Do you feel like you are the one investing more in your man and he is just taking you for granted?

Do you feel any of the following…

• Do you feel that you aren’t really a priority in his life, although he says that you are?
• Do you feel that you are the only one trying to please him and he never returns that favor?
• Do you doubt that maybe he doesn’t like you as much as he claims to?

Here is a fact for you – When a man says that he is interested in a woman then he will follow that up with his actions. If he keeps saying that he likes you but his actions tell you another story then it’s a very big red flag. Let’s get into more details…

The truth is – He isn’t really that into you after all…

Yes I know. This might be a hard truth to accept but when a guy really likes a woman he makes efforts to prove to her how much he likes her. In the form of –

• Doing more for her.
• Being there for her when she needs him.
• Trying to impress her.
• Calling her all the time.
• Taking her out on regular dates etc.

And if your man isn’t currently doing any of the above then I can say it with a lot of confidence that he doesn’t really like you that much.

Maybe he isn’t the “ONE” for you…

Some women are too quick to jump the boat, they fall for a guy too soon, start depending on him too soon, start expecting things from him too soon and in the process they face massive disappoints when they realize things didn’t turn out the way they had planned.

Here is the thing though – If you feel that you are the one who is investing a lot of energy in him when he isn’t reciprocating that then you are with the wrong person.

It’s going to be an uphill battle and you just can’t turn him into Mr. Right. So even trying is going to cause you a lot of pain.

Things won’t get better with time…

Some women try to convince themselves that they should just work harder and maybe he might change and start investing in the relationship as well. But let me assure you that things won’t get better with time.

They will only get worse, and it will get to a point where you won’t be able to do much about anything.

First figure out what you really want…

Ask yourself this question – Why do you want to be in a relationship and what type of a guy are you looking for?

If you feel like you are the one doing all the hard work then it’s more than obvious that you did not pre-select the right man. The only way to have a good loving relationship is to first find a guy who is truly boyfriend material and wants the same things you want.

Unless you pre-screen guys and only go for the ones you believe are compatible enough, you might always struggle in the department of men and relationships.

Points to remember –

· A relationship is like a partnership which involves two people. If one person is doing more work than the other then it’s bound to end at some point. Both the partners need to put in an equal effort.

· You need to figure out exactly what you want in a man and then it’s really vital to pre-select men based on that criterion. Never let any man into your life and then expect that he is going to change with time to match your preferences.

· A man isn’t worthy of your love and attention if he isn’t willing to return that favor.

· Never be with a man just because you want to be in any relationship. Just because you fear that you might not find anyone else. Learn to end it when things aren’t working out as planned.