Pseudotropheus Elongatus – One of the Original Mbuna

Pseudotropheus elongatus has always been a favorite African Cichlid of mine.

Maybe  it is the sleek, torpedo shape knifing through the waters of the aquarium, unlike most other types of fish which are built much more like…well, fish!  Or possibly the brilliant, usually blue and black vertical striped  colourations, are what attracted me in the first place, and hold me fascinated as they swim.  There are some other morphs and colorations coming into the trade as time goes by, but the blue and black bars of an alpha male will always be my favorite pattern for this fish.

Most likely it is the way they carry themselves with pure attitude, from fry on up that makes them so memorable.  Rarely do they allow themselves to be bullied, and generally end up as the fish to be concerned about when new additions are added.  They are already kings and queens and will ensure the rest are aware of their status.  An alpha male, patrolling the aquarium and ensuring all others flee when near is a spectacle I can watch for hours.

Like many other Mbuna from Lake Malawi, the elongatus has developed as a mouth brooder. Although this form of parental behaviour is not unique to this species, it is fascinating to watch.  I have had established aquariums where many generations live and thrive in the same tank.  Father, Son, Grandson, great grandson and even more generations all grow and thrive together over time and interbreed their generations if allowed. 

Unlike livebearers who simply drop their babies someplace and leave, rarely recognizing them later as anything other than food, the entire cichlid family provides some form of parenting behaviour.  South American Cichlids share the duties with both parents often protecting the eggs where they have been laid.  They then continue protecting the brood as they hatch and then begin to swim.  For most species this a job for both male and female of the pair, and for this reason many species form long-term bonds. 

The Mbuna, or African CIchlids generally take this protection a step further, holding the young within the mouth of the female until the fry are free-swimming and able to fend for themselves.  Unlike many others that pair-bond, it seems the female takes the responsibilities for the fry on herself and pairing will be much more fluid.  This is important to understand since when after the courtship and the eggs have been laid, the female may not eat for up to three weeks to prevent accidental ingestion of the precious cargo she is carrying in her mouth.  The male does not share these duties, and can even be working with another female during this period.

Elongatus, like most African Cichlids, are more difficult to sex and to compound the problem there are  extreme discrepancies in the ratio of the sexes for many Mbuna species.  There are commonly many more females than males born and raised to maturity. It is often best to purchase these fish, as unsexed juveniles in schools of 6 or so, that way you should get at least one viable pair when they mature. This also helps with controlling the aggressive tendencies of the fish and keeps them busier among themselves establishing territory and dominance in the group rather than beating up the other species kept in the aquarium.

Once grown, the males are generally larger than the females.  The egg patches on the anal fins are often more intensely coloured for the females, offering better visual targets for the males in the breeding rituals. As a species they are very aggressive, even for African Mbuna,  But, with enough distractions, simply add plenty of activity to the aquarium.  Don’t obtain these fish if you are looking for a peaceful and placid aquarium community.

The living area should be as large as possible, with a 30 gallon aquarium being my personal minimum for them.  Decorations should be basically rocks – usually the flatter and stackable the better.  I have had the most success with lots of slate that is piled up in such a manner that there are all sorts of small spaces and channels for the babies, once they have been released from the mother’s mouth.  They need to rapidly find places and swimming paths where bigger fish mouths simply cannot go.  The rocks should be piles in the back of the aquarium with free swimming areas open in the front. I also tend to offer a few caves or other hiding places in the front that often become the sole property of the tank alpha male.

Some people have had success with live plants with Africans, or so they report, but I have always found that if they don’t eat them, then they will dig them up, so I have always reverted to rock decorations only.

I keep the tank relatively high in pH, although nowhere close to the recommendation of Hans Baensch – p 756 – Baensch Aquarium Atlas which is 8.5.  My fish do fine in Montreal’s standard water – about 7.6 – 7.8.  The water is supplemented with an African Cichlid conditioner to bring up the hardness and stabilize alkalinity, but other than that, at present no other work is done on the water characteristics.

