them; don’t you think?

And, finally, the ellipsis is perhaps the most clever way to get a man to read our profile (though, used alone, is not enough to capture his attention).

Here are some examples of dating headlines:

(Humour) Help! My Dog Asked Me Out On A Date. He Looks Rough. Nice guys – Inside!

The above example is pretty good, but be careful not to overuse the exclamation point.

(Unusual words and humour) What a PICKLE I’m in. I don’t have a Date! I’m also inside a pickle. Come rescue me!

(Question mark and ellipsis) Have you ever known anyone as crazy as me? I took a picture and…

All About Your Body! No, Not That Body – Profile Body!

You know how to attract a man’s attention with your headline. Now we move on to the body of your profile; the part that attracts the man and convinces him to contact you.

This article would be needlessly long if I gave you dozens of online dating profile examples to attract men (and fill up your inbox). I always figure it’s best to show a person HOW to fish instead of give them fish. So let us continue by me giving you all of the tips you will ever need to attract a man with your profile body.

Your writing should be conversational (though grammatically correct, so it can be understood). Let your speaking voice shine through your words. This is, after all, not a dissertation on global warming!

Begin your profile by writing about yourself; end it by writing about the kind of man you want to meet.

Refrain from writing about the mundane and the clich̩d. We all like to have fun and laugh and many of us like long walks on the beach. But saying so is redundant. Write, instead, about interesting Рperhaps very much different Рthings that define your uniqueness. Perhaps you like to collect pink socks! Maybe you make mean pancakes and your own apple sauce! Dare to be different.

Humour is a powerful attractant for men. A saucy photograph on your profile pales in comparison to a woman with a good sense of humour (the world is, after all, littered with saucy profile photographs; so much so, in fact, that they have become almost subliminal). Let your humour shine through.

When you complete the portion of the profile about yourself, always make the point of asking the man to ask you more about yourself. This encourages that all-important first contact from them.

Now, when it comes to writing about the man you want to meet, we have a slightly harder task (sorry!). We need to filter out the unwanted men for the wanted men, but we don’t want to seem too picky in case we put off those wanted men.

Before you begin writing this last portion, take a moment to ask yourself, in general terms, what kind of guy you want. Keywords are always best – written on a scrap of paper, maybe. Perhaps words like funny, rugged, mature, established, caring, adventurous describe your ideal man (hey, mine too!).

It is important to specify the traits you want to see in the men contacting you, but to do so in a general way and not write at much length. So, be concise. This way, you end up getting the men you want and not putting them off.

Now, let us conclude, ladies, with an example of a good dating profile to attract men that utilizes everything you have learned.

Oh, GOODNESS! My pet fish asked me out! But he’s too wet behind the ears. Older Guy, Rescue me!

If you’d like to know more, just ask. I don’t bite – the same cannot be said of my mean omelets!

And there you have it: a dating profile imbued with the knowledge you have just gained.

Before I leave you, and you begin putting to good use your new knowledge, let me suggest Clicking Here to make a dating profile and putting to the test what you have learned. I recommend this site to all of my clients (and readers) because they allow you to make free profiles and are one of the largest dating communities in the world.

Have fun attracting your man and thank you for reading!

From the moment we are born we are taught that the right way to get a girl is to be the nice guy. Bring her flowers, pay for her dinner and even buy her expensive gifts. This used to be how I thought because that's what everybody told me.

Well I am here to tell you that if you are looking to get some action, this is totally the wrong way to approach it. Women know that if you that if they have you buying them gifts then they can do whatever they want.

See women were taught the same thing we were. They think they have the upper hand at this point because they are the ladies and we should be buying them stuff. But if you ever notice the nice guys doing all this stuff are not the ones getting some action.

I am here to tell you that they fastest way to get a girl to go home with you is to show them that you don't care about them. See women love a challenge. Now whether or not they would admit it they still do like the idea of ​​something exciting. I want to give you a couple of pointers that are going to start helping your game tonight.

1. When you are talking to a girl make sure that you are controlling the conversation. Its not like we as guys really care what happened in their day.

2. Make her know that she is lucky to be talking to you. We are the "catch" and we need to make sure they know that.

3. If she goes to talk to another guy. Let her, don't get jealous. That is a sign of weakness and women feed on that. You want her to know that you are the one that she should be worried about.

All it takes is just a little change in your mindset and tonight you could be getting chicks by being the Alpha Male.

They say that a way into a man’s heart is through his stomach. Conversely, the way into a woman’s heart and bed is through her head. Unlike men who are very visually stimulated animals, women on the other hand are stimulated with your words and your ability to make them feel good.

