The 7 Mysterious Ways of Guys and How To Understand Them

It is not easy to know what guys are thinking. You may find it hard to understand them no matter what you do. You have to be willing to do what you can to make this worth your while. You want to into any relationship better understand men and all that they do and why they do it.

This is going to be something that is worth your time because you will be closer to getting to know the mystery behind men and why it is so important.

1. Guys like to keep their feelings to themselves.

This is something that will drive a girl crazy. She wants to know he is thinking so that she can better understand him and all that he is. It is not a good feeling when a guy shuts out his emotions and does not talk about what he is really feeling inside. This can be a very hard thing to deal with in a relationship and woman can get frustrated fast.

2. Do not let a man use his powers to change your mind.

This is a very mysterious power that a man can have over a woman. They can make you feel one-way so that you change your mind about something that you want or need. This is not acceptable, but how do they do it? We as women need to stand up for who we are and let them know that they cannot make us change our mind and that we have the right to do what we feel we should. This will take care of the power trip that they think they have to be on.

3. Why don’t men like to communicate?

This is a very good question. Most women like to talk to their man and get a feeling of what is going on in their work and their other personal life. This is very normal and most men have a hard time opening up to their woman about what is going on. It is hard for them to sit down and talk about things that happen in their day. For most women they will let this go, but some like to push the issue and find out as much as they can until the man finally gives in or stops talking about it all together.

4. Men like to be alone.

This is true for some men. They want to be by themselves or go out with their friends but do not give us as women a reason. This can be very frustrating because you are not sure what is going on and why the man is not home with you. Sometimes we just have to let the man have their space and give them the room to breath that they need. This is not unusual for most men that like to do things on their own without their girlfriend or wife hanging around.

5. The strong connection to their mom.

This is something that can be confusing to us. Many men have a very strong bond with their mother. For some women they can appreciate this and even think that it is cute. However there are some that think it is abnormal and very mysterious. We have to appreciate the bond that is there between a man and his mother. This is something that should not be messed with and women have to let it go no matter what kind of problem it causes with the relationship.

6. Why do men forget birthdays and anniversaries?

This has been going on for a long time. It is not all men but most of them. They have a short-term memory when it comes to these special dates. We should not over expect anything and be patient. There is no reason to get all worked up over their terrible memory. Just remind them and make sure that they give you a great present that you will love!

7. Men are not great housekeepers and this is no secret.

However, we should not get on them every chance we get about this problem. We have to let them be who they are and just accept it. It is not their fault that they forget to pick up their socks or put their towels in the hamper. This is just something that we have to accept, but we may try and change their behavior and get them to finally pick up after themselves and help us around the house.

How Do I Become a Guy Magnet? Learn How You Can Separate Yourself From Other Women and Get Guys

You are sick and tired of being the plain Jane and harbour the desire that whenever you go out men never fail to notice you and find it difficult to get their eyes off you. Nothing in this world comes just like that and you will have to work upon yourself. Follow these simple yet powerful tips to be on the road to becoming a diva.

Get that envious body

This is an absolute must because honestly there is only so much you can do about your face and the way you look. These are the days of cosmetic surgery which cost a bomb. A better idea would be to join a gym and tone up your body. Working out will also make you feel good as feeling good is the first step towards looking great.

Revamp your wardrobe

Take help of a stylist if you must but know that you have to be in sync with the times. So, if need be redo your wardrobe, get in all the clothes, shoes, bags and things that will make you look the tops. Half your job is done if you are dressed to kill.

Have that joie de vivre spirit around you

For this fall in love with yourself and let all the men around you think of you as a woman who knows herself and knows how to enjoy life. In all sincerity, if you manage to appear this way, you will appear more attractive to everyone and all men will want to know you.

Make them pine away for a piece of you

When in the company of others, make sure you are good company. The simple fact is that the more you are able to make some someone feel good about him the more he will want to be with you. Add a big dash of humor to that and there is no way that you won’t be able to get into any man’s heart.

