When you’re single, and sexually frustrated, your mind can play some pretty nasty tricks on you. For one, you might start thinking that you’ll never meet somebody. If you aren’t careful, this can turn into a vicious, self fulfilling prophecy that will keep you lonely forever.
But realize this important fact: There’s nothing about reality that is keeping you in your present state. There is no conspiracy among females, the world isn’t against you. The Bilderberg group doesn’t meet every year in secret to keep you from getting laid. In fact, I’d lay odds that they don’t even know about you. In truth, the vast majority of the world doesn’t really care one way or another if you get laid or not.
So step one is break out of that mental rut. Stop thinking of all those horrible thoughts. Believe it or not, there’s tons of women out there that are just as desperate as you. Sure, they might not all be Victoria’s secret models, but who cares?
Remember, getting a girlfriend is a process. A mutually selecting process. You don’t show up and hope to be chosen. You meet as many people as you can, and be as friendly and outgoing as you can. Whatever you’re comfortable with. Some people will like you, some people won’t. Who cares.
Some of those people that like you will be girls. Some of those girls will be pretty cute. But guess what? Staying at home and reading articles on the Internet isn’t going to help. The only thing that is going to help is if you get out there and start meeting people.
Sure, you might not get a girlfriend tonight, but if you meet one person, even another dude, that’s a step in the right direction.
Having a decent set of social skills is crucial to being able to talk to girls. Just relax, get out there, and talk to people. Don’t expect everybody to like you. Don’t expect to fall in love within the next 24 hours.
Don’t go out every night with the intention of “hooking up,” getting numbers or even getting laid. Just go out and enjoy talking to other people.
The more you do this, the more friends you’ll make. The more friends you’ll make, the bigger your social circle will be. The bigger your social circle is, well, you get the idea.
Just forget about any kind of outcome, and have fun. You’re human. You’ve been hard wired by hundreds of thousands of years of evolution to get together with and enjoy other people.
