Dr. Frankel clearly identifies the common mistakes -101 in

all–that women commit unconsciously to sabotage their

careers. This book provides revolutionary guides to help

the women of today eliminate the girl-like behaviors they

became accustomed with, which hold them back professionally.

How You Play the Game

Unfortunately, women are not as trained to participate in

competitive sports. It is only recently that women started

making their marks in this field. Thus, most women do not

know the rules of the game of business. They simply do not

know how to play it–and more importantly, how to win it.

Some of the common mistakes women commit as they play the

game of business are: pretending it isn’t a game; playing

the game safely and within bounds; working hard; doing the

what you want; avoiding office politics; being the

conscience; protecting jerks; holding your tongue;

failing to capitalize on relationships; and, not

understanding the needs of your constituents.

How You Act

Being successful in the world of business is not only

dependent on your knowledge of how to play it. It is also

important to know how to act, professionally. Dr. Frankel

enumerates some unlikely behaviors in the workplace that

can be hard career busters.

These are: polling before making a decision; needing to

be liked; not needing to be liked; not asking questions

for fear of sounding stupid; acting like a man; telling

the whole truth and nothing but the truth (so help you

God); sharing too much personal information; being

overly concerned with offending others; denying the

importance of money; flirting; acquiescing to bullies;

decorating your office like your living room; feeding

others; offering a limp handshake; being financially

insecure; and, helping.

How You Think

Changing the way you think can greatly impact a change

in your career. Note the beliefs and thought patterns

you learn early in girlhood that you need to reconsider

and then eventually forget.

Some of these are: making miracles; taking full

responsibility; obediently following instructions;

viewing men in authority as father figures; limiting

your possibilities; ignoring the quid pro quo (something

that’s exchanged in return for something else); skipping

meetings; putting work ahead of your personal life;

letting people waste your time; prematurely abandoning

your career goals; ignoring the importance of network

relationships; refusing perks; making up negative

stories; and, striving for perfection.

How You Brand and Market Yourself

Marketing oneself is as important as marketing a

specific brand. Think of yourself as a brand that’s

needs to be marketed effectively. Alongside these come

some important points that women need to particularly

remember.

The following are some mistakes to avoid in marketing

yourself: falling to define your brand; minimizing your

work or position; using only your nickname or first name;

waiting to be noticed; refusing high-profile assignments;

being modest; staying in you safety zone; giving away

your ideas; working in stereotypical roles or

departments; ignoring feedback; and, being invisible;

How You Sound

Put special attention to your choice words, tone of voice,

speed of speech and thought organization process. These

usually matter more than the content of your speech. An

articulately delivered speech will help you be branded

as knowledgeable, confident and competent. Remember,

how you sound comprises 90% of your credibility.

Take note of these common mistakes: couching statements as

questions; using preambles; explaining; asking permission;

apologizing; using minimizing words; using qualifiers; not

answering the question; talking too fast; the inability to

speak the language of your business; using nonwords; using

touchy-feely language; sandwich-effect; speaking softly;

speaking at a higher-than-natural pitch; trailing voice

mails; failing to pause or reflect before responding.

How You Look

There is this common notion that “the best and the

brightest are rewarded with promotions and choice

assignments.” This is entirely wrong. Those who are

competent enough, sound and look good are the ones who

move forward in their careers. Statistically, research

shows that 55% of your credibility comes from how you

look; 38% from how you sound; and, only 7% from what

you actually say.

Carry yourself properly by avoiding these mistakes:

smiling inappropriately; taking up too little space;

using gestures inconsistent with your message; being

over- or underanimated; tilting your head; wearing

inappropriate makeup; wearing the wrong hairstyle;

dressing inappropriately; sitting on your foot; grooming

in public; sitting in meetings with your hands under

the table; wearing your reading glasses around your

neck; accessorizing too much; and, failing to maintain

eye contact;

How You Respond

It is important to know how to respond to the ways others

treat you. And some of the common pitfalls women do as a

response to a certain gesture are as follows:

Internalizing messages; believing others know more than

you; taking notes, getting coffee, and making copies;

tolerating inappropriate behavior; exhibiting too much

patience; accepting dead-end assignments; putting the

needs of others before your own; denying your power;

allowing yourself to be the scapegoat; accepting fait

accompli (irreversible or predetermined decisions);

permitting others’ mistakes to inconvenience you; being

the last to speak; playing the gender card; tolerating

sexual harassment; and, crying.

