Has your guy ever asked you to talk dirty to him in bed? Did his request send you into a moment of panic thinking about how you would ever get the words out of your mouth? Knowing how to talk dirty to a guy is really not anything that should send you running for cover beneath the sheets in fear and anxiety.

There are just a few tips to learn and you are on your way to being a dirty talking queen and will have your guy hot with new-found desire.

The first tip to remember is that guys are very visual. It only takes a brief visual to pop into a mans head and he’s primed and ready to go. When you are talking dirty try to have the words go along with visualization. This not only gets him hot with your words, but also the picture it creates in his head. 

Bring his attention to your body while saying, “It makes me so hot when you look at my…” Or, touch him and ask, “Does it feel good right here?” He will probably be so turned on he will hardly be able to get out an answer. Change things up. Have fun. Your guy will love the teasing and suggestive talk more than you can imagine.

Another tip to remember when learning to talk dirty is to keep things direct. Men don’t always get the subtle stuff. It’s best if you tell him exactly what you want and how you want it done. Men just don’t seem to be able to figure out what you want by subtle suggestion or body language. Not only will this let your guy know what turns you on without any question, but the directness of your words will also be a source of an erotic turn on to him.

And lastly, remember to play into your guy’s ego. We all like to be complimented. Men love to feel manly and sexually capable. Keep your compliments real, but be lavish in your praise of any of his sexual endeavors and attributes that you particularly enjoy. Say to him, “You feel so big,” or “I love the way you kiss my…with your…” Your guy will eat up the compliments while at the same time will be loving the new, dirty talking vixen you have become.  

Learning how to talk dirty to a guy can be a fun new adventure for both you and your partner. Let yourself go and enjoy yourself. I can guarantee your guy will thank you.