I think it’s safe to say that talking dirty on the phone is serious business! Let’s be honest; phone sex operators have mastered how to talk dirty to your man without feeling embarrassed, can you? The biggest clients of phone sex industry to date are married men and guys that have been in relationships for more than a year. If you think about it, phone sex creates sexual fantasies, which most men still have and desire. The adult industry proves they’re willing to pay good money for it all the time with videos, strip clubs, escorts, and extra-marital affairs. It’s no shocking surprise that as time goes by in a committed relationship; the man often reminisces about those first weeks after you met. When things were new and the two of you had fun doing just about anything together like inventing crazy sex positions and playing footsies.

It’s a fact that once a woman “gets her man”, she slips into this undesirable comfort zone that completely strips away her naughty sex kitten instincts. Leaving behind the inner workings of what has often been referred to as “The Starter Wife” syndrome. I’ll be the first to say it; every man has a breaking point, it usually begins with something as innocent as a call to one of those Dial-Me-A-Sexual-Fantasy hotlines.

Most women have no idea how to keep a man at home and out of the arm of some other woman. The secret is simple, be his ultimate fantasy girl! The art of seduction has a way of adding the kind of spice to a relationship that keeps the sparks of intimacy flying for what seems like forever. All it takes is for you to learn how to create the fantasy. It’s like inception, your planting the seed in his mind, feeding him dirty talk throughout the day. So that by the time he reaches you, he’s up and ready to blow!

I find that it’s always easier for me to do something out of my comfort zone when there is no face to face contact. That’s what make talking dirty on the phone so sweet! Here’s some dirty phone talk to get the ball rolling:

• Call him up, using a sexy seductive voice, and innocently tell him that you are touching yourself
• Give him a few moans then say, “talk dirty to me” remember that delivery is everything.
• The more that he feeds into it, the more that you will feel comfortable with it, and allow yourself to continue on in a natural manner.
• When it comes to referring to your breasts and his penis use the words that you find most comfortable to you. There are a lot to choose from, I’m sure you have a few in ideas right now!