Do you know what guys really want? Have you ever thought about what goes through a man’s mind when they see a beautiful woman? And why is it that some ugly girls are able to get really handsome guys? It’s all about understanding what guys look for in a partners and appealing to their basic instincts. A basic understanding of male psychology will tell you that men are more complicated than most women think. If you want to win the heart of your dream man you will need to understand this and learn what guys really want.

So what exactly is it that guys are looking for? The first thing you should do is forget the stereotypes. Most men really do not want one of the girls you see in the magazines. The fashion industry is always trying to sell us an ideal and men’s minds simply do not work that way. Every man will find a different type of girl more attractive (and by type I don’t mean blonds and brunettes). Some guys do like skinny girls but others prefer plump girls, or petite girls, or busty girls, or cute girls. Most guys will not have one particular ‘type’ but many or simply find some girls more attractive seemingly at random without being able to explain why. In fact a lot of men find the idea of a ‘type’ ridiculous and simply judge a woman’s attractiveness based on individual merits. There really is no unifying rule of what is attractive or desirable, and whatever you look like there will be at least one guy out there who thinks you are gorgeous.

Remember this the next time you see a model in a magazine and feel inadequate. In fact, the most important thing is to feel comfortable with your own body so that you can feel confident about yourself. Confidence is one quality that all men find attractive and an outgoing, outspoken girl is what guys really want.

Whether you are insecure about your body or not there really is very little you can do about it, besides playing up your best physical features. So you should focus your efforts into making your personality more appealing. Guys love girls who are positive and fun to be around. Having the ability to talk to a guy about whatever interests them is another important factor in how attracted to you he will be. What guys really want is someone they can talk to for hours without getting bored – an ultimate companion that can be their friend as well as their lover.