How can you tell if your girlfriend, wife or lover is turned on during sex? What body language signs do women give off that they are enjoying themselves….or simply truly IN to the experience? In this article we are going to take a quick and simple look at some of the obvious (but overlooked) things that many women do during sex…and the reasons why you should pay attention if HER pleasure is important to you! Curious to know more? Great….continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Gyrating & Thrusting:

The truth? This SHOULD be one of the most obvious signs she’s batty about you in bed….yet many men still don’t understand how to interpret this for what it is. Listen – many of the BEST signs of super sex for a woman are completely involuntary…which means that she can’t control how subtle (or sexy) they really are.

Heaving Breasts & Rapid Respiration:

This is one of the KEY things to look for that surely signals she’s super into whatever you’ve got going on! An increase in respiration (or heartbeat and breathing) is one of the easiest ways to tell she’s having fun, turned on and being MOVED physiologically by your magical moves..:-) The fact is, you can even see this level of excitement BEFORE sex begins…..as a woman who is interested in your sexually will start to breathe a little faster, and with more shallow intakes as anticipation builds. (and begins)

Glassy or “StarStruck” Eyes:

Honestly? A woman’s eyes will often get glassy….or even “teary” as she gets excited both BEFORE, and during sex. This is a somewhat primitive sign of interest, intimacy and erotic imagination….and clearly says she wants MORE of whatever it is you’ve got to offer..:-) (no joke!)

Even the more experienced among us (male and female) can benefit from sex tips in one area or another. Sometimes they can be useful for improving penis health, at other times they may boost one’s performance in bed, and some others may help improve the appearance of one’s sexual equipment. One area where sex tips can come in especially handy is sex during pregnancy. While most pieces look at this subject (understandably so) from the woman’s point of view, it’s clear that male partners are also going to be affected during these important 40 weeks. With that in mind, the following are a few basic sex tips for men during pregnancy.

Go with the flow

For first-time parents, this is a brand-new experience; even for those who have been through birth before, every pregnancy is different in some ways or others. Men need to be prepared to go with the flow, to bend a little when necessary to make the pregnancy easier for the expectant partner. (This extends to areas beyond just sex, mind you.) New positions may need to be experimented with, new angles tried, new schedules adhered to (or schedules thrown out the window altogether). Moves a man has used with great success on his partner may not have the same effect, and vice versa. It’s important not to get locked into a “This isn’t how it used to be” mindset and instead adopt a “This is all new and exciting” one.

Be prepared to be unsettled

Some couples report that they have much more sex during pregnancy than when the woman is not pregnant. Others report much less, and still others report no change in quantity. Any of these scenarios is likely to be true – and equally possible is that there will be period of much greater sexual activity and periods of lessened activity. When a “drought” period occurs, a guy should be ready to abstain or to make more use of masturbation than usual.

Study up on positions

With so many changes in a woman’s body, she is going to require something beyond missionary for coupling during pregnancy. It benefits a man to bone up on sex positions in advance, so that when his partner says, “That just doesn’t feel right,” he can be prepared to move into something that works better. It’s best to work together in this area – to ask, “What feels different?” or “What would be more comfortable?” and figure out the best position from there.

One popular pregnancy position involves a woman sitting on the edge of the bed, lying back, and raising her legs into the “stirrups” position used during a gynecological exam. The male stands or kneels on the floor by the bed and enters from there, without placing his weight on the woman’s torso. Cowgirls positions (with the man lying prone and the woman climbing on top of him) also tend to be better during pregnancy. And spooning positions, in which the man and woman lie together, her back to his front, like a pair of spoons, can be effective.

Go oral

Sex doesn’t have to require penetration, of course, so men should always be ready to use their oral skills during pregnancy. Many women feel especially stimulated during pregnancy (possibly due to increased blood flow to their vaginal area), and this can heighten the pleasure of oral sex – as well as other forms of sex.

Of course, any sex tips for men, whether focusing on pregnancy or not, need to mention the use of a top-notch penis health creme (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). The best crèmes will provide the organ with direct topical access to the most important vitamins – A, B5, C, D, and E. In addition, try to select a crème that contains a potent antioxidant, such as alpha lipoic acid. This will help to strengthen penis skin and tissues by helping prevent oxidative stress and its resulting damage.