Get to where all the action is

Now obviously you don’t want to be at home watching T.V in your ambition to be a man magnet. Enrol at all the right clubs and be sure to be seen at all the right social dos and parties. Because these are the places you will have all the opportunity to flaunt your charms.

Bolster their egos and grab their attention

Which man doesn’t love it when he is made to feel sexy, adorable, macho, and wow. So, go ahead and inject guys with all the ego boosters. This will make sure that they will gather around you and clamour for your attention.

Make sure your list of admirers keeps on growing

Now it is simplicity itself that if a man sees you surrounded by so many men he himself will want to find out what it is that makes you so special and he will himself join in your set of admirers.

Dating Advice – 15 Signs She Might Be A Player

As guys, we know that women can be complicated and tricky. Keep in mind that most women aren’t out to play games, and are just good, well-intentioned girls. However, many guys know all too well that player girls are out there.  Let’s say you’ve meet someone new and things seem to be going well. She’s smart, funny, sexy and seems like a great catch. However, there’s a strange nagging feeling that you can’t quite put your finger on it. Something just doesn’t seem right. Perhaps some of her stories don’t seem to add up, or there’s been a bit of suspicious behavior. In relationships, it’s always a good idea to trust your instincts, but conversely it’s important to have facts before you take any drastic actions. Could you just be reading into things too much, or could it be that the girl you’re dating might be a player? Here we’ll help you find out if she’s legit, or if she’s not all that she seems.

What Is A Player?

Before we can figure out if she’s a player, we first have to define exactly what a player is. This could mean a couple different things, but really a player is a girl who plays games with your emotions and is always on the look out to “trade up”. The games she plays may vary, but it really just comes down to keeping you around to entertain her until she meets someone that she likes more. Some women are good at using lots of tricks to get us men wrapped around their finger, and then drop us like a dead fish as soon as they find someone else.  Player girls are often very smart and adapt at manipulating you or pretend to care about you to get what they want. She could even be secretly seeing other people while making you think that you’re the only one.  Seeing several people at once doesn’t automatically make her a player, just so she isn’t hiding that fact. It’s more about the honestly and intent.

What Makes Player Girls Tick?

A player girl’s biggest motivation is that she doesn’t want to be alone even for a few brief moments. Also, there’s her irrational need to have lots of male attention at all times. Typically they will have several interested guys “orbiting” around trying to win her over. She plays along just enough to keep them around, but also acts aloof as if they’re “just buddies”.

Now that we know what a player girl is, let’s take a look at some tell-tale signs to be on the look out for.

1- She flirts with other guys in front of you

This should be like a warning siren on a nuclear submarine. Try not over-react and give her some benefit of the doubt. You might be over analyzing the situation and seeing something that’s not really there.  Maybe she’s just being nice.  But if you’re certain that she really is flirting with another guy, here’s what to do. Don’t be jerk, act rude or make a scene. Even if she is a player, word can get around if you react badly. Above all keep your cool.  Just grab your cell phone, your keys and your dignity, stand up and leave. Play it cool and just make up some excuse that you forgot there’s somewhere you’ve got to be. Try to leave gracefully and not make a scene. But let’s be honest, if a girl would blatantly do this in front of you, then you two don’t really have much of a future together.

2- She’s often late and has a lot of weak excuses

Many girls are just constantly late or flaky. After all, looking amazing takes time, right. However, if she’s constantly really late, doesn’t show up at all or is always rescheduling at the last minute with really weak excuses, that’s a bad sign. If her excuses just don’t add up or make scene, it might be because they’re not true.

3- She’ll ditch you for her friends at the drop of a hat

You may have made plans with well in advance, but then she cancels the day of your big date. Unless she has a really good excuse, then I’d take this as a bad sign. Maybe another guy asked her out at the last minute so she ditched you. This is a common theme of player girls. They are often very insecure and can’t stand the idea of being alone. Even if they don’t really like a guy, they will keep him around as sort of a “hold over boyfriend” until they meet someone they like more.  So if she’ll break plans with you at the last minute to see her friends, then she probably isn’t that into you. In this situation, it’s best to move on.