Golfing is for Girls! Did you know that 19% of golfers are female? This number is expected to rise even higher in the near future. Luckily you can join in with the fun sport of golf anytime as l learned. You can propel your way into the Female Golfers Hall of Fame. LOL, It's definitely fun to dream! But hey you have to start somewhere.

This is what you need to know before venturing out as a girl in this male-dominated sport: ·

· The rules of the game

· What's expected of you as a player

· Parts of the course (the playing field)

Rules and Conduct of the Game

Basically, the winner is the one who has used the least number of strokes to finish a round, depending on how many that particular game has.

You'll need a good golf club, to hit the golf ball and you're expected to have fourteen of these. You can borrow or rent a set of golf clubs to begin with, then purchase your own when your game has developed.

Additionally, every golfer is expected to respect other players by ensuring their safety while playing and keeping up with the pace of the game to make it fun and lively. It is also your responsibility to be graceful and play with integrity by tallying correct scores since there are no referees.

Dressing Up As a Female Golfer

Golf Attire is stylish, trendy and fashionable and you can put together some fabulous modern golf looks. The weather outside greatly contributes in your choice of golf attire and what to wear for the day. You can cover up more on chilly days by adding a long sleeve lightweight sweater that can easily be thrown on or off at any time. On warmer and hotter days pair up your look with shorts and sleeveless top or a cute polo mini dress.

Top fashion designers are designing specific golf attire lines. Brands like Stella McCartney, Ralph Lauren and Bogner are adding in golf attire to everyday looks. Have fun with your golf look and make it your own personal style. Dress up with fun tops, jackets / sweaters, capris or skirts, sporty dresses, fun socks and golf shoes and throw in a golf cap.

The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step and you can enroll in a golf class or clinic to start with the basics of the game. It will definitely help grow your interest and introduce you to other excited golfers.

Golf season is here and hopefully you'll join me on the green.

It has been said that men are visual creatures. And the feedback from other people is that you are pretty. Yet, it seems that guys resist approaching you! I know how it can drive your heart and mind crazy at times when you see other girls, who are clearly less pretty than you, happily loved by their boyfriends. To help you regain your sanity and courage to venture into the dating world again, I have written this article about ‘Why Do Guys Avoid Pretty Girls’. Please don’t give up hope of finding everlasting love yet. If I can do it, so can you. Finish reading this article – because it could save you a lot of heartache and despair…

The biggest reason why guys avoid pretty girls is because men won’t approach a woman unless they think there’s a 75% chance that she won’t reject him.

I am not sure how well you know this, but the feeling of being rejected – by any woman, pretty or not, downright sucks. No guy in his right mind enjoys being rejected. That is why a guy will avoid approaching a pretty woman, unless he gets the feeling she will be open and receptive to his advances. By this, I mean that she communicates to the world, or to a guy in particular that she is friendly and safe to approach.

Unfortunately, the media makes it even scarier for guys to muster up the courage to approach pretty women. Haven’t you seen shows that portray pretty girls as mean girls? It does not matter whether it is true, or whether it has ever happened to a guy before. With some compassion, you can understand how a guy could easily imagine a pretty girl shaming or embarrassing him in front of a crowd. It is even more terrifying if a guy has already had negative experiences of approaching less pretty girls!

So how can a pretty girl give guys the courage to approach her?

The biggest tip I can give to solve the issue of guys avoiding you, is to cultivate a look that feels friendly to men in general. My personal secret is to smile from within. Learning how to smile from within is a skill ANY woman can acquire. But don’t be fooled into thinking that you can just plaster a fake smile on your face. If you do that, you run the risk of looking TOO approachable, which will attract all kinds of strange men to you. The trick is to figure out a way to genuinely share your gentle, soft, feminine side with the world, as much as you can. It took me a fair bit of effort to transform myself from within. It will take you some effort too. But I guarantee that it is more than worth it, when you find a man who loves, cherishes and never wants to let go of you, because you are so feminine!

Many men lose their confidence as soon as they come across a woman. But somewhere in their heart they too want the best girl of the town to be their mate because they too are human beings. Human beings have the tendency to desire for the best thing.

Every person either a boy or girl desires for a most beautiful mate in the world. But let me ask you one question, when you dream for the most beautiful person then do you think you deserve that person? Do you have the same crazy and cool looks that you look for into a person?