I do very little as far as exotic foods.  Most African Cichlids do very well on the various prepared foods available at the local pet store. Cichlid pellets, either floating or sinking are usually quite enough, although I do feed them some staple flakes as well.  At present the food I have is a sinking small Cichlid micro pellet for the tank of essentially juvenile Africans.  The pellets seem to sink quite fast to a single place, so the addition of flakes lets everyone feed at other levels in the aquarium.

Making A Woman Laugh Turns Her On Like Crazy – The Secret to Getting Women Using Laughter

The truth is, if you make a woman laugh she is going to want to sleep with you. It seems crazy, but it really works. In this article we are going to look at why this works and how you can use it to your advantage when approaching girls. Understanding why it works will make you want to brush up on your comedy skills!

There are two main reasons that comedy is such a strong aphrodisiac to women. One of these reason may be stronger in some women, while the other reason may be greater in her mind. Either way, laughter proves deadly sexy when it comes getting women into your bed. It is part science and part evolution. And they can’t resist it. It doesn’t matter what you look like. Making girls giggle will win them over every time.

The first reason that women are turned on by laughter is it stimulates a part of her brain that allows her to relax and enjoy herself. Women are often on the defensive when talking to men. And it makes sense why. They are so used to every jerk and his brother hitting on her. This puts her defenses up and she makes sure she is on her guard.

But laughing with a guy tells her brain to be more comfortable with the man. It puts her in a zone where her defenses aren’t as high as normal. It also releases endorphins, the feel good chemical in your brain, which in turn allow her to more quickly get to the arousal stage. What does the mean for you? Making her laugh is the quickest way to get her to go home with you. As a 5′ 6″ average guy that has bedded many, many women, I can testify that the women were totally turned on by my sense of humor. It shows wit and intelligence as well.

The other reason that laughter is such a strong turn on for women has to do with evolution. Women know that they want great sex with a man, but what comes after that? They actually fear for the moment after sex when the are most open to communicate, because they aren’t sure if you can carry on a conversation. Making them laughs puts them at ease that after sex is over you are both going to be able to joke around and continue the great time and positive feelings.

So gentlemen, it is time to work on your sense of humor and comedy timing. Grab some comedies, watch some stand up routines, anything you can to make a girl giggle. Laughter is the ultimate aphrodisiac to women!

What Appeals To Women About Bad Boys

What is it about the attraction of Bad Boys?

A lot of women have said they are attracted to bad boys. If you wonder why than read on.

The typical badboy is

* Cocky

* Arrogant

* Puts himself first

* He is inattentive to a woman’s needs

* Does what he wants when he wants to do it, regardless of what anyone else thinks

* Acts like a loose cannon

* Struts his masculine sexuality

* Isn’t even remotely a “nice” guy

* Uses women for sex

* Feels he is on top of the mating chain. An Alpha male so to speak if you’ve watched the Discovery channel

Ask any girl what she likes about the typical bad boys. A lot of women will answer that they never knows what to expect when a “bad boy” is around They find them as a challenge, and see bad boys as confident, Bad boys knows what they want and go after it. They are never boring. They are strong, aggressive, independent, and self-assured. Women feel safe around them. Some women like the idea that maybe “she ” can fix him.

When I asked around to a few women what they like about Bad Boys they answered some things like:

Love and sex is stronger when it has intense emotions. The nice guy is like taking Amtrak whereas the bad boy is like a roller coaster. Nice guys can be manipulative. Sure they are always nice to you, but it is just to get others to be nice back to them, and that isn’t real or natural for lovers. There’s no challenge in nice guys. Women like a challenge and want to be able to reform a bad boy. It’s more flattering for a bad boy to like you. It is more special for a guy to treat most of the people he meets like jerks, but treats you nicely

Another said this about Bad boys:

The last guy I was with was kind, gentle, and respectful of my needs and gave me everything I wanted, and never disagreed with me. I HATED IT!