4- She introduces you as a friend

If you’ve only been dating someone a short time, it could be normal for her to tell people that you’re friends. However, she won’t say things to people like “no, we’re just friends”. That’s the kiss of death. Despite what movies and other pop-culture have lead you to believe, there’s no escaping the friend-zone. Think of this, as a social black hole from which there is very little hope of returning. If you find yourself firmly stuck in friend-zone, it’s best to just cut your losses and meet someone new. Keep in mind that a true player girl would always have at least a couple of “friend-zone” men around to keep her company at all times.

5- Her friends suddenly appear on your date

If you’re out on what you understood to be a date, it’s possible that you could happen to run into a few of her friends. In this situation, it’s best to just be friendly and go with the flow. After all, if you can win over her friends then it can increase your chances of winning her over as well. On the other hand, if it seems that this happens every time you guys are together it could be by her design. She may have planned this as a way to avoid you two having to spend time along together. This could be a big sign that she just wants to be friends, but you’ll need more information to make that call.

There’s another popular variation of this that some girls often use. If at the last minute they ask if they can bring a friend, or just show up with one that could be a bad sign. If the friend is another guy, then it’s pretty much over between the two of you. She is either just completely clueless or is actually playing games with you.

6- Talk a lot about other guys or ex-boyfriends

This is another warning flag to look-out for. It’s obvious that if girl constantly talks about her ex, that she might not be over him. But what if a girl constantly talks about other guys? I used to be friends with this girl who we’ll call Shaunda. All she ever talked about was all the guys she’s dated, and every one of her stories started with “this guy I used to date… “. It seemed that she had dated a ton of guys, but never seemed to have a boyfriend. She was very attractive, so easily could have if she wanted to. Over time it became apparent that Shaunda was little bit of a player. She always needed to have lots of guys around her and always seemed to be looking for the next “trade-up”.

7- She frequently lots needs alone time

This usually only applies if you’ve already been out with a girl a few times.  Whenever you have plans (or try to make plans) does she says something like she’s too busy and just needs a little time for herself? Then she assures you that she really does want to see you again soon. It could be that she really does needs some down time, but it could be a game she’s playing. Perhaps she doesn’t want to loose you completely, because she likes having guys around to pay attention to her. However, she doesn’t want to actually be in a relationship with you and is just biding her time until she meets someone else.

8- Always seems “overly busy”, flakey or won’t commit to plans

This is another common girl trick. You want to make plans with her but she always act as if she is just supper busy in very non-specific, seemingly unimportant ways. It’s possible that she has a very demanding job or really does have some legitimate reasons. However, this is the very nature of the types of tricks which players girls use.  They have excuses that could be legitimate, and it’s very hard to have a specific instance that you can call them out on.

9-“Call me to confirm”

In my opinion, this may be the smartest, most cunning and diabolical trick that player girls use. It’s so ingenious that you have to almost admire it for its creativeness. “What’s that… you want to see me on Thursday? I’m pretty sure I can make it, but just call me to confirm”. If a girl ever said to you when you asked her out, then you’ve either just been massively blown off or are being placed in a “holding pattern” as a backup up in case nothing better comes along. What makes this so creative is that if something better does come up, she has an easy out. However, she still has the option to see you if nothing else materialize. In any situation like this, it’s important to try and take the high road. Don’t be rude or act like a jerk. Instead, play it cool.  Maybe just say, “Sure, that sounds good”. Then the next day text her to say that YOU had something come up and won’t be able to see her as planed.

10- Breaks off dates at the last minute

Similar to number 3, if she will break plans with you at the last minute (and with a very flimsy excuse) that could indicate that she’s a player. It could be that she just has no interested in dating you at all. However, if she does tell you that she really does want to go out with you sometime, then it’s likely that she’s just playing games.