I am not saying that if you are an average guy then you don’t have the right to look or dream or desire for a beautiful mate. What actually I am trying to convey is don’t stop dreaming rather improve yourself.

There is one universally accepted principle and that is when you desire and dream for the best, then try to be the best first.

There are certain important things that girls look for in a boy. They are

1. A girl wants her man to be the best, loving, caring, warm and understanding. They don’t like men who are rude.

2. A girl does not go for money always. Rather they prefer a loyal and hard-working man.

3. If you want to get attracted to a girl, ‘ignore her’.

4. Girls are often egoistic, it’s naturally they feel proud of their looks. So, you want to impress her, don’t go behind her, and show her some attitude. She will be behind you definitely.

5. Try to improve your dressing sense. When I say this many boys take this in a different way. They dress like a rowdy. They dressed up in casuals, wear rings, have body piercing, grow long hair etc. Even it may disappoint you but its true girls don’t like such type of looks. They like boys who are dressed neatly and formally short hair behave well mannered.

6. Remember you cannot make a girl like you by force or against her will and wish.

If you are a cool dude, then you can make a girl follow you by your attitude. But you have to maintain a proper distance between attitude and rudeness. Never be rude and forceful to a girl. By this way you can never make a girl like you.

Nothing can impress or distract a girl’s mind. If she loves you, she can go to any extent and can sacrifice anything for you but you hurt her true feelings, she will never be dare to love you again.

Never hurt a girl’s true feelings.

Despite the onset of menstruation being an important milestone in the transition from childhood to adulthood, it is often viewed as a major concern.

In Kenya for example, millions of girls who have reached puberty are highly dis-empowered due to lack of access to sanitary wear. Many adolescent girls from disadvantaged families cannot afford to buy sanitary towels, and opt to using insanitary methods.

Girls who cannot afford sanitary pads resort to crude and unhygienic methods, including using old pieces of mattresses, old cloth, or inserting cotton wool into their uterus to try to block the flow. In Kenya’s sprawling urban slums, girls collect used pads from garbage dumps, and wash them for their own use, resulting in serious health complications.

Millions of girls in Kenya are at risk of dropping out of school at the onset of menstruation. According to a study by the Ministry of Education, Kenyan adolescent girls miss approximately 3.5 million learning days per month during their menstrual cycle. This hinders their ability to compete in the classroom, leads to low self-esteem, higher drop-out rates and, in some regions, makes them vulnerable to early marriage. Along with the lost learning days, girls lose self-confidence, and the opportunity of achieving their potential diminishes further each month.

Limited access to safe, affordable, convenient and hygienic methods for managing menstruation has far-reaching implications for the rights and physical, social and mental well being of adolescent girls. It not only undermines sexual and reproductive health and well being but has been shown to restrict girls’ access to education when they miss school due to lack of proper ways of managing their menstruation. This has an impact on their performance and could ultimately lead to some dropping out of school.

Presently, women comprise the majority of illiterate adult Kenyans at 58 per cent. Appreciably, this is as a result of their inability to complete school for many of the reasons associated with sexual and reproductive health.

The second and third Millennium Development Goals (MDG2&3), “achieve universal primary education”, and “promote gender equality and empowerment,” are not only key development goal in their own right, but also an important means to achieving all MDGs. It is imperative that Kenya speeds up her efforts and take additional action to ensure that the millions of girls affected by the lack of education benefit from the basic promises of the MDGs. Action needs to be taken to address the underlying causes that restrict women’s economic opportunities.

Most men are instantly turned on by a delicate looking girl because of several reasons. While there are many sports buffs who love a robust, athletic girl the majority love the gentle delicate figure. These tips will let you know why!

They bring out the protective instinct in men

From ages past, men have been proven to love women who bring out the protective instinct in them. A delicate looking woman is totally feminine and there fore bring out this protective instinct that makes a man want to be her knight in shining armor!

They make men seem more manly and sexy

The more delicate looking a woman is, the more macho, manly and sexy the man looks besides her. Somehow a delicate looking woman forms the perfect foil for a sexy alpha male! He loves looking like her protector, defender and provider!

They have a gentle and delicate air

A delicate looking woman looks gentle and soft. She manages to look compliant and peaceful and therefore can never pose a threat to any guy. Because of her gentle air she would never come across as aggressive and pushy. It makes a man feel comfortable and relaxed in her company. He feels proud to be able to be there for her.

