Are you stuck in a marriage, scratching your head in wonderment, saying my wife never says she loves me?

If you’re in this position and you’re worried about your marriage going downhill fast, then you really need to pay special attention right now.

This could mean trouble…

Should I Panic If My Wife never Says She Loves Me

Now here’s the thing. This could mean terrible trouble for your marriage, but it could also be absolutely nothing. You may be panicking and your wife just isn’t the type of person who goes around say I love you all the time.

That does happen.

However it still means that there’s a lot of room for improvement and it also tells me that your wife doesn’t adore you. You’re not the man that makes her swoon anymore. That’s especially apparent if she USED TO say I love you all the time, and now she’s stopped.

So you’ve got some work to do either way. You can turn this around.

Now here’s the thing that must happen first. You must accept responsibility, and take some of the blame that YOU haven’t the things that you could be doing that make a woman…and yes even a wife,..melt when she sees you.

Most men mistakenly think that this is something that automatically goes away just because you’ve been married for a while. Nothing could be further from the truth. Just think, you’ve had all this time with your wife, so she should be completely and totally obsessed with you at this point if you think about it.

But don’t worry, because you probably didn’t even realize this was possible. And you’re not alone. I too thought this was the norm. I was happy just to get along with my wife, until I realize that I could make her love me more, become nearly obsessed with me, and well…be completely attracted to me. And you know what that means!

Here’s what it takes. It takes being the man that your wife truly wants. It means being the type of man that makes women obsessed with them. We’ve all seen them. And usually us guys make the mistake of thinking it’s because of looks, or money, or material things.

Not even close to true, and I’m sure you can think of example to prove that. I’m sure you can think of those guys who always have women swooning over them and you sit there and think…why? How the heck is the guy doing it?

The Secret to Making Your Wife Swoon

Here’s the secret right here in this article, that could absolutely change your married life forever.

The thing is that your wife must be attracted to you before she can get those fuzzy feelings of obsession for you. And the type of man that she is attracted to, down to her core…down to her DNA…is an alpha man who is (or at least seems to be) in charge.

A leader is what your wife is looking for. Of course it’s so buried down deep in her DNA that she really doesn’t even get this. She thinks that all of these things that society makes her believe is what she wants, but the proof always shows up when a man starts acting like the alpha male that she really wants. It’s an amazing transformation, and you’ll quickly stop even worrying about having to say my wife never says she loves me because she’ll be showing it in more ways than one.

We all want an “easier way to win” than we see the path of, so to speak. We all have complaints about how hard our road is, and some even claim they have it too easy and complain in the opposite direction of the people who complain how hard their road is. Either way, a complaint is a complaint, and all satisfaction is genuinely up to you and your mind as it is up to my mind and my personal reality. Also, either way, wanting something is more exciting than having it most of the time. It sounds a little stupid, indeed, though that reality of life is a human truth. Everyone wants an easier way to get what they want and want something better than they have usually.

Recently, I faced a few small crisis points that told me in so many ways about the realities about life I have just mentioned culminating with my Mother telling me that it could be worse, and I should be grateful that it is not worse.

Listen, we all prefer better, and we all prefer to consistently and always win, but, without the bad, we definitely cannot have the good. I realize that. Indeed, what I also realize is that without losers, you cannot have winners. I know that is a reality that sounds horribly dualistic, but without up, you cannot have down and the other directions, and political correctness about it will save nobody. The only way out is through with objective correctness or realistic correctness.

Recently, I watched a Dr. Matt James video on you tube about cause and effect and realized the full basis of this article that you can only make a better effect by working fully on the cause in reality. It cannot work any other way or for all down time, there is always up time. For every flower blooming there are weeds dying somewhere.

Like anyone, I would love to circumvent the “bad medicine” and the “even worse” cure that comes from the “bad medicine”. Reality is bitter work and sweet reward, almost always. It could work in other ways as genuinely anything is rationally possible such as bitter rewards and sweet work, or the process being better than the end. Again, the reward and win is in the eye and mind of the beholder, so is the genuine loss.