11-Never initiates contact or dates

If you have to do all the work to initiate contact or arrange dates, then it’s not a good sign for that relationship. Imagine if one of your guy friends acted like that. You always had to call them, otherwise you never heard from them. That friendship probably wouldn’t last too long, and the same thing applies here.  Granted that some girls have more old-fashioned ideas about the guy taking the lead. But this usually only applies in the beginning of the relationship. Once you’ve gone out a few times, it’s reasonable to expect her to take some initiative in calling, texting or wanting to see you.

12- Cheesy Excuses

If you constantly hear any of the following from a girl you’ve been seeing then be wary.  “My phone died”, “sorry, I forgot about our plans”, “I got… busy”, “maybe next time”, “sorry you feel that way”. She could just be trying to give you the hint that she’s not into you, or she could be playing games.

13- Doesn’t Show Affection

If you keep going out with a girl it’s only naturally that you two would be affectionate. However, if it always seems like you have to initiate everything it could be a bad sign.

14- Only talks about herself

This one really gets to the heart of what motivates a girl who enjoys playing games. It’s really all about selfishness. She really doesn’t care about the guys she’s leading on, and is really just interested in what’s in it for her. If she constantly talks about herself and generally seems self-absorbed, that could be a bad sign for things to come.

15- Doesn’t bring you around her friends

This is a classic sign that you’re being lead-on. It’s a bad sign if you’ve been seeing a girl for a while, but have never meet any of her friends. Does she ever bring you around her friends, or invites you to any social events with her friends? If the answer is no, it’s because she doesn’t want you to meet them. It’s likely that she just sees you as “hold-over” material until someone better comes along. Similarly, it’s a bad sign if she doesn’t want to go anywhere in public with you where she might encounter people she knows.

The Wrap-Up

Us guys have to put up with a lot in our search for love. Even when we have the best intentions, it’s possible the girl may not be on the up-and-up. As I mentioned before, don’t be paranoid and just assume that all girls are like this. The majority of women out there are just decent people who do want to meet someone. But be on the look out for player girls. They can be rude, heartless and would probably ditch you in a second if something better came along. Player girls usually act this way out of a deep insecurity and shallowness. However, the real reason a girl treats you like this is that you let her. My personally dating philosophy which I try to stress is simple. No matter what happens, play it cool. Don’t be a hot-headed jerk. Instead, if a girl treats you like this, just stop calling her. You can’t save that relationship, but you can save your dignity. I know I’ve said this before. There are over 6 billion people on the planet. That means your odds on meeting someone new are pretty good.

Make Him Beg For You What Guys Really Want

Do you know what guys really want? Have you ever thought about what goes through a man’s mind when they see a beautiful woman? And why is it that some ugly girls are able to get really handsome guys? It’s all about understanding what guys look for in a partners and appealing to their basic instincts. A basic understanding of male psychology will tell you that men are more complicated than most women think. If you want to win the heart of your dream man you will need to understand this and learn what guys really want.

So what exactly is it that guys are looking for? The first thing you should do is forget the stereotypes. Most men really do not want one of the girls you see in the magazines. The fashion industry is always trying to sell us an ideal and men’s minds simply do not work that way. Every man will find a different type of girl more attractive (and by type I don’t mean blonds and brunettes). Some guys do like skinny girls but others prefer plump girls, or petite girls, or busty girls, or cute girls. Most guys will not have one particular ‘type’ but many or simply find some girls more attractive seemingly at random without being able to explain why. In fact a lot of men find the idea of a ‘type’ ridiculous and simply judge a woman’s attractiveness based on individual merits. There really is no unifying rule of what is attractive or desirable, and whatever you look like there will be at least one guy out there who thinks you are gorgeous.

Remember this the next time you see a model in a magazine and feel inadequate. In fact, the most important thing is to feel comfortable with your own body so that you can feel confident about yourself. Confidence is one quality that all men find attractive and an outgoing, outspoken girl is what guys really want.

