Heard about the hummingbird sex act? It was recently popularized on the TV show “My Own Worst Enemy”. So what is it? How do you perform it? Does it really work?

It does work, and it works very well, as the character from “My Own Worst Enemy” pointed out very poignantly. Here’s what it is and how exactly to do it:

1. The hummingbird sex act starts with oral sex. Now this can be done by either partner, or by both partners at the same time.

2. While performing oral sex, you want to hum. That’s correct, hum. The key is to try to hum one of your favorite songs. One that you could recite easily and steadily without interruptions. While giving oral sex, start humming away your favorite tune.

3. Make sure contact is tight! This technique works through the vibrations from the humming. You want to make the humming as effective as possible, so the more contact you have, the better.

4. Try to hum in a lower tone, as opposed to higher. The lower tone hums give off more vibration, and hence more pleasure.

5. Pursing your lips together is key to the hummingbird sex technique. Place you hand up to your lips and try humming right now. Now purse your lips together and you should really feel the vibrations from your lips. Don’t suck in your cheeks trying to make fish lips, as this interrupts the vibration. Try it and you’ll see.

That’s the now famous hummingbird sex technique which the character from the TV show claimed to experience unbelievable pleasure from. In that case it was male giving the hummingbird sex act to female, but as said earlier it can go either way. And for it to be even more erotic, it can be performed by both at the same time!

One fiction that has been spread a lot by the media and people who honestly don’t know what they are talking about is that orgasms are really difficult to give women. Nonsense! Orgasms are something that relies on you getting a lot of small things right, then the big things mostly take care of themselves. That is why this article is dedicated to a list of small things to make sure you get right. This guide is our ‘Better Sex’ guide!

1. Make sure you use the correct fingers. Whenever you insert any of your fingers into her, you could be making a mistake that hurts her. To reach deep inside for the G-spot many people think the middle and index fingers are the best to use. Because of the shape of these fingers, you often end up hitting sensitive places of her body with your knuckles and have less control to boot! Instead the ring and middle fingers are far more effective as you can use your pinkie and index finger to brace against her vulva. This also allows you to use the power of your arm to really make her explode.

2. Talk dirty like a movie star (Kinda!). Yeah, for a lot of guys this can be kinda tough. The best way to make sure that you calibrate everything to her. Try out a lot of things and see which get a reaction. Usually most sex talk comes in 4 flavors: explicit (You tell her exactly what you are about to do to her), profane (You basically say as many swear words as possible), dominant/ recessive (‘I’m going to do something to you/ please do something to me’) and revealing (‘I’m going to tell you a sexy secret or desire’). Once you have discovered what turns her on, say it confidently on one of her highs and thank me later!

3. Be as difficult to predict as possible. When I teach people my ‘Better Sex’ guide tips, I usually get out a big marker and circle this point. Women love the unpredictable! Therefore make sure that you always keep her on her toes sexually. Pull down her panties while she is cooking; jump on her one day, then have sex as gently as possible the next; etc. Really keep her constantly wondering what you will do next and the whole day is mental foreplay for her.

4. Don’t get carried away. Whenever people write to me to brag about giving their girls 10 orgasms and having sex all night every night usually one of two things come to mind: they are lying (Even porn stars need a break!) and they are probably not making it all that good for her. In other words: don’t show off, give her what she wants. Sometimes you have to give her a quickie and she will be happy with that. Basically make it about both of you and not about you showing off.

5. Kegel, Kegel, Kegel. What ‘Better Sex’ guide would be complete without discussion of these exercises. They help many couples becoming orgasmic and can even help with things like multiple orgasms. On top of that they have so many extra benefits that you should be doing them anyway.

6. A Woman Has Unlimited Erogenous Zones. This is one of the best things that I ever found out about women, when they are turned on, every part of their body is a massive erogenous zone. The spine is a great example. Next time you are in a rear-entry position, try rubbing your tongue up her spine and watch the response. Some girls will also have ones that you have never even considered (Such as the wrist or armpit), so try everything out and see what you come up with.

7. Don’t be the good guy or the bad boy. This one has been the subject of about half a million books and articles, however it is really important. The entirely Good Guy is predictable and boring to most women and doesn’t give them the excitement they need. The Bad Boy gives her the excitement, but is too unpredictable and unreliable. Basically you can really ramp up your sex life by being both, switching the roles to make sure that she is always looking forward to your next visit.