There are certain solutions that have a “did the chicken or the egg come first?” type thing going on, and I just mentioned one of those realities. It is up to you.

During our marriage preparation in 1985, my husband and I were introduced to the concept of “Love is a decision.”

A decision is a deliberate choice and for us, marriage was a serious lifelong commitment that wasn’t to be taken lightly. Sure, we were best friends, we were compatible and we were in love. Many people approach marriage this way, but when things go wrong – when they no longer feel like they are best friends, when they drift apart and when they are no longer in love, the marriage deteriorates and divorce is an option.

Did you notice the word “FEEL” above? That means, if things change,if our emotions change, we can make decisions based on “irreconcilable differences.” This is like basing a relationship on quicksand and not a firm foundation. I understand that major things can happen in a marriage that would warrant serious consideration for a break up, especially when one partner flagrantly breaks the vows or promises that were made, with no intention of returning to the original promises.

Marriages with strong foundations include a worldview that goes deeper than compatibility, best friends and love – deeper than feelings. What is unseen in these relationships is the interesting view that the goal is not happiness; the goal is oneness. The couple know they are a team, with most of the following philosophies:

(1) Each one is out to make the other happy, rather than focus on making the self happy.

(2) Happiness is not the goal of marriage. There might be times we are unhappy with our marriage or our spouse. This doesn’t mean you are waning in love. Happiness is like the ebb and flow of a tide, always changing.

(3) The goal of marriage is deeper. Some believe that they are joined together for the betterment of each other. A friend of mine once said, “Marriage is for the betterment of our souls.” Together, we are stronger, and left alone, we might persevere in bad habits and selfishness. Marriage helps us reach virtues and maturity. Through sacrifice and consideration of another person, we must come out of our cozy caves.

My husband and I were married in the Catholic Church, which contains three main vows: accepting children willingly from God, promising to stay together until death and the concept of oneness – that two become one flesh.

Because of these vows, we have agreed to work hard on our marriage when needed, continuously work on our communication skills, and live as a team, seeking unity and harmony. We have very different temperaments, but our values are in alignment.

As you can see, our decision overrides our feelings. There are times when we are annoyed with each other, and we have to work through those difficult times. We do not let feelings dictate our hours, days and weeks. They emerge; we deal with them. We set them aside and move on. Difficult times in marriage are a great opportunity for forgiveness, gratitude, and humility.

Because we made a lifelong decision and commitment, we want to be happy. Who would want to live until “death do you part” with an obnoxious, boring, selfish, negative person?

Author Gary Chapman said, “Forget about your feelings. You do not have to feel anything to love your partner. Feelings may change because of your actions, but feelings should not dictate your actions. Choose to love your mate, no matter how you feel.”

I would like to insert an example here. Let’s say your spouse, in a moment of weakness, had a one night hook-up with someone. You learn about this betrayal and your feelings are off the charts – anger, fear, rage, sadness, violation, breach of trust, humiliation, embarrassment, exposed, disbelief, disappointment, disillusionment, despair.

If love is a decision, your problem-solving approach will be quite different than if love is a feeling. If both partners have decided to stay together until death, then they will both be willing to do whatever it takes to save the marriage and rebuild. It’s not easy, but it can be done and many have reported a stronger marriage after the recovery and healing. If one partner is unwilling to dig in deep and decide to make the effort, then the marriage will suffer or dissolve.

I am not sure if the statistics have changed, but last I knew, up to 70% of marriages will deal with some type of “affair,” at some point in their marriage. 25% of married partners have admitted to a sexual affair with someone else. It’s difficult to get an accurate report due to self-reporting accuracy (depends on who’s telling the truth) and agreement upon the definition of an affair. Of those marriages that were shattered by betrayal, 30% will divorce.That means, there are many marriages trying to heal from affairs and indiscretions.

Is love a feeling or decision for you? Betrayal is the hardest test of your love and could possibly be the most challenging time of your life,sometimes more than death of a loved one.