The guy I am with now are all these things…but will put me in my place when I need to be. I find that very often, I need to be put in my place. He is not afraid to tell me I am wrong. That I am being a brat or just being plain ridiculous. and even if I whine and try to get my way, he won’t give in to me if he really thinks he is right.

I need a knock-down, drag-out fight every once in a while. well, maybe not literally, no one wants to be hit or anything like that, but there is times that I need to argue.

You can’t argue with someone who always says “you’re right, princess. anything you say, angel.”

It’s nice to be indulged, sure; but how can you respect someone who kisses your ass? Yuck!!!, give me a guy who will stand up to me, and I will be his forever.

Another person’s comment was

I am attracted to the bad boys for the more masculine reason (I like to think my man can protect me if need be) but also because the super nice guys I have met get caught up in the status quo and end up getting really lazy in the relationship and their own lives. I would love to find a super nice guy who can embrace the excitement of everyday life and the relationship but I haven’t found it yet.

Somebody who can be labeled as a bad boy is masculine. He has a ton of confidence. Women find this trait of extreme confidence very attractive. It draws them towards confidence me. It has nothing to do with looks. It has to do with his attitude and his beliefs. It draws women on an emotional level and when emotions and logic come together more often than not if the emotion is powerful enough the emotions win.

Don’t do these things below to be a bad boy:

Be clingy.

Be afraid to let her know you find her attractive.

Neglect having a life outside of the relationship.

Be too easy to get — keep her intrigued.

Sacrifice your hobbies, life, friends, job, etc. for the relationship.

Be nice with the expectation that you’ll get something in return for it-that’s manipulative.

Come on too strong or try overly hard to impress.

Be possessive.

Be submissive — women want a guy who’s tougher and stronger than they are (but that doesn’t mean they want someone to dominate them).

Become set in your ways.

Be a pushover.

The things to do to be a badboy:

Have fun.

Show self-confidence.

Be energetic.

Relax and take up space

Make Eye Contact with everybody

Project Your Emotions

Be passionate.

Lead others

Have a Playboy type attitude, playful and fun

Have a sense of adventure.

Be ambitious and lead

Have a life and hobbies outside of your relationship.

Be a manly protector-type (not macho or misogynistic).

Respect yourself.

Be exciting and unpredictable.

Be a challenge.

Give your own opinions.

Show strength.

Realize your feelings come from within -not outside

Generate feelings inside you first so that others will follow

One of the things that we teach at Attract and Date is to take the traits of a Bad boy, an alpha male and take the good parts without the bad. Most high self esteem women do not want anybody who will abuse them. They want somebody who cares for them also. The combination of a bad boy, jerk with a sensitive caring guy is the atom bomb of seduction. It is the best of both worlds. The guy who believes in himself and goes after what he wants but still allows himself to care for others rates high on a scale for a lot of women.

How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Chase You! Get Her to Feel Super Attracted Towards You Again

If your girlfriend dumped you then this doesn’t mean that she has stopped loving you and is completely over her feelings. If you want to get her back then you can actually make your ex girlfriend chase you instead. Yes! There are still chances that she will get attracted to you and would want to do anything to get back into your life. Here are some surefire ways to get her chasing you!

Play the ‘single and happy’ game:

Let your ex girlfriend know that life has not stopped for you and you can have fun without her. Spend time with your friends and appear to be having a great time. Your ex will surely miss being with you.

Upload your pictures in social networking sites:

There are many women who keep a track of their ex boyfriends through the social networking sites. You can use this to your advantage. Upload pictures of some social gathering where you had great fun. This will make your ex-girlfriend want to enjoy good times together.

Turn yourself into an ‘Alpha male’:

This is a sure shot way to get a woman’s attention. Pay attention to your looks and the way you carry yourself. Turn yourself into an alpha male with lots of sex appeal and you will soon become the talk of the town. This will make your ex girlfriend jealous and she will chase you before others do.