They don’t look rough and uncouth

Because she is delicate looking, she obviously has an advantage over women who look rough and uncouth. A delicate looking woman will have less trouble choosing a style that is elegant and sophisticated than a woman who is stocky and overweight. She looks more appealing to the opposite sex. Men like their women to be admired by one and all and a delicate looking woman will definitely catch the eye of others more than a plain looking woman who has a portly and stout figure.

They somehow manage to look well bred

A woman who carries extra flab, has blunt and homely features will never manage to look elegant, poised and well bred. However a delicate looking woman automatically comes across as well bred, well groomed and classy. Her neat and delicate “air” makes her irresistible.

Men are turned on by their slim figure

Most delicate looking women are slim and trim. This alone makes them carry themselves better than a woman who is stout, burly or fat! The delicate, “helpless” look make men fall like ninepins! They become eager to win her attention and pursue her like she is a prize!

They rather have the dependent type than the strong athletic type

Many women who are the strong athletic type are usually independent and have an air of confidence about them that intimidates the opposite sex. Besides their strong muscled figures make them seem totally capable and confident whereas, the delicate looking woman literally looks like she can do with some help from the opposite sex! This is what turns them on.

Anyone with half of a brain who watched this show could see that these girls were a bunch of unsupervised, dangerous, immature females on the road to self-destruction with the last stop being prison or the cemetery. Every one of these females ranted and raved throughout the show about being tough, classy and intelligent yet none of them showed this.

The alleged goal of the “Bad Girls Club” show was to follow seven young women with “severe psychological issues and personality disorders” as they live in a house for four months and have their daily interactions and interpersonal relationships with their housemates recorded. They’re supposed to be accomplishing specific goals yet I never heard or saw any one of them do this.

There were no goal plans in place or mentioned and I never viewed any acts of intervention (not counting that wolf-pack attack in Mexico) when things got out of hand. These females had two speeds: Rage and Crazy. Their coping skills from start to finish were non-existent, but make no mistake, they were not suffering from any “severe psychological” issues. They seemed to straighten up pretty quick when the Federales showed up and threatened them with jail after that gang assault in Mexico…just as all bad actors do.

During their brief contact with the Federales, not one of them (Ailea or Whitney) went into their infamous rage black outs. Amazing, huh? As a matter of fact, if you watch the clip of Ailea and Whitney being confronted by the Federales, you’ll see two completely different females. No attitudes, no cussing, no loud talking; Ailea was such a sell-out there. She lied by denying that she ever hit or kicked Amber and blamed Whitney (her so-called fab-5 bud) quicker than you could flick flies off of doo-doo.

I asked, “What happened to ‘crazy’ then? Where did she go?” See fake crazy hops a bus when the going really gets tough and police get involved. Then “crazy” is nowhere to be found. There was no tough “Boston” act. Both were as meek as church mice.

These females certainly had no people skills and definitely suffered from personality disorders, but with that being the case, they needed to be medicated and (at times, sedated) in a long-term, lock-down treatment facility. An old-fashioned parent like my mom would say, “All they need is a good licking from their parents. They’ll be okay.”

If you haven’t watched this show and you have children or pre-teens, you need to watch it because it depicts exactly what happens when children with little or no home-training (or the ones who ignore their home-training) do when they step out into the world. For some reason I had the feeling that these females probably ruled their homes and parents; instilling fear with threats of “going off” and ruling by intimidation because everyone thinks they’re so “crazy.”

You put them up against real crazy women with nothing to lose; real bad girls who live and breathe to buck the system, police and anybody else they come into contact with and these girls would get a dose of really crazy up close and personal.

WHO WERE THE “BAD” GIRLS

First we have the Ambers. These two girls started off back biting just about everybody in the house. And while they were extremely catty at times, I wouldn’t say they deserved what they received (destroyed clothing, being jumped, etc).

Kayla aka Kaycee aka “house drunk” from Compton, Ca. This female made a fool of her self on television, shared with us her legal troubles and practically bragged about using men to pay the bills. She showed no shame in acting like a schoolyard bully throughout her short time in the house and eventually left after assaulting one of the Ambers over…a tip.

