We can never know what a person is going through until you become invasive and even then, one cannot know the internal struggles or the intent. So all anyone can do is listen and pay close attention during personal interactions. This is the only way that single parents who contemplate committing suicide can get the help they need. Hence, it must begin with a conversation.
We cannot fully understand what single parents go through; they juggle work, a social life as they try work toward successfully raising a child. The individuality of a person dictates how they exist and respond to many crisis within their lives. It also defines how hard a person works towards choosing life as oppose to giving into taking one’s life. The struggle is real for many but more importantly for single parents who do not often get the support they need.
The routines and schedules of life creates hazardous interactions. We meet and talk to each other but our minds are busy reviewing what we needs to do today, tomorrow or next week. During the social exchange, it is so easy to miss the nuisances of life, in particular to miss a plea for help. A social interaction with a single parent proves more intense and any cry for help fades with the many “my child” antics stories.
When single parents make connections via family, friends and lovers the level of sharing more than casual does not always guaranty that the ones they love can recognize the signs pointing to suicidal intent. These loved ones stand very close as they interact on so many levels yet they miss the most rudimentary cry for help.
Helping someone in times of crisis requires the ability to identify that the individual needs help. It means being open enough that the person can come to you in their time of need. It requires a sensitivity or awareness of the delicate disposition of the person contemplating suicide. Single parents often feel overwhelmed hence noticing when they need more than just moral support gets lost in the hassles of their everyday life.
Experts aver that there are some definite indicators of when someone wants to commit suicide. Read about these indicators to understand how best to prevent the termination of a life. Learn how best to defuse a detrimental situation. Learn what to say and where to get help for someone who finds life overwhelming.