Whether you are insecure about your body or not there really is very little you can do about it, besides playing up your best physical features. So you should focus your efforts into making your personality more appealing. Guys love girls who are positive and fun to be around. Having the ability to talk to a guy about whatever interests them is another important factor in how attracted to you he will be. What guys really want is someone they can talk to for hours without getting bored – an ultimate companion that can be their friend as well as their lover.

Why Do Guys Stop Liking Me After a While? Find Out Why You Always End Up Unlucky in Most Cases

Perhaps by now you already know that men are more attracted to women who give them a chance to pursue. You may already be hoping for rosy moments with this man when you realize that he’s actually stopped liking you. So what’s up with him?

You were simply too easy.

Maybe his chase ended too soon because you cut it short. He may have looked forward to winning you the hard way yet you’ve given up even before he could even begin the journey towards becoming your man.

You were with him all the time.

He may have looked at his left and saw you. He tried looking away and guess who he still sees? You. And what a tragedy it is because he really wanted you to become his girlfriend it’s just that you spooked him by becoming to available.

The mystery is long gone.

Maybe it took him only a very short time to discover everything about you. Now he’s got nothing more to find out. Keep in mind that guys love to know that the woman they’re dating knows how to ration info about herself because that’s the only way that they’re going to get hooked on.

You’ve treated him badly.

He might have liked you a lot on the onset yet finding out that you can’t even treat him right made him realize that he shouldn’t even seek you out anymore. You may have implied that he isn’t such a great boyfriend and so now he wants to date someone who thinks highly of him.

You’re like his boss in flesh and blood.

This guy must detest his boss a lot and now you’re here, reminding him – in a manner – how a dominating attitude is far from likable. And yet you even wonder why he stopped liking you?

He suddenly realized that you’re not his type after all.

You may have given him a wrong impression of you that’s why when he realized that you’re not the type of girl he thought you were, he just stopped liking you. Rather than risk you falling hard for him, he’d much rather leave now that your feelings for him aren’t that deep.

He could have found someone more interesting.

As painful as this may be, there are times when you cross paths with a real jerk. Now that this guy has found a better woman, he will deliberately leave you in order to be with that woman – the only recourse that you have is to just move on!

Glutamine – The Smart Choice For Skinny Guys Who Want to Gain Muscle Mass?

If you are one of those guys who religiously read the muscle magazines for the latest “edge” for bodybuilding… then I have some sad, sad news for you concerning Glutamine…

But before I rock your boat… you are definitely gonna see “Glutamine” on the top 5 list of supplements that are must haves for bodybuilders — in every issue of the bodybuilding and muscle magazines.

And why not? Glutamine is a money maker for them.

But does Glutamine actually deliver? I don’t think so…

And I think you are better served if you stick with the basic supplements of creatine, protein powder, multi-vitamins and fish oil capsules. And speaking as a skinny guy with a budget… I truly believe you are just wasting money on glutamine.

I don’t think Glutamine has any effect at all on your muscle building efforts. But that is just me…

Here is the down and dirty story of Glutamine…

You see, glutamine makes up about 66% of the amino acids in our bodies… and guess what? Your body makes it so it doesn’t need any external input… and yes… when you are working out… the amino acid reserve in our muscles get depleted…

And I guess this is where the theory that you must replenish your glutamine levels comes in…

But… there is NO research that can show evidence of the benefits of taking glutamines. Especially for skinny guys like you and me.

And users of Glutamine are probably spend over $1000 a year in the misguided belief that it is helping their muscle building workouts.

If taking Glutamine does have any positive effects… it would only be for certain conditions and situations… but otherwise a huge waste of money that you can redirect into buying better quality foods to help you gain weight.

How to Attract Hot Guys? Here is How to Effortlessly Attract Hot Guys Real Fast

Tired of chasing the man of your dreams? Have you lost hope in making him notice that you exist?

HOT GUYS have special tastes. If you are just about to give up in making him like you, then this article will teach you how to attract a hot guy.

