How do you spot a man who is bad news? How can you see his true colours before he’s sucked you in, bled you dry and ripped out your heart?

Sign 1 – He Is Jealous

A real, stand up man is emotionally mature. The moment you sniff jealousy whether you think you are his girl or not, you need to cut all contact. Trust is pivotal, without it you have nothing. There should be no reason for a man to suspect you of doing anything when he has just met you. He has no claim on you just like you have no claim on him. Let me tell you something, men loathe women who they can’t have with a passion. Envy is their disease and you don’t want to be the target of a jealous mans sting. A real man doesn’t see competition, nor does he care about what another man has or what another man looks like. Real men go after what they want – toxic men get their undies in a bunch because they don’t know how to.

Sign 2 – He Exaggerates Mysterious

If you are trying to unravel this guy – and you should be asking questions, like “Do you have a girlfriend?” and his response “I have friends who are girls” or do you have kids “I hang out with kids” you know he is a dodging the truth because he has something to hide. These boys don’t know how to be themselves and couldn’t do it if they tried because their life is one big lie. Trust me he will probably end up lying to you about all kinds of things and for no reason other than it is a muse, a game for him. You need this guy like you need a hole in the head. Don’t waste your time, you are a Queen and only Kings deserve Queens.

Sign 3 – He Attracts Toxic Women

You know what they say, birds of a feather flock together. No A class, top shelf women in her own mind would waste their time on a toxic man and toxic men know this. These men target women who are damaged and don’t believe they deserve love. Two toxic people is a recipe for a disaster, so if you are emotionally weak you should work on yourself and pay particular attention to the men you attract.