What does it really mean to be the ultimate boyfriend? Frankly, it has something to do with your considerate attitude and your romantic inclination; but mostly, it’s about your ability to turn into a sex god on demand. The exact description of a sex god might vary from woman to woman, but one thing’s clear; not every girl has a sex god for a boyfriend but every girl dreams that her boyfriend will turn into one.

A guy who can make a woman orgasm fast is a sex god. So is a guy who can make a woman want him any time of the day. It doesn’t really take much to be the lover that your girl has always dreamed of. You just have to learn the following skills. Read on to find out the essential skills you need to make a woman think of you as her ultimate boyfriend…

Be Her Sex God Tonight – Three Essential Skills to Learn

#1: Anticipation to a Feverish Pitch

Building tension will make her go crazy with desire and longing. If you’ve been with a woman in the past, you might already know that it doesn’t take much to excite her. You just have to slow down your actions and make her feel more aroused by whispering sweet words to her. One simple way of making her anticipate love making with you is describing the way you want to touch her by phone, by text or over dinner. Try to stimulate her imagination some more by touching her in a lingering manner while you’re together.

#2: “Sexual Prep”

Foreplay is imagination fodder for women and you should know how to play this up a notch higher if you want to turn her on even when you’re not around. YOu see, when you perform terrific foreplay on her, she will remember it when she’s alone. Prep her for sex stimulating her hot spots, particularly her breasts, her mound and her legs.  Be satisfied with just touching her until she couldn’t bear it anymore. This technique will make your girl sexually charged all throughout.

#3: “Pile it up”

If you think multiple orgasms in women are a myth, this next fact will come as a shock. Women do have multiple pleasure levels and one orgasm can lead to another. This will happen if you get the other tips right, and if you know how to stack her pleasure so that she cannot stop from climaxing until she passes out from bliss. There’s a sure way of stacking orgasms, and this is by massaging her g spot. The g spot is an anatomical part of the inner vagina and it’s located 2.5 inches from her portal. Continue putting pressure on her g spot during penetration to make her orgasms last longer.

If you and your partner have been trying to make a baby, but sex as you know it doesn’t seem to be working, you might want to try tantric sex. More than the conceiving positions it teaches, it invites you as a couple to improve your physical and sexual health towards a more enhanced fertility. What is tantric sex?

Historically, tantric sex is believed by many to be of Hindu origin. It is based on the philosophy that orgasm is not the end goal of sex, but rather the harmony of your body’s inner energy centers, called chakras by the Hindus.

Such harmony can only be achieved when energy can freely flow through all your chakras, resulting in a holistic integration of mind, body, and spirit; hence, good health. Since tantric sex promotes holistic integration, the tantric practices involved in it become part of your daily life. This is so unlike traditional sex, which in contrast can sometimes be more of a display of one’s sexual prowess. The benefits of tantric sex

Aside from improving your physical health, tantric sex can also improve your sexual health as a couple. It teaches very specific sexual techniques and positions that other couples claim have helped them to conceive. The good thing about it is that anyone can reap its benefits regardless of personal, spiritual, or cultural background.

Couples who have tried it testify to the rejuvenating effect of tantric sex. And believe it or not, correct orgasmic technique has a lot to do with this. The juice on tantric orgasm

You may not know it, but scientific studies show that frequent and powerful orgasms stimulate your brain and improve your body’s chemistry. Orgasm releases a brain hormone called oxytocin, sometimes called the “love hormone” that drives you emotionally and sexually closer to your partner. The afterglow that many women experience is also attributed to this hormone.

Secondly, tantric orgasms can effectively relieve depression and stress because they are prolonged and because they allow you to experience such liberating ecstasy.

