You have often asked yourself: “how to get my wife into swinging?” The majority of wives will never share your fantasy of sexual swinging; people tend to prefer monogamy. What the next few paragraphs will do, though, is teach you a simple way of making your wife comfortable enough to admit she wants the same as you – if, indeed, she actually does!

So, let us assume that your wife harbors a secret desire to experience the swinging lifestyle. What you need to do is let her know you would like to try swinging, while also making her sufficiently comfortable to admit that she would, too.

The next time you make love with your wife, introduce an adult movie into the foreplay. Of course, make sure the movie is about swingers! While you both watch it, concentrate on the sexual foreplay your wife tends to love, and let her enjoy the movie while you tend to her.

When you move from foreplay to sex, confess to her that you have asked yourself about the question “how to get my wife into swinging?” and the idea of being a swinger has always aroused you. As you make love more passionately, go on to relate some of your swinger fantasies that involve the both of you. If your wife likes the idea, you will, by now, know for sure.

As your love-making becomes more intense, tell her that you would love to try the swinging lifestyle one day. Describe to her, making it sound as erotic as possible, how you see it happening. Women love to hear a man talk about sexual confessions and use words to turn her on.

Now, at the end of this first session, your wife may not yet have confessed. This is fine. The idea is to ease her comfortably and lovingly into an emotional place where she can freely talk about her inner sexual desires. So, you need to repeat this approach several times, or until she tells you to stop or confesses similar desires.