Amber B. is from Montevideo, MN and was simply lost in space if you ask me. She gave a whole new meaning to the phrase “Blonde Dumb.” I wouldn’t agree that she’s competitive. She was mousey than anything else and shameless with her hypocrisy and cowardice. The fact that she was in an abusive relationship tells you a lot about why she was acting as she did in the mansion. I pray she has gone into therapy and put 10,000+ miles between her and the abusive former boyfriend.

Amber M. of Seattle, WA, supposedly grew up sheltered and poor, but you wouldn’t have known that by the way she acted. She did stand her ground on several occasions and one must give her a pat on the back for those moments, but other times I think she just did things just to be doing them. I think she was attention starved for the most part and immature. The finale dinner incident was Amber M style all the way. She seemed to love sexual escapades and tossing herself out there just as she did during her phone conversation with Tiffany’s “brother” and when he arrived she appeared to behave true to her words only to have a change of heart or a revelation (depending on who you ask) at the dinner party. She said she felt “uncomfortable” with what Tiffany’s “brother” did to her as she “slept.” Was it real or simply her last drama-queen act, scene eight?

Ailea of Buford, GA, was silly, whiny and obviously emotionally unstable. Are there any nuclear waste plants in Buford, Georgia? Because she sure acted like she was suffering from some sort of birth defect. This female slept with just about anyone she came into contact with and even asked her housemates once, “Am I a slut.” I screamed out, “Heck yeah!” Ailea initially came off as this frail, teary-eyed chick that just couldn’t date offline. She quickly outgrew that. She went from frail fairy to Crazy Mary by the end of the show and I was happy to see her go. Her performance (because that’s exactly what it was) wasn’t worthy of an Oscar…maybe a straitjacket and a double shot of Penicillin, but no Oscar. It was like watching someone with turret’s syndrome.

And then she exposed herself on national television as a wimp and sell-out. This so-called “Bad Girl” bragged about being down and being a ride or die chick…yet when the Federales showed up and talked about Mexican jail and criminal charges, “Crazy Mary” quieted down and quickly served her Bad Girl buddy up as Taco meat. And notice that she never once bragged to the Federales about her kicking Amber like she did in the house later on. How cowardly of this self-proclaimed “bad, tough Girl.” Ailea needs a serious mental health evaluation, not because I think she’s actually mentally ill, but more so for her to spend 48 hours on an acute care ward in a real, lock-down facility where actual mentally ill people are.

It’ll scare her straight when one of them stalks and preys upon her like she seemed to enjoy doing to her housemates. Then, when she’s released let her spend some time in county jail around real bad girls who would likely do worse to her for a whole lot less than she did Amber. I can guarantee you this want to-be bad girl won’t be nearly as loud or tough in a jail cell with someone who’d beat her behind just for looking at him or her wrong.

Whitney of Boston, Mass. At the reunion we learn that “Boston” wasn’t even from Boston. She’s from Lynnfield or somewhere north of Boston. Typical of a suburbanite who wants to be tough so bad, she’ll lie about being from the city just to look tough. Classic child-like behavior. You just have to laugh at this contradictory, loud, self-absorbed, want to-be female thug who seemed to think that her being from Boston actually instilled fear in people. “You never hit someone with a shoe,” she screamed, “If you’re a real girl from Boston, you never hit anybody with anything other than your bodily parts.” During her immature, contradictory rant the cameras flashback to an early limo scene showing Miss “Boston” taking off her shoe and trying to hit her housemates while angry.

Someone should have hit her with a dictionary and some class. She did the state and people of Boston a severe injustice by the way she represented the City of Boston on television. True, she didn’t display any slutty behavior like the other four, but she more than made up for that with her mouth. This was another one I was happy to see go. I couldn’t help but notice how she simmered down quite easily when the Federales paid her tail a visit after that assault. She didn’t get ballistic with them. Things that make you go hmmm. Can anyone say PUNK? BULLY? See, when the going really gets tough and tough shows up, a want to-be thug will always cower.

Sarah is from Milwaukee, WI and was as happy as a lark when her spread appeared in Playboy. It was almost like that was a major accomplishment for her. Not so strange for someone with severe insecurity issues. She was proud to let us know her boobs were real (as if we cared) and winning meaningless contests. I didn’t get any drama-queen vibes from her performances, but she was definitely dealing with some issues. All I can say about her is making up for lost time is cool, but remember Judge Judy’s famous saying, “Beauty fades…dumb is forever.” You won’t always have that body (especially not eating like a runaway slave and laying around like coma patient) so work on your long-term, marketable assets so that when the boobs sag and the junk-in-your-trunk has faded, you’ll be able to make a living at a real job.