Thirdly, tantric orgasm can prolong your life. A study in the British Medical Journal kept a tab on 1,000 male participants, and found that those who have sex at least twice a week have lower mortality rates compared to those who have less frequent sex. Although there is a big correlation between their mortality and sexual activity, researchers continue to dig deeper into the finding. Tantric sex 101

Here are four easy techniques to help you and your partner get started with tantric sex. 1. Select a tantric spot

Intimacy is an essential part of tantric sex. Set the right mood by choosing a relaxed, sexually-stimulating area in your home, preferably clutter-free. Remove all distracting objects, for instance bright-colored decor. Replace them with flowers, aromatic candles, and earth-tone fabrics. Let soft, sensual music play in the background. Tonight, your eyes will be on each other only and on nothing else. 2. Synchronize your breathing

When the time has come, do the yab-yom position by sitting on your partner’s lap, facing each other. Breathe in and let your partner breathe out. The idea is to take in each other’s breath, symbolic of sharing yourself with each other. As you do this, be aware of your breathing, which is one foundation of tantric sex. 3. Don’t close your eyes

Wendy Strgar, CEO of Good, Clean Love-a company that sells natural love products-says keeping your eyes open during sex is fundamental to establishing deep connection and intimacy with your partner. Ironically, it’s not as easy as it sounds. But as you and your partner purposefully attempt this, Strgar says it will change the way you think about your partner. There is something profoundly transformative about witnessing the act of love, she says. 4. Linger

Linger in foreplay. In tantric sex, foreplay helps you as a couple build energy for longer love-making. It helps the man control his energy, while the woman becomes more sexually aroused. Thus, the longer the foreplay, the longer the love-making. After all, orgasm is not the end goal of tantric sex. It is for you to have a deeper appreciation for yourself and your partner. So don’t rush. Take time to explore.

Breast orgasms are great for both the woman and the man because they are so fun to give and the woman will appreciate what she receives. There is a little-known secret technique that will help you succeed rather easily in giving these climaxes to your lady. Once she starts screaming, her eyes almost popping out, and her body starts convulsing like a fish on a hook…you’ll know you struck the mother lode of orgasms! Once you get it, you can do it over and over again.

There are four main parts to this process. Don’t leave any of them out!

1st Step. Get her ready for sex.

You’ve probably often heard that you must get to a woman’s head before you get to her body. This is so true! Make her feel loved, comfortable, and adored. Try using a 72-hour period of seduction when you try this. Start having loving conversations, send her some notes, and give her some very tantalizing texts. She’ll be wanting it so badly.

2nd Step. Have a great make out session.

What woman doesn’t love a great make out session? I know I do! Instead of going right for her breasts or between her legs, take some time getting her ultra hot. It will make her melt emotionally and she’ll be putty in your hands. Trust me on that.

If you don’t know by now how she wants to be kissed then ask her. Then give her what she wants. She will love you for it.

Start gently with the kissing and build some heat. Don’t insert your tongue at first…make her beg for it. Then, slowly enter your tongue into her mouth, teasing her with the screwing motion of your tongue. Build some momentum and really give it to her!

3rd Step. Now get some feedback.

By now, she’ll probably have put your hands on her lovely boobs but resist the temptation to start massaging and kissing them. Ask her how hot her breasts feel. Ask if her nipples are hard. When she replies that they are hard…ask her how hard.

Ask her if her breasts feel full and excited. Ask her how wet she is. If she can barely talk and grabs your hands or mouth and draws them to her breasts, then go ahead and dive in.

Some women can even have no-touch orgasms so you might have an added benefit there.

4th Step. The breast vacuum technique.

Now, tease around her nipples but don’t touch them yet. Tease with your tongue and your mouth around her breasts. Finally, lightly touch her nipple with the tip of your tongue. If she’s really ready…she should almost jump at the contact.

Now, such those nipples. Take as much of her breasts in your mouth as you can. Gently bite the nipples and pull away with your teeth.

If she’s sighing, and her eyes are rolling back in her head, now suck harder and harder on her nipples and boobs. Take the breast and nipple in your mouth and milk it, by sucking and releasing, and then let it drop out. Do this faster and faster, harder and harder. Once you get the rhythm, each sucking action should almost cause her whole body to convulse.

Do this for about 5 to 10 minutes and she’ll probably have one of the strongest orgasms of her life. Now, go down lower and see what the combinations do for her. Combine some sex games, naughty talk, and you’ll have a great session.

Couples can enjoy steamy nights together by playing some hot erotic sex games to spice up their sex lives. Many couples complain that their sex lives have become more like boring routines after they have been together for quite some time. If you are experiencing the same thing, it is not time for you to learn how to spice things up.

Sex game is a great tool to spice up your sex life as it creates the sexual anticipation and desire that are necessary if you want to enjoy an overall satisfying love making experience with your lover.