I sometimes hear from women who want to know what their husband or partner should be doing to help to get the gender that they want when they are trying to conceive. One of the variables that I sometimes get asked about is warm or hot showers.

I heard from someone who said: “I’ve heard that if a man takes a very hot shower before having sex that this will help to get a girl baby. Is this correct? Or the hot shower advice for trying to conceive a boy baby?”

The thinking behind this advice is that the heat of the shower will lower the man’s sperm count. And as this process happens, more Y or boy producing sperm would be killed off because those sperm chromosomes are weaker. So, along this same line of thinking, the theory is that the sperm left after the hot shower are more likely to be girl producing. Thus, if the theory is correct, it would make a girl baby (not a boy) more likely.

I see the logic of this kind of thinking but I believe that it’s not entirely sound. I will tell you why in the following article.

A Man’s Sperm Can Be Affected By Temperature Changes, But It Has to Be Extreme: It’s true that sperm is very sensitive to temperature. It’s said that this is why a man’s testes are located outside of his body. However, it takes more than a hot shower to raise his body temperature, which is what is necessary to have a meaningful impact on sperm.

Now, if you were talking about a very hot sauna or about sitting in a hot tub for an extended period, these things actually might lower sperm count. But when you are trying to become pregnant, I would think that you would want a higher sperm count to increase your chances of conceiving. But more important than that, what a man does today affects his future sperm, not his present sperm, which leads me to my next point.

Sperm Takes 2 – 3 Months To Be Produced. Today’s Habits Only Affect Future Production: Only for the sake of argument, let’s say that the hot shower would affect the man’s sperm. The thing that you have to remember is that it take months for sperm to be produced. So if a man were to take a shower today, this would have an effect on the sperm that he’s producing months from now, but not in his immediate future. So having a shower before sex is not going to have any affect whatsoever on the sperm that is going to be released on that same day in an attempt to conceive.

That’s why this theory isn’t sound in my opinion. Not only is a hot shower not enough to lower sperm count, but even if it did, it would affect what happens months in the future. So to answer the question posed, there are old superstitions which suggest that a man’s hot shower before conceptions favors a girl baby, but there’s little science to back it up.

And, if this couple wanted a girl, the better idea would be to have sex before ovulation when the woman had an acidic PH and avoided also orgasm. These things have an immediate and meaningful effect. Plus, with this method you are able to keep the sperm count high to give the highest chance of success. Remember that each sperm chromosome increases your opportunity for pregnancy so you should want to have a high count, not a low one.

Women have a tremendously sensitive spot deep inside their vagina. It is located on the anterior or top surface about 8 inches inside them. Once men learn how to stimulate that deep vaginal or epicenter spot the woman will explode like never before.

This seldom-used pleasure spot can make her whole body rock and convulse if it is stroked correctly. There are four sex tips that will generally produce excellent results.

The first step, as in all steps in making love to a woman, is to make her feel comfortable, relaxed, and loved. Someone said: “men give love for sex and women give sex for love.” This is probably one of the truest things ever said in the lovemaking relationships.

It doesn’t have to be that way, however. Men and women can be partners in sharing their love, affection, and excitement with each other.

Whatever makes your woman feel safe, relaxed, and adored is what you need to do. Whatever it takes. If you’re not getting that desired effect then you’re not doing enough.

Women need constant attention and affection. Some ideas for giving her the right kind of attention include notes, phone calls, attentive texts, and small gifts. The key is to do something nice for her every day.

The second step is to first give her some great kissing and touching. You should know what really turns her on. Don’t just start with the main course…get her ready.

She might like her breasts stimulated, touched, and kissed. Many women like to be manually stimulated, especially on their clitoris and g-spot.

Don’t use the same approach every day. Surprise her! Make her feel wanted and desired.

The third step is to give her a clitoris orgasm. You can do that with your tongue, fingers, or your penis. Make sure that you go slowly, and treat it tenderly. It is very sensitive and a little touch goes a long way. Use intermittent strokes.

Don’t just concentrate on the tip of her clitoris. Gently tease and stroke her entire clitoris and even pay attention to the sides of her clit. She will soon start moaning with pleasure and may start to shake a little. Now you can increase your pressure and speed of strokes.

Take the appropriate time and attention with every step. Remember it is the journey to be enjoyed and not just the destination. She will know if you are rushing ahead just to have intercourse.

