What Men Want – Men Defined "The One" in 4 B’s

Have you asked a guy about what men want? Men have also envisioned their perfect girlfriend, they’re future wife. Unsurprisingly, most men want a woman who only exist in their dreams. Some men want a career woman with good finances but can stay at home for the kids. Some men want women who eat healthy meal without gaining weight. Yes, some men want impossible perfect women. Don’t these guys have any realistic ideas about their partner? Do these men want to be single forever? Luckily, there are also men who defined “the one” in a better, simpler and very realistic way.

Beauty

Men get attracted to those that satisfy their sight. And let’s face it, women want a hunk of a man and men want gorgeous women – it’s human nature. However, men’s definition of beauty is not as deep as women’s. Men find beauty in a woman’s physical appearance and then later on discover what beauty really means. Since men want beautiful women, then be the beautiful woman that he is looking for. You were raised to do the right things and the things that you think are right so the other side of you, being a person, has already been polished. Now, it’s time to fix your look. Go to your favorite salon when you need grooming. Shop for new dress if you think you need them. Most of all, set about 1 to 2 hours every morning to put yourself together.

Body

Another thing that will satisfies his sight is a perfectly shaped woman’s body. But it’s not what you think. You don’t need the Kim Kardashian looks and body – you just need to make sure that you are healthy. Alright, let’s be honest, 36-24-36 counts! But you can adjust those digits if you can’t achieve them. Just make sure to eat healthy and stay healthy. Men have different perspective of sexy. Some men think that chubby women are hotter than slim women. Some men prefers the extra small to medium size. Some men want the plus size. You can’t really tell what men want when it comes to body. All they know is they want someone who knows how to take care of her body and self.

Brains

Some men are threatened by women’s brain and you have to keep yourself away from these men. Only the best and quality men want women with brain. Which kind of man do you want? Men want to talk as well though not the kind of talk that women does. And what men want is a woman who can handle a healthy and intelligent conversation. If you want you catch a successful man, you should be smart and successful in your own field. These men look for women who can contribute to their strategies, ideas, planning and the likes. You may need an MBA degree but being naturally smart is already a plus.

Balance

Men want a woman who can balance work and life. They want someone who is cool and calm so whenever you feel that you are getting too much affected emotional wise, back off and try to reach your balance.

Tattoos For Girls – What Are the Hottest and Sexiest Locations? – Ankle, Wrist, Foot & Side Designs

It seems like just about everybody is fascinated by women with tattoos. Even guys are out there looking at tattoos for girls. Okay I know they are just looking for hot girls with tattoos and hope to see some flesh. However, obviously the world as a whole is very captivated by a beautiful woman with a great tattoo. Yes there are those that say it is trashy and those that have to make negative comments but honestly deep down just about every guy loves a beautiful girl with an incredible tattoo especially one that is tastefully done. Let’s face almost all women at least under 35 or so want to get a tattoo. So that leave just about everyone looking for tattoos for girls. Whether they are looking for themselves, their girlfriends or just to see some beautiful women everyone is looking. Therefore if you are a female and trying to find a great tattoo for girls designs you have to choose carefully. One of the most important things to consider is the location of the tattoo.

Location Or Design

This is kind of the Chicken or the egg debate and which one should come first no one really knows. It used to be that a person would think of a tattoo and then work with an artist to fit what they want graphical to the best place on the body. However, these days many girls are going about this a completely different way. They are choosing the location on the body first and then the tattoo second. Which is right? Well, honestly no one knows as it is a matter of person choice. However, this article will at least give you some of the most popular locations

Top Locations

So here are the top locations for tattoos for girls that have seemed to peak people’s interest in the last year or two. This is based on search engine traffic as well as what gets requested in forums and websites the most frequently.

Ankle Tattoos – Pretty self explanatory here ankle tattoos have always been a favorite location for women to get a tattoo inked on their body. They are easy to hide when needed and easy to reveal. They are also small in size and less expensive or time consuming then many other tattoos.

Wrist Tattoos – This one is currently one of the hottest trends for women right now. Wrist tattoos look great and have many of the benefits of ankle tattoos honestly. Easy to hide with a watch, look great and can easily be revealed. Often they are very tasteful and delicate in nature. Especially hot right now is word tattoos done on the inner wrist area.

Foot Tattoos – Foot tattoos in the past were not as popular due to the pain level of the tattoo. However, these days women are really wanting to get foot tattoos. A fairy, angels, stars and more all work great on the top of the foot and it is easy to cover up once it has healed.

Side Tattoos – Side tattoos or rib cage tattoos are also one of the hottest trends for women right now. Beautiful flowers, long verses of written poems and beautiful script as well as koi fish and old school ships or even dragons can all work great in this area.

Half Sleeve Tattoos – Surprisingly enough more and more women are getting half and full sleeve tattoos. It is a pretty big commitment but they look great. Popular ideas are pinup girls, Japanese tattoos such as the koi fish again and flowers.

These are just a few of the popular locations to get tattooed on your body. There are other of course that did not make the list but are also very popular right now such as neck tattoos. However we had to limit the designs and locations somewhere. These are just meant to provide some possible locations and ideas to help get you started.

