Contrary to popular belief, in order to effortlessly pick up beautiful women virtually on demand, it’s not all about pretending to be someone you are not. Quite the opposite in fact. I’m an average guy and don’t have any special skills or a body to die for and yet I have successfully mastered the art of picking up women.
Unfortunately, most of the information out there these days is the complete opposite of what really works. It’s like some super successful guy is out there trying to spread misinformation so that he can keep all the beautiful women to himself!
Today, I will share with you a few of my best tips to picking up beautiful women.
Tip #1 – Be Yourself And Don’t Pretend To Be Something You Are Not
I can’t stress this enough. People who “pretend” to be something they are not only end up getting caught out in the end. Plus it feels awkward.
If you feel that a woman will not accept you for who you really are, then think about this. Wouldn’t you rather find women who like you for you?
Tip #2 – Don’t Conform To The Norm
Don’t be tempted to do what everyone else does just so you can “get the girl.” Bottom line, there’s a 99% chance it WON’T work! Instead do something different. As an example, instead of offering to buy a woman a drink, why not consider asking her to buy YOU one? Whilst this takes confidence and a little bit of courage, it works more than you might think. Why? Because beautiful women have countless guys come up to them offering to buy them a drink. And how many of those guys do you think are lucky enough to “get the girl?”
You guessed it? Hardly any!
When you break away from the norm by asking her to buy you a drink, you’re actually showing her that you’re confident and different from the rest. She’ll most likely be curious to find out more about you.
Tip #3 – Never Do What You Don’t Want To Do
Now this one is bound to sound completely “off the wall” to you but that’s because it’s a mindset thing.
Plain and simple – if you don’t want to do something, don’t do it. Beautiful women are used to getting what they want, when they want it. Most guys just do as they say and that’s the very reason most guys fail. Women get bored of that very easily and want someone who challenges them. By not being a “yes man” all the time and standing your ground occasionally, you are making yourself more appealing to women.
There are plenty more ways you can pick up beautiful women even if you’re a less than average looking bloke. I know it’s a bit of a cliche but it’s definitely NOT about what’s on the outside that really makes a guy successful with the ladies. Follow the three simple tips above and I’m sure you will see a noticeable improvement in your success next time you’re looking to pick up beautiful women.