Get spotted with gorgeous women:

Let your ex girlfriend spot you enjoying the company of gorgeous women. Do not flirt with the women but appear as having a great time. Your girlfriend will be jealous and will fear losing your forever.

Let your success speak:

When you are single, focus on your career and other activities. When success comes to you, you will be in the limelight. She will want to come back to you and enjoy the sweet taste of success together.

Act mature and get her attention:

Appear like you have accepted the fact that she dumped you and have moved on with life. Even if you are dying to be with her, act mature and let her feel that you are doing well without her.

Recreate the romance while staying away:

Keep your distance from her but occasionally send a nice message or just drop a ‘hi’ at her social networking site. This will keep you in her mind always and want to get back to the wonderful old time. If you follow these tips closely, you will soon have her chasing you!

Picking Up High Caliber Women – What Are Basics You Need to Know to Become Successful?

Picking up a lot of women isn’t an example of something men can develop in a single day, but with practice, becoming a leader in the niche of dating is viable. Alpha male qualities are used as the skeleton key that regularly unlocks a ravishing girl’s heart. An encompassing appeal in a social venue will tell the room directly who the alpha male is. If a male walks around a public environment and his pals are following him unconditionally, this explains to a girl she ought to be attracted to the status he is showing all. There are definitely things you have to know prior to becoming an artist in courting high caliber women:

1. Seduction specialists dub the girls you meet in social circumstances “targets,” and if they’re in a circle of individuals they are called “sets.” For example, two women sipping drinks together would be known as a “two-set.”

2. The basic rule of thumb to most comfortable with the art of seducing females is that a ballpark estimate of 2 hours is needed to make a person comfortable with the notion of returning to your place.

3. Having things roll off your back, sharing fascinating experiences, and engaging every unknown person you connect with in dialogue are definitely 3 alpha male traits that ladies can’t resist.

4. “Gaming” females, which basically means seducing the opposite sex, calls for self-assurance above anything else.

5. A girl’s acquaintances will typically accept you before the female of your desires does, and this will make picking her up so much easier. Getting in good with her friends changes your appeal to your target.

6. Telling anecdotes and being an open book can go a long way in engaging unknown people, particularly packs of women that have a singular person you wish to know better.

7. To engage a woman a male should always add several subjects of conversation to offer his female target more opportunities to bite on his personality.

8. To seduce a female, you have to ironically illustrate to her that you aren’t serious in aligning with her by disqualifying with your behavior. An example of this is dismissing her entirely.

9. Women throughout the community value guys who are constantly surrounded by other females because it shows a tribal leader type reputation. Actions speak louder than words, and so does this aforementioned reputation.

10. The seduction community labels taking a woman from 1 location to another “bouncing,” which is executed to make courting more efficient in a lower energy locale.

11. Visiting a watering hole or nightclub with additional guys is great because they can jump into your courting of a female about five minutes in. This demonstrates that you are friendly and approachable.

12. Many times it is essential to “neg” your girl of interest briefly, which means politely lower her status to make her believe you are not interested in dating her.

13. An outstanding circumstance to court a woman is whenever she is along with a group of men because there is a reduced amount of pressure on her to answer questions since she is being guarded by other people.

Picking up high caliber women can be accomplished if you stick to the rules and never give up.

How To Raise Libido And Increase Male Sex Drive In 5 Steps

How can you raise libido to revive and increase male sex drive naturally, on your own? Is it really possible? The answer to both of those questions is a resounding yes.

Now that you know it’s possible, you’ll might have a bit of work in front of you before you successfully reach the stage where you can say you have a strong, healthy libido.

However, for any man with some pride, it’s worth making some effort to ensure that your libido is naturally strong and that you’ve become a virile Alpha male once again.

So where do you start? These 5 steps to a healthy, powerful libido should help you get to your goal.

