Years of study have proven to me that the attitudes you project to women have a dramatic effect on their feelings for you.

You know, nice guys finish last has some truth when you apply it to attracting women.

If you can learn to project the right kinds of attitudes your success with women will improve.

Two attitudes that have proven successful are:

1. Indifference

2. Bad Boy

Let’s take a look at each one.

Indifference is an attitude you must cultivate. It’s difficult to act like you don’t care about things that are important to you.

I believe the reason women find indifference attractive is that they are kept wondering. Wondering about your feelings for them. It provides women with a riddle they just can’t seem to solve. Your attitude says you don’t care but your actions say that you do care. Indifference makes you kind of Mysterious.

Bad Boy. Women are attracted to the bad boy attitude. We’ve all heard the story of the women who would stick with the awful bad boy. It just doesn’t make sense. I believe women love bad boys because they like individuals. Guy who are not afraid to speak their mind. Guys who are selfish. Guys who are misunderstood.

It is important to be the person you really are, but if you can learn to incorporate some of these attitudes into your personality it’s possible to create massive attraction in women. Learning to be attractive to women will open up a whole new world for you.

The Dating Game is: Balancing interest and disinterest.

What’s the constant throughout the three phases of Game, attraction, comfort, and seduction? What unifies them as one “Game”? What is Game anyway?

If we guys can understand what Game is, we’ll be able to play it like a master. We’ll be able to attract the women we want and keep them attracted. Here’s what Game is: Game has to do with the interplay between interest and disinterest.

• It’s about giving and taking away.
• Taking a step forward and taking a step back.
• You’re interested but not quite.
• I like you, but you can’t have me… yet
• Push the boundary and back off.
• Show warmth and freeze out
• Yes, no.

When we push her away it creates an empty space between us and her that draws her toward us, like a magnet. The more you say no to a woman, the more she’ll want in. We pursue that which retreats from us, after all.

But if you push her away too much, you’ll push her away all together. That’s why you also need to show you’re interested in her as well.

That’s Game. To draw near and to retreat, over and over again.

• It begins in A-1 (approach) the SECOND we approach. Approaching is interest. Within two sentences lean back, begin to walk away, tease/neg. Disinterest.
• Continues through A-2 (attract her). Telling stories is interest. So, during a story, neg: “Ew, I don’t want her”-playfully of course. Disinterest. This is to make you from all the other suitors who are buying her drinks and complimenting her looks.
• Continues through A-3 (qualification). Asking questions is interest. A QUALIFYING question, like “What have you got going for you besides your looks?” is disinterest.
• Compliments must have spice, too. Ever noticed how we feel more comfortable with compliments when there’s a playful spice mixed in with it? “Oh my God, you’re a ballerina? (props) I can’t even talk to you (push away)!” Interest and disinterest.
• Happens in kino escalation. Touch her hand, but throw it away. Smell her, but tell her “I’m not in that mind space.” Kiss her, and say “that’s enough.”
• Happens in comfort. Building a connection is interest. Sprinkle play-fighting. Disinterest.
• Happens in sex. Smell her neck, interest. Don’t touch her, disinterest. Kiss her, interest. Back off, disinterest. Kiss around her clitoris, interest. Don’t lick her clitoris yet, disinterest. Put your tip in, interest. Don’t go all the way in, even if she begs. Disinterest.
• Happens in relationship maintenance. Appreciate your woman, interest. Play-fight with her, disinterest. It must never stop. Show interest and disinterest even when you’re married with kids. Push away, pull in. Pull in, push away. That’s Game. It keeps the spark alive in a relationship.

Game is the middle way between Mr. Nice Guy and The Player. Game says “I want you,” but it doesn’t put her on a pedestal. Game says “You’re cool,” but it shows you’re fine with or without her.

You’re not excessively Mr. Nice Guy, a kiss-ass. But you’re a gentleman and treat her with kindness. You’re not deficient in being Mr. Nice Guy, a prick. But you can put your foot down and be respectfully assertive when need be. There’s a BALANCE of interest and disinterest. Game is a Golden Mean.

All great art, music, painting, or poetry unify opposites into a whole. Game is no different.

Why play Game at all?

Game lets us interact with a woman as a human being. It allows us to reach her spirit. It bypasses the social masks we put up to the world, covering our true selves. How? Because it makes her laugh. It touches her heart. It creates rapport. It builds sexual tension, inviting her to come to us.