The Behavioral Progression of Women Impacted by Legalized Abuse

Greed, Power and Control

Hatred is a spirit, capable of wickedness beyond repentance. -Sonya Ward

Slavery, historically was common among ancient people and known as an ‘established institution’ which can be traced back to the Mesopotamian Code of Hammurabi (c. 1860 BC). Before the Civil War (1861-1865), slaves and indentured servants, their descendants included, were considered personal property and could be sold or inherited at the will of their slave masters. Like other assets, human chattel was governed primarily by laws of individual states. At large slavery was first implemented in America in the year, 1619 during which many African’s were apprehended from Africa and transported to Jamestown, Virginia. Decades later, Virginia was one of the first states to acknowledge slavery in its laws, initially enacting such a law in 1661. The law recognized the state in which black slaves were assumed to serve their owners for life (Rodriguez, 2007)

And while America prides itself in all men being created equal, the black man was by no means, considered a man in the same terms as a white man. According to those laws, black people were “persons incapable of making satisfaction by addition of time” (Rodriguez, 2007) Thus, the law was not written with blacks in mind, and it did not apply to blacks because the black man enslaved or otherwise, had no rights in America. The notion of slavery for free labor was initiated at the hands of the Portuguese who saw Africans as a solution to the problem of required labor on sugar cane plantations. The Spanish eagerly adopted similar African slave systems in the Caribbean colonies, and the British followed accordingly in Barbados and Jamaica. North America jumped on the band wagon seeing the value in purchasing cheap African slaves. African slaves became a lifeline to economic growth. 150 years after the Portuguese bought the slaves on the African coast, a million Africans had been transported on European ships to plantations across the America’s. So, it is evident; it’s always been about gain, about money and mind control through fear and punishment by any means necessary to enforce a system that deprived blacks of any quality life. Over time, as larger boats availed, African’s proved to be the labor force of reward. And since the law did not acknowledge blacks, such laws had no concern nor desire to protect the very people that turned sugar, tobacco, cotton and beyond, into extraordinary wealth.

The slave population grew larger as the need for slaves increased notably in the white cotton and tobacco plantations. This brought the fear of uprisings and slave resistance. To ensure that the slaves wouldn’t resist, white men formed organized groups to enforce discipline and monitor the black slaves in the southern states. The people who formed these groups were chosen from the local militia, by captains of militia districts (Rodriguez, 2007). One can imagine the importance of controlling the enslaved to protect the interest of the slave masters and that too was done utilizing the law or an organized policing system, which was law. The organization of these watchmen was first established in the South in 1704. Patrollers were the term used to refer to those who monitored the slaves. Their function was to form river patrols to prevent escape by boat and to police the slaves which included the obedient, wayward, runaways and defiant. With the corporate interest of those who invested in slaves, between the 17th and 18th century, African-American slaves assisted in building the economic strongholds of the new nation, justifying the central importance of slavery which was law, for no personal benefit other than to live long enough to die old.

Not everyone agreed that slavery was just and by the 19th century there was a festering abolition movement in addition to America’s westward expansion that instigated an upheaval over slavery. During this time, the North and South had various issues that separated them; however, the issue of slavery inflamed the passions of both sides (Ollhoff, 2012). This revolt divided the nation which resulted in the Civil War (1861-1865) While the Emancipation Proclamation did not free even one slave, it was an important turning point in the war, transforming the fight to preserve the nation into a battle for human freedom. Eventually, 4 million slaves were freed. This was long after President Abraham Lincoln issued the Emancipation Proclamation in 1863. Two years after the Emancipation Proclamation, Congress passed the 13th amendment on January 31, 1865, and sanctioned it on December 6, 1865. The 13th amendment abolished slavery in the United States and provides that “Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for a crime of which the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States.” Yet, even with freedom of law, the footprints of slavery continued to influence American history from the tumultuous years of reconstruction, (1865-1877) through civil rights movement which emerged in the 1960s.

Fast forwarding in time we find that common law was first implemented in England and later in the United States. Though before the birthing of the common law, other systems of law existed as mentioned in prior paragraphs, they were eventually succumbed to the statues within the common law according to the United States. The origin of common law within the U.S. began in the middle ages in the Kings Court later forming several viable ethics by which they continue to stand upon today. Following the American Revolution along with the national government, each state within the United States adopted this common law. Policy development in the United States closely followed policy development in England. Policing took two forms in the early colonies. It was both communal and informal, which is referred to as private-for-profit policing, or “Watch,” or “The Big Stick” (Spitzer, 1979).

The watch system was represented by a community volunteers whose primary duty was to sound the alarm when danger presented. A night watch was initiated in Boston during 1636, another in New York in 1658 and then Philadelphia in 1700. The night watch was not a very efficient approach to controlling crime. Watchmen were either volunteers or those who were ordered to duty as a method of punishment or those evading military assignment. Thus, most were not interested or passionate about doing the work and were frequently lackadaisical. Many of them often slept or drank while on watch. By 1833 Philadelphia created the first-day watch and in 1844 New York instituted a day watch to fortify its new municipal police force (Gaines, Kappeler, and Vaughn 1999).