Once she has a nice orgasm you are ready for the fourth step.

You should get on a chair and have her straddle you. You should be face to face. Slowly push yourself in and have her lean back. You need to hit the upper surface and that of her vagina and in as far back as possible. This is why it can reached better when she leans back.

Start with slow strikes and concentrate on hitting the upper surface of her vagina. She can control it by the angle that she leans back and by positioning her hips forward or backwards. Literally, she can achieve her own pleasure.

Once she begins to move faster and faster, and become more and more excited, you should increase the speed and strength of your thrusts, as well. You’ll probably need some practice to maintain the proper angle and depth while thrusting fast and deep.

The epicenter climax is very strong and should rock her whole body. The man can hit this spot, eight inches inside her, by hitting her spot with his penis, vibrations traveling up her organ, or his hot emissions.

There are many combinations using the epicenter. The more that the man successfully can implement the more fun they will both have.

It’s not at all uncommon for me to hear from couples who are separated and still having sex. Many of them confess this fact as if it is an awful thing that is unique to them. I can promise you that it isn’t. And if you think about it, this makes sense. Your spouse is someone who hopefully you have become used to sleeping with and have enjoyed the process. It’s normal that when this is taken away from you, then you are going to miss it. And it’s also normal to want to connect physically when you are afraid, lonely, and unsure about the future of your marriage.

And it doesn’t have to be harmful, as long as both people are clear and agree on what the sex means and no one feels taken advantage of. That, of course, is the great irony of it. While having separation sex is relatively common, having sex without confusion and worry is not. People often leave the encounter more confused than ever. And many (especially wives) feel taken advantage of.

I might hear from one who says: “my husband and I have been separated for about six weeks. For the first couple of those weeks, my husband was truly awful to me. He wouldn’t talk to me or take my calls. He told some of our mutual friends that I was selfish and that the separation was all my fault. This isn’t true, but I guess he felt the need to turn our friends against me. Anyway, a couple of weeks ago, my husband and I met at a restaurant to celebrate the birthday of a friend. Many people were there. We had a few drinks and a few laughs. Then the next thing I know, we are back at our house having sex. I assumed that this would be a one time thing and my husband would be back to being cold again. But he called the next day and asked me to dinner. We’ve been seeing each other much more frequently and yes, having sex. A couple of our mutual friends are saying that my husband is just using me. They say that he is essentially having “booty calls” and then retreating. I understand their concern, but I do not think that this is completely fair. It’s not as if we have sex and then he avoids me or doesn’t call. He does. In fact, for the last two days, we have just talked and laughed on the phone. There was no sex involved. Just us talking. Still, I’m worried that they are right. Is it possible that he is just using me and will be cold again once he gets his sex fix?”

Well, anything is possible, I suppose. But it seems to me that for now, he is contributing more than just sex. The two of you are talking and it seems that progress is being made.

What Might Be Your True Worry And A Possible Solution: I think that perhaps your real worry is whether the progress would be made if the sex weren’t present. There’s a way to test that, if it’s worrying you that much. You could discuss this with your husband. You could even tell him that you’re worried that your relationship is just about sex and see how he reacts. If he stops calling and reaching out once the sex stops, then that’s potentially problematic.

But, you have to look at the totality of the situation. We are not talking about a one night stand here. We are talking about your husband. This isn’t someone you just met and jumped into bed with. You have a history with this man. So it’s a big stretch to think that he will sleep with you and just disappear – never to call you again. If the marriage ends, it likely won’t be the sex that ends it – although the sex can confuse things. And that confusion can lead to misunderstandings, which can stall or threaten your progress.

My suggestion would be that if anything concerns you or makes you uncomfortable, you have the choice of either being honest with your spouse or you can test it out. So, you could tell your husband what your friend said and ask for some reassurance. Or, you could tell him that for now, you want to put a lid on the sex until it’s clear where your relationship is headed. Either tactic might give you more information.

This is only one person’s opinion. But to me, if a man just wants sex and he doesn’t really have a romantic interest in his separated wife, there are other women that he could seek it from. It’s more likely that he’s lonely for you and was missing you. Does this mean that you will save your marriage and reconcile immediately? Not necessarily, but it certainly means he’s still attracted to you. And that can be a good sign.