Let’s move to a lighter example of decision vs. feelings. How about all of the couples who think they marry the perfect partner and have so much in common? Years go by and differences emerge. It’s only natural. Now there is a sense of drifting apart. This is simply life unfolding over time, with new situations and experiences that come your way. You will discover more differences over time.

Be careful to not mistakenly think you are less in love and “feel” differently for your partner. This is a common pattern when people say, “We were so compatible in our early years of marriage, but we’ve grown apart. We have irreconcilable differences.”

True love is a decision and a commitment. Feelings will come and go, like the wind and rain. For a happy lifelong relationship, do not let feelings dominate.

It has been observed that things labeled as “free” have always captured people’s interest and it acts as a catalyst in attracting many people. Free samples of products or services attract more attention of customer or consumers than the product or services with a specific price. It would be interesting to figure out why people love freebies so much.

Free Stuff and Human Mind

When people find out that there is something they will get for free then their mind and psychology make them believe that they are special and they have earned the thing to get it for free. The free things make them feel they have achieved something with no or less effort for getting it. People feel there is less risk in trying out free stuff and they feel that they have nothing to lose if they try the free stuff. So they reach out to try free stuff with no risk and loss. A similar human psychology works when we get attracted to discounted rates or prices of products and services.

Loads of Non-avoidable Expenses

In our daily lives, everyone knows earning money is not easy and it takes a lot of efforts to make a living. Most of the hard earned money goes away in the necessary non-avoidable expenses like groceries, fuel, and oil, paying bills and other expenses. When we find out we can get something for free, we tend to get attracted to it because we feel that we have saved some amount of money with the best bargain of free stuff for a product or service.

Some People Hesitate Spending Money on what they think is not necessary

There are many people who hesitate to spend money on what they think is not necessary even though they earn a lot of money to save money. When they find out that the product or service is for free then they are more likely to reach out and try the product or services. Such people would possibly try out free stuff than paying for it and experience how the product or service is.

Some People have Low Monthly Income

Some people don’t earn huge amount of money and they have low monthly income. They can’t spend too much money due to lack of funds so they find free stuff more likable and they look out for free stuff because they can’t spend too much.

Are you confused because you love your partner but do not like him or her? The following explanation of the differences can help you become clearer of why you feel that way and improve your relationship.

To begin with, we have four parts: mind, body, emotions and spirit (Higher Self). Your all loving spirit falls in love unconditionally. That is the easy part of relationships and it feels so good. It is a deep and general feeling of deep caring that you experience in your heart.

However, being human you also have a personality which is composed of your mind, body, and emotions. These parts have likes and dislikes. They are specific and can change.

For example, “I love that you are kind to me, and I don’t like when you leave your clothes on the floor for me to clean up. I would appreciate if you would put your dirty clothes in the laundry basket.”

Or, “I love you, and I don’t like when you yell at me. Please tell me your truth in a calm, loving way.”

Notice that you are expressing two separate emotions. You can feel both love and like at the same time. Can you relate?

When I counsel couples, I notice that love is not the problem. It is all the dislikes that have blocked their love feelings and caused them problems in their relationships. I first help them communicate in a loving way, like the examples above. Then I teach them how to resolve their issues with win-win solutions. I also assist them to understand and honor each other’s differences.

One of the common problems is that we are either left brain (logical) or right brain (feeling) dominant. Most of the time, I notice that the logical person will complain that their partner is too emotional and illogical.

John, a 34-year-old man, complained to be that his girlfriend Bonnie was irrational. At the second session he said, “Helene, I figured out how to not get upset with her. I think of the most illogical response, and then I am not surprised when she responds that way.”

On the contrary, the right brain dominant people will often say, “My partner is so cold and unfeeling.”

These dislikes cause many issues in a relationship. What I explain to my clients is that opposites do attract to help each other be more balanced. For example, we all need logic to balance our check-book. However, when we are intimate, we need to be in our feelings. It is important to be able to switch between right and left brain, based on the best part to react in specific situations.

In summary, love is not enough. You need to also like your partner and feel safe to tell him or her what you like and dislike, as demonstrated above. Make an “I” statement and be specific about what you dislike. Then say what you would like. Your partner needs the feedback. Otherwise, you will probably be active (yelling) or passive aggressive. These behaviors can destroy your relationship.

