Here’s how it works. When you approach a woman, she unconsciously makes 30-40 snap judgments about you and within as little as 7 seconds forms a first impression. A first impression is hard to reverse.

Many of the “snap judgments” she checks out deal with body language, and most fall under the broad category of composure. Complete composure is very attractive.

Let’s inch closer to the truth. You’re out on a date with a girl, and you come back to your car and find a ticket. For some men it’s automatic — they fly off the handle and become enraged. Composure lost. Other men take it in stride, even joke about it, and continue about their way.

Compare whining, complaining and ranting to cool and calm. Which do you think she prefers?

Here’s a killer secret to instantly improve your chances with women. To fully understand it, we must do a a quick mind exercise. Imagine I made you a deal. You had 24 hours to determine if someone was lying to you or not. If you choose correctly, you get a million dollars. If not, you die. How would you find out if they were a liar? You’d have to test them.

Not just one time. Several.

Women do this with men all the time. I would go as far to say that when you first approach a new women, everything she says to you is a test. To tie it together, a woman will know if you’re a wuss in a split second if one thing happens: she tests you and you lose your composure.

I was lucky. When I tried to figure this whole “getting women” thing out, I was mentored by one of the best. It was classic — whenever a woman would test him or push his buttons, or cause any drama, he’d simply ignore it. Continue on with what he was doing. Just like the second example of the traffic ticket.

Repeat after me: Maintain Composure!