If you do not know what a comfort spot is, you are missing out. A comfort spot is a place where you are allowed to dream. For many people, their comfort spot is somewhere they are pretty familiar with. Sometimes, this place allows you to get away from the hustle bustle of our everyday working lives. Maybe you can lie down and fantasize about your life.

One thing that is of prior importance in a comfort station is the requirement of silence so that you won't be disturbed or interrupted. The purpose is to let your mind wander. For me, my comfort spot is a quiet, isolated beach where I can just hear the sea waves. Maybe you can carve a little corner in your bedroom by placing a few pillows on the floor.

Why am I telling you this? This is because you need a comfort spot to succeed in your dating life. Does this sound skeptical? Initially, I had such feelings of ambiguity as well. But, the importance of this comfort zone ensures that you are in a place that has good vibe so you can feel carefree. Make sure that it is an accessible place because you will be accessing to it often.

Tell yourself that you are ready and you will be loved and accepted by others. Write encouraging sentences and keep it a place where you are able to read it all the time. I usually recommend other men to place it in some scrapbooks where they are able to decorate it with colors and images that have great sentimental value.