The alpha male is the man who possesses or has incorporates all the qualities of masculinity that females find attractive. Flirting is the art or ritual which is actually a subtle way to show a girl or lady that you are interested in her. It is not an easy thing to be attractive to most women because it involves real inner virtues to achieve. But I believe that whatever is worth doing at all is worth being done well. That is why I have decided to write on ‘4 hot flirting tips for the alpha male’
With all this said, I will like to add that a man that has and understands and these tips and uses them already have what it takes to almost ‘automatically’ attract women or ladies of his choice.
So here are the 4 points:
1. CONFIDENCE.
The alpha male is a confident breed of the male specie. Confidence is a quality most ladies, if not all, find irresistible.
2. HAVE AN ‘I DON’T CARE’ ATTITUDE.
Don not let your desperation be evident in the presence of the lady you are flirting with. If you do, you will end up being like ‘one’ of the guys that have been coming around her. Ladies want men who are confident and not a desperate man. In other words, desperation is repulsive to ladies. Act as though you are not ‘wrapped’ around her fingers and she will want you more because it is natural to desire more of something that is scarce. This is the ‘I don’t care’ attitude and it is a winner anytime with beautiful ladies. Another way this can be explained is that you should project an ‘aloof’ attitude around women and, as I have already mentioned, you will standout from other guys.
3. ‘PROACTIVITY’ AND PERSISTENCE.
As a guy you are, most times, expected to make the first move. At least, that is what most ladies believe. Hence, do not wait two or three days after the first meeting with a lady before you call her up. Call her the next day and fix a date. Ladies are always busy like most men and they tend to ditch some things from the list of things demanding for their attention. So, if you do not put that call through soonest you will be the ‘thing’ ditched. So, to avoid this call her as soon as possible after the first meeting and fix a date.
4. BE IN CONTROL.
This means to exhibit a dominant personality. This does not mean to be domineering though. These traits convey a sense of self-confidence and shows that you can not be easily dominated-two qualities all ladies like. It will show that you are not a weak guy who needs approval. It demonstrates confidence in ones self and the absence of fear to show it. One important point to take note of here is to watch out for her body language and use it to take control of situation despite what she says. Why? Because her verbal language might contradict her body language. She might be laughing and enjoying herself as you are teasing her only for her to tell to stop it. Do you get it now?