Sex games can also enable you to prolong your foreplay as research has shown that the best way to intensify orgasms and overall love making experience is having prolonged foreplay.

So let me just share with you 3 simple erotic sex games that you can try out immediately with your lover tonight:

1. Strip Poker. Do you have a deck of cards at your house? If you have it, is game on. After every round, the loser will have to take off something that he or she is wearing.

2. Erotic Card Play. Take a deck of cards and assign one naughty and erotic action to each number. For example, an ace is for a blow job, etc. Now, spread the card on your bed. You and your lover will take turn to draw the cards and whatever the card says to do; your lover must do it.

3. Erotic Alphabets. You will start with the letter “A” and caress or kiss the body part of your lover which starts with the letter “A”. Then your lover will move on to letter “B” and perform the same thing on you. You will be amazed by how the both of you can get to come out with a body part for every letter.

These are a few erotic games ideas to get you going. But for a full, sizzling collection of many more erotic games, check out the website below:

So you probably are looking for the best sex position to get orgasm. Also, you probably don want to waste enormous amounts of efforts. And, of course, you want to get maximum pleasure from it.

Well, I have a short answer for you and a longer one.

The short answer is: buy a dotted condom.

Now the longer answer, for those of you who are “all-natural”.

First of all, if you do not want to use some toys or, like mentioned above, dotted condom, then all you have is your techniques, and boy do they help here.

Yes, it’s time for you Kama Sutra lessons, so you better hold on to your ass, because what you are going to learn here is going to shake the ground you are standing on right now.

This position for sex is called “Lazy Boy”.

Now, instead of your regular and dull “Girl on Top” pose, where your girl is on top of you while making love, this time ask her to sit perpendicularly on your lap. Fancy word – what does it mean?

Basically she has to be facing to the side, instead of looking straight to you, while sitting on your lap.

In this position it might be hard for her to balance, so just tell her to hold onto your chest and legs, or the floor. This will give her that extra needed support

Why this position is so special? I’m glad you asked.

You see, in this “orgasm position” you will be able to thrust far deeper than in other positions. Plus, this way her vagina will be like a condom around your penis, giving you the maximum pleasure.

Women might not say it out loud in public (for fear of being labelled a slut) but the truth is that they love the idea of NAUGHTY SEX. In fact, every emotionally healthy woman wants nothing more than to get really dirty with her man in the bedroom and do things considered TABOO.

So if you want to give your woman the kind of sex she really craves, read on now and use some or all of these ideas…

Naughty Sex – Here Are 10 Ways To Give Your Woman The Kind Of Dirty, Taboo Sex She Really Wants

1. Watch Yourselves ‘Doing It’

There’s something very exciting about watching yourself have sex with your woman.

To do this use a MIRROR.

Your woman will get really turned on by it.

2. Get The Video Camera Out

If your woman likes the mirror, why not go one better and get the video camera out and make a ‘home movie’.

This is guaranteed to result in the kind of naughty sex your woman really wants.

3. Show Her How You Masturbate

Many women don’t like the idea of their men masturbating because it makes them feel like they aren’t satisfying him.

However, if you masturbate in front of her — it’s going to get her very excited.

And she may return the favor and put on a show for you.

4. The Best Way To Do It ‘Doggy-Style’

If you want a sex position that’s naughty, dirty and more than a little taboo, try this…

Do it doggy-style and as you do so grab your woman’s hair in your hand.

Then start TALKING DIRTY.

Then use the thumb of your free hand to stimulate her anus.

This will drive her crazy.

5. Use Your Voice

You don’t have to just talk dirty during doggy-style.

If you want to give your woman incredible sex and mind-blowing orgasms — you should be TALKING DIRTY every time you have sex.

6. Show Her Your ‘Load’

For a woman — it’s very exciting when her man comes.

It gives her a sense of accomplishment.

So instead of always blowing your load inside her, try pulling out and coming on her ass, breasts or face.

It’s naughty, it’s dirty and she’ll love it.

7. Leave Her Clothes On

YES, getting naked is fun.

But you don’t always have to be naked during sex.

In fact, sometimes it’s fun to leave (most) of her clothes on.