Step 1: Eat The Right Foods

Foods are the cornerstone of your existence, your body shape, your mind and your sexual performance.

If you eat badly, expect to pay for it in some way, sooner or later. If you eat fresh, organic foods on a daily basis, expect your body to pay you back in the form of gratifying sexual performances.

Eliminate packaged foods, prepared meals, plastic packaging and especially junk food and soda. These are low in nutritional value, can reduce testosterone and increase body fat, which puts a strain on your liver and kidneys.

Instead, eat more fresh fish, broccoli, cauliflower, beef, turkey, asparagus, eggs, bananas, nuts and avocados. Reduce your carbs intake and eat less in the evenings. Cut out soda completely.

Step 2: Get Into Decent Physical Shape

If you are overweight, if you body is soft, weak and if you feel slow and lethargic, you probably need to do something about it. The years of eating poorly without enough exercise catch up on you eventually and weight gain is sometimes very hard to shift.

This is where intense exercise comes in. Concentrate on short, sharp workouts that burn fat. It’s important that you avoid long, slow workouts and opt for intensity instead. Muscle building and circuit training can be of great benefit here. Many men are getting into shape using programs that help you avoid expensive gym fees.

Step 3: Cut Out Alcohol And Smoking

Both smoking and alcohol can have very detrimental effects on male libido. Many men report that they were able to raise libido by simply abstaining from drinking. Cutting out alcohol or reducing your intake substantially can give the liver a break, help it to rid your body of other toxins and reduce the workload on your body.

Alcohol also reduces testosterone, a sexual hormone necessary for male desire and functioning erections. Reducing or cutting out alcohol can see you increase male libido fast.

As for smoking, it restricts your blood flow and lowers testosterone. As your penis depends and relies on efficient blood circulation and testosterone to become erect, smoking is possible the worst thing for it.

Step 4: Take Some Natural Supplements

To raise libido faster and put your sex drive on the fast track to performance, you can try taking supplements. Sex drive supplements are especially useful for coaxing your body into produced balanced levels of hormones or for increasing your testosterone levels naturally.

Certain testosterone boosters, aphrodisiacs and nutritional male supplements help to produce naturally hard and long-lasting erections for improved sex. Natural aphrodisiacs help to increase desire, pleasure and sensitivity, producing more powerful orgasms and more semen. A fast route to boosting libido is to take a supplement that combines several of these ingredients.

Step 5: Practice

Practising is a way of increasing male sex drive naturally by raising testosterone levels. You can bring yourself to the brink of orgasm, then hold back and repeat the process several times. This is otherwise known as edging and is an easy natural way of improving erection strength and duration. It also helps you to control your ejaculation.

Other techniques such as penile massage, testicular massage and optimizing ejaculation frequency are helpful if you need to raise libido more.

Business Book Summary of Leadership 2030

In Leadership 2030, Georg Vielmetter and Yvonne Sell provide a road map of the broad trends that are reshaping markets, cultures, and companies. Based on research with the Hay Group, a global management consultancy, they offer insights into six megatrends: the shift of economic power to Asia, the escalating war for talent, environmental crisis, eroding customer and employee loyalty, the melding of private and working lives, and technological convergence. The authors show how these self-reinforcing trends demand enlightened leadership with the skills to engage an ever-widening circle of stakeholders. Gone are the days of the egocentric, alpha-male leadership. To survive the megatrend storm leaders will have to provide workers with greater autonomy while finding ways to respond to the unique needs of every customer.

The authors explain that there are six big changes are afoot that will reshape the demands of leadership going forward. Ranging from evolving cultural attitudes to environmental degradation, these “megatrends” will eliminate leaders who fail to adapt.

1. Globalization in the future will be more about power shifting to Asia than it has been in the past. The growing middle class in many developing nations will create new opportunities, but also challenges as multinationals try to serve highly localized markets.

