If you like a shy guy then you must know that he will take time to open up. But, he is also just a normal person underneath that wall of shyness. You need to tackle such situations carefully because if you are too blunt then you may scare them away. If you are sure that the guy likes you too then I would suggest that you ask the shy guy out instead of waiting for him to ask you. He will be more than glad that you did. Here are some smart tips that can help you talk to a shy guy:
Approach him and start a small conversation:
Approach him when he is not surrounded by too many people. Strike up a quick conversation and talk about things that are rather impersonal. This way he will be comfortable answering and you will get to break the ice.
Smile at him every time you see him:
After you have already approached him once and introduced yourself, smile every time you see him. This will make him feel confident to approach you as well.
Talk to him whenever you get a chance:
Approach him whenever you can and talk to him for a while. This will help to create a bond and he may open up a bit for you.
Drop hints and judge his reactions:
When you notice him opening up a bit, take the topics from impersonal to personal level. Discuss about things you are both looking for in a boyfriend or girlfriend. Tell him that you are looking for someone like him.
Don’t make him uncomfortable when you ask him out:
This is important. Don’t ask him out when he is surrounded by friends as he may feel uncomfortable. When he says yes, decide where to go for a date.
Take him to a place which matches his taste:
He may not like to go to public places. Tell him to decide or you can suggest some place where you both can eat and talk quietly. In short, keep the date as simple and something that matches his taste. You must look attractive and not drop dead gorgeous for the date so keep your accessories and makeup to the minimum.
Boost his ego and make him feel confident:
Shy guys are mostly a little low in confidence. You can boost his ego by appreciating him occasionally. You can also ask him to help you with homework or something else to make him feel more competent. This will boost his confidence and get him closer to you.
