Coming home from a night out on the town alone is just not all that fun. You went to several different bars, each of them a great place to meet a girl, dance, and then take her back to your place. You met and talked to several good looking women and one was even a stunner. They seemed to be in to you, so why are you coming home alone?
If this keeps up, you will be waking up alone most mornings. You really don’t understand why this happens. I mean, after all you are a nice guy and you should be able to get a nice, or not so nice, girl to come back over to your place. Instead you see all the bad boys treating girls like dirt and then taking them home. It would be nice if you could talk your way into a girl’s bed like they can. What do they know that you don’t?
The list of ways to get a girl in bed with you is long. Here are three secrets you need to know and use. If you can use these three techniques correctly, you will have women eating out of your hand and begging you to take them home. These are the ways the “bad boys” get the girl while you as the nice guy don’t.
Treat her Bad
Now I don’t mean really treat her bad. You have to understand that deep down inside women are emotional creatures. You have to learn to give her lots of emotions. This is where “nice guys” mess up. You can’t just make her feel good. You need to do more than make her laugh. You have to run her through the entire range of emotions. You need to make feel happy, sad, and angry. She needs to feel intrigued and connected to you.
It is good when she laughs, but don’t stop there. Make fun of her. Call her names, nothing too bad though. You want her to get heated up. That is when she starts touching you. When she does, push her away, gently of course. When she starts calling you names, you know it is working. Whatever you do, do not give in. Do not say “I was joking.” Just let it be and don’t feel sorry. You are now one-third of the way in.
Don’t Get Logical
If you have done what you are supposed to do, by now she is very emotional. She is probably going from happy and laughing to upset and hitting you. This is good. Now comes the tricky part. She is going to test you. She is going to try to get logical on you. She is going to try to find out what your game is. You will hear questions like “Are you a player?” or “I bet you say this to all the girls.”
Do not give in a try to give a logical answer. When you try to answer logically, women will be turned off. It sounds ridiculous, but it’s the truth. They get logical, but if you try to answer them seriously, they lose interest.
20 Questions
This is the final stage. Once you pass this one she is yours. She is going to ask you questions. I have never met a woman that did not do this. I think it is built in to their psyche. She is attracted to you but she knows nothing about you. Questions are her way to find out more about you. You have to open up here and try to form a connection. The great news is that you can do the same thing. Ask her questions and look for things you have in common. This will help her form a deeper bond to you. She needs to feel this is real so through in ways that you are vulnerable. Make it up if you have to. A woman wants to know that you are not perfect.