You can enjoy a loving, successful relationship and you deserve it!

When you are in the middle of a separation that you never wanted in the first place, it can be tempting to want to remind your spouse that they are still married to someone who still loves them very much. I know first hand that there can be a real worry that if they are outside of your presence, they will begin to forget what they loved about you. Or they will find that the phrase “out of sight, out of mind” is actually true.

So it may be your normal inclination to tell your separated spouse that you love them every time you talk with or see them. And this is absolutely fine – so long as you are getting an enthusiastic response in reply. Unfortunately, this is not always the case.

A wife might say: “I know that it sounds desperate and needy. But I can not help it. Every time I talk to my separated husband, I tell him that I love him right before we hang up. I have done this for all the years that I have known him and old habits die hard. At the beginning of our separation, this seemed OK. But the last couple of times, I’ve noticed that he has hesitated before he gives a response. Last night, he didn’t say anything in response. I don’t mean to be dense. Obviously, he probably thinks that I am doing something wrong or he doesn’t want to hear me tell him that I love him during the separation. But not saying it feels like a lie. It feels like playing games or holding back. Am I supposed to pretend that I don’t love him? Because I find that ridiculous. I do love him. And it seems silly to me that I am not supposed to say it every day in the same way that I have for many years. Do I have to stop?”

That is really up to you. I would never tell someone what to do during their marriage or during their separation. I can tell you what came to be my opinion as the result of a similar situation that I was in. But, I know that all situations are different. So I can’t say that what worked for me will work for you.

But, during my own separation, it eventually became very clear that my husband was not receptive to me acting in the same way that I did while we were still happily married. When I tried to act as if we were any other married couple or that nothing was wrong, he would act distant or he would start to avoid me. If I pushed, it would get even worse and I would have to work very hard to even get him to take my calls. Frankly, there were times when I could almost literally feel him wince when I told him I loved him.

As hard as it was to accept, I started to realize that if I didn’t change some things, I might be making this situation a whole lot worse. So I made a conscious decision to back off some. Did this mean I didn’t love my husband? No, if anything, I loved him just as much if not more. But I knew that if I was going to have a chance to maintain that love, I was going to have to find the strategy that brought him closer to me rather than pushing further away.

And when I tried to push my love on to him, this definitely made him pull further away. So, I toned down my demonstrations and declarations of love. I told myself that this was only temporary, but it was difficult. Still, I knew what was most important was my long term goal and not my declarations of love in the moment.

My backing off did eventually make things better because it eventually made my husband more receptive to me again. And his being receptive to me meant that we got to spend more time together – which never would have happened if I had continued on with my pushing.

I can’t tell you what will work in your own situation. I can only suggest that if you notice something not working, then it sometimes makes sense to test out something else – if only once. Perhaps next time you talk to your husband and it is time to sign off, you might try something like: “tonight, I’m not going to insist that I love you, even though I do. I sense that it makes you uncomfortable. But I didn’t want you to think that I was angry or anything. I’m just trying to respect your wishes and not push.”

At this point, your husband could reassure you that the loving phrases are fine. Or, he may not say anything – in which case his silence speaks volumes. If you do decide to back off and you find that the next time you talk, he seems more comfortable, then you may speculate that backing off a little has helped.

I know that it might seem weird and almost dishonest to hold back with your own spouse. But a separation can be a very fragile time in a relationship – especially when one spouse has asked for space or isn’t sure what he wants. It become my opinion that if backing off a little is what it took for my husband to eventually be available to me, I was willing to pay that price at the time. Because I knew that it was part of a long-term strategy that was going to mean that I wouldn’t have to hold back once we reconciled.

Today, I tell him that I love him all of the time, so holding off was worth it to me. And I believe it helped. But every situation is different. In some situations, both spouses are perfectly comfortable with still saying they love one another. And that’s wonderful. But it was not my reality. Still, if every one is happy, then I don’t see any reason to hold back.