8. It is okay for the woman to initiate sex. If this ‘Better Sex’ guide really stresses anything, it should be to let your woman initiate sex sometimes. Make sure that when she does, you make the sex great as a ‘reward.’ This helps to eliminate the ‘sex is the reward the woman offers the guy for good behavior’ dynamic that plagues so many otherwise good relationships. In addition you get more sex as a side benefit!

9. Dressing up can help your woman unleash her sexual side and really lead to amazing orgasms. Whenever I give couples the ‘How to: Orgasms’ guide it seems that people often have a view that wearing costumes is about schoolgirl outfits and nurses! This is a fun part, but not the whole picture. Try changing your image a little and see the huge results. Wear a suit when she is expecting you in jeans. Dress as ruggedly as possible to surprise her. Once that release happens, great orgasms naturally follow.

10. Follow Her Cues. Ever notice that girls do strange things like push your hips to the side or move their hands over their body in a strange way. Guess what? She is giving you some major hints. Try touching her in a similar way or in that place and see what happens. Or link your hands with hers and let her guide you. It also adds to the intimacy between you.

Anyway those are the ten things to work on. Remember that sex is something that you want to enjoy. These techniques are just things for you to try out that should work on most girls. Once you start to take care of the small things, soon the big things become easier as everything follows the same rules. The most important part is to consume as much information as possible as each woman is different but similar, so by knowing all the tricks you can easily find one for her. Once you are calibrated completely to her, the magic starts.

In our series of best sexual positions we have presented various positions for a number of conditions and circumstances.

This article gives the absolutely best sexual position for those couples who wish the deepest penetration possible.

About Deep Penetration

The truth is a woman’s anatomy (as is concerned with her uterus) is able to change shape depending on her position during the sexual act.

Some women are very interested in having as deep a penetration as possible (all the way to the cervix), and even if a man has a sufficiently long penis, the position assumed may not allow a deep enough penetration.

The Crab on Its Back

This position is the absolute best for deep penetration.

It is a man-on-top position, and it allows a great deal of facial contact of the partners.

It also gives the man the ability to thrust in robust manner, and the woman to return the thrusting with her own alternating movement.

The position is called the Crab on Its Back, and comes to us from both the Kama Sutra and the Arab classic, The Perfumed Garden.

How to Assume the Crab on Its Back Position

The woman will lie on her back on the bed, with her upper body only, and her buttocks placed near the edge of the bed, at the bottom corner.

Her legs are held open by the natural angle of the bed’s edge, and her legs hanging over the bed with her feet on the floor.

The man stands or bends over her, and easily penetrates her. At this time, the woman bends her knees backwards towards her breast, and resembles a crab on its back.

The man is supporting himself with his hands, but his torso and the woman’s are generally in very close contact.

The woman’s torso is pinned down, but she is free to move pelvicly, and should do so as the man starts thrusting.

The man himself can have both or one leg on the floor to support himself, whatever is comfortable.

The woman can pull her legs back further to allow the deepest penetration, and the man should be careful in his thrusting not to cause pain. The woman can rest one or both of her calves on the man’s shoulders.

The couple should move in a coordinated movement of thrust and repel for as long as possible. This will almost assure a synchronized orgasm if done correctly.

This position allows for maximum penetration and can be used by couples where the man may have only an average sized penis.

In this way, as the woman raises her hips off the bed, the man’s penis is fully penetrated, and to a maximum extent, the actual size of the man’s penis is not too important, as penetration is at a very deep level

Maximizing the Orgasm

In this position the orgasm will come to the woman with deep and intense spasm and contractions.

It is highly recommended that the man not withdrawn during his orgasm, but continue to thrust while the woman (or they both) come to deeply satisfying conclusion.

The Crab on Its Back is absolutely the best sexual position for the deepest penetration possible.

Wondering how to make sex better? Want to know exactly how to do it with great excitement and fun? Let’s face it! Some men do not know how to make love to a woman and end up screwing it up somehow.

Men generally get their knowledge of sex from pornography or from their male friends, leading them to have a distorted way of seeing what sex is all about.

