Are you in a marriage where you’re constantly thinking my wife doesn’t respect me?

You’re not alone… and I bet you that you’d love to get some of that respect back wouldn’t you?

Of course you would. But it’s going to take some work on your part…but the turn around is definitely worth it.

How I Went from My Wife Doesn’t Respect to Darn Near My Wife Worships Me…

Here’s the thing. If you’re saying my wife doesn’t respect me then there are things that you’re doing absolutely wrong in your marriage. And the worst part is that you probably feel like you’ve been doing everything right.

Most marriage “specialists” will give you the old line of bull about paying more and more attention to your wife, validate her feelings, buy her gifts to let her know you care.

In fact through a string of misinformation like through books, and movies, we take them up on that advice only to be severely disappointed by the results.

Your Wife Doesn’t Show You Respect Because You’re Not Being the Man That Women Respect…

Ouch! That might hurt a little. It might hurt a lot. It hurt me when I first realized it. You see I was having some serious marriage problems a while back. I actually ended up solving those marriage problems the regular old way that you usually hear about.

Now I will say this. If your marriage is in serious trouble then doing what SOME of the marriage experts (actually only one in particular that I would recommend)…but doing some of the normal marriage counseling things will work to get your marriage straight.

I highly recommend this in short…

#1 Stop fighting at all costs (it doesn’t help)

#2 Analyze exactly what’s wrong in your marriage

#3 Start working on the things that YOU can fix right away (your 50%…the only part you can actually change)

#4 Take divorce off the table as an option (Give Yourself a Time Limit (9 months to a year) before you call it quits)

So that’s a good start on a marriage that’s troubled. It’s not easy but those things will start you off on the right track.

But once I got my marriage back on track to where it was what seemed great, there started to be a distance growing in my wife. She was showing signs of lack of respect for me as her husband. After I had been doing all the things that were supposed to be right and make her fall head over heels in love with me.

We weren’t fighting, but she surely didn’t have that real respect toward me, and she was actually starting to lose attraction toward me as well. Unfortunately the two sort of go hand in hand, the wife having no respect and the wife having no attraction for you.

I knew something was wrong, and that there was a piece of the marriage puzzle I was missing.

After much study I realized that I had lost my King of the Castle status. I had lost my control over my marriage. My wife was in control, and contrary to not only popular belief, but her own belief as well…control isn’t what she REALLY wanted. She really wanted a man in control.

If you’re saying my wife doesn’t respect me then it’s almost for sure that you’re not in control of the marriage the way you should be.

Once you do get control the right way, you’ll not only have to stop think my wife doesn’t respect me, but you’ll be saying my wife worships me and as a happy surprise can’t keep her hands off of me!