Have you ever wondered why you see the most beautiful women (9’s and 10’s) with the pudgiest, most unattractive men on the planet? I’ll bet you think it’s because they have money, or maybe you think that they are just their uncle or something. The truth is that these men have learned how to enter the mind of a woman at levels you cannot yet imagine.

I, myself, am not the most handsome man, or the richest man, or the most well dressed man in my own city let alone the world, but over the past several years, I have begun to master the art of getting in a woman’s head. Their psyche.

The only women that I’m even attracted to now are 9’s and 10’s because I have learned many things about the way these types of women think and react to situations that the average Joe hasn’t taken the time or has had the guts to explore.

Most men are what we pickup artists call, the beta male. These are men who spend all of their time, money and energy trying to please women. They constantly compliment the woman, open doors, pull out chairs, laugh at their silly jokes and do just about anything to try to impress them. These are insecure men who believe that they must cater to a woman in order for them to return any affection to them, but all they ever get in return is to be put on the ‘friends list’ of every woman they pursue. These men are what we call nice guys and we all know that nice guys finish last if they finish at all.

Question? What the best thing that you want to say to a woman that is beautiful? I’ll bet all of you betas said, ‘tell her she’s pretty’. WRONG!

The other, more rare class of men we call Alphas, will tell you to tell her that ‘You’ve got nice shoes but your feet are too big.’ Underhanded compliments work to perfection. You compliment but insult at the same time thus neutralizing the effect. Then say something like, “I can’t date a chic that can wear my Nikes.” If her reply is something like, “who says we’re dating anyways?”, you’re in there.

Think about this. A pretty girl that knows she’s pretty has lived her entire life being told just how beautiful she is. Men have tried to cater to her every whim in an attempt to woo her and make her theirs. So as a new prospective mate, you must find a way to stand out from the crowd of thousands of other men who have already tried to spoil her but to no avail, which is why she’s still single.

When she hears “you’re pretty”, she may politely say thank you but right away you’ve just thrown yourself head first into the pile of other guys who thinks she’s pretty. Big deal. Nothing else to talk about.

Now if you tell her that her feet are big, or her hair is nappy, or her dress is too short, then you’ve done something that most men are afraid to do, tell the truth, and that will ultimately attract her to you.

Good looking women are used to being stared at and admired. My advice, glance at her, then ignore her. She’ll wonder why in the hell you aren’t as mesmerized by her booty, I mean, her beauty as every other man is. This type of reverse psychology will intrigue her on many levels. She will be attracted to you if not for anything more than to learn what your deal is because you are DIFFERENT regardless of how you look (refrain from looking like a bum though).

In the world of hot chics, what they say they want is often times the opposite of what they really want. ‘I want a nice guy’. Bull!, she’ll run all over him and treat him badly or worst yet, like a ‘friend’. Nice guys lack the control and confidence that a hot chic would want in a mate.

Whether a she wants to admit it or not, she wants a real MAN, an ALPHA MALE.

A man that does little to try to please. A man that ‘she’ is constantly trying to please because she never quite knows what it is that you want. A man that ‘she’ can never seem to satisfy. Not being able to please you will keep her trying. A man that doesn’t give in to telling her what she ‘wants’ to hear but will always tell her what she ‘needs’ to hear. A man that she can follow anywhere. A man that they can trust to be honest with them. The type of man that deserves her affections. An Alpha Male. Not some schmuck that does and says everything that they think she wants them to.

Nice guys don’t get into many beds because they have yet to understand how to first get into a woman’s head.

When she has a new boyfriend, things can turn real rotten. You probably cannot stop picturing them together, and absolutely hate the thought of another guy being so close to her. Emotions will cloud your judgement, yet it is still very possible to win your girl back, even if she has a new boyfriend.

When you find out she has a new boyfriend, your stomach is going to sink lower than it ever has done before, and your eyes will probably well well up. She is expecting this, and if you succumb then it could seriously damage your chances of having a successful relationship once more. Things can take an unexpected turn for the worse if you show emotion-she won't magically realize how much you love her and dump her new boyfriend, so don't bother with it. There are better ways to go about getting your girlfriend back, even if they are rather counter-intuitive.

What I am going to teach you is known in the seduction community as a 'boyfriend destroyer' – a way to get rid of-yes, you guessed it- her boyfriend, it is achieved by making him look like a beta male. If you are naturally alpha then it should not be difficult, however here is a rough guide.

First thing to do is accept and agree to the breakup, which will put you in a position of power and control that secretly makes her feel like you broke up with her.

