Unless you’ve been blessed by the gods, chances are you have, at least in one point in your life, been left wondering whether or not a girl really likes you. There’s a part of you that think she does, but another part that is convincing you that she doesn’t. Basically, you’re a victim of mixed signals. Don’t worry or feel bad, every man has been there.
Now, sometimes, it is painfully obvious when a woman doesn’t like you. She tells you that she doesn’t, she doesn’t give you time of day, and short of being really impolite, you never interact with her. Take this as a direct and clear message. Again don’t feel bad, but the be thankful that you have a clear and definitive answer.
Most of the time, however, women aren’t as direct. Why? Because despite what Hollywood movies will lead us to believe, most women out there are good people and they will give you time of day and be nice to you. When this happens, you have to be able to determine whether or not she is just being nice or she is actually giving you go signals, especially when she seems to be saying no, but something is telling you she’d really like to say yes. How will you find these go signals? Simple, look into her eyes. Why? Because eyes don’t lie.
Plenty of women choose to remain vague about their feelings so that they can maintain a certain level of control over the situation. This could be the case with this woman. So she’s doing things in such a way that leaves you guessing. As mentioned earlier, though, eyes don’t lie, and if you know what clues to look out for, you will be able to reveal her real feelings.
1) Maintaining Eye Contact
This is always your first clue. Women won’t do this unless they are interested in you. So if you can hold her gaze for a long time, chances are she is sizing you up and trying to send you a message.
2) Looking to the Left
When someone looks to the left, it often means they are constructing an image in their head. This could mean that she is about to say something not entirely truthful. If what happens to be coming out of her mouth is “I’m not sure I should have another drink.” then she probably actually really wants another one.
3) Not Looking Directly at You
Just like looking to the left, not being able to look at you directly is another sign that she could be less than truthful. It’s difficult to lie directly at someone, especially someone you’ve just met. So this could be a sign that she isn’t entirely sure about what she is saying.
4) Looking at Your Lips
Spending time looking at your lips while talking to you is another subliminal message that she likes you. Women don’t look at men’s lips unless they’re contemplating kissing them, so this is actually a very good sign!
Although eyes don’t lie, you shouldn’t exactly call a woman out on what she’s doing because that could ruin what you’re trying to achieve. Remember, women like feeling like they’re in control, and in some ways, this is how they play the game. Don’t ruin it for them.