If she’s wearing a skirt, just hitch it up, take her knickers off and have sex like that.

8. Show Her You’re The Boss

Most women are sexually submissive.

This means that they want their man to TAKE CONTROL in bed.

Try lightly pinning your woman’s arms above her head during missionary position.

Or hold one of her arms behind her back during doggy-style.

This way she’ll know you’re in control and this will increase her excitement.

9. Build Her Anticipation

Most guys rush sex and this annoys women.

So try building her anticipation by teasing her.

Tease her until she really wants it. Then tease her some more. Give her what she wants when you are ready — it’ll drive her crazy.

10. Give Her An Anal Orgasm

“YES”, really — this is entirely possible.

You put your middle finger in her ass and stimulate her g-spot until she comes.

(NOTE: The g-spot is located in her vagina, but the wall that separates the anus and vagina is very thin).

In this article I’m going to share a very easy-to-use SEX POSITION with you that you can use to SEXUALLY SATISFY your woman.

This sex position is called ‘The Classic Spoon’ and can be a very intimate position because of the body to body contact.

Keep reading and you’ll see what I mean…

How To Perform ‘The Classic Spoon’ Sex Position

You start off with your woman laying on her side — left or right, it does not matter.

Then you get in behind her, laying on the same side of your body as she is on hers (if she’s laying on her right side, you lay on your right side too. If she is laying on her left side, you lay on your left side too).

Next, lift her top leg up so that you can gain access to her vagina.

Then penetrate her and begin intercourse. As you do so, she can then rest her top leg on top of your legs.

What you will find is that the front of your body is touching the back of hers and this makes the position feel very intimate and close.

You can make things more interesting by trying the following things as you make-love to your woman using ‘The Classic Spoon’ Sex Position:

– Kiss the back of her neck and shoulders

– Gently bite the back of her neck and shoulders

– If she turns her head back towards you, you will be able to kiss her on the lips

– Grab her hair

– Reach round and massage her breasts

As you can see — ‘The Classic Spoon’ Position is very versatile.

Of course, there is one more thing that you really must do in order to totally SEXUALLY SATISFY her in this sex position. And when I say ‘sexually satisfy her’, I mean — give her ORGASMS.

Vaginal orgasms.

To give her vaginal orgasms as you ‘do her’ using ‘The Classic Spoon’, you must TALK DIRTY to her.

Your penis stimulates her VAGINA.

Your words stimulate her MIND.

To give your woman GREAT SEX, you must stimulate her vagina and her mind. Do this correctly and you will give her incredible vaginal orgasms — the kind that’ll make her call you ‘the best she’s ever had’.

Most guys are too scared to talk dirty to their women and will therefore never give their women very good sex. Without adequate mental stimulation, the sex cannot be truly fulfilling for a woman.

If you have ever overheard women talking about sex, one topic inevitably comes up: the best sex that they have ever had. Imagine if you were that guy and women were literally bragging to their friends about how good sex with you was, how good would that be? One surefire way to make sure that you are ‘that guy’ is to master the squirting orgasm and literally give her an orgasm to tell her friends about.

How to Give a Woman a Squirting Orgasm

In order to understand how to give a woman a squirting orgasm, you have to first understand where most guys go wrong. I am sure that you have heard about the guys who think that they are studs only to be amazed when their girlfriend cheats on them because they are actually horrible in bed, well you can become really good at giving her massive female ejaculation orgasms by learning where these guys go wrong.

Fault 1: Not listening to her before orgasm

Many guys don’t realize that a squirting orgasm can be tough for a woman to have. The moment before she ejaculates she will get a feeling like she needs to pee and for most women that is scary enough that she will prevent herself from orgasming ‘just in case.’ Therefore it is important that you build up the trust with her. In this instance, that means doing the things that most guys don’t do. First, you have to make sure that she knows that seeing her ejaculate turns you on. It is important that she knows that you think it is hot or she might worry that it is gross. On top of that you have to make her relax just as she is about to orgasm, using your words and body language. As long as she knows that she turns you on and that you are confident she is much more likely to orgasm.

