There are a lot of mistakes men make with beautiful women. They’re probably the same mistakes they make with less beautiful women, too.
But the biggest mistake that most men make specifically with drop-dead gorgeous women, is to think that they know how incredibly attractive they are.
Many of these ‘super-model look-alikes’ don’t know they’re beautiful. Not deep down. And the really spectacular ones are often the girls who get very few dates.
Why? Because guys are terrified of them. They consider these girls way out of their league and don’t want to set themselves up for failure.
A woman measures her attractiveness by her ability to attract men to her, not what she sees in the mirror. If men aren’t coming to her, she often will interpret that to mean she’s ugly. Seriously. She will look in the mirror and see a neck that’s too long (like Audrey Hepburn did), eyes too close together, a slightly crocked front tooth. And she’ll blow it out of all proportion. And her jealous, so called girl-friends, will often encourage her negative thinking.
She may also have another vulnerable spot. She may think that her looks are the only thing she has going for her. And because she was born looking like this, and it didn’t require some amazing vein of character or talent to get that way, she sees it as insignificant.
The men who do approach her often reinforce this idea. Because the guys who do go after her are often over-confident jerks, they usually treat her badly. They put her down to build themselves up. So she gets the message that she’s treated badly because she’s either not really beautiful, worthy, or lacks lovability.
That’s why a shy guy like you, who can get up the nerve to approach this woman and tell her why he finds her gorgeous, is going to be more successful with her than your possibly better looking, more confident friend.
Because your friend is making that BIG mistake. And he’s keeping his distance from her because he doesn’t know what’s really going on in her head.
By the way, this doesn’t apply to normally attractive women. They usually have much better self-esteem than their impossibly gorgeous friends.
Because guys feel safer in approaching these women, more of them do. This pushes them higher up the ‘attraction ranking’. These women are much harder to get to, if you’re just average. Or haven’t got that certain something that separates you from the pack.
So next time you see an incredible looking woman on her own, don’t assume she’s waiting for Ashton Whoever to walk in the door. Follow some of my other advice I’ve given in these articles, and approach this woman. You might be surprised what kind of reaction you get.