Game lets the road to sex to become a process, not a destination.

Game lets us communicate in a woman’s language of emotion and indirectness rather than ours of factual directness.

Game lets us to speak to the woman inside a woman, whether she’s a college student or a tenured professor.

In the end, probably the biggest reason why it’s so effective is because there’s nothing serious or personal about Game. It’s just play. It’s fun. It’s a game.

When you play the Dating Game right, the ego’s gone. And that’s pure bliss.

It’s only natural for men to want to be liked by women. More often than not, however, men sabotages their own chances by doing just all the wrong things when it comes to getting women to like them. For example, when they act all gentlemanly and needy, they find that the women they desire would inevitably reject them. Sad, but true.

You see, it’s a misconception among most men that in order to get a woman to like you, you will have to please her and make her happy. You will discover why this is often the ‘death kneel’ for most men, and instead learn the secrets that actually work. In fact, you can get any woman to fall in love with you in a short time, as little as three minutes. Believe it.

This is a fact – most men who go around pleasing women are perceived as ‘nice guys’ and get rejected. They also swallow the erroneous advice of ‘being themselves’ wholesale, and consequently find that their ability to attract women plummet. Therefore, first thing you need to do is to change your mindset. You do not have to be nice to women in order to make them like you. Period.

First things first. In order to make a woman like you, challenge her. This is rooted in the fact that all humans are inevitably attracted to things that they cannot get. Scarcity is a deadly effective psychology trigger. Now can you see why being all nice will sabotage your chances? If you’re too easy, you’re not attractive, plain and simple.

Now I am going to expose to you the secrets of getting a woman to fall in love you in short time. This technique, referred to as ‘fractionation’ in hypnosis and psychology fields, involves getting women into emotional rollercoaster in order to make her feel attracted to you in the shortest possible time.

Therefore, in order to make a woman like you, first get out of the mindset that you will need to be all nice and gentlemanly to her, and secondly, get her on a dramatic emotional rollercoaster. She will thank you for it.

What’s a dominant man? He’s someone who is ambitious. Not a thinker, but a DOer. Dominant males are those that are comfortable in their own skin and confident with who they are. In most cases, these are people who score executive level positions; those with deeper-pockets; those with a higher chance with securing success in all facets of life.

Dominant men exude power, and you should know by now, women are easily attracted to those with power. While most men aim for women with looks, women need a guy who is reliable, independent, and strong-minded. Women are looking for leaders, not followers.

In every women is a deeply rooted instinct that prompts them to gravitate towards such dominant males. They simply cannot suppress this inner urge. It’s part of their survival.

If you learn how to project the most subtle gestures, voice, or attitude of a dominant male, women will instantly be attracted to you subconsciously.

Some examples of dominant men are those in the face of media. Jay Z, P.Diddy, Kanye West all fall into the category of dominant men. Nice guys? They’re far from that. Go on YouTube and study their personality and behavior. The way in which they speak or rap in their music all reflects dominance. There’s never shakiness or hints of uneasiness in their voice, neither have they ever lost sight of their life direction.

So, what are some dominant male traits that you should now acquire and affix in your arsenal?

1. Never be submissive. Never be weak. Never seek approval from others on how they should behave in a social situation. Such behaviors are anti alpha male qualities.

2. Never shy away from conversations or meeting with new people.

3. Never pay much mind to what others think of you. Take control of YOUR reality. Be your own authority.

4. When in a group of men and women, dominant males know that it’s “Them” who the girls want to sleep with. This can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, and is an evident alpha male personality amongst all those who’ve mastered the art of attraction.

5. Your life is what you make of it. The future is yours. Now that’s an alpha male attitude.

Guys, being a dominant male, is all about your attitude and projecting the image that you are fun to be with, that you are in control, and not a nice wimpish guy.

Here’s a great example of a non-dominant male. Peep the dialogue.

She says: So, what should we do tonight?

He says: I don’t know. Anything is good. What are you in the mood for?

She says: Not sure myself, you can pick.

He says: I still don’t know, argh.

She says: (frustrated) OK. I’ll plan. How about the movies?

He says: Ah, there’s nothing that catches my attention right now. How about stay in for the night?

A dominant male would have never be uncertain of what to do with women. They always have something planned. Something exciting. They will take a woman by hand the hand and lead her into a state of wonderment.

Hot Tip: The more you believe you are a dominant male, the more likely you’ll become one. Remember the power of belief is that incredible. Let it perpetuate. When women instinctively register your role as a dominant male, she will surrender to your presence, regardless of how high their heads are up in the air.

