Are you in a marriage where you’re constantly saying and thinking my wife resents me? I know this is a very stressful thing, because I was there once…and there are tons of other men there now as well.

If you feel your wife resents you, or if she says she resents you, it’s important to realize that this CAN be turned around. But you have to act fast, and you have to do things a certain way. But first you have to…

Understand Why You’re In a Marriage Saying My Wife Resents Me

There are plenty of surface reasons that will cause a wife to begin resenting a husband.

Here’s the deal. If you’re abusive, then I can’t help you with this article. Actually yes I can, I can tell you that you must get help IMMEDIATELY! You need not to worry about how you’ll look to others, you need only to get your wife out of the abusive situation, and help for yourself.

Now if that’s not the issue, then the surface reasons are very likely not the real issues.

What does that mean?

You’ll see very soon.

Most of the time the resentment will show up as something like “you don’t spend enough time with me”, “you don’t treat me special enough”, “you don’t buy me gifts”, etc. etc. All of the usual things that you hear that a husband is supposed to do!

If you’re not spending any time with your wife, and you’re completely neglecting her then there might be some validity there. But for the most part this is not the real reason. It may be what your wife actually FEELS is the reason, but the truth is that what’s more than likely happened is that you’ve seized to be the MAN in her life that she needs.

This will cause feelings of resentment…but here’s the tricky part…she may not even realize it.

This is the thing. Most women don’t realize that down deep, what they need in a man is an alpha male. They’re ultra attracted to this type of man down deep to their core, way back from their cavewoman days. It’s built into their DNA.

But what they’re told by society is that they need a beta man, who kisses their butts and buys them flowers, etc. etc. The thing is that if you’re a man that’s kissing your wife’s butt, and your not being the type of alpha male that they NEED then they still will resent you.

It can be very confusing for everyone involved, but ultimately the answer is to become the alpha male that she ultimately down deep to her core truly wants. That will not only end you having to say my wife resents me, but will have your wife nearly worshiping you, basically becoming more attracted to you than ever before.