1. Show some skin but don’t be too revealing.

Tease him and make him drool but don’t over do it. Men are visual in nature, so they can’t resist looking at some skin that shows.

2. Wear make up but don’t look like a slut.

Putting on some light make up will make you look sexier and blooming. Hot men want their girls look presentable to bring anywhere. Cover those blemish and dark circles while you make your lips as sexy as Angelina Jolies’s.

3. Don’t use moose, hair sprays and creams.

Some girls think that a steady sexy hair is attractive. Well, this is true but natural is still better. You can style your hair without making it stiff. It is funny to move your head with your hair staying in place. The softer your hair, the more often it means that you’re taking a shower.

4. Act with poise.

Showing elegance makes a man appreciate your feminine side. Avoid being careless and acting boyish. Hot men want girls who act with grace.

5. Lick your spoon.

Giving your spoon a lick is like showing how well you can kiss. You can do this while eating your favorite desert in front of him. Put the spoon in your mouth, with your eyes closed, then slowly pull it out with the tip of your tongue licking the residue.

6. Walk and talk confidently.

Hot guys are oozing with confidence so he wants someone who has a lot of it too. The ways you walk and talk can make a lasting impression on man. It can make him attracted or turned off permanently. Make him feel that you know what you are talking about and walk with your butt and breast out.

7. Drop your keys and activate his imagination.

Men interpret your moves. So, letting your keys fall “accidentally” with you picking it up in a sexy way can make him drool. Let him imagine that you can please him in many ways.

The first step in getting the man of your dreams is to make him attracted to you. There is nothing wrong with being seductive sometimes. You know that you are not a bad girl and you just want him to notice you, so catch his attention first, then the rest will follow.

The Best Sexual Positions: The Top 5 Mistakes Most Guys Make

One of the many challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. The biggest fears are that the woman will get bored with the “same old, same old” and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, what are the best sexual positions?

The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, I’ll now talk about the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won’t continue making them.

Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs banging beautiful broads, and… well, they just don’t know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are meant to display a good scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.

And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With her pelvis bent back that far, she can feel pain in her cervix if you push in too far. Plus it’s a position that puts pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go behind the scenes and watch the making of an adult movie, you’ll see how quickly the mood gets killed when the actress keeps having to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)

Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. To a woman, sex is a way to get closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on the underside of her thighs. So here’s a tip for you to try… Next time you’re having sex with your woman (while you’re engaged in actual intercourse, that is), get more of your weight on her. You see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys feeling her man’s body pressed hard against her.

So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman will tell you that she feels like she’s being smooshed. Of course, do this within limits! If you’re on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can feel painful for her.

But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least some of the man’s weight. So save the gentlemanly sex for the royal family’s women!

Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do all the work when she’s on top. For virtually every woman, sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.

Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp. A lot of guys have read too many “Men are From Mars”-type books and think women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just “do it.” Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and… she’ll LOVE it! And don’t worry about it. If something is going on that the woman doesn’t like, she’ll let you know.

Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don’t need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.

Tricky positions are just frustrating for everybody and often kill the mood because there’s too much “where should I put my arm?”… and not enough “let’s just have fun exploring.”

5 Hardgainer Tips For Skinny Guys Who Want To Be Bodybuilders

Ectomorphs are called hardgainers because, well, it’s hard for them to gain muscle. Having a taller, thin body with small wrist and ankle joints is a dead giveaway that your frame isn’t genetically-optimized for building and carrying a lot of muscle – but that certainly shouldn’t hold you back when it comes to becoming a bodybuilder, because EVERYONE can build and maintain lean muscle mass!

Here are 5 hardgainer tips for skinny guys and girls who want to be bodybuilders:

Hardgainer Tip #1: Have Realistic Expectations

Ectomorphs will never win the Mr. Olympia title – but neither will 99.999% of other bodybuilders either. All over the world there are bodybuilders working hard in the gym for a thousand hours a year while eating right, sleeping right and taking all kinds of supplements and performance-enhancing drugs (PEDs) – and at that level you need everything to be on point – including your genetics. But building muscle, have a great body and looking great in the gym or on the beach can be achieved by hardgainers, even without the genetics of a gorilla or truckloads of PEDs.