Soon, you’ll realize that the more dominant you become, the higher your mating advantages will be.

Don’t just be a man, BE the man.

If you thoroughly enjoyed what you read here, it’s only the tip of the ice berg to a whole new world of alpha male seduction. Make sure you check out a goldmine of live articles I’ve also posted.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang

Creator of Sync Dating & Instant Addiction Formula

Dating online is a very effective way of meeting new and interesting people. It can be cool and fun, but it can also be dangerous if you don’t know what you are doing, but the best thing about is that it’s free. If you’re thinking about online keep reading you just might be surprised at what you don’t know. Dating online is proving to be more and more popular nowadays, some people have a fast moving lifestyle or simply don’t have time to look for a partner, it proves to be an easy way to get to know someone.

Women

Men looking for sex won’t wait long, so if you keep them at a distance long enough they will give up. Guys can not do this, they have to fight for even a reply and while I have dated online I find much more success offline and I’m sure many guys will agree this is true in their cases as well. There are nice guys are out there, and they are just as picky as women. So you should be just as picky.

Men

Most of the attractive women on any site receive a large amount of attention(not always good, but deal with it) and can pick and choose from a large group. If you are meeting some duds, that is too bad, but you should be screening them before hand to minimize the chances of that early on and yes, smart guys do this as well with women. I have to say, women are playing all the games that use to be reserved for men. My experience is a bunch of psycho women and head shots cause they are all hiding the “few extra ponds” LIE. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

Adult dating online is the place to meet all types of people from all over the world. It’s becoming more and more popular and to choose the right dating site is important. One of the smart ways of ensuring safety while dating online is to withhold as much personal information as possible. So now that you have a few tips what’s your next move?

There are many answers to the question how to get a girl to love you, simply because there are many different types and kinds of girls/women. In other words what will work for lets say Jane, down at the church, probably would not work for Pat at the night club and visa versa, so a strong confident approach may well work for most types of women but it will not work for all. Some women may just see the confidence as bullish tactics.

For instance did you know that recent studies have shown that 47% of all women like compliments – the rest hate them and 44% of all women want a romantic relationship – while the rest are modern “self-providers.”

You see, some women date around – some women date just one guy.

Some women sleep around – some women save it for marriage.

Some women need romance in a relationship – some women are more practical.

So by far the best way to get a girl to love you is to first work out what type of girl she is, this will allow you to know what she wants and how to behave in the way that is best suited to the girl you are trying to attract, the thing is most guys will just adopt 1 method for all women, but for instance if you adopt the now popular bad boy approach to a girl who is really looking for a guy who is more settled, she will run a mile and probably never tell you why she ran a mile so fast, and if you try the nice guy approach with a girl who is seeking a bad boy, again she will run a mile to hook up with her bad boy and like wise the bad boy or nice guy tactic with a playette will get the bad boy no where and leave the nice guy with empty pockets.

You see if you know what type of girl she is, then you will know how to treat her, when to go for the first kiss, how to talk to her and lots more.

So how do you tell what kind of girl she is, well the truth is, this approach to dating is very new, the research is still ongoing at this time, but there is more information available, the basis behind the this approach is that all girls fall into 1 of 8 groups The Playette, The Social Butterfly, The seductress, The Connoisseur, The Hopeful Romantic, Your Private Dancer, The Modern Woman and the Cinderella, this approach say all women fall into one of these types and says if you can work out which one you can allow your natural self take over and win her love over very easily

Last week we had a variety of family members and friends over who had not previously met. The 20 year-old girls got talking about their favorite guy friends, referring to these boys using such affectionate nicknames as Precious Delight, Pure Sweetness and Totally Dorbs (for adorable). A 28 year-old guy overhearing this conversation declared that he would drop dead if he thought any woman was describing him as a Precious Delight. He insisted that women want the Alpha male, the superhero, the dominant, strong leader of the pack. In his view, these silly girls were describing sissies, weak and effeminate losers. But what he missed was the fact that the girls were giggling and sighing over Betas. Those affectionate, demonstrative, communicative, laid-back, gentle, nice guys.