Some Questions To Ask Yourself: I think it really depends on how the whole process makes you feel. Do you feel used? Or are you consciously deciding that this is what you want regardless of how it turns out?

The answers to these questions are important because if you’re feeling used but going ahead anyway, then you are not coming from a place of strength. But if you know that although you can’t see the future, you’re choosing to physically be with your husband because it’s what you want, then you are coming from a place of strength. It never hurts to ask questions or ask for clarification if you aren’t sure. Just do it gently and in a light-hearted way. The sex can be awkward enough without asking him to analyze it. Or, you can retreat from the sex and see what happens. That might give you more information also.

You may think that the title of this article sounds too good to be true – but it’s 100% serious. You are about to discover exactly how to make your woman beg you for anal sex.

If you want to do your woman ‘up the back door’ but she isn’t currently too happy about the idea, here is how to make her want anal sex.

Most guys approach the issue of anal sex with their woman totally the wrong way. Here are a few examples of common methods that men use to try to get their woman to have anal sex with them.

If you are currently using any of the following ideas, stop it straight away:

Mistake #1: They try to persuade their woman to have anal sex with them by using logical arguments. For a woman sex is virtually 100% emotional. Therefore, logical arguments are a total waste of time.

Mistake #2: Some men just try to ‘slip it in the back door’ when they are making love to them and hope their woman just lets them carry on with it. This is a terrible idea and one that you must avoid because it will probably hurt your woman and this could turn her off the idea of anal sex for a very long time.

Worse still, it may break the sexual trust that you have with your woman. And when you lose that all important trust, you can say goodbye to your woman doing the really dirty, naughty stuff (like ‘back door action’) with you.

So now that you know how not to try to get your woman to have anal sex with you, I can share the secret of how to make your woman beg you for anal sex.

Pay attention, this is going to be fun…

For starters, stop viewing anal sex as something that you need to ‘win’ from your woman and something that at best she’ll tolerate in order to allow you to have a good time. There isn’t a real man on the planet who thinks like that.

Instead, adopt the belief that you are going to cause your woman to link massive amounts of pleasure to anal sex.

That is the most important step, so I’ll repeat it – you are going to cause your woman to link massive amounts of pleasure to anal sex.

And they way you do this is in very small steps.

You cannot expect her to go from having never had anything up her butt, to taking your whole ‘tool’ all in one night.

It ain’t gonna happen.

No, no, no – your game plan for back door action has to be much cleverer than that. But don’t worry; I have already got the game plan for you, so all you have to do it put it into action…

The 5 Step Plan To Make Your Woman Beg You For Anal Sex

– Step 1: Use your tongue to give your woman oral pleasure, wait until she is just about to come and then gently rub her asshole with your finger. Keep rubbing it as she comes and you have started the process of getting her to link pleasure to her ass.

– Step 2: Do the same as step one, but this time insert the tip of your finger into her butt as she is about to come and carry on doing it during her orgasm.

– Step 3: Repeat the process again, this time inserting much more of your finger (all of it if possible), into her ‘back door’ as she gets on the verge of orgasm and during her orgasm

– Step 4: Get a butt plug (start with a small one) and get her used to taking this up her ass. Be sure to insert the butt plug as she is about to come and during her orgasm. This way she links massive pleasure to her ass being touched by you

– Step 5: Get your woman extremely turned on and wet. Give her a clitoral orgasm (with anal fingering) and then give her a deep spot orgasm. Next, bring out the lube and attempt to put your tool in her back door (use the doggy style position).

Chances are that she’ll help you get inside her and totally enjoy the process. If she struggles to take you, repeat steps 3 and 4 and then retry step 5. Sooner or later she will beg you to take her in her butt.

I’m the first to admit that this process is not set in stone.

You have to be flexible in your approach. But this IS the way to do it if you want your woman to absolutely LOVE it when you take her in the butt.

After-all, do you really want her to just oblige you because you begged for it, OR do you want to expertly and patiently make her crave back door action?

If you want to make her crave it, use this 5 step process and be ready to repeat certain steps if need be. At the end of the day, it’s all good fun!

Let me know how you get on.