Most likely you already have one major advantage over other bodybuilders – very little bodyfat. Typically a hardgainer has a fast metabolism and is no more genetically predisposed to carrying much bodyfat than he or she is to building muscle. So as you visualize the body you want to build, picture yourself with a bit less bodyfat than you’re currently carrying and with more muscle mass. How much more? That’s going to depend on YOU – how relentless you are in your pursuit of a bodybuilder physique.

Hardgainer Tip #2: Train Smart In The Gym

As a skinny guy trying to build bigger muscles, you have to train smart and stick to the proven principles. Make sure the bulk of your workouts are focused around the big compound lifts – squats, deadlifts, bent rows, bench press and overhead presses. Yes, you’ll want some isolation exercises for arms, abs and calves, but keep the bulk of your energy & time focused on the lifts that are the proven-best muscle mass builders. And keep your ego in check – constantly trying for new personal record lifts (PRs) will hold back your gains. Endomorphs and some mesomorphs might gain noticeable muscle size from powerlifting workouts, but most ectomorphs will simply get a lot stronger without getting much bigger from that style of training.

Instead, aim to do 5 to ten sets for each exercise, with 8 to 12 reps per set. Don’t rush through your sets, but instead do each of your reps using a count of 1-2 seconds on the concentric portion of the lift and 3-5 seconds for the eccentric portion. (You can always tell which is the concentric portion for any lift – it’s the part where the muscle you’re working is getting shorter and contracting. Consider the upward motion of squats, deadlifts, rows, etc, and the downward motion of triceps pushdowns, etc.)

Rest between sets is important too. You’ll see a lot about time-under-tension (TUT) that suggests you keep intra-set breaks to 30 or 40 seconds max, but that’s not always the best advice for true hardgainers – resting 30 seconds between sets burns 50% more calories than 3-minute rests according to Dr. Jim Stoppani. While a high volume of sets and 3-minute breaks per set would take way too long, aim to get about a minute rest between sets.

Keep your form strict, and use weights that let you get 10 or 12 reps on your first few sets without breaking form, but that only let you get 6 to 8 reps on your last couple of sets. If, on those last couple of sets you can’t get 6 reps then the weight is too heavy. Conversely, if you still get to ten reps on your last set keep going to failure on that set, then increase the weight for your next workout til you’re back in that 6-8 rep range for your last set.

In many, if not most cases, hardgainers’ fast metabolisms allow their bodies to repair themselves fairly quickly. Because of that, be sure to work each bodypart at least twice per week – in fact, a full-body workout on 3 non-consecutive days is often ideal.

Hardgainer Tip #3: Eat Clean, Eat Healthy & Eat MORE

Anyone trying to be a bodybuilder needs to consume plenty of calories every day – and hardgainers need to consume a LOT more clean calories than others would. Yes, you have tons of energy. That’s courtesy of your faster metabolism and it’s habit of burning glucose, glycogen, carbohydrates and protein to keep you supercharged. But let go of the concept that you ‘can eat anything’ – that’s a common myth amongst hardgainers because they don’t put on much bodyfat from a poor diet. You need to understand that too many simple carbs on a regular basis can dull your insulin receptors. Not only can that lead to Type 2 Diabetes down the road, but insulin is the main transport for glucose into the muscles where that glucose is stored as glycogen and is used to fuel muscle activity.

Instead, plan to eat a cleaner diet with plenty of protein, complex carbohydrates and healthy fats. Start by figuring your daily requirements using this simple formula: you want to consume 15 calories for every pound you weigh – so at 150 pounds you’d start with 2,250 calories per day. You want at least 1 gram of protein per pound of bodyweight, and in our example that 150-pound person would eat 150 grams of protein, meaning 600 calories would come from their daily protein intake. Twenty to twenty-five percent of their calories (450 – 560 calories) should come from healthy fats, so that means the remaining 1,090 to 1,200 calories should come from carbohydrate sources like yams, brown, red or black rice, oatmeal and greens.