This paper purposes to imply how a continuum of organized corruption in the legal system or among the powers that be rather political, legal, social or otherwise, not only poses a threat to black America at large but to the perceived black women in general, her image of self and her life outcome despite her socio-economic status. While this issue has impacted blacks in and outside of America, innumerable white Americans and abroad have been scarred and damaged from the existence of ancient laws in support of violence, disfigurement, murder, and molestation against the black race from slavery and even the state of freedom disregarded by racism, hatred and prejudice expressed through modern day police brutality. And to that point, I will draw from the life and experiences of Sarah Baartman to both narrow this discussion and memorialize her life. She was born in the 1770’s, and her death was on December 29, 1815. Her exact age of death is, therefore, unknown but speculated between 25 and 39 years of age. Let us ponder how the law notionally played a part in her life outcomes, as well as the demise of Sarah Baartman, a young, indigenous Khoisan slave that was taken from South Africa and shipped to Europe under false pretense. It is important to add that Sarah gained increasing popularity due to her astonishingly large buttocks, small waistline large breast, and full lips. Because of the enormity of her anatomy and genitalia, she was surmised as nothing more than an anomaly displayed in the nude for all to actively grope and condemn. She was the ‘paradoxical freak’ of sexuality and race, both primitive and alluring (Crais, Scully, 2011). Considering the case, I can’t help but wonder, what about her soul. This took place in Europe, where she was promoted under the show name, Hottentot Venus. Hottentot was an offensive term given to Khoi people because of their abnormally large buttocks, breasts, and features, like Sarah’s. Sarah and another woman were both discovered because they’re body structure far exceeded other Khoi women. Venus, the second part of her show name referred to the Roman Goddess of Love. At any rate, her life’s work was nothing short of a freak show that displayed Sarah in the nude before a crowd of spectators that paid to observe, examine through touching and pervert her anatomy. Furthermore, it is on record that onlookers also paid to repeatedly have sex with her, against her will.

Sarah was chosen because of her framework (body dimensions) which at the time was lusted after, yet publicly ridiculed and debauched. Though my philosophy may be challenging to conceptualize, my intent is to highlight how women today mimic her body type and it is essentially being celebrated and to a strange degree both craved and worshipped, as evidenced by the overwhelming number of women from all races, black included, who are surgically enhancing their bodies with oversized glut matter to acquire the dramatic curvaceous appeal Sarah naturally possessed. Sarah drew men across the world, who paid to see her body. Today women in entertainment once gone nude increase, their net worth. So, as it was encouraged then, it is also now. It’s probably not far-fetched to infer that there is a ‘fake butt’ phenomenon spreading worldwide, despite the health risks associated with the medical procedures.

Sarah “Saartjie” Baartman was brought up on a colonist’s farm in Camdeboo. Sarah spent years on stage in England working for a “free black man” by the name of Hendrik Cesars and a doctor named William Dunlop. Together they used Baartman to draw a crowd and to make money in exchange for being able to see and use her body as they so pleased. However, Cesars’ eventually left the show and in 1814 Dunlop died leaving Sarah unemployed. Later, Henry Taylor brought Baartman to Paris where he sold her to an animal trainer by the name of S. Reaux who forced her to entertain onlookers that frequented the Palais-Royal. It was the founder and professor of a comparative animal Museum who studied Baartman in hopes to prove a correlation between animals and human being. His name was Georges Cuvier. Mostly Baartman’s composition became the foundation for racist science. Despite parading around in the nude to be abused and used for financial gain, to no surprise, she never escaped poverty a day in her life. She died in Paris penniless, of an illness that was not apprised on record. After her death, her body was completely dismembered and dissected by Cuvier. Her remains were displayed in a public Museum in Paris for more than a century and a half. For general observation, the Museum exhibited a plaster cast of her body. Her brain, skeleton, and genitalia were also viewable to the public at large. It wasn’t until 2002 that her body was released and returned to South Africa. Her final resting place is in the Eastern Cape. They chose South Africa’s National Women’s Day to bury her remains.

Modern Day Relevance

Everyone suffers. While it is inconceivable for some people to believe, the pain that is birthed from the occurrences and aftermath of organized crime around slavery, freedom, rights and equal opportunity has an undying sting. Police brutality as we know and condemn it today, in the simplest terms, is an extension of ancient enslavement fortified by the law of the land. The act of police brutality is no more wrong than the act of attacking innocent cops at the hands of angered civilians. Frankly, the anguish is felt on both sides. Since the beginning of time, African-Americans has suffered hatred, antagonism, and assault simply because of the color of their skin. This hatred is hurtful to both races because while many are closed minded, far more are lovers of humanity in all forms sharing, the hope that one day all will be judged by the content of their character, instead of the color of their skin (Martin Luther King). Even still the damage is deeply entrenched in our society and continues to present itself today. Police brutality is evident, just as genocide is. But the hidden damage plays out in the way black women although not exclusive, are manipulated into exploiting their bodies for public display in exchange for money and power.

What’s it worth?