Many women underestimate the orgasm that oral sex can produce, and they don’t enjoy giving fellatio at all. Many times this relates to their level of love for their partner and is not really related to oral sex at all. If that is the case with you, then you may need to examine your relationship, because kissing and oral sex is a very important part of human sexuality. One of the first concepts that women hear from an early age is that you should take great care not to touch the male erection with your teeth. Women get so caught up in this that they don’t enjoy what they are doing at all.

The male penis is nowhere near as sensitive as the female clitoris, and hitting it with teeth is fine. The best oral sex for a man is at a slow to moderate pace anyway, so there is nothing to worry about. The fast fellatio, being the best fellatio is a myth. The glans, or head of the penis, actually responds to slow, firm pressure the best, not fast pressure. Most men don’t even know this, because they do not take the time to even explore this. Their brains are not naturally wired for slow sexual release.

So, remember, slow and steady is your goal here. Popular culture has falsely represented the fast oral sex as being superior. It is not. The other tip that is golden is not to get hung up on providing your man with stimulation of your swallowing. This is more mental than physical for a man, and it comes with great physical risks to a woman. The back of the throat is very fragile and can be severely injured quite easily. Do not take any risks in this regard.

We want to believe that by having sex, we’re “making love” and so many people talk about “making love” to describe their sexual encounters or acts.

Love is the element that makes the world go round and it literally does just that; not sex. Love-energy is the component that causes everything live to exist and without it we cannot and won’t exist. Since we now know, from research and previous articles that “sex is not love,” sex in reality kills the love that is supposed to be all over – the love that we should experience toward special people in our lives, toward living entities in our lives and toward our “neighbors.”

Sex especially kills the potential growth of love in a man, because a man can only grow love and get in touch with his feelings when sex is kept away from him – kept out of the relationship for the correct period of time while the couple get to know each other, are busy interacting to become compatible with one another, to understand each other, to grow love to full capacity and to become tolerant of one another. All these things take time and when we go against nature and the creation things just don’t work anymore. We were not created to have sex first, then fall in love and lastly get married. It just doesn’t work that way around as that is the wrong way around.

If we want to have a platonic relationship-bond with another in a supposedly special relationship such as a life-partnership or marriage, we can have sex with any person we so choose, just the way men thought it could be done for centuries, even millenniums. On the other hand of we want the bond between life-partners to be meaningful and deep, the only way to achieve that, would be to grow love and not sexual experience, pleasure or infatuation. In other words, the focus should be on love and not on sex!

When we, males and females, have sex, the focus is on what the sex provide us with and not on how we actually feel. A female could believe she has met her true love, when in reality she only made an emotional connection due to the sex, trapping her in something she shouldn’t even be a part of. A male on the other hand, never gets to that level of love, being unable to connect with his true feelings when sex is a part of the relationship, as there isn’t a necessity to reach that level of love, since what he was supposed to get as a reward for getting in contact with his true feelings and experiencing true deep love, he got in the beginning.

There are always the exceptions; where people fall in love deeply in a very short while and whose love last a lifetime, but these are usually superiorly secure and whole people, able to develop their love at super speed. The rest of us fairly normal people need time to properly and entirely fall in love, not to mention, to get to know a potential life-partner completely-inside and out.

There are people who get married by way of an arranged marriage and there are people who choose to marry before knowing the other party well or even before having any feelings for the other. This could only work if both parties are wholly secure and know within, they are able to love any person who treats them with dignity and respect, who behaves well and who contributes rather contaminate. This way the souls are joined together first through the vows; and the unifications in the spirit-world is strong enough to withstand any challenge and obstacle. The moral of the story here again is love. Only when two people are secure, which means “already filled with love” to contribute the love to the relationship, could an arranged-marriage succeed and in most cases it does. The reason for this is that the parents are so involved in their child’s life, which provides the security and love that the child could get married to any individual, the parents have chosen and make a success of it. Parents choose out of logic and not as a result of misconstrued emotional actions and feelings, something that happens to people all over the globe when sex is involved.

People have such a yearning to be secured somewhere and since most people confuse sex with love, they have sex with the wrong people and then force marriage or a life-partnership when it wasn’t supposed to happen.

When sex is brought into a relationship, it stops the development of love, as sex is the reward to an established and secure relationship and not the start of creating a relationship. Sex can never be used as foundation for a secure relationship, yet many try to and even after realizing the mistake, they still try to force it to be this way. Sex is the declaration and visible act, proving to belong to another, another soul, not in legal terms or in theory, but by action. The problem here is that many millions of people don’t support love and the development of love, but rather sex that would ultimately result in the destruction of experiencing true love.

