The battle to get your ex back should not just be a one way traffic, which is based only on your feelings, peoples’ opinion not even from books but on following God’s will for your life. We come in contact with so many people in our short stay here on earth, but not all this people are meant to be with us for a very long time, some are placed here by God to just serve a specific purpose and when they’re through, God’s will just move them to another assignment, so it is important to know what is the will of God for that special person that has come into our life and he or she is now gone maybe we are not so sure what purpose they have come to serve in our life.

For everything in life a time will come to prove us, whether we deserve some kind of things in our life for a particular time or not and God is a humorous God, “he promised the Israelis, Canaan but he also told them to contend in battle with the Canaanites that will inevitably cost some lives sometimes defeat but also the promises of God never fails”. God’s promise is that nobody will lack his or her mate, but we know that a love relationship may sometimes not be a bed of roses, this definitely isn’t God’s will but how do you prove that getting your love relationship is God’s will  and applying all the skills you know is following after God ‘s will for your life.

Outline below are some steps to determine if you are in the right direction:

Step 1: following God’s plan for your life will not be lay out as in the content of a book but by obeying God’s instruction per time is needful, because “God will not give you a new instruction except the last one as been obeyed”

Step 2: After the break up, have you prayed about your situation, “most time we think God should see our situation and act on our behalf but God doesn’t work like that”, you have to ask. If yes, were you justified to have allow your girlfriend or boyfriend to go, if no, why not ask God to give you the courage to talk to your ex, so that both of you can get back together.

Step 3: this would have to take some deep thinking because most time we are blinded by love or we are simply not observant, the question is was the relationship abusive in anyway, if yes is the person willing and trying to change? If no, are you ready to go through such a life for a lifetime? It has been said that “God will not do for you what he has given you the power to do” If you’re really sure of God’s will concerning your ex, why not go all out to get him or her back.

Step 4: if this person comes back to your life what difference will it make, if you are able to determine the extent of this person importance in your life it will go a long way in determining the amount of work that you will be willing to do and sacrifice you are going to pay.

Finally, in trying to win you ex back are you trying too hard to please this person and he or she is not acknowledging your effort or even your presence, why not give your ex a break, watch as events unfolds, because most times what a person wants is not clear until he or she miss it, they will always come back looking for you, and most importantly be prayerful, because prayer moves the hand that moves the world, you and your ex inclusive.

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