The question is why are women today so comfortable with conforming to nudity to increase their worth, when men don’t have to? And how did they get there? Is dignity of no value? Are there any Christian values left or did they fade in the face of acceptance? These questions are thought provoking and valid and very well may rest on the shoulders of a society driven by the lifestyles of the rich and dangerous. But this would not be possible without the groundwork of total control and chaos. People of color were blocked from learning, thinking and expressing beyond obedience and submission. But history narrates a battery of violent wrongdoings since ancient times that indoctrinated strong-holds like; self-hate, low self-esteem, and worthlessness just to name a few. Seeds of destruction that were invested into people of color (specifically black women) as a direct result of public humiliation and private perversion that distorted any fragment of positive realization. Women held their head down, avoided eye contact and responded in complete submission when speaking with whites. The physical abuse and molestation had overwhelming influence over the way that black women were perceived as no more than disposable sex slaves, used to work, submit to random sex acts regardless if married or single and get thrown away like cattle. To complicate things even further, Black men were immobilized and left powerless respective to protecting their black women and as a result acquired a resentment toward themselves and their women. This played a significant role in black men pursuing women outside of their race to feel special and worthy and perhaps powerful. This, in turn, fortified the concept of inferior beauty among women of color who were losing their men to other races, genders, prison systems, violence and beyond. So, what did she do? She climbed the corporate infrastructure which created an imbalance in black on black households causing a rift between the two. This whole thing plays out leaving many women of color single, insecure, feeling inferior and chasing self-esteem in all the wrong places.

Without clearly knowing what beauty is or where it comes from, beautiful is something every little girl aspires to be and every young man hopes to conquer. Because the concept of beauty is directly associated with acquiring interest, opportunity and above all else love. So, what exactly is beauty? Some would surmise it to be power but it is said that beauty is a combination of qualities, such as shape, color, or form, that pleases the aesthetic senses, especially the sight. That being the case, it is fair to say that beauty is defined as something that pleases the senses. Since it pleases the senses, it is therefore obvious that the concept of beauty is subject to opinion, which makes immeasurable. The question then becomes who defines that standard? The nature of beauty is one of the most fascinating riddles of philosophy and so much more, than what the average mind considers. Perceptions surrounding beauty not only vary by culture, but have greatly evolved over the span of time. However, to be deemed beautiful, your skin had to be fair, your hair had to be blonde and your eyes, as the oceans deepest blue. This is what was projected by society and adored. For years, dating back to enslavement, this standard is also what stripped many women of color of feeling any sense of beauty based on the standard set before her. This by no means defines the psyche of every woman of color but for those that it did impact, it altered her sense of worth and beyond.

For centuries, the beauty and self-worth of black women has been enslaved by a history of hurts. The way she saw herself and her fellow black sisters was seldom perceived on the level of women that fit into the standards driven by society. White beauty was epitomized then and it is now. To support this theory, black achievement in the television and film industry, suffered so long, a dedicated award show was created to acknowledge and celebrate their accomplishments. Actors Will and Jada Smith boycotted the Grammy’s in response to lack of balance amongst the acting community. Although black women are diverse creatures, possessing an array of skin tones, facial features and body types, commonly black women have broad noses, full lips, curvaceous bodies and curly hair. Features that were used to make fun of and demean. Such condemnation was the center of ridicule within the race and outside of the race. African-Americans in general were teased and tormented for centuries. My personal experience as a darker skinned African-American was nothing short of cruelty. Kids teased me for being dark and often called me darkie and tar baby, names that have survived decades of ignorance sown from the period of enslavement until modern times. As years went by, people began to appreciate me, beyond my skin tone. I used to get complements like “you’re so pretty to be dark-skinned” and “you don’t have black features.” I never saw either statement as a complement, rathe an insult, spewed from a shallow mindset.

Confusion was seeded during slavery, as black women became the desire of her slave master. For some, it was about power and control and for others, it became a true love affair. Thus, the very same features that became the private desire of her slave master, was contradicted in public through acts of abuse and humiliation. Visualize how stuck and worthless this made the slave girl feel being regularly seduced by the same person that detests the color of her skin Picture her mindset as he publicly referred to her as heifer, hussy nygra, bitch and so forth. Could this have broken not only the victims being the female slaves, but also the wives of these men, also victims in the process? Might these events then and the act of infidelity and betrayal in as we experience it today be the driving force behind women that pay to enhance their facial features and bodies. White women filling their lips, black women straightening their hair, dark women, bleaching their skin, fair women spending quality time in sun tanning salons. Might they all be damaged goods chasing superficial beauty to become the apple of someone’s eye? Possibly. Because without a healthy perspective and confidence, most are subject to superficiality. Addressing these philosophies, we turn to time which has a way of exposing truth, where we witness the evolution of beauty. Case by case women began to address their lack of confidence and self-esteem with scientific break throughs that would promise to make them the crave of the times. Women from all walks of life have tapped into beauty by choice through plastic surgery. All in the name of acquiring power. Profoundly many women purchase the physique of Sarah Baartman. In my humble opinion, an act of desperation pursued to escape the shadows of misfortune our enslaved ancestors and innocent victims, bravely weathered.