If you want to make your sex life better, read the following love making advice, because it describes a foolproof and proven method of giving the best sex possible. Let’s take a look at a stepwise approach to having sex with a woman that will drive her wild.

Step 1 – Get the Woman in ‘The Mood’

Before actually having sex, you need to set the ambiance just right to put her in the mood for sex. This will enhance both her and your pleasure. In order to put her in the sexy mood and make sex better, make sure the room is darkened, use some beautiful, scented candles and play some lovely music.

Feed her an aphrodisiac. Do one or all of these things in order to set up the right atmosphere for having great sex together.

Step 2 – Use the Act of Foreplay

The use of foreplay is a highly important aspect of learning how to make love to a woman. Being the foremost lovemaking advice, foreplay is the best way of having a simple conversation turn into a sexual experience. It involves the act of kissing, sensual messages and touching or even heavy petting. What you need to do is focus on her own pleasure as the best way to make the transition from your regular selves to your sexual selves.

Step 3 – Try Oral Sex

After foreplay, consider giving her oral sex to make sex a better experience. Start off slowly and remember to use both your tongue and your fingers. You need to try different oral sex techniques as women like different kinds of things. When you find something that seems to excite her, keep doing it.

Step 4 – Tease Her Sometimes

Once you have brought her close to climaxing with your oral sex. Most guys will just go straight into intercourse which is a real mistake. Instead of going straight for sex, begin teasing her, going slowly and starting or stopping sex alternatively. Do this until she goes nuts and begs you to put your penis inside of her.

Step 5 – Start Up Slowly and Build in Intensity

Now that the two of you are finally having sex, it’s a good idea to change the pace every now and then and to change positions to make sex better with more satisfying “oneness” feelings. Your focus should be on your mutual pleasure and making sure you both fully enjoying yourselves.

If you want another piece of lovemaking advice, build up the speed and then slow things down a bit. Keep doing this change of pace until neither of you can handle it anymore.

It is a good thing to know exactly how to make love to your woman. Using the how to make sex better techniques I’ve outlined above can make you the best performing lover that woman has ever had. Now get out there and find a woman to practice these skills with!

Kama Sutra is known to be the oldest sex bible. The original version is in Sanskrit. Today, the text has been translated to hundreds of languages for ease of readings. If you too busy to read the whole book, don’t fret. Read on as we reveal some of the best positions from Kama Sutra to make her totally satisfied in bed.

#1. The Modified Yawning Position: this is a variation from the regular missionary position. As it allows deep penetration and direct penis stimulation against G spot, the steamy position is going to supercharge her pleasure. Here’s how to do it: she lies on her back. You kneel between her legs, and drape her legs so that the legs form a “V” shape in relation to her body. Then, lean your body forward a little so that your pelvic bones meet her clitoris. Next, penetrate in slow and deep movement.

#2. Widely Opened: the positions looks simple. But, it is one of the easiest Kama Sutra pose to send her great climax. In this position, she lies on her back, with a big pillow under her hips. You sit in between her legs, and have her legs to wrap around your waist. Then, she arcs her back and raises her buttock so that you are allowed to penetrate from front. Hold her waist for leverage and supports to maintain the alignment and stability.

Extra steamy tips: instead of sticking to same pose, you should rotate between different positions. It is going to supercharge sensation and pleasure for both of you. In addition, the changes will allow you to delay orgasm and last longer in bed.

Ever wanted your girl to experience multiple orgasms but not sure how? It’s not just something that happens in the movies: if you follow the advice outlined below, you will surely help her to achieve multiple climaxes during sex. You’re both definitely missing out if she’s only ever has one orgasm during sex, there is so much more pleasure to experience! Become a great lover and help her to feel the immense pleasure brought by multiple orgasms by doing the following:

1) Talk passionately.

This is important, because for a woman to have an orgasm during sex, she has to be in the right frame of mind. Before you have sex, get her in the mood for it by talking sexy to her, saying things you would during sex etc. It’ll get her turned on before you start having sex and that will make it a lot easier to bring her to her climax.

2) Have foreplay.

To make a woman eager to orgasm, you must spend time priming her for the sex. Don’t just jump straight into sex: it takes longer for a woman to orgasm than it does for males…First, talk the talk, then get to work. Explore her whole body and plant kisses and caresses everywhere while getting her naked: she’ll enjoy the attention; it’ll make her feel wanted and get her aroused before sex.

