Many women underestimate the orgasm that oral sex can produce, and they don’t enjoy giving fellatio at all. Many times this relates to their level of love for their partner and is not really related to oral sex at all. If that is the case with you, then you may need to examine your relationship, because kissing and oral sex is a very important part of human sexuality. One of the first concepts that women hear from an early age is that you should take great care not to touch the male erection with your teeth. Women get so caught up in this that they don’t enjoy what they are doing at all.

The male penis is nowhere near as sensitive as the female clitoris, and hitting it with teeth is fine. The best oral sex for a man is at a slow to moderate pace anyway, so there is nothing to worry about. The fast fellatio, being the best fellatio is a myth. The glans, or head of the penis, actually responds to slow, firm pressure the best, not fast pressure. Most men don’t even know this, because they do not take the time to even explore this. Their brains are not naturally wired for slow sexual release.

So, remember, slow and steady is your goal here. Popular culture has falsely represented the fast oral sex as being superior. It is not. The other tip that is golden is not to get hung up on providing your man with stimulation of your swallowing. This is more mental than physical for a man, and it comes with great physical risks to a woman. The back of the throat is very fragile and can be severely injured quite easily. Do not take any risks in this regard.