To date, subconsciously women of color make drastic changes to their bodies, even risking their very lives, to please their masters. Modern day masters are low self-esteem, vanity, the men in their lives, or perhaps the media. The common practice of butt augmentations, fillers, lip injections, and breast implants have become a phenomenon. In some cultures, women are mocked and seem as poor in character for not investing in body perfection. Needless to say, these choices represent their unspoken response to the notion of not being good enough or pretty-enough. Therefore, they take drastic measures to be liked, loved or even worshipped like the iconic images of celebrities that lead millions of women to distant meaningless paths just to feel beautiful. Beauty is power and without one, the other does not exist in today’s whirlwind around self-acceptance. The cosmetic industry is increasingly being fattened from the explosion of consumer demands in the cosmetic world. Products and procedures that promise to deliver fair or deepened skin, ginormous boobs and butts, suddenly long hair, as well as lip injections to have lips appearing plump and full are at the top of the list for too many women to number. It appears to be the century for self-hate and have it your way. My argument is that the underlining problem began with hate. Hate inwardly and outwardly because it takes hate to establish and fuel hate. There is no God in hatred. The bible teaches us that God is not present in the midst of confusion. The absence of God, delivers the presence of evil. Evil tormented a multitude of souls then and it does so now. Today many might agree that the misguided and unconsciousness of Sara Baartman can be found in extreme changes our women thirst for. Sarah had no choice, we do, yet we exploit ourselves making her tragic death a mockery. Its established that people model themselves after their favorite celebrities. Sadly, this enslavement haunts some of our most famed celebrities. For example, Kim Kardashian, Iggy Azalea, Little Kim, K. Michelle and Nicki Minaj, each of them celebrities, deemed the most beautiful women in the world and yet they stop at nothing to win over their master, be it money, power or respect. Is it far-fetched, to entertain the idea that women that chase to opportunity to become someone else are also enslaved in their reasoning? And are products of eons of lies, miseducation and stolen identity. That they too are victims of Willie Lynch’s diabolical syndrome? That the probability of such hatred and manipulation, much like the purpose of genocide is what has captured all women, although intended for women of color. These notions are subjective and by consideration, conjured from a very personal perspective. But there is a theory that brings relevance to this hypothesis. The Willie Lynch syndrome. In theory, slave master lynch proved that by dividing and conquering slaves, you could enslave their blood line for 300 plus years. Lynch guaranteed his method. Implying that if the method were properly carried out, without failure it would control slaves for generations to come even in freedom.

“My method is simple and members of your family and any Overseer can use it,” says a document of the speech, although some question its authenticity. “I have outlined a number of difference(s) among the slaves, and I take these differences and make them bigger. I use fear, distrust, and envy for control purposes. I make them hate themselves and destroy each other.”

Under the theme “United We Stand, Divided We Fall,” the WLS (Willie Lynch Syndrome) pervades present day society by creating a divide in the African-American community. This has proven to be responsible for the Black-on-Black violence because it creates conflicts between different neighborhoods.

“This is a direct result of the WLS when it states, ‘whether the slaves live in a valley, on a hill, east, west, north, or south.’ Where is the logic in this? First, we were being killed off by other races, now we’ve taken it into our own hands with gun violence,” “What does this say about us as people? More importantly, are we too far gone to save our race or even willing to try?”

Respective to the validity of the WLS, damn is all that comes to mind. -Sonya Ward

In theory, many believe that although blacks are no longer enslaved, the damaging effects have had a profound and lasting impact on the way innumerable African-Americans think. And it is categorized by the conscious and unconscious mind. While the conscious have received healing, and are now free of the rippling effects of the WLS, those that sleep, suffer blindly. It’s a hard pill to swallow knowing that mind control imparted during slavery has enslaved the mentality of a people. Its results, self-hate, fear, low self-esteem, lack of interest and underachievement. Traits that have been demonstrated in the inability to relax, embrace their culture comfortably, without judgement and question. Free to be themselves safely, securely and soundly in a world that has found strength in diversity and cultural difference. Essentially, the speech that Willie Lynch delivered in 1712 exposing methods of control is as a poison, alive and at work to destroy the feeble, but it doesn’t have to be. In conclusion with this knowledge, and through self-observation and honesty, the behavioral progression and outcome of women of color as well as men of color, can no longer be bound to the gripping effects of organized witchcraft and legalized violence exercised against them. With confidence, it is not impossible for suppressed people to rise above the strongholds that condemned their right to holistic, peace, happiness and self-realization. It won’t be an easy quest and it certainly cannot birth overcomers operating out of an unconscious framework. One must desire illumination avoiding rejection of truth even when it disrupts comfort zones. It would be pure folly to imply ease of change in light of, deeply embedded moving parts. Admittedly, while I am to empower, mere words often frustrate me, in that they often over simplify complexities extreme in nature. But words that do possess, the power of life and death. Applicable to all life matters. Being powerful does not require illegal activities or returning evil for evil. Just like being beautiful is not something you can achieve by people pleasing. Beauty is a knowing and a reflection of something far deeper than fads that expire over time. We must all inquire of ourselves why we think as we do and challenge ourselves to think on a higher critical scale. The worth of humanity has never been planted in his or her image but in the heart which is the driving force that ignites world change and the measure by which his maker surmises his life’s meaning. Knowing is half the battle and rebelling against behaviors that suppress us buries the poison and the witch.

References

Crais, C. C., & Scully, P. (2011). Sara Baartman and the Hottentot Venus: A ghost story and a biography. Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.

Gaines, L. K., Kappeler, V. E., & Vaughn, J. B. (1999). Policing in America. Cincinnati: Anderson Pub.

Ollhoff, J. (2012). The Civil War: Slavery. Minneapolis, MN: ABDO Pub. Co.

Rodriguez, J. P. (2007). Slavery in the United States: A social, political, and historical encyclopedia. Santa Barbara, CA: ABC-CLIO.