Love is the essence of life. It is where all life begins, and the foundation for every dignifying emotion man has been capable of expressing. Where love is missing, there is no life. Creation itself rotates on the axis of love. The love of the Creator is the beginning of creation. Our being here therefore is the answer of the creator to our request to explore the full potentials of the human spirit.

It is the essence of creation and the rationale for our individual incarnations! Love in its eternal essence gives the most treasured gift that man has, Hope. An acceptance of the love of the Creator, helps us to understand His Laws and we make attempt to adapt ourselves to these laws. In a dim human way, we attempt to return this love. When we do not have the essence of love, we become very critical and intolerant. However, we tend to translate this love in too much of a human way, in our concept of how we are to express it. We know of the love of our parents and sometimes take that for granted or give it expectations that are self serving. We love a child and expect the child to be an extension of our dreams and so we feel disappointed when the child expresses innately its own identification of self.

Can love be critical and tough? Yes it can, it actually must, if it tends to fulfill its primary responsibility of bringing out the best in the object of love. The rub is, we must be clear when we are critical, what we are being critical of. The ability to be objective is actually the first spring of love. To see in its totality, a person, or situation and in the process of that assessment, carry the ability to be helpful for the benefit of the person, object or situation. It is therefore sometimes essential to understand that love can be tough. This is however based on the principle that even a blind person should be able to ‘see’ the love in the correction you offer a loved one.

There is the confusion to see love as constantly self sacrificing, weak and submissive. If we sincerely look at the essence of human spirit, we will agree that it is wrong to expect a human spirit to be submissive for he is not made that way. His lack of self exertion thus is a consequence of indolence, indulgence and an inability to make use of his given free will. He has chosen to take the soft option. A vibrant love, is clear sighted about the limitations of the recipient of his love but will want to see and seek opportunities to offer serving love as distinct from self serving administration of selfish considerations!

At a sublime level therefore is the love of the Creator, who has set in motion opportunities for each human spirit to arrive at the peak of his possibilities, and abilities. He has instituted into creation thus, certain laws that is not in any way religious nor does it advocate a religion. These laws by their very essence defines for man the essence of what we mean by freedom and offers man the gateway to supreme personal happiness and attainment. It enforces compliance irrespective of our understanding of these laws. We live in creation, are in it but not of it as we all sense that there is much more than we can see, hear, sense and touch.

These laws are anchored in the Love of the Creator. They offer to man the keys to a life that can be happy. It invites us to be self critical, exert ourselves and offers both an explanation and a way to those things in creation we are puzzled about. It offers through the laws of reciprocity, that maturing fruits started from seed level and could be different from one seed to the other according to the specie of the act.

Man lives his life at three levels. He plants the consequences of his life on these levels. His words are immediate and therefore active, just as his actions can be seen by all. However a more potent aspect of his life is his thoughts and because of the nature of their ability to be cloaked if it so wishes, we sow thought forms that might take eons to fructify! We however take relief in the knowledge that in understanding of the quirks of human nature, the Creator in love anchored this law so we might learn and grow. That is love too.

In the laws of the Creator, no man is condemned except by himself when he fails to understand the beauty and concept of love. Thus simply put, love is the essence of life. The very many trails we face, in our personal lives and jointly as a community or as a nation are opportunities offered to be better than our yesterdays. The growth to arrive at the apex of our existence as truly human spiritual!

The aromatic massage candles do not burn anymore, the sexy alluring lingerie is just lying inside the drawer, everything that made love spicy and fun once is folded with layers of dust. This is not just any distinct illusion, but actually a reflection of the reality of today’s world. In order to jam with the busy schedule, couples find it really difficult to keep the spark alive. And for obvious reasons, those good times have turned into mere memories only. So, what are the things that can revive those memories? Here I will reveal top secrets to living a better love life.

1. Let’s date like old times: Sounds ridiculous, right? But trust me, this is one of the best ways to resume the play button of your love life. If you are married and also have kids, then you have quite a compact schedule. And to do something out of the box, you need proper planning. So, fix a time with your better half. Do whatever you wanted to for a long time. To make things spicier, you can buy attractive outfits or something that arouses your love. Have fun in your way.

