How to attract guys is easier than how to attract men, because ladies looking for guys usually do not have their sights set on a long term relationship. Their idea for the future, if developed at all, is very open and by no means imminent!
Guys are looking for a ‘good time’ not a ‘long time!’ This is not to say they are not available for a long term relationship, but it is definitely not of prime importance to them and if you start talking marriage you might just find him running away as fast as he can.
The 5 Rules of How to Attract Guys
1. Stay in the Present
Let the future of the romance take care of itself. Enjoy yourself, have fun.
2. Don’t Talk Marriage
Need I say more? Even older men run a mile at the mention of ‘marriage’ or ‘commitment’. Take each day at a time you have your whole life ahead of you.
3. Be Fun to be with
You have to be fun to be with. The more fun you are to be with and the more he enjoys your company the more he will want to spend time with you.
4. Don’t Take Advice from your Friends
This is the most difficult of the rules to follow and you will certainly be tempted at some point or other to break this rule. You can still talk things over with your friends, but try not to take their advice, because although they mean well, they are not professionally trained or even experience enough to give great advice. Your Mom might be better to get advice from, but try to ask someone who has successful relationships, someone you can learn from.
5. Be Yourself
You never know how a relationship might turn out. The guy you are meeting and dating today could very well turn out to be the guy you end up spending the rest of your life with. He could even end up being the friend or brother of the guy you end up spending the rest of your life with. Be true to yourself. There are countless women out there in miserable dead end relationships who can’t even figure out what is wrong or what it is that they want. They have no idea about how to attract men or how to keep them interested – don’t let this be you!
Being yourself might just be the most important of the 5 rules of how to attract guys, simply because if you pretend to be someone you are not you can easily lose touch with the real you, with your wants and desires and it is harder to reconnect to them later on than you might think. Also, you will always be worrying whether the guy will like the real you or not. If he is not going to like you rather turn him away at the door, before you fall for him only to discover he doesn’t like the real you after all!
Always remember…
“Attracting guys should be fun!”
That way if you are not having fun and enjoying yourself, you know it is time to take a rain check, because you may be on the wrong track. If you are on the wrong track, this way you can get back on it without having to double back too far!