Remember, though, that your goal is to become a bodybuilder with plenty of lean muscle mass – which means you don’t want to stay at that 150 pounds. Once you’re nutrition is on point as detailed above, you can start adding in more calories. Start by adding 500 calories to your day and give it a couple of weeks to see the results. If you’re building muscle without adding belly fat, add another 500 calories the following month, etc. If you have trouble eating bigger meals, get the extra calories from adding a meal or two to your day – eat 4 or 5 times a day instead of 3 times per day.

In most cases, hardgainers don’t eat right and don’t eat enough. Don’t be that guy or girl – pay attention to proper nutrition and be sure to consume all your required calories every single day!

Hardgainer Tip #4: Get Enough Sleep

One great truism for bodybuilders is that muscles are worked in the gym, fed in the kitchen and built in the bedroom – while you sleep. Not getting enough sleep will prevent you from every being a true bodybuilder – remember, as an ectomorph you need everything to be just right in your routine. There’s no sense to putting a ton of effort into your workouts and tearing down the muscles if you’re not going to feed the muscles right and then sleep long enough to allow your body to repair and rebuild those muscles, making them bigger to meet the anticipated progressive resistance they’re going to face in future.

In today’s real world very few people can get 8 or 9 hours of sleep every night, but you can certainly come close if your goal as a skinny guy or girl is to become a bodybuilder. You don’t NEED to be on social media for hours every night, you don’t NEED to be texting friends til all hours of the night, and you don’t NEED to hit the clubs every single weekend. A busy social life won’t get you the muscles you want – but smart training, proper nutrition and 7 – 9 hours of sleep every night will. It all comes down to how badly you want it, right?

Hardgainer Tip #5: Strategic Supplementation

Walk into ANY professional bodybuilding supplement store and you’ll find more than enough options to completely empty your wallet, melt your debit and credit cards and leave you in debt. Fortunately for you, hardgainers can skip all but 3 or 4 of them…

For example, chances are they have a large selection of pre-workout potions and pills. But with your fast metabolism and all the carbs you’re eating, you’ve already got more energy than you know what to do with, coupled with the determination that you’ll do WHATEVER it reasonably takes to pack on bigger muscles.

So just what SHOULD you consider?

First and foremost, find a good whey protein or whey isolate powder. I don’t advise getting one of the high-calorie weight-gain protein blends, since most are jam-packed with simple sugars. Instead, look for a good, clean source of whey, and choose a flavour you like. Mix it with water or 2% milk, and have one each morning on rising since your body has no dietary protein left at that point. Then have a protein shake an hour before your workout and as soon as reasonably possible after your workout. Remember that the bulk of your protein requirements should be coming from whole foods – chicken, eggs, turkey, fish, lean beef, etc. – so you’re just topping that protein up at the times when your body can make the best use of it.

Second up is Creatine. Creatine is probably the single most-studied bodybuilding supplement, and scientific study after study has shown it to be very a very effective muscle-building aid. Throw a teaspoon of Creatine into a glass of water and drink it down at some point during the day on rest days, and both before and after your workout on training days.

Rounding out the big 3 is Branched Chain Amino Acids (BCAA’s), namely leucine, isoleucine, and valine. The purpose to supplementing with them is to help build your muscles, and they’re believed to also help keep your existing muscle mass from being cannibalized during intense workouts. Get the pills or powder and have them before, during and immediately following your workouts.

Bonus Hardgainer Tip:

Perseverance and patience have to be your guiding lights through your bodybuilding journey. As a skinny guy or girl it will take longer to build muscle mass, and you have to be consistent – while others may see gains while skipping workouts, straying off-diet, etc., you need to be reasonably strict with yourself. But fear not – follow the 5 Hardgainer Tips above and you’ll get the results you’re aiming for in due course.

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