2. A new hobby on the way: Build up a new hobby. You two can join a dancing class, gym, cooking lesion or anything that makes both of you happy. This new hobby would take your understanding to a different level. Talk with your partner about it. And make sure that the hobby is really interesting.

3. It is time to go out: Never miss a day if you have the opportunity to go out. It is really important to spend some time outside. You can book a restaurant to try out your favorite cuisine, or you can go for hiking. Try out some new things and break the boredom of regular lifestyle.

4. Adorn your bedroom: Whenever we see something new, it gives our brain a feel-good signal. Human nature is amazing and it naturally gets attracted towards beautiful sites. To improve your love life, it is important to change your lifestyle. Decorate your bedroom in an artistic way. Firstly, dust away every grime of dirt and give your room a freshness. You can definitely lit beautiful candles, but do not do something that gives quirky smile on your housekeeper’s face. It would be beautiful if you change your bedspreads. Remove unnecessary things and give your bedroom a stunning décor. Adorn in such a way that the moment your better half enters the room starts feeling a breeze of freshness and peace.

5. Know your partner: Many times, couples do not understand their desires and misinterprets. A Couple needs to know what exactly do they want from each other. Both may not have the same libido or same frequency. So, to understand your better-half, you need to talk about this matter. Break the taboo and have an open discussion. I am pretty sure that this thing would definitely amplify your love life.

6. Be spontaneous: It is always fun to try out things out of the blue. Surprise your partner in the most unusual way possible. When nobody is at home, then do not limit your libido to the bedroom only. The whole house is yours, start from wherever you want. Buy new lingerie and tell your partner about it. Talk about lovemaking and other charming things that can really make you two electrified.

7. Elevate the mood with massage candles: The power of aromatic candles is beyond anything. Since ancient times, aroma therapy has been considered as one of the powerful methods to uplift mind and body. It arouses our senses for real. To save your rocky love, you need these massage candles in your life. On days when you two feel really exhausted, give your partner a good massage with candles and oils. Trust me, it would relax both of you. A gentle touch, kiss, foreplay, and gradually ascending towards a romantic night – this is the power of candles.

8. Let’s play tonight: Rather than jumping straight to bed and starting the usual chore, try out something playful. Try out some cool and sexy games, turn on your partner gradually. The trailer for a long-lasting fun is always played in slow motion. So, go slow, play slow and turn it on.

9. A healthy lifestyle is a key: Sometimes, we do not realize the connection between our love life and healthy lifestyle. Actually, they are directly proportional to each other. The more healthy you eat, the more bouncy and fun your relationship becomes. Do not focus on the numbers of pound you are getting rid of, more important is to stay healthy and fit. A healthy lifestyle makes your focus sharp, freshens up your mind and body. And ultimately, helps you to lead an amazing love life.

10. Stop being dubious: Space is really important in a relationship. If you doubt your partner all the time and restrict from enjoying with friends and family, then it is high time you stop doing so. Let your partner enjoy own life. The more trust you show, the more love you get. See, isn’t it simple?

According to the old adage, there is no time to shower love and affection. If you are worried about the present, then don’t be. Because the present is actually an accumulation of the current ripples. You can change everything with just a little effort. These tips would surely help you to revive your love life in a new way. These are easy to follow and most importantly are full of fun. So, keep unraveling the layers of relationship.

Love language. Is that some special kind of lingo spoken by lovebirds? Many would be at a loss when asked what their love language is, as they may not have given much thought to it. However, just like any other language, it is simply your primary way of expressing and interpreting love.

In his book, The Five Love Languages, Dr Gary Chapman explains the five emotional languages, and we can all identify to at least one.

Words of Affirmation

What you say is of great importance to your partner if this is her way of identifying to love. She may love to hear those “I love you” and “You make me happy” statements you hold in. Encouragement, verbal appreciation and compliments make some people feel special and loved.

