Have you ever wondered if the guy you are dating is really “the one?” Have you ever wondered if you should spend the rest of your life with him or move on looking for someone who might be a better fit? All of these are legitimate and valid concerns. A woman should definitely think carefully before committing herself.

Each woman has her own ideal for what Mr. Right should be like and it varies from person to person. However, there are three signs that will disqualify any guy as “the one.”

* None of his friends are engaged or married.

Like minds attract like minds. If he chooses to hang out with his friends, he must identify with or approve of their ways of living. He may just enjoy the freedom of being a bachelor. A man can definitely wait for a while before he settles down, but the question is, can you?

* His meeting with your parents can best be described as a “disaster,” and he shows no interest in improving the situation.

If he doesn’t get along with your family, it is a sign that conflicts will arise in the future. You cannot choose your family, but you can definitely choose the man you spend the rest of your life with. If he doesn’t even want to work on having a better relationship with your family, it is a deal breaker.

* He wants to find a “Sugar Mama” and mentioned to you how nice it would be to just relax on a beach everyday and never worry about money.

Sister, run the other way, fast!