When I was in college there was this one guy whose nickname was Trog, short for Trogladyte. One Halloween he dressed as a caveman, and it was the most suitable outfit I ever saw him wear. I thought he was gross, but I suppose he had a certain something, if you fantasize about being dragged around by your hair and ravished near the campfire. (Actually, that sounds hot.) But that was the late 70s and Alpha males were out of fashion. The counter-cultural 60s had glorified what I called Sensitive Ponytail Man, i.e., the Beta male. I dreamt of poets and singer songwriters, not jocks. Of course, the pendulum always swings back, and eventually those guys grew up, went to grad school, cut their hair and joined the Establishment. Their sons aspired to Alpha status.

When it comes to hooking up, Alpha, Beta and even Omega males are all trying to get a piece. They’re vying with each other to prove who is the biggest stud. But they should pay closer attention. The girls are getting restless, and something is stirring in the status quo. Beta males, those sweet, sincere boys who speak the female language are emerging as heroes in popular culture. Girls want boyfriends who’ve got a bit of femme in them emotionally. They want boyfriends who are best friends. And women have the power to raise the Beta’s station in life by making him the new romantic ideal.

Jim Halpert, played by the Perfectly Dorbs John Krasinski on The Office, is the best living example of the perfect Beta. Sigh. (He actually grew up in the next town over, and I’ve seen him attending Mass with his parents when he’s been home for a visit. So precious.) Jim Halpert isn’t breathtakingly handsome, but his hotness comes from the pure unadulterated love he feels (and demonstrates) for Pam. You just know he loves hours on end of pillow talk (which, of course, follows hours on end of putting Pam’s sexual satisfaction first).

Seth Rogan doesn’t do it for me personally, but he has proven he is capable of convincingly playing the leading man. Before seeing Knocked Up, you can’t imagine how Katherine Heigl’s character would ever go for him. And when you leave the theater, you’re not buying it. But during the movie you suspend disbelief. He doesn’t have his act together, but he has a good heart. The raw material is there. Ultimately, he is made a better man by his love for a woman. Now, that’s a boy that women can put their arms around.

My own personal crush at the moment is Free Credit Report guy. He is so good-natured, so self-effacing, so funny. OK, maybe I don’t want my daughter to marry him, with his lousy credit rating and all. But I bet he would make a really good boyfriend. And in the middle of all this hooking up and awkwardness and crappy treatment from the Alphas, doesn’t a visit to Beta territory sound refreshing? Perfectly Wonderful.

It’s probably every man’s dream to be able to leave a woman speechless with their charm and wit, but hardly anyone these days ever practice to be charming and witty. Men these days are seemingly “hardwired” to play the gentleman, following all the rules and being polite at all times. As a result, women these days are thoroughly bored, having to deal with men who happen to be carbon copies of the one before.

But there are some men who manage to leave the women they meet speechless. If you want to know how they do it, it’s simply because they don’t follow the rules. They know the rules don’t interest her in the least, so they make their own rules and give her an experience she’s never had before. In other words, he’s not a nice guy – he’s a bad boy.

You know what they say about nice guys – they finish last. That’s especially the case in the dating game – if you follow all the “rules,” you won’t leave her speechless. You’ll leave her bored. It’s going to take a totally new approach to captivate today’s woman.

Of course, that doesn’t mean that you have to become a bad boy in the very sense. But being too nice can make you come off to her as too wussy. Women would like a strong male as their mate, and it’s going to be hard to give off that if you try to be prim and proper all the time. Being gentlemanly is a good thing, but it can only get you so far in the dating game.

Being a “bad boy” entails knowing when to follow the rules and when to bend them. For instance, instead of complimenting her on how she looks, tease her about it. Instead of engaging in small talk, flirt a little. Instead of keeping your distance, lean in, then withdraw. Create some romantic tension by taking risks. Remember, women love men who are confident enough to create their own rules when it comes to dating.

You can also take it to the next level by playing mind games with her. Women don’t like it when you engage her in small talk all the time – everyone has done that to her before. Don’t be afraid to do things a little differently, and she’ll love the breath of fresh air to bring into her social life. Only then will she start looking at you as more than just “one of the guys.”

So you want to know how to attract women, huh? Well, if you’ve come to this article, I’m sure you’ve tried a few things including the tried and true “growing a pair and just doing it” (aka the stress and failure inducing seduction method). And I think that you’ll be glad when I tell you that here, I’m not going to offer you such advice. Rather, here I’m going to suggest you use a form of magick in order to learn how to attract women: the law of attraction.

Now, I don’t think about the law of attraction exactly like most people that teach it. The way I see the law is through a blend of NLP and chaos magick. And I’m going to prove to you that everything you do is a magical ritual.