Ashley (can’t recall where she was from) replaced Kaycee and seemed to be a behind-the-scenes instigator, while trying to appear neutral. She’s another one that seems to think life revolves around her body and looks. And now we have Tiffany aka Tiff Bear. Tiffany hailed from Chicago, IL and was an intelligent female who didn’t seem to be as bad as the others. She, like Kaycee, seemed to have a thing for thugs. The telephone conversations she and boyfriend “Skeet” had as he smoked his blunt’s were odd.

You know, with him and his “tricks” in the background. Why a beautiful, seemingly intelligent woman would be “in love” with a unemployed, blunt smoking thug is beyond me, but she seemed to be rationalizing it in her mind, so more power to her. Tiffany played the quiet one at first until she had to cuss Kaycee out and then Amber B. Actually, I kind of agreed with her finale flip-out. Amber M. seemed to be going for one last dig on the evening of the dinner. Scene 34, act 50. She should have spoken up and not been talking about “bouncing up on it” with a man she didn’t know. I thought she was drunk in the “feel up” scene, but she said she was sleeping.

I didn’t really buy Tiffany’s “sincerity” in Mexico after the wolf pack attack though. Her Oscar winning performance in Mexico was funny. She instigated and stoked the fires of the other dimwits and then after it blew up and it became apparent that folks were going to be getting the boot, she steps out of the shadow of her “crew” to play the peacemaker and mediator. Girlfriend didn’t want to get the boot for her part so she got on Cookie’s (Amber M.) good side and earned some pats on the back for her “mediation”. She turned on her buddies and let two-faced Ailea have it, but I couldn’t help but see it as a veil attempt to deflect attention from her part in that nonsense.

I think girlfriend saw an eviction notice in the future after Whitney got the boot and devised a quick plan to save her own tail. She turned on Ailea pretty quick. Smart move, Tiff Bear. And to throw in acknowledgment of her contribution to the animosity was priceless. She saved her spot in the mansion and she deserves a gold star for that. Once again, all in all, Tiffany did not come off as bad as her housemates, but she played the passive-aggressive role better than any Emmy Award winning actress I’ve ever seen. One week, a leader. The next week, a follower. The week after that, an instigator and then, she would go into her “Oprah” mode and play the role of “Mother love.” I hope she has grown and resolved her passive-aggressive issues… and not dating any blunt smoking, trick handling hood rats…and destroys her copy of the time she spent on this silly show so that her children and future husband and employers don’t ever see it.

Here’s my over-all take on the “Bad Girls” creed:

A Bad Girl knows what she wants and how to get it. She makes her own way, makes her own rules and she makes no apologies.

REALITY: Making no apologies when you’re wrong and getting what you want at the expense of others, isn’t being a bad girl, it’s being a narcissistic fool. This type of mentality will leave you disliked, not respected and likely at the back of a lot of lines throughout life as you come to find out that the world does not revolve around you. At age 18, 21, etc you’re no longer a girl. You’re supposed to be a woman (as so many of them claim they were). And a real woman knows when and how to apologize when she’s done wrong.

A Bad Girl blazes her own trail and removes obstacles from her path. A Bad Girl fights and forces her way to the top with style and beauty.

REALITY: None of you used style or beauty during this show. Ok, the only style you represented was thug and child style.

A Bad Girl believes in jumping first and looking later.

REALITY: Wrong! When you’re young and foolish, you live by this mantra, but when you grow up, you realize that introspection will always help you make better choices.

People will love you. People will hate you. Others will secretly wish to be you. A Bad Girl is you!

REALITY: Wrong, again. You all represented sad girls with bad attitudes. And if anyone truly loves you, they’ll tell you that your behavior and antics on this show were extremely un-lady like and downright childish. No one hates you. And Hell no, we do not secretly wish to be you or anybody that will clown themselves on national television getting thrown out of bars, a COUNTRY or a show. And in the days of extremely high STD rates; STD’s that can kill you and leave you sterile… I suggest you all get tested and slow your roll before you end up in an early grave or a quarantine unit coughing up blood and mucus. No decent man wants a soiled woman with herpes cold sores all over her mouth and genitalia because she thought being a “bad girl” who would screw the crack of dawn was cute.

