Are you looking for a Filipina penpal? It may sound a little backward, but yes there are some people who still go for the old school of finding true love – penpals. Although snail mail is no longer popular nowadays but to places (yes there are still areas in the Philippines) which are not reached by technology, writing with the use of real pen and paper still exists. Your true love may be in those places, so it is still worth the effort and time.

There are websites that provide you this kind of service. You only need to look for the person that interests you, then get her details, and you can start writing a letter. Usually, you need to pay a small fee to get the Filipina girl’s mailing address.

Later on, if your relationship progresses then you can help her find the means to see you online. There has to be a way for you to make your communication with her more faster and easier for the two of you. And one way is of course, using the internet. Another option is for you to call her if she has a phone or a cellphone.

So after finding your Filipina penpal, learn to plan your ways to win her heart. Remember that women who live in remote places are very reserved and old-fashioned. This means that these types of Filipina women are still shy and are taught with old Filipino values.

This only means that these Filipina ladies are very traditional, including her parents and grandparents as well. So if you plan to meet them in the future, you need to be prepared and at least know what are the important Filipino cultures and traditions in terms of courtship and wedding.

Since I brought that out, we might as well talk about the very common tradition in the Filipino relationship.

If you are interested with a Filipina lady, you need to woe her and ask the permission of her parents. Once the permission is granted, then you can visit her at home. You can ask her for a date and see her often.

Now, if the relationship progresses and you want to propose marriage to a Filipina woman, you have to ask the woman’s parents first. You bring your own parents the day or night you propose to her in marriage. This proposal is like a small social gathering where you bring some food and celebrate the relationship. This is to formalize the engagement wherein both parties should agree for the wedding to happen.

Then once you are engaged, you can now start planning the wedding date with her. If you will have your wedding in the Philippines, then you should be aware that normally the Philippine wedding is a like a feast where everyone are invited for the merrymaking. So if you are really serious in finding a wife through a Filipina penpal, then at least you need to be prepared for all these things.