But before you think I’m a far out woo-woo writer, hear me out. Have you ever noticed that when you go to do something, you follow a set of steps and that that set of steps is supposed to consciously or unconsciously give you a result? For instance, consider going out to the club. Many people consider going to the club, invite some friends, spend time getting ready (hair, face, clothes, cologne… all have their own rituals), discuss their goals for the evening with their friends (in most guys cases, talking up their game to an absurd level of confidence even they don’t believe), then go and try to make it all happen. And if they fail at their goal, then they feel lousy, but why? Because their magick spell didn’t work. They did the steps, but didn’t get the result–and that’s lousy.

But here’s a more specific example within this. If someone goes out, but lacks the confidence to actually talk to a woman, then they’re also bound to fail–though, they’ll likely beat themselves up about it later because again their spell failed. However, this one gives us a deeper opportunity to look into a spell in a specific way.

So, we’ll discuss a guy, we’ll call John. John is lonely and has been single for almost a year. He doesn’t really think that girls will like him much and he knows he doesn’t have much to offer (has a broke down car, little money, and lives with three roommates). But his friend drags him to the club anyway, and then razzes him about not talking to women. So, John looks around for a woman to talk to… but as he looks around, he begins to see women that wouldn’t like him. Women that’d reject him because he’s too broke. Women that are really looking for a more handsome guy. Women that’d never go for a guy like him…

But what’s so special about this? John did a spell on himself: he made himself unattractive and rejected himself before any of those women got a chance to. Was he right that they would have all rejected him? Maybe, but probably not. Chances are at least one of them would have talked to him for awhile. The sad truth is that most women get objectified and hit on by guys that disgust them more often than they’d like and would actually just like to chat with a few nice guys once in a while (and very often would like to do that regularly).

It’s unfortunate, but so many people push away people that are attracted to them. And so rather than seeing rejection everywhere in the world, the person is just rejecting everyone in the world. But if you flip your mind state toward positive results and trying to find someone great (and remember that you’re a great person the right women would love to be with).

So, why would you want to use the law of attraction in your love life? Well, it gives you a great imaginary playground where you can imagine the kind of women you want in your life and affords a great opportunity to push aside the negative self-talk, beliefs, emotions, and actions you take that sabotage you. (Plus, it’ll help you to develop faith in yourself).

Online dating is very popular and can be effective in finding you love and friendship. There are social networks offering more than just dating as they open up opportunities to even find jobs. When preparing your online profile, you will find it necessary to upload a photo. The profile picture is very important as it helps other singles know how you look; hence they can decide whether they find you attractive enough for their liking.

This photo can determine how successful your profile is in attracting the right singles. Ladies particularly need to be careful when uploading their pictures. This is because many guys tend to judge personalities based on the uploaded pictures. They make assumptions of who you really are using the photo that you upload. It makes it sensible to use attractive and friendly pictures to achieve the right reactions from singles. In as much as you might feel a sexy photo will get you the attention you are looking for, it might not work very well if you are looking for a serious relationship.

Tip 1 – Avoid using selfies. They have become popular and even though they can serve your profile when taken nicely, those taken in suggestive places such as bathrooms should not be used at all. Nice guys looking for serious ladies hunt for decency and the bathroom selfies might not pass you as decent.

Tip 2– Cover up that cleavage when taking the profile photo. Tops with low necklines exposing cleavages should be avoided at all costs when taking the picture for your online profile. They can be quite indecent to most men and can end up ruining your personality assumptions.

Tip 3 – Wear a wide smile when taking the photo. It will make you look more attractive compared to having a pout that’s snobbish. A smile can go to show how warm and confident you are thus attracting attention from male singles who find you lovable.

Tip 4 – Don’t make the mistake of using a photo with friends in it. The best online dating profile photo is one in which you are alone. Using a photo in the company of a friend who is good looking can end up robbing you a chance to find the right person. Apart from divided attention, you might end up confusing singles because it can be hard to pick you out in the photo.

Tip 5 – Use only current photographs for your profile. Even though you might find yourself more attractive in your old photos, you want to make singles to love you for who you are now. Old photos can also relay the wrong message about how you look, especially if they are no longer good in quality. The secret is to take a current photo in the most professional way possible without distorting anything. Use a photo that shows exactly how you look to avoid disappointing your partner when you finally meet. Let the singles love you for who you really are.