Spitzer, & Stephen. (1979). The Rationalization of Crime Control in Capitalist Society. Contemporary Crisis 3, no. 1.

Ward & Ward (2017). MP3 Production & Spoken Word: The Behavioral Progression of Legalized Brutality Among Women of Color

3 Ways To Be The Man That A Beautiful Romanian Woman Is Seeking

The legend says that Casanova was the only man who became famous because he knew how to make a woman feel special. Even if he had relationships with hundreds of women, it seems that he knew how to make each of them feel unique, loved and protected. You don’t have to be a Casanova of our days if you are interested to develop a relationship with a Romanian woman, but there are some Casanova’s tips which will help you to obtain what you want. It is very important to be charming and to put in practice all the qualities you have.

1) The first thing you have to know is that Romanian women are special and very beautiful. At least this is the opinion of the majority of the foreign men who visited Romania. If you really want to be the man that a Romanian woman is seeking, the most important quality of you should be your ability to make her feel special.

If you want to impress a Romanian woman you will have to do something special and you will never get this if you would always ask her “So, what would you like to do now?” Casanova had always a plan, he was never thinking too much and he always knew what the next step is. You should do the same. Make her feel good with you, trust in you and let you lead her. Don’t talk too much about you, ask her questions about herself and look interested about discovering more things about her. Show her that you are a good listener and she will definitely start to admire you.

2) The second thing you have to do is to show her that you are interested on her, that you are fascinated by her. Every woman feels very sexy if she can admire herself in a mirror, so you have to become her mirror. Look at her with admiration, smile her frequently and show her how much she fascinated you. If she is pretty don’t tell her she’s beautiful because she knows this and because there were many other men who told her this; tell her she’s intelligent and you will win her heart.

The compliments are very important for a woman, but don’t exaggerate because she will know that you are only interested in obtaining something from her. Be honest and make all your compliments be sincere and special.

3) The third important thing for a Romanian woman, but not the last, is your generosity. Even if not all the Romanian women are attracted of rich men, for most of them this is a very important detail about which they are interested before starting a relationship. Everybody agrees that money can not bring happiness, but they can make a relationship much more interesting. She accepted go out with you? Perfect!

But don’t you start count your money in front of her because she will be very disappointed. You should exaggerate with your generosity at least at the first date, an expensive present, some caviar and French champagne will definitely impress her. If you are not so rich to afford this, offer her the best you can and she will not be disappointed by a man who is ready to share with her what he has.

Seductively Yours – The Hottest Women to Ever Don a Bikini

Women are often an enigma to us men. Sometimes they are for us the ultimate protectors, nourishers and lovers. We feel that every second that they are on this Earth with us, breathing the same air and living under the same sky, we are complete. But there are other times when we view women as bringers of misfortune, as malevolent witches, seducers and a great man’s ultimate downfall. Whatever we may think of them, it’s certain that for thousands of years, this being called Woman has been exciting our imaginations to no end.

And there are some women who excite us more than others. These things of beauty seem like they were born to dazzle us with their lovely bodies and sultry smiles. Add a bikini to all that and you have the ultimate cocktail for seduction. These are a few women that men have always wanted to see in a bikini and have not been disappointed by the results:

– Jessica Biel: Starting with being in Gear magazine in her teenage years, Jessica Biel’s toned and fit body has been earning praises everywhere for its lovely symmetry and sexiness. A whole lot of endorsement followed from that and she is now acknowledged as having one of the strongest and most desirable bodies anywhere.

– Halle Berry: Known as an overall attractive person, Halle Berry’s body is definitely no slouch as seen in movies like Die Another Day and Swordfish. Her curvaceous body, beautiful face and sensual voice can charm any man from 18 to 80 and beyond.

– Elle Macpherson: You don’t call someone ‘The Body’ for nothing. At over six feet tall, Elle Macpherson is a queen sized wave of sexy. Her Sports Illustrated and other magazine covers are the best proof as to why she is one of the sexiest women on the planet, bar none.

– Ursula Andress: Bond enthusiasts know her as a Bond girl in 1962’s Dr No. but the rest of mankind knows her as simply a very sexy woman that revolutionized the way people see women in action/adventure flicks. Imagine the image of her lovely form emerging from the Caribbean sea in all its glory wearing only a white bikini. Definitely the stuff of dreams.

6 Tips to Win the Heart of Beautiful Filipina Women

Beautiful Filipina women may just be the best partner to spend the rest of your life with. Sweet Filipinas have a unique beauty – both Asian and Latin, they are very hospitable and they are totally devoted to their husband, as part of the Filipino culture that they grew up in. They are very supportive and loving, not only to their spouses but also to their entire family.

What’s so special about dating charming Philippine Women

A great thing about beautiful Filipina women is that although they have a deep sense of being Filipino in them, as shown by their amicable and pleasant charm, they are also well aware of the Western culture, more so, of the American culture. Pretty Filipinas speak perfect English which is great because you don’t need to learn the language to meet beautiful Filipinas.

Here are some tips and tricks on how to win the heart of a beautiful Pinay (Filipina woman) that you have set your heart on.

