Nearly all TGirls are married and therefore are not gay. Living with this “secret” is difficult at best, but opening up to and including Significant other (S.O.) is perhaps much more trying. We all want our S.O. to understand our feminine side and also to accept this a part of us, but communicating this to the S.O. can be a positive or negative experience. The discussion has both strengthened and destroyed marriages.

If you are not in the above category then read on. TGirls should be happy with their men. Treat your TGirl just like a lady to win her over and keep her happy. Here is a regular guy’s help guide to having a happy TGirl. For “bottom-line” guys, the thing is: Treat TGirls like genetic women.

Let us summarize what you already know. Women enjoy being treated in special ways. They would like to be loved. They’re sentimental. There is a “shopping gene” and every now and then they will drag you on Walmart and expect you to handle the anxiety while they shop. They are warm, loving creatures.

Let’s summarize more things we already know. Women tend to be more emotional than you are. They can be complete bitches and extremely difficult to be around. Sometimes you want you can slap ’em around to create them to their senses.

But you don’t want to do this. And women don’t want to be complete bitches anymore than you want to be around complete bitches. But if you don’t get a grip on a few of the basics of male-female relationships, you are likely to have a complete TGirl bitch on your hands at some point.

TGirls are women, whether they are pre-op or post-op.

There are a lot of methods to put this, and in fact ways to become more specifically accurate, but this seems important for a lot of you to bear in mind; we are simply women. Just like your ex-girlfriend, your sister, your mother as well as that bitch you train with that never shuts up.

What i mean is, in the end come in all shapes, sizes and types, we’re just women…and treating us different than you would any other women, showing us any less respect than you’d any other woman, expecting us to react different than any other woman (especially to inappropriate comments, questions or behavior) is apt to garner nothing but our ire and disdain.

Those of us that are legitimate trans girls are specifically responsive to all of this as a lot of men don’t know this and approach us so inappropriately. Actually, in the event that a supposed TGirl is talking highly sexual in the early going, then there’s a good chance that you’re just speaking with a man…be he a cross dresser or otherwise.