2. Climate change will drive resource scarcity, forcing leaders to fundamentally rethink their operations.

3. Rising affluence will drive demand for customized products. Just as consumers seek out more individualized experiences, so too will employees whose work need not be restricted by time and place.

4. The digital era will shift power to consumers and workers, away from traditional management structures. Already, the digital world is blurring the line between personal and professional lives, while increasing organizational transparency.

5. The aging population will shrink the workforce and require leaders to cope with intergenerational workplaces.

6. Several cutting-edge technologies will converge to open new markets. Nanotechnology and biotechnology especially will challenge leadership to invest in R&D programs and to respond effectively to societal worries.

Traditional, alpha-male leadership is ill suited to this new era. Instead, leaders should focus on becoming more “altrocentric,” empowering others as a way to empower themselves and their organizations. Developing altrocentric leadership begins by leaders asking themselves questions about style and goals. Are they:

• Truly open and curious?

• Able to engage colleagues in making meaning rather than simply presenting one-way narratives?

• Providers of bounded autonomy?

• Creators of loyalty and managers of the organization’s reputation?

• Willing to collaborate with partners inside and outside of the company?

How to Captivate a Woman’s Attention – And Make Her Attracted to You

There’s a secret to grabbing a woman’s attention irrevocably but not all those who know of this covert tactic will tell you about it for obvious reasons. You see, if you have the power to turn women into your willing love slaves at will, you won’t readily share it with the competition!

Well, today, you’re going to learn about this secret to women’s attraction that only the master seduction artists know about. However, you have to understand something first. You must be willing to get off your lazy butt on a Friday night to do the actual work of meeting women. This is the first thing you have to do to apply the next tricks I’m going to discuss at length. Read on to learn the Alpha guy’s main tactics for attracting hot, gorgeous women.

How to Captivate A Woman’s Attention – And Make Her Attracted To You (The Alpha Male’s Strategy)

The way to seduce a woman using the “alpha power” is to make an unforgettable first impression. When you’ve gotten her to notice you, don’t mess it up by being cheesy or wussy. Follow up your opening with conversation that she won’t be able to resist. This is the crucial part of any interaction. Once you taste the power of getting a girl hooked on your brand of flirtatious talk, you will want to keep it going until you get her affection completely.

Next, you will have to take the reigns of the interaction completely. By the time you steer the conversation to the next meet up, a date, or the phone number exchange, she must be completely comfortable with you. This is the meaning of being the ALPHA MALE. Needless to say, rapport building is not the time to wimp out. You must make her want to give you her number for it to happen.

You don’t have to change yourself completely to be an Alpha Male. You just have to change your mindset and your outlook in dating. Simply put, you have to be the leader of your relationship, regardless of the length of time you’ve known each other. Once you have your mindset straightened out, you can proceed with implementing the changes in your life.

If you’re craving to learn more, here’s a covert method of the Alpha Male that not many know about. The secret has something to do with the usage of hypnosis in seduction. A particular method you can use is fractionation, which can be used at will to establish unbelievable rapport with women, soon after meeting them. I’m saying you can get the girl to follow your lead in just a matter of minutes if you can learn this subtle hypnosis strategy.

The Lazy Man’s Guide to Getting a Girlfriend!

Are you ready to find a girlfriend? Do you want to find out the easiest way to meet that girl? Do you have a tough time meeting women in general? Do you want to find a great girl to spend time with? There is an easy way to meet girls. You have to know what it is that a woman wants from a man. You have to know what women are attracted to. Once you know this you’ll have a much easier time meeting the girl of your dreams.

It took me quite some time to figure out what it was that women wanted. I didn’t have that much success with women until I discovered this. I studied women as much as I could know what was that they were after in a man. And what I discovered went against what I was taught by society.

You see, I was taught that women wanted materialistic things. But the truth is they don’t. There is one thing that women want out of a man and if you have that none of the materialistic things matter.