If you are still dating online and looking for relationship with Filipina beauties:

  • Make sure you consider that the girl lives in a different time zone so do not set chat times at 11 am Eastern Standard Time as that will be 11 pm in the Philippine Islands. Show your lady this early on that you are a very considerate man.
  • Learn some simple Filipino phrases and surprise her. Try the following:
    • Ang ganda mo – You are beautiful
    • Mahal kita – I love you
    • Iniisip kita lagi – I always think of you
  • When you are talking about your lives, be truthful. Filipina brides can sense if you are lying so if you have nothing good to say about a topic you are discussing, then better change the subject.
  • Short messaging is a big deal in the Philippines as there are a lot of people that actually use the text message function of their phone more than the call. So send her a sweet SMS once or twice a day just to let her know you are thinking of her.

If you have gone to the Philippines:

  • Acknowledge that in dating Filipina women, courtship will play a huge part. You really have to woo a Philippine bride and this does not necessarily mean that you have to shower her with gifts. A token of love or two will do and they do not have to be expensive. You do not need to bring gifts to her family members but note that, the parents will take this as a sign of respect so it is best that you have something in tow. Again, it does not have to be expensive. Aside from that, you would also have to make her friends like you which is basically something that you have to do in all ladies, unless you want to have a hard time making her like you.
  • Be wary of cultural nuances. In some parts of the Philippines, it may be frowned upon if you ask to sleep in the same room before marriage with beautiful Filipina women. Although this is rare and most cities are very open to having relations prior to being married, still, it is a good idea to be wary.

Big Fat Beautiful Women Seeking Men In Your Area

This article tells you a clever way to find big fat beautiful women who are seeking dates with men in your area. It helps you avoid the mistakes that thousands of men like yourself will make every week.

Most men like yourself, interested in plus size woman dating, will tend to join any number of expensive niche dating sites. This can be a mistake. Why, you ask? Well, these sites tend to be a lot more expensive than mainstream dating sites, and most of them also have a lot fewer members. It is very easy to throw away your time and money by joining one.

Just because you want to find a large local lady for a date does not mean you have to join a costly niche dating service. There is a clever alternative; and it amazes me that more people have yet to catch on to it.

Popular dating communities that target wide audiences are a much better place for you to go looking. These sites usually have ten million or more members (many of whom will be large ladies). Moreover, they tend to offer free memberships, more bells and whistles, and advanced searching facilities.

All you have to do, to save yourself time and money and improve your chances of success, is simply put in a search of local women. Some sites will allow you to filter your search by body type, others simply show photos of the ladies (but you can still look at them and judge for yourself if they are big fat beautiful women).

This is how you can easily find your desired women without wasting time and money.

Anorexia Nervosa: The Impact of Mind Over Body

We live in a world of extremely imperfect definitions of perfection. In an era which is practically run by media, it is nearly impossible to defy the rules that this institution sets for the general masses. The glamor it portrays often gets to the wisest of people and thousands fall prey to this monster. The beauty of women is something that has been of great importance since the evolution of civilization. In every era, women have tried several things and followed various trends in order for them to be considered beautiful. The definition of the beauty of women hasn’t remained the same over the centuries and in different regions. However, when media took control of the world and the entire planet was made a global village, abnormal trends started appearing and one of the biggest of these was the universal definition of beautiful women.

Size zero is a term we often come across. While it seems like a very ordinary, completely harmless term, it is actually a silent killer, an abnormal obsession and the cause of the destruction of thousands of women worldwide. This article is dedicated to all those who have a family member or a friend who has been the victim of anorexia nervosa, and to all those who have been, or are, fighting a battle against this monster.

In the simplest of words, anorexia nervosa is an eating disorder which forces an individual to eat far less than what the individual should actually eat in order for the individual to remain ‘slim’. It comprises of a few primary features which include refusal to maintain a healthy body weight, an extremely distorted image in one’s mind about her own body and a very abnormal fear of gaining weight. This disorder makes an individual paranoid about gaining weight. Such individuals suffer from a grave mental disorder as they perceive themselves to be ‘ugly’ and fat even when they are underweight. It is healthy for individuals to follow a controlled diet plan if they feel they are gaining excessive weight, however, it is essential for these individuals to know when exactly to stop the diet. For people who suffer from anorexia, there’s no end to this diet. In fact, they keep reducing the amount of food they consume continuously.

Anorexia is a disorder associated with the glamorous image that size zero models portray. Women all over the world idealize these women and wish to have a body like theirs. Anorexia isn’t a ‘disease’ that an individual can get tested for. It cannot be identified by strict medical procedures. It is more like a disease of the mind that exists silently within an individual’s body, slowly killing the person inside.

Anorexia is not merely an eating disorder. It includes an individual’s whole lifestyle. Anorexic individuals tend to get depressed if they feel they are gaining weight even when in reality they are extremely underweight. As a result, they cut back on food even more.

Anorexia is normally taken lightly when it is in its early stages. However, this makes this disorder more deadly. Since one tends to take it lightly in the beginning, it gets out of control in later stages. Anorexia actually causes deaths all around the world. Healthy individuals actually lose their lives to this deadly monster simply because they fall prey to the media’s attractive traps.

If you have a friend or a family member who has anorexia, be sure to get them professional help. If you yourself are a victim of this disorder, reach out for help. Beauty lies within the individual himself, not in the imperfect definitions of beauty that the world has set. The only way to deal with this monster is to redefine our standards of beauty in order to lift the immense pressure from women worldwide.