3) Avoid using your tongue.

Using your tongue can actually destroy the mood, so stick to passionately kissing her with just your mouth. It’ll drive her wild and when she wants more, she may even get so aroused that she takes control and initiates the sex herself. It’ll mean she knows that she’s ready to enjoy the sex and have a great orgasm. Follow her lead and soon you’ll be taking her over the edge multiple times: she knows what she likes and she’ll make sure you give it to her!

4) Tease her for as long as possible.

The more you tease her sexually, the more she’ll anticipate the sex and the less time it’ll take her to orgasm during the sex itself and the more likely it is that she will orgasm multiply. Do things like rub her clitoris for a while before moving back to paying attention to her waist or legs. It’ll drive her wild not knowing when you’re going to have sex with her!

I am deep into the early history of human and animal sex. No, not humans having sex with animals, merely the sex manners of the two separate species. Material is a bit sparse, but the image left for us by humans is strong. Sex was a biggie, just as it is today. The lust was just as strong and the things done are almost equal to things done today.

What separates old sex from new sex is the influence of money over kinky porn. Why bother unless it is for money? There are some strange folks out there and with an Internet making it possible to find other strange folks, I suppose that added to the pornographic soup, but not much. It is a money thing.

So what should your children learn? You have to be quick or they will learn the bad much earlier than the good. They basically need to be introduced to the need, mechanics and the love that goes with healthy sex at puberty, with answers to the little kid questions before puberty given with careful thought.

They need to know they are being pulled at by body change and peer pressure. They need to know porn is made to be as off color and dirty as man can make it. They are allowed to do these things with their partner later, if they choose, but there is such a thing as civilized decency. Try to stay within decent boundaries in public, at least.

Your body is yours. If you want to put poison in it you can. If you want to make it obese, you can and if you want to rub yourself all over with cow poop and masturbate, help yourself. Just do it in the barn.

It is said the human female is the only animal type species that has an orgasm. That is probably true, and there is a reason, but what is it? I believe it has something to do with having babies. Many of the creatures mate in the early spring, naturally due to the weather. Humans however can mate at any time.

So instead of coming into heat to have a baby, nature gave the human female the desire to mate at any time because they could protect the young with their intelligence. The whole idea about being on earth is to make babies. That’s right. Everything, I mean everything given living creatures centers around being able to mate.

I find this fact a humorous thing to think on; early man and early woman did not know having sex made babies. They did not know why a woman got big and popped out with a messy kid in the cave. It was only just before they learned to domesticate animals, did they figure that out.

There is a big void is sex education. When kids get to college they have nude parties with hanky-panky all over the place. The colleges know that and tolerate as much as they can, because it is going to happen.

So before little Robbie and little Suzie get much past puberty the education needs to be in progress. What do you tell them? Well I plan an awesome web addition to my Love Comes dot com which will make it all make sense. Check it out in about three weeks.

Do you know who was the first carpenter? It was Eve. She made Adam’s Banana Stand. A proper joke for after puberty kids.

Sex can be anything you make it. I have scanned porn, like most, many times and I have no urge to see it plus they are bad about sending out Trojan invaders and virus’s.

Now a twelve year old boy with a tingle in his groin is going home after school and watch porn and masturbate. Believe it. Now this is not a dirty thing except for the porn part.

So we know this, let’s deal with it. Status-quo is no good.

Ancient tantra holds sexual energy in very high reverence, considering it an important partner in an individual’s spiritual awakening. Also called tantra energy, this sexual energy must at no time be suppressed or treated as something shameful. As your tantra teacher will tell you right at the outset, Tantra embraces sex as a part and parcel of human life and elevates it to a sacred status.

The Sanskrit word Kama, from which the name Kama Sutra comes, means that love and sex are united, indivisible forces. By this coin, the sexual energy generated during sex between two loving partners must be harnessed and expressed to its fullest. There must not be any withdrawing from or denial of this force, which exists to fire up the body’s sexual response and make both ecstasy and procreation possible.

Your tantra teacher will guide you in the art of tantra sex by teaching you various tantra positions. These tantra techniques are designed to bring partners closer together than ever before, ensuring that the sexual act becomes a spiritual one as well. Even a novice to tantra who is yet not under the guidance of a tantra master can experience some the power and beauty of tantra sex.