Bottom line: all of the females kept it real…real dumb, real immature and real silly. There is nothing attractive, ladylike or real about being destructive, disrespectful, promiscuous, arrogant or immature. Bad girls who don’t grow up and act like women end up dead or in prison. A decent man doesn’t want a grown woman bragging about beating people up, getting thrown out of bars, screwing random men and being proud of being a thug. Trust me.

Being on the show was supposed to end with these females growing and changing yet they seemed to get worse as the show wore on. The only time I saw any tears or heard anything that resembled personal growth and personal responsibility was when they were afraid of being booted off the show. Their confessionals showed no glimmer of personal growth let alone real change. It was sad.

Watching this show, you see a bunch of children in a big house running the street all night, getting into mayhem and cursing worse than sailors; they wanted to fight everyone (and almost did) and couldn’t go anywhere without a fight breaking out. They were like little girls whose parents were gone for the weekend and they were just doing whatever they wanted. They tore up this beautiful house and left it looking like a trash dump. I wonder what they’re families and friends thought? Probably the same thing I would wonder if I were their parent: “Heavenly Father, where did I go wrong?”

It’s great to live out loud, girls, but if you’re going to conduct yourselves in the manner in which all of you did on national television…it might be best that you live it quietly because beyond the cameras, you get arrested or beat down (or both) when you go around acting insane.

Introduction

Do you know what makes a woman stand out in a crowd? Whether it is her dressing sense, approach to health, way of building career or her way of making relationships, there is a way to tell whether she is a woman or a girl! Read on for the 10 characteristics that separate the women from the girls. This article tries to explain these characteristics at some length for the benefit of readers. Readers can make use of these explanations while dealing with them.

Differentiators

1. Girls in their pursuit to look good and current, they blindly follow the trends in the market. On the other hand, women have their own sense of dressing. They look for dresses that make them look and feel good.

2. In order to look slim, girls go on fad diets without worrying about the consequences that follow. Being matured, women know how to eat healthy as they have evolved a way to stay fit.

3. Due to the rush of blood through their veins, girls try to work out sporadically and expect great results from it. Women on the other hand know from experience that slow and steady always wins race. Hence, they work out slowly and steadily without worrying for the quicker results.

4. Girls look for people with supernatural instincts to fall in love with. Matured women on the other hand know that they have to work in the society by making everlasting relationships. Therefore, they slip into relationship with the spouses they chosen.

5. Young girls try hard to get the attention of the people. Women don’t have to do anything out-of-the-way as they get attention automatically wherever they are.

6. Girls try to buy any cloth that is out in the market in the name of trending fashion. In contrast, women build a solid wardrobe of classics that fit well to their body. Hence, women have cloths for any occasion to look great.

7. Girls have long forgotten to smile and make others smile. This is in sharp contrast to women who have a sense of good humour.

8. Girls follow the patriarchy of the society and the family. Through experience, women have learned to stand up for the cause they strongly believe in.

9. Girls only read the romantic literature that borders on vulgarity and sexuality. Matured women would like to explore all genres of literature to expand their horizon of knowledge.

10. Girls want to go everywhere with someone, especially with boyfriends. On the other hand, women enjoy the solitary time when they get enough time for self-introspection. Moreover, they also would like to spend some quality time with their spouses and children.

Male gamers are considered nerdy and lack social skills especially when it comes to women. On the internet, you will find hundreds of memes making fun of male gamers and their inability of stopping the game in order to interact with the hot girl next to them.

What many people don’t know is that male gamers have the right qualities that can enable them to interact with any beautiful woman of their choosing. The only problem is that the virtual world is more exciting than the real world. Blowing up stuff, sawing off the head of a zombie, flying fighter jets, running around the field in a soccer game as well as racing exotic cars are some of the things gamers are into more than women.

Let’s face it, male gamers have feelings they would love to share and even make better memories. To do so, one has to learn how to date. Below is how to attract gamer girls.

Have a chat

The one thing that will never change between a man and a woman who have the potential of dating is having a conversation. Talking is the foundation of knowing each other as well as exploring each other interests. When you talk, you get to ask questions as well as receive answers about each other.

As a male guy, if you want to attract a gamer girl, you need to show interest. The only way to do so is to have a conversation. There are many topics you can talk to her about but first start with a simple introduction. Once you have introduced yourself, you can slowly start the conversation which can grow and encompass many topics.