Second thing to do is make her new boyfriend seem like a nice guy. Girls are not attracted to nice guys. Thankfully, it will only seem like you are giving her new boyfriend your blessing. Tell her 'I don't think he would come out on top in any fights, but he seems like a real nice guy.' That is giving him your blessing, but really you are telling her 'he is a proper, bona fide wimp. You are with a loser. '

A bonus to giving her boyfriend your 'blessing' is that she will start questioning your motives. She totally expects you to still be madly in love with her, and showing your disinterest in her by telling her what a nice guy her new boyfriend is will have her questioning your feelings and motives. This then transfers her emotion and thoughts onto someone other than her boyfriend, and just to make that even better: that someone will most certainly be you! This method can work wonders for when she has a new boyfriend.

Oh, the dreaded friendzone! The bane of every man’s existence, the coo of every woman’s game, and the fuel for argument between the two. Men argue vehemently that it’s a very real concept, and women can’t seem to grasp what it really means–thus claiming that it’s a myth perpetuated by the PUA (pick-up arts) crowd.

Let me tell you from personal experience that it’s a very real place–a very frustrating place. The friendzone can plague your every waking moment and turn you into a frustrated chump.

I think it’s important that I take the time to define what the friendzone is for the female readers who come across this. First, let me first tell you what it’s NOT. The friendzone has nothing to do with friendship. Just because the word “friend” is used doesn’t mean that it pertains to being friends with a woman. The “friend” portion of the word is used for irony because the most common response to men in this position is, “Oh, I don’t see you as more than just a friend.” So, before you get your guns out, recognize that the friendzone stands more for the illusion of friendship than actually being friends.

The friendzone, in quite simple terms, is merely the position in which a man has very strong feelings for a girl and is afraid to tell her. Instead of being upfront about those feelings, he becomes her friend first without ever expressing any sexual interest in her. In more severe cases, he’ll do nice things for her–buy her gifts, take her places, hang out with her for a night, etc. He’ll get into long conversations with her on the phone, listen to her complain about the guys she’s dating, and be overly supportive of her feelings and needs without expecting anything in return.

Sounds like a good plan, doesn’t it? To a guy it seems very logical. In fact, the number one complaint from girls is that there are no nice guys. It stands to reason, then, that being a nice guy would be attractive to a woman. Being OVERLY nice should get you extreme brownie points with her.

The trouble, however, comes when the woman does not respond the way guys think she will respond. Because he has chosen to bury his sexuality and interest in her, she has no clue that he even likes her. The feelings build until he can no longer contain them, and he eventually spills the beans to her. To someone who had no clue that he even liked her, this will come across as extremely out-of-the-blue and overly emotional–which is too much for her to handle. She’s thinking that she has a friend, but in reality he’s been too much of a wimp to tell her how he really feels.

It’s a terrible cycle because the guys in this situation get frustrated that their antics don’t work and the girls get used to the attention they get from them. When the truth comes out, it creates an awkward dynamic between the two. The girl wants to continue receiving the attention because she thought she met a wonderful, nice guy. The guy just wants to bail on the relationship because he’s frustrated that she chooses the jerks who treat her bad over him.

But is that nice guy really “nice”? Or is the niceness just a form of manipulation? I assert the latter. There is a huge difference between doing something nice because you truly want to and doing something nice because you think it’ll win you “points” towards getting into a relationship. The reason that your actions go unappreciated is because you aren’t being nice. You are trying to manipulate the situation so that you don’t have to risk anything. You try to hide your flaws through your niceness–which makes you deceitful and untrustworthy as a lover.

So, what can you do about it? How can guys avoid falling into this trap? What happens if you find yourself in the friendzone with someone even after you’ve changed and become more assertive? Here’s some tips…

1. Never hide your true intentions. Come on, guys, stop pretending like you are something you are not. If you are sexually attracted to her, then let her know that upfront! You can’t remove all the risk from the situation and still expect to get the reward. That’s never going to happen, so stop deluding yourself. The greatest things in life are worth the risk. A man with true self-confidence knows what he wants and goes after it. Women want to be chased. They don’t want someone who is going to pussy-foot around and pretend to be their friend just to get into their pants. Stop hiding your sexuality.

2. Become a “good man,” not a “nice guy.” There is a difference. A nice guy will buy a girl flowers thinking that she will like him for it. A good man will take a woman out, show her a good time, and then buy her flowers because he thinks she deserves them. A nice guy will spend hours on the phone talking about how great he is. A good man will show her how great he is by bringing her into his world. A nice guy will be her psychiatrist, agreeing with her every word. A good man will be true to himself and not be afraid to disagree with her. Nobody wants a yes man. Be your own person, and do good things because you truly feel it, not because you want validation from someone on how great you are.

3. Remain only in the relationships that enrich you. The biggest thing about the friendzone is that it can be draining to the guy who is willing to listen to a girl complain about her dating life. The guy will give without receiving anything in return. Make sure that your relationships are reciprocal and cut out any relationship that is all give but no take. It’s OK to be a little selfish.