Receiving Gifts

This is for those who value gifts as touching and meaningful. This, of course, may be mistaken as materialism by many, and in such an acquisitive era, they could be partially right. But if your spouse speaks this language, they not only appreciate the gifts, but also the thought and effort behind the gesture. Even something as simple as a pen or a favourite meal could make your partner’s day.

Quality Time

For some, ‘being there’ is what counts. Spending time together is important to the person that speaks this love language. The time you spend together does not have to be occupied with any particular activity like watching a movie. Just enjoying each other’s company, even in silence, fulfils the person, and makes them feel special and loved.

Acts of Service

Washing the car, ironing, polishing shoes… can these be expressions of love? Certainly! The efforts one will make to relieve or ease the burden of certain responsibilities, of whatever kind, is greatly appreciated by those that speak this love language. Again, this does not mean that the person is lazy; it is simply a gift of love.

Physical Touch

This does not have much to do with bedroom matters. The person that speaks this language is very touchy; holds hands, hugs, cuddles, and touches their spouse a lot while interacting. All these gestures communicate love, care and concern.

Knowing and understanding your love language

In order to know and understand your own language, ask yourself three important questions.

· How do I express love to others? You may, for instance, express your love best by giving thoughtful gifts to those you love.

· What do I request most from people I associate with? You may find that you love to feel appreciated and acknowledged for what you do

· What do I complain about the most? You may complain that your significant other does notice when you do something really well, highlighting your need to be acknowledged

Ask your spouse the same questions to find out his predisposition too.

Why you should know your love language

There are many ways we express love to one another, but the five languages listed above make up the key categories that most people identify with. You may feel like you speak all, but research has proved that although we may identify with all, most of us primarily speak only one language of love.

There are many cases of people in relationships feeling unloved while in the real sense, it could be that their significant other does not understand their language of love. It is important for you and your spouse to know your own as well as each other’s language so as to love each other on purpose. Understanding your spouse’s language will enable you to love her in a way she can relate to. It will also help you to determine how best to respond to her when she is feeling down. Maybe she needs a hug or perhaps just some words of love will do the trick. Her inclinations will suggestively determine this.

Once you and your spouse know your own love languages, not only should you share them with each other but also act upon them. You may each, however, have to make slight adjustments after learning these truths. Be open to making these adjustments as they may make a big difference in the way you relate to each other. If done right, you should see greater joy and fulfilment your relationship. And in the bedroom, let’s just say a new gate to practical and powerful sex will be waiting for you!

I wonder if someone could explain this in words. No not at all, it is not easy to hold the weight of words describing family love. Yeah but someone can do the job nicely! The one who has departed from his family members or the one who is unable to see the beautiful faces of his parents and siblings. The one who has pulled up stakes from his family will surely realize later, that he has lost something worth caring. They all can feel the importance of Mother love in it’s intense form. They can realize the importance of father’s intimacy and the confidence of sharing tales with one’s siblings.

Though sometimes out of anger and wrath we behave unfriendly but it does not mean that we don’t care for each other. Family quarrels are bitter things but are of least importance. We should not care about these few bitter memories but rather we must think about the existing love within our family members.

Actually a family is the building block of a society. Many families when combined give rise to a social network. If the building block of a society is scattered then imagine the bitterness that spoils the whole society! But if the family members are linked to each other with the strong bonds of love and intimacy, a prosperous society will be developed.

Family members are amongst those few people in this present day world, who will genuinely worry about you. They will always be there for you, to fall back upon when you have been disillusioned with the outside world. Though at times it feels that they are interfering too much in your life, it’s only because they care for you. If sometimes you feel bad about them, do focus on your mistakes and errors and be sorry for them.

In family life, love plays the role of a magic bullet which helps you to overcome all the difficulties that come across your path. You are able to share all your sorrows and pleasures also with people who really love you and care for you! The love of your family is your ultimate confidence and strength, so take care of your family members and truly love them before it’s too late and you have to repent on your carelessness.

“There’s no vocabulary for love within a family, love that’s lived in but not looked at, love within the light of which all else is seen, the love within which all other love finds speech. This love is silent.”