The one thing you need to know about gamer girls is that they know more about computers and gaming systems than most guys. There is one topic that she will definitely find to be a conversation starter. Remember, the game can also be a great way where you can get to message her if you are too shy for the initial move.

Invite her for a game.

Every week and month, new games are published and gamers are always waiting to try something new. This is the best chance you have to attract a gamer girl. The first thing you need to do is ensure that you have the right setup. What’s her preferred gaming rig? Over the years, the battle of consoles between consoles and consoles between PCs has raged and even today, no clear winner has been found. This has led PC gamers to refer themselves as the master race. Regardless of this, you need to find out what your gamer girl prefers. Is it Xbox, Play Station or PC? Having the right gaming system can score many points for you.

Include other accessories like wireless keypads or keyboards, headsets with mics (if you will be playing a multiplayer game online instead of a one-on-one game),energy drinks and pizza (have the best delivery on speed dial). Finally the game- this will depend on what you want to surprise her with. Once you have set up everything, you can invite her.

The reason you are doing this is because girls whether gamers or not love to know that a guy is interested in what they do.

Build your self confidence

The one thing that puts off every woman is the inability of a guy being confident. Men need to know that self confidence as well as self esteem are great attractive qualities. Girls will fall for a guy who is confident in what they say and do. Even though a gamer girl may know different things about gaming systems and gaming computers, there are a few things that she might know.

In order to build confidence, you need to learn a new skill. Since you want to attract a gamer girl, you need to find a skill that will wow her. Maybe you know how to create amazing mods for different games or you have a set of gaming skills that are new to her. All in all, the end game is to attract her.

Take care of yourself

Just because you are a gamer and you have the intention of attracting a gamer girl does not mean that your appearance should be shabby. Every girl loves to be associated with a guy who is dressed well, looks great, smells great and has a smile on their face.

This should extend to your home too. Do not leave last week’s pizza boxes on the table, below it, under the chair or around the kitchen counter. Not only will these create an odor that will be pungent but it is unattractive not only to girls but to guys too.

Remember, the reason why your home should be clean is that you may invite her one day to play a game over some pizza and energy drinks. If you want her to stay and ensure a chance of becoming her boyfriend, clean up the dirt.

Final Thoughts

How to attract gamer girls is a simple process that can be done by anyone. All you need is to have the right strategy, build your self confidence and self esteem, look smart and have the right topics for a conversation.

Remember, gamer girls are like other girls, even though they interact with guys more, they still uphold the same basic standards when it comes to guys.

The Russian rosy-cheeked girl with steep hips, lush bust, gorgeous hair and a thin waist conquers the whole world. Any man will remain indifferent having looked into the eyes of this beauty. Warmth, helpfulness, ability for understanding and empathizing with the emotional looseness, the general level of culture, open-mindedness is a deadly cocktail for the whole male population of the world.

It is known that Russian girls are the most submissive wives, neat housewives and caring mothers. Very often men of the different nationalities choose as wives just Russian ladies as they are patient and hardy, always try to maintain hearth, keep the house clean and cozy, have the modest behavior in the society, but in bed they try to be temperamental and extremely uninhibited. There are a lot of positive qualities for which men of all the countries are so fond of Russian women, and it is possible to talk about them endlessly.

The fact that such girls exist and even quite common are on dating sites is good news. Not very good news is that for men who above all are looking for mutual love with Russian women, rich with emotions and experiences feelings, a dating site hardly will give a welcome gift on the first request. If any at all. For those who wish to find a serious relationship with a Russian girl (but not adventurers) it is much more difficult to make a choice. Try to understand by terse lines of the questionnaire and usual answers to the standard questions who is looking at you from the screen – the perfect Russian wife or just dummy who wants to marry a foreigner just for life abroad. Or maybe potential fraud… Russia is a very special country and its women have a mysterious “Russian soul”. It is not easy for an alien to comprehend Russian girls even looking in their eyes, not talking about a description on a dating site. Therefore to find in a heap of photos and profiles the only, with whom you will want to walk the same road, it is necessary to spend a lot of time for socializing, conversation, empty talk and disappointing meeting.

Before jumping into the whirlpool of the communication with Russian girls it would be good to decide what type of Russian woman fits you the best. With what type of woman your common life will be mostly comfortable and joyful. You should be able to differentiate accurately between different types of Russian girls and clearly realize your own goals on a dating site and the priorities in the approach of selection of the right woman for you.