4. Stop using good deeds as a barter for emotional fulfillment. You don’t owe anybody anything. They don’t owe you anything. You forge friendships for one reason: to make a connection with another person. That connection is reciprocal in its process. You give a little, you receive a little. You can never, EVER win someone’s emotions through buying them things or doing nice things for them. That is manipulative on a level that you don’t want to go to. Real friends enjoy each other’s company, and that is reason enough to be friends.

5. Learn to set boundaries. You don’t have to agree with everything that she says. In fact, a lot of times women are looking for a guy who will treat her good but still know how to disagree with her. That exudes confidence, which is highly attractive to a woman.

I think you’re starting to get the picture. You can learn to escape the friendzone by never putting yourself there in the first place. All it takes is a little self-respect. This is not to say that you can’t be friends with a girl. You just don’t want to fool yourself into thinking you’re friends with a girl you want more from–such as a relationship. Just don’t be her friend thinking that your friendship will win her over. You have your wit, your charm, and your winning personality to do that. Use them.

For the past 2 years I’ve been experiencing a brilliant success with women. What happened? Approximately 2 years ago I stopped and started realizing I needed to handle my dating life. It was obvious that the chemistry between me and women wasn’t there. And that was the time when I decided to try out David Wygant Mastery.

Now I want to share with you why I didn’t feel the chemistry. Note that I’m writing about attraction, not about relationships.

1. I had no idea what to do. As badly as I wanted to kiss a woman, I didn’t.

   Women can feel what your intentions are. Women know most of the time how you feel. And they reflect your emotions.

2. I was looking to them for approval. Instead of being completely myself and being OK with it, I was trying to fit their image. My idea was to to fit their image and therefore women get somehow attracted to me instantly.

   The only way is to develop your personality and be yourself. If you aren’t yourself, women will instantly recognize that and you won’t get anywhere.

3. I was buying their attention. Another wrong thought was my idea that women will be attracted to me if I keep buying them drinks and dinners.

   Don’t get the idea wrong, there is nothing wrong with being gentleman and pay for drink or dinner, it’s just the reason why you do that. If you do it wrong, you are basically communicating that otherwise you aren’t worth attention.

4. I was trying too hard be a nice guy. I don’t know why, but I figured out that my being super nice guy equals women super attracted to me.

   The truth is that women really like nice guys, but aren’t attracted to them. Women are really attracted to bad boys.

5. I was giving away my power. One of the worst thing to do with interacting with women was to letting them to make a decision about what to do. Or by letting them to choose where we will go next. Or by agreeing with anything they said, even though I didn’t agree with it.

   It’s known that women and women have their own roles. We are protectors, leaders, problem solvers and hunters. Women are more fragile, they need to be sure you’re capable of protecting them.

6. I was sharing my feelings too early. A few times I shared my feelings. I thought this would show how sensitive I am. And women would find that adorable.

   Share your feelings if you’re in a relationship. It’s also OK if you share your feelings with a woman you’re a friend with. But it’s not fine to share your feelings too early with a woman you want to attract.

7. I had no idea how attraction works for women. I didn’t realize there might be a different attraction process for women.

   Men are mainly focused on looks. For women it’s men’s personality. This difference is the reason why you can’t see too much couples where a handsome man would be with a average woman.

I haven’t been doing those mistakes for 2 years. Because I’ve learned Men’s Mastery.

Bad boys seem to get all the girls; you may have seen this in play more than once. It’s a common mistake to think that women prefer nice guys; this definitely isn’t the case.

Women actually prefer guys that are difficult to understand – those with an air of mystery surrounding them. These men simply seem more original and exciting compared to regular men. Women are never interested in predictable men that can be read like open books. This is the reason why women are more interested in bad boys than nice guys. Find out how to become a bad boy and win the woman of your dreams in no time.

How to Become the Kind of Bad Boy (BB) that Women Love

BB Tactic One – Control the Situation. Bad boys are more self-confident and appear to be in control of every situation, which is an extremely attractive trait in the eyes of women. Women also tend to feel more secure around these kind of men.

BB Tactic Two – Be Challenging. Women also tend to like challenges and are therefore fascinated with difficult men. If you are a nice guy who always chases after women and showers them with compliments, women won’t show much interest in return unless you are very good-looking and have lots of money to throw around.

BB Tactic Three – Fractionation. This could arguably be the most successful bad boy tactic out there. It is totally amoral yet incredibly effective. Fractionation is a kind of hypnosis tactic that stems from Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

For this tactic to work, you have to send women on a rollercoaster of psychology while at the same time making her emotionally dependent towards you. By doing so, she will instantly turn into your love slave. Deadly stuff indeed!