Fault 2: Not Being Able to Find the G-spot

Weirdly a lot of guys feel ashamed that they can’t reliably find her G-spot. Don’t worry, it only matters if you let it matter! In fact the G-spot in relatively easy to find. Simply get her to lie on her back and then insert a finger, gently stroking the upper side of her vagina. You should find an area that feels a bit rougher than the surrounding tissue, this is the G-spot. The best way to check that you have found the right area? Stroke it gently using a curling motion of the fingers. If you have found the right place you should notice her excitement shoot through the roof!

Fault 3: Poor Technique

This is the final major hurdle, a lot of guys can’t get the technique right at first and quit trying. In fact the technique is easy to get the hang of, simply curl your fingers, then use more of your arm in a pulling motion. This should give her enough stimulation to ejaculate a little when she orgasms, that is the basic squirting orgasm.

It is undeniable that virtually most men are not born with natural sexual skills (despite how much some men appear like they do). These skills need to be learned. Believe me: everyone has the capability to turn into a sex stud and satisfy any sexual partner they want in bed. There are some secrets and techniques out there today that you can use to make women scream in ecstasy due to the multiple orgasms you could potentially give to your sex partner. Continue reading to find out these secret orgasm techniques and tactics…

“Finger her.” The way you move about your fingers on her clitoris is important to inducing a swift orgasm. Some men simply phase out the fingering process during sex because they would like to have their pleasure as soon as possible. Do not neglect to finger her… this is the surest way to make her horny. Try it and thank me later!

“Make her relax.” Women get anxious during sex, and this issue always affects their ability to reach climax. If she feels uncomfortable with a position, whisper into her ear that she looks horny doing that position. If she seems to shield a particular part of her body from you, remove her hand and gently kiss that spot. Give her a rub down or take a shower together with her early to relax her as much as possible.

“Comfort her.” She knows she looks good, but deep down in her psyche she’s wondering if you think the same. A woman’s narcissism has made the beauty industry several trillion dollars richer, and it’s also important when it comes to lovemaking. Be cautious of using words like “even if you’re fat” or “cellulite”. Just tell her you think she looks beautiful naked if you really want her to orgasm fast.

Do women like rough sex? How much is too much? Are aggressive men a turn ON… or turn OFF? Will she tell you that she likes it when you are a bit more aggressive than most, or will she quietly hope and wait that you’ll get the hint on your own? What else do women fantasize about?

Are some topics taboo to talk about, or is everything “on the table” when it comes to 2 consenting adults and our fetishes and fantasies?

If you are anything like the millions of men who enjoy exploring sexual fantasies and the unspoken language of lust, this was written with YOU in mind! Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below.

Rule #1 – Always ask. (never assume)

Even if you think she is enjoying something sexual, communication is key. Every woman, and every relationship is different. Assume nothing that you read here or elsewhere is 100% true, 100% of time.

That said, it is also true, that many women we speak to mention that they do prefer hot and spicy sex, more than medium or mild. When we’ve asked our own audience of female readers what they’d like more of in bed, the qualities that ranked the highest were:

Aggressiveness

Assertiveness

Adventurous

Rule #2: A little dirty dialogue goes a long way

Aggressiveness isn’t always defined by physical connection. As a matter of fact, many women tell us that dirty talk, or a man who is willing to be wild with what he SAYS during sex, is about as hot and steamy as it comes. The funny thing? Many women who consider themselves to be shy or reserved in “real life”, admitted to finding a man who curses, swears and says VERY dirty things during sex to be a huge turn on between the sheets!

Rule #3: The Key to Her Climax

Women have a much different cycle when it comes to achieving orgasm. While men tend to climax from physical stimulation alone, we are much more multi sensory and need far more stimulation than you. For example? Foreplay, like Oral sex is very important for a woman.

So too is ambiance and atmosphere. Most importantly, her emotional state of mind is key. Many women secretly admit that taboo topics, fetishes and fantasies are incredibly important to achieving orgasm during sex.

Things like “stranger sex” fetishes, role playing games, or prostitution fantasies, or imagining that YOU are a well endowed psychical specimen, can create an erotic electricity that is a huge turn on for her.

Imagination is an amazing ally when it comes to erotic energy, and there is much more to sensational sex than meets the eye.

The bottom line?

Great sex is the key to all great relationships. It’s MORE than having a great body. And while there are lots of secrets to amazing sex, the 3 simple rules above are things I love, and many other women do, too!