Even if you think you know all there is to know about how to lick a vagina, chances are there might be something that you’ve missed out on. Giving her great oral sex is an important piece of a healthy sexual relationship and you owe it to your wife to make sure you know what you’re doing down there. With that in mind, here’s a few things that might help…

1. Lick Her. Your tongue is a very flexible muscle, capable of moving in many different directions so be sure to make use of what it can do. Something that works well is to lick up with the front of your tongue and down with the back of your tongue. Make sure you lick along the whole length of her vagina, and try to let your tongue flatten out so that you cover as much area as possible.

2. Flick Her. This applies specifically to her clitoris. Make sure to pay attention to what she likes, and don’t continue if she tells you to stop. Some women are very sensitive and can’t handle direct contact with their clitoris. But if she can, use your fingers to expose her clitoris and then flick your tongue across it in different rhythms until you find one that drives her crazy.

3. Suck Her. You can suck on either her whole vagina or just her clitoris. Go easy here. Too much suction will not feel good, so make sure you have a way of her letting you know if it’s too much. If you can roll your tongue you can use that to suck on her clitoris. If she thought you didn’t know how to lick a vagina before, she will have changed her tune after you do that to her.