We are in a trap of socially acceptable sex, approved drugs, artificial consumables (food and beverages), synthetic clothing, misconstrued beliefs and religions, and false relationships, but sex is the act that removes the most important experience of it all-the experience of love. Once love ceases to exist, there will be no need for physical existence and life anymore.

Beware: Sex truly kills love!

Have you ever had free sex? By free sex I mean one night stand sex, friends with benefits sex, we both know this isn’t going anywhere sex. How about now? You’ve probably never thought about it however, free sex maybe the most expensive sex you will ever have. It may cost you ever seeing your grandchildren, ever seeing your children; spending the last of your days alone…

Have you ever met the perfect person? The dream person or are you still waiting to meet the perfect person? I submit we have all met the perfect person. the challenge is when the perfect person becomes the imperfect person. When they do something we don’t like, when they hurt us, when they don’t call us back, when they let us down.

Everyone is perfect for the first 90 days it’s called the perfect phase. Some people live continually in the perfect phase. They’re called 90 day wonders. They meet someone, on the first day they have sex and every day thereafter. They spend all their time together. Until somewhere around the 90th day the perfect person becomes the imperfect person and they WONDER what happened.

Then they call their forgotten best friend you; everyday, heartbroken, can’t believe it didn’t work out, convinced they can’t get over it until suddenly you don’t hear from them. Do you know what happened? They met another perfect person. On and on they go chasing mirage after mirage until at the end of their days they look back and the don’t see their grandchildren, they don’t see their children; and they spend the last of their days alone…

Do you know what a man gives up when he commits, when he marries? Besides all the perfect free sex he thinks he could be having if he wasn’t married. Irresponsibility. He takes on responsibility; for others. Do you know what a woman gives up? Besides George Clooney. Independence.

Together they form a interdependence. They commit to the relationship with an imperfect person. Then at the end of their days when they look back. They see their grandchildren, they see their children and at the end of their days they see each other.They’re not alone.

Virtue and integrity are the foundations of love and a well lived life. The only way you know you love yourself or anyone else is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep. Sex is great it inspires us however love brings us home.

Sex is one of the most fantastic experiences that a person can ever go through. It is also a powerful tool that bonds couples. As powerful as it may be, though, it also has the same destructive capacity. For casual daters, it may be okay to have sex even on the first date. But if you’re looking for something that’s lasting, then you might have gotten off on the wrong footing.

But since it’s already done, what should you do in order to still gain his respect after that fateful night?

No one should take away respect from you.

Respect, much like happiness, is more like a state of mind rather than something that’s automatically given to someone. If you believe that you truly deserve respect, then not even a one night stand would be able to erase that. It’s pretty simple – know your worth and everyone would respect you.

Behave casually.

What would drive him away from you is when he starts feeling that this one night with him would equate to an instant relationship. Instead of pressuring him to get close with you, casually compliment him for a wonderful night then leave. If he’s really into you now, then he would definitely be asking for your number, so don’t worry.

Show through your behavior that you’re not a slut.

Women who are used to one night stands behave differently than decent, respectable women. Sluts are like animals, they obviously just go for the kill (they lust after the man). They don’t even bother to appreciate the man after the deed. As a decent woman, you should be able to show the man that you’re well-mannered despite having a sex with him.

Don’t get all touchy-feely.

Unless he was the one who initiated it, don’t even begin to be emotionally involved with him. Technically, he isn’t yours yet so don’t behave like you’re already his girlfriend. Seeing you all laid back would drive him nuts and you shouldn’t be surprised if he’ll finally ask you out on a formal second date.

Fight your urge to have sex with him again.

This would make him feel that you’re not in it for sex alone. He could view you differently if he feels that what he had with you the other night was a one time thing. This will also cement the fact that you’re really not that type of woman.

Just enjoy your post-coital happiness while it lasts.

As you lay there with him, just relish his arms around you and let the warmth seep through. Don’t expect too much and he’ll respect you for it.

Give him a quick kiss then leave.

Let him feel you one last time by giving him a meaningful kiss that says it all – on his lips. This would convey your innermost feelings to him and he might just feel that you have a connection that he mustn’t deny.