Sex in Christian marriage should be an enjoyable, exciting, and celebratory aspect of your relationship. Unfortunately, but understandably, many couples have limited themselves in the intimacy department, due to uncertainty over what is allowable and what is not. Couples should definitely read about the so called “rules” for Christian sex and the different points of view. Then your intimacy will really open up and your sex life can be incredible as it should.

What are some guidelines we can follow?

For now you can follow two universal guidelines that will keep your intimacy within the boundaries of safe Christian sex practice. Keep things safe, and keep things pleasurable. That is, safety should be adhered to and any practices that promote obvious harm to one another should be restricted. Next, keeping things pleasurable is very important. Christian sex should be a very pleasurable and enjoyable experience. There should not be unnecessary stresses, pressures, or guilt.

What are some intimacy techniques to ensure sex is enjoyable?

There are many sex tips and techniques one can follow to guarantee things are enjoyable during intimacy. For example, men can learn all the various erogenous zones on the woman’s body. These are “trigger areas” which literally guarantee pleasure when practiced during intimacy. These trigger points range everywhere from the nape of the neck to the back of the knees. Learning not only where all these erotic spots are, but how to intimately trigger them is a great way to guarantee incredible intimacy.

There are Christian guides which will outline a wealth of intimate tips and techniques specifically with Christian couples in mind. You can also learn what positions and techniques are allowable within Christian practice.