In fact, some of the basic tantra sex positions prescribed by the Kama Sutra can be easily attempted without instructions from a tantra master. However, it is not advisable to attempt the more advanced tantra techniques described in the Kama Sutra and other tantra scriptures without proper guidance. A gifted tantra master can make all the difference between heightened spiritual-sexual awareness and complete disillusionment and loss of interest.

Many aspiring students of tantra fall by the wayside because of lack of proper instructions. They will never have experienced the life-changing power of guided tantra instructions. It is a great loss to see an aspiring tantra student abandon this amazing science of love and life because of lack of proper guidance from a tantra teacher.

In one of the simplest sex positions, the man makes love to the woman while she lies on her back with her legs pressed together. Unlike in the missionary position, in this tantra position the man’s thighs are outside the woman’s. This causes her vagina to become a tight sheath that swallows the penis completely. Practiced properly, this tantra position can lead to ecstatic sex.

The man can also ask his woman to raise her thighs from a sitting position while placing her feet on either side of his waist. The man then enters her with considerable force, penetrating her with the entire shaft of his penis. In an alternative to this sex position, the woman reclines on the edge of firm, flat surface. The man pulls out of her vagina, then abruptly re-enters her to the fullest extent. It is not difficult to get the woman to attain an explosive orgasm in this tantra position.

In one of the more difficult tantra sex positions, the woman pulls her knees against her breasts and places her feet in her male partner’s armpits. Using her hands to lever her buttocks upwards, she opens her thighs and places her heels besides her hips. This position also permits the male partner to stroke her breasts.

Because tantra requires its practitioners to keep up the highest possible levels of intimacy during sex, it is important to maintain eye contact as much as possible during the act. The idea is to experience the sexual act as a whole, and not just in a detached manner on the physical plane alone. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and when the soul becomes part of tantra sex, the fullest ideal is achieved.

Women want great sex and you should strive to give it to her or she’ll dream of, or even sleep with, other men. I used to be terrible in bed, until I decided to become incredible. With that in mind I tried every technique to be the best lover around, and here are the best 3 sex positions that I know of…

Turning your lover on isn’t just a physical thing but an emotional thing as well. However, these are the best 3 sex positions that I use on a regular basis to make sure that the women I sleep with know that I’m the best lover they’ve ever had.

Doggy Style

This one has been popular for years, but with good reason. With this position you can hit her g-spot to drive her wild. This is recommended when sex becomes less tender and more naughty.

Reverse-Cowgirl

This is like girl on top, but in this instance she is facing the other way. The beauty of this position is that you don’t have to do much work as you can leave it to her. If you move her in the right position then she will have a powerful orgasm.

Standing Over Position

This time she lies on the bed and you take her ankles and start penetrating her while standing. This is great because you can look in her eyes as you have sex and you’re in full control of the thrusts.

Turning your woman on is as emotional as it is physical. You should always strive to make the sex the best [http://www.guysgetgirlz.com] possible for her.

If you are looking for the best sex positions to help your woman orgasm, thinking out the box could lead you and your partner to some pleasant surprises. Instead of trying the traditional lying down and sitting sex positions, try standing up.

Here are a few standing sex positions to add a little extra spice to your lovemaking sessions:

The Ballerina

Both partners stand facing one another. The women lifts one knee as high as comfort will allow. The man then places one hand under the knee for support and grip. If the woman is supple, she could even place one leg over the man’s shoulder.

This is a fun position that allows for a more direct contact with the clitoris. Once the man has penetrated her, the women can lower her leg to allow for a tighter fit.

Stand and Deliver

This one should only be attempted if the man is strong enough to carry the weight. Please avoid this position if you suffer from back problems.

The safest way to try this is by the women standing on a bed or chair with open legs. The man then pulls in towards her. She then climbs onto him while slowly guiding him into her, and then wraps her legs around him. This position allows for direct stimulation of the G-Spot.

The Wall Banger

In this position, the woman stands facing, and leaning against the wall. The man comes in behind the women and penetrates, while adjusting her hips. Here the thrusting motion targets the G-Spot, while the clitoris can be stimulated manually.