Art of Getting Laid in 3 Steps

Getting action is key if you want to live a happy life. There are only three steps in learning the art of getting laid: start, challenge and control. Learning these steps will make you more powerful in any situation with the woman you desire.

The first step, start, is striking up a conversation with a woman and getting to know her a bit. The second step, challenge, is playing hard to get. Women like the chase, so if you make it too easy, they will lose interest. The third step, control, is showing who is in charge. If you show your hard side, you will attract women, because they like a leader who doesn’t put up with a lot of crap.

A Test from Women: Try to Approach Me!

The three steps for attracting women are start, challenge and control. These are really masculine steps to master, and will be a test to prove to others that you are really a man. In order to master the art of getting laid, a man must be able to perform these three steps. If he can’t, women won’t find him attractive.

Every woman puts men that they admire through a series of tests to see if he is masculine enough for her. Sometimes a woman will construct a situation to test it, but very often she isn’t even aware that she is doing it.

A test that many beautiful women use to see if a man is a man or a mouse is to see if he is scared of her beauty. If she can frighten him with that, he won’t ever be able to keep her safe. In order to learn the art of getting laid, you are going to have to approach her for the initial conversation and pass the test.

To the Men Who Won’t Start a Conversation with Women

If you can’t approach a woman and naturally talk to her, you don’t have any real chance of getting her. Why? Because if you are too scared to talk to her, she isn’t going to be attracted to you at all.

This may seem a bit mean to say, but sometimes the truth hurts. Stop waiting for her to flash you a sign or look your way; just go over to her and stop making up excuses on why you can’t. Just do it. Beautiful women are the hardest to approach, because their beauty intimidates men. If all men were bold, they would be hounded with men. The ones who are man enough to approach them are men that usually fit what they are looking for.

You know that she is in the elite league of beautiful women if she has the best clothes, designer sunglasses and a sexy tan. She usually won’t smile at anyone. She shows off her bad attitude because she wants to repel all of the guys who have no confidence and are clearly out of her league.

This is a tactic that she uses to save her time from being approached by every man she meets. Obviously, she only wants to date the most manly and confident of men.

Show Her You Are a Man – Make a Move

If you are lucky enough to get the woman of your dreams alone, and even luckier enough for it to be in a romantic setting with lighting that makes both of you glow and music to set the mood, you don’t want to waste it. Make the first move, because most women will let the opportunity pass rather than starting something.

Waiting for the man to make the first move is one of the many tests that women give men to see if they are suitable as a partner. It also gives women the opportunity to see just what type of man is interested in her. It is true that most women won’t go up to a man and approach him. Instead, they prefer to just observe him and see how he acts. Women are drawn to a man for numerous reasons, two of those being because he is a good leader and because he is masculine.

Why Should You Approach Her?

Have you ever dated a woman that you only talked to on the phone? Probably not, because most men are interested in the way a woman looks, and have to see them before they commit to learning more about who they are on the inside.

A man wants to see that the girl that he is interested in is beautiful, but at the same time, the woman is testing the man. She is making sure that this suitor has confidence and is manly enough for her. If you want to prove your masculinity, remember start, challenge and control. These three easy steps are all you need to master in the art of getting laid.

Do You Know What Men Really Want From You? Make Him Fall in Love

Are you having a hard time figuring out what a man really wants? Would it be possible for a woman to get deep into his thoughts, sift out his desires and gather his interests? Would it be worth our efforts knowing whom they are interested in and what they really want from women?

You may find this a little hard to discern for a while, especially if you are a beginner. But if you dig farther  on this, you will notice that there is a big difference on what many girls think about and what really makes a guy turned on, and what will make him want to seek you out everyday and all the way. I want you to ponder on these, for you to be an expert on making a man to kneel before your feet.

Beyond Beauty

Probably you have this mind setting that only stunningly looking, beautiful women can get a good, attractive man to be your boyfriend, husband or lover. This is one lousy excuse you could ever think, but later you will realize that there is more than meets the eye.

Try to look around you. There is a lot of so-called good-looking women that are dated by handsome bachelors who ended up being dumped like a sack of garbage. But those average looking women who are just considered ‘the girl next door’ are walking along with this attractive, good-looking guy, enjoying the most of their wonderful relationship.

The Unique Quality

The unique feeling that you give a guy is the reason that will make him yearn for you. Your personality acts like a magnet, pulling him close to you. Your appealing attitude will keep him interested to know more about you. You may be surprised that he will be noticing you whenever you are around, or he may ask you out for lunch, or invite you to spend some with him to know you better.

It’s not all the beauty that counts. Let’s say you are as stunning as the prom queen or as pretty as the team cheerleader, but having that rough and arrogant attitude will only make him uneasy being with you. You will just be pulling the pin and blowing up all your chances to be his woman.

Be On Your Own Feet

Showing an attitude of being independent will make a man put an effort on getting close to you. Many women are not just searching to find the man of their dreams. They need a man who will be a compliment for them and make them fully contented. It may put pressure on the guy to fill up her space. Show him that you are enable to control your rear wherever you want to lead your life, and having him by your side means that he can be your copilot in your life.

What men really want from you, is for you to be the best woman that you can be.

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