What is that one thing? What is the one thing that women desire above all else? Women desire a man with confidence. If you have that confidence and nothing else matters. Women want the alpha male. They want a man who loves himself and is confident in every situation.

Do you want to be that confident man? Do you want to know how to become the alpha male? It’s much easier than you may think. You’d be surprised at how easy it is to get self-confidence even if you don’t have any right now. It is a skill that is learnable. Any man can do it. It’s naturally built into us.

Instead of spending any more money on expensive dinner dates, why don’t you invest in yourself and discover the confidence that will draw women to you like a magnet? Are you ready to make a change and have a better life?

How To Get Laid: 3 Foolproof Tips That’ll Bring A Woman To Your Bed For Your Next Sexcapade

Men often feel that sex is one of the most important things in their life. Perhaps it’s because they feel the need to procreate. Maybe it’s the need of just having someone in bed. Whatever the reasons for the need of sex, it’s important to know how to get laid.

The task of getting laid is easy for some men to accomplish. For other men, the task is so tedious… that the entire experience, while worth it, could be horrible. Of course, it all boils down to how bad you want to get laid. Are you ready to learn what it takes to get laid today? Are you ready to learn how to get laid anytime you want… from this point on?

How To Get Laid: Three Things You Need To Ensure She Comes To Bed With You

There are some men, because they lack morals or real common sense, will use alcohol to get a woman drunk and loose enough to lower inhibitions when it comes to sex. If you want to be something more than just a player with no morals and common respect for women, then learn these three “how to get laid” tips to ensure that you stay respected and get the girl in bed with you too. Bear in mind, that these are pretty basic but necessary… if you want to get laid.

Tip 1 – Be An Alpha Male and Be Approachable

For the first “how to get laid” tip, you need to assert your manliness and become the alpha male. That means walking into the room with an air of confidence surrounding you. You must make sure that all the eyes are upon you so that women who want to approach you will do so. Alpha males have no confidence problems and can command attention with nothing more than their body language.

Tip 2 – Have A Friendly Personality

If you have high hopes of getting laid, you must be friendly to the woman. After all, any man who is rude and abrasive is only going to see her kicking them out of the door. Bear in mind that there are lots of creeps in the world and women are always on high alert for them. If you don’t want to be considered a weirdo or stalker, you must show her that you’re a harmless teddy bear. When you do this, she’ll lower her defenses and allow you in.

While you’re being nice and friendly, be sure you throw subtle hints of your attraction to her and watch her for hers to you. Seduction is the name of the game when you want to get laid.

Tip 3 – Be Sure To Appear Clean

Ask yourself this question: would you want to have sex with a woman that hasn’t bathed and doesn’t take care of herself? Well, if you don’t want to have sex with a dirty woman, chances are a woman doesn’t want to have sex with a dirty man. Thus, for your final “how to get laid” tip, be sure you’re at your cleanest whenever you go out. Not only does this mean taking a shower and freshening up but it also means brushing your teeth. If you smoke, consider quitting this habit since it can cause you to smell really bad.

What Else You Need To Know: A Side Note About Getting Laid and Watching Porn:

If you’re looking for tips on how to get laid, this is also very important. Yes, it seems silly but if all you’re doing is watching porn then you’re not going to get laid. After all, how are you meeting women in front of the boob tube? Thus, you need to put the remote down, turn off the DVD player and TV and get out and meet women. Porn is great in learning the ways to please women but if you’re not getting out and meeting them, how are you pleasing them?

How To Get Laid: Where To Meet Women

Now that you know how to get laid, this is the time to learn where the women are to get laid. You can go to the usual places of bars and clubs and you’re liable to find many willing women who want to get laid too. Of course, if you’re looking for something more meaningful, consider checking out the local library, bookstores, grocery store. Don’t forget to use the Internet to find worthwhile women who have a desire to get to know you and get laid too.

Above everything else when it comes to knowing how to get laid… you must earn her trust and respect!

Freelance Web Designer | WordPress Developer | Hong Kong