We all want to be the alpha male.

We hear so much about being an alpha male, and how women are attracted to alpha males.

We go to workshops, we read books, and all the books say that you must be an alpha male.

Being an alpha male is a myth.

You need to unlock your own inner alpha, and each person’s inner alpha is entirely different than the next person’s.

You need to find your voice. And by finding your voice, you’ll be able to unlock the strongest parts of your personality. This is your inner alpha.

When I first unlocked my inner alpha, I realized that there were situations that I wasn’t good at. And I accepted them.

For instance, I’m not the best at talking to women in bars. I can do it, but I don’t enjoy it, and it shows.

However, I’m phenomenal at meeting women on the street, in Whole Foods, coffee shops, clothing stores, elevators, airplanes-you name it.

I can actually start a conversation based on what’s going on in the moment just about anywhere.

That’s what my inner voice is all about-natural surroundings.

See, I worked on what I was best at, and where I was most comfortable, because I realized that there’s an abundance of women wherever I go.

So once your find your inner voice, and the places where your inner voice resonates the strongest, then that’s where you’re meant to meet women.

See, finding your inner voice, and connecting to your inner alpha, is really about finding where you’re most comfortable. You’re then going to be able to speak with power in those situations, based out of comfort and not out of fear.

If you’re a guy that just doesn’t like bars, but really likes coffee shops, then why are you meeting women in bars? Why are you trying to be someone you’re not, when you should just be perfecting the art of meeting women in coffee shops.

If you’re a guy that doesn’t really like coffee shops, but really loves the gym, or the supermarket, then you should be perfecting how to meet women at the gym and at the supermarket.

There are plenty of women out there all day long, in everyday situations, so find the everyday situation that works for you.

The goal isn’t to become the supreme alpha male that dominates women and men alike wherever he goes; the goal is to cultivate the inner alpha in you and become the best version you can possibly be.