Men have a way of letting a woman know their feelings by their body language and their behavior. If your guy has been acting like he is not in the least bit interested in you it may be that he actually does! Take a peek at these tips. They will help you to understand this cold behavior of guys better!

They don’t want to seem too smitten

Maybe guys feel that if they are too open about their feelings towards a woman, they seem like guys who cannot control their feelings and look silly. They have an image to protect and won’t do anything to spoil it!

He believes wearing his heart on his sleeve would make him look weak

The fear of looking weak and vulnerable is very real to most macho alpha males and if your guy has a reputation to defend, he will hate to let his feelings show openly. He will do his best to pretend otherwise just so that he does not come across as too open and easily “readable”.

They want the girls to chase them

Though many guys love a good chase, there are others who equally think it is very cool for a girl to do all the chasing! It makes him feel sexy, attractive and “in demand”. This is the reason why he will pretend to be cold and distant so that she will think that he is even more attractive and unavailable and therefore worth chasing.

They hate admitting that they have feelings

Men have this stupid but very real notion that they are not supposed to cry, be mushy and romantic in front of others and basically admit they have feelings and emotions. It is only the women who are “allowed” to cry openly and bare their souls to one and all. Therefore there are many who will act like they don’t care when in fact they do!

They believe it will make her chase him harder

Women are not the only people who believe in reverse psychology! Just as a woman may pretend that she does not care in order to make him chase her all the more, men too pretend that they are not interested just to see her chase him like he was the only eligible man around.

They want to be sure of her feelings first

Many men are wary of showing and admitting their feelings too early. If he is not sure of your feelings for him, and is afraid of making an utter fool of himself by professing his love, he will wait till he is really sure that you love him before committing and showing the world that he loves you.

They want to portray a strong, macho image

What is it about men that make them want to pretend that they don’t care at all? Perhaps it is an instinct to look strong, independent and macho! They feel that if they look the type of man who is not so easily hooked then it will make them all the more irresistible to women.

It’s unbelievable how many guys have this problem!

I mean, you finally got the courage to walk up to that beautiful girl and tell her a pickup line that you thought sounded amazing and instead of her falling all over you, she acts cool and distant.

And basically tells you to get lost. Sound familiar?

If it does then you are one of the many men who haven’t a clue what women want to hear when they first meet a new guy. And you obviously need some coaching with your pickup lines.

Being a reasonably attractive woman myself I’ve had experience

with guys who have horrible pickup lines.

I’ve had guys try to start a conversation with me in the supermarket by (of all things) asking me about what I’m buying. Talk about a rotten pickup line!

Now, I don’t know about you, but I get more than just a

little uncomfortable when a stranger is analyzing my purchases.

This is just one example of the many different ways guys blunder trying out a pickup line or when trying to get a pretty girl to like them and find them interesting.

In this fast paced, high tech world women don’t have as much time to just chat leisurely as they used to in simpler days.

Some people may not want it any other way, but in all this hustle and bustle women don’t realize how many friendships, and

relationships they’ve trash canned because they didn’t “have the time”.

So. Sadly, if you don’t get a woman’s interest in the first 30 seconds by one heck of a pickup line you’ve pretty much lost her for good.

She will dismiss you from her mind as she thinks about her

schedule or plans for the day and won’t even remember you a few days later.

There are exceptions to the rule of course, but generally you’ll find this to be the case.

Just imagine how many guys approach a girl who is beautiful, smart, and talented every day with killer pickup lines. And imagine how many of those men she snubs and ignores their best pickup line.

Eventually this girl going to settle down with only one man. So if you want to have a chance at being that man you’ve got to stand apart from the crowd, from all the other guys who beg for her phone number and throw average pickup lines at her.

One way to do this (no matter how nervous you feel) is to ACTconfident. You do this by not fidgeting, looking her in the eye gently,casually keeping your arms at your sides (whatever you do don’t cross them in front of you as this projects hostility).

If the situation calls for it be helpful, and always be kind. Women still love a chivalrous man who will open doors for them or call them a lady.

I beam whenever a man treats me this way, and he has my full

attention whenever he speaks. Whatever you do don’t use a pickup line that is coarse or rude in humor though, as this will instantly turn a woman off.

It’s not a question of equality or women’s lib, it’s about making the woman feel special and beautiful, but at the same time treating her with respect and courtesy.

Until you get to know the girl better there are also lines you

shouldn’t cross. An excess of touching should be saved until you’ve known her for awhile, since the last thing you want is to make her uncomfortable around you.

In fact if she feels the same way about you that you do about her, she may either initiate more touching on her own (like hugs, and holding hands) or not be able to stop thinking about you. Wondering whether you like her or not.

Your next step? Put these tips on pickup lines to use and start making more women say yes to you.

Do you want to know how to stop being shy with guys? Can you talk with everyone except the guy you are interested in? Is it time for you to take control and start talking to guys? A lot of women struggle with confidence when it comes down to talking with guys they’re interested in. you can seriously endanger you chances of meeting the right guy by continuing to struggle with your confidence around guys. But read on and you can find out some of the best ways of overcoming your discomfort and stop being shy with guys.

The first thing to do is figure out why you are having trouble talking with guys. Some woman find it difficult because of a lack of self confidence. Worrying about your appearance, looks any other insecurities can hold you back when it comes to learning how to stop being shy with guys. The simple answer for this is take care with your appearance and try to make yourself feel good about how you look everyday before leaving the house.

Rejection, or the fear of it at least, is another reason why it can be hard to talk to men. Having bad experiences before can make you hesitant to try again. But there is a very good way of getting over this fear. Face it and move on. Coming to accept the reason you are afraid of rejection will help you do this. Figure out what it is about yourself that you are so worried about. There is every little that can’t be fixed, re-done or overcome when t comes to our natural dislikes about our selves. Try to stay positive and honestly consider everything you have to offer. You will find that you are a much better catch then you have been giving yourself credit for and being positive is a very sexy quality when you are trying to attract a man.

Being shy can seriously affect your chances with men. But learning to stay positive and be yourself can get you more dates then you ever imagined. Every man is attracted to a confident woman. Be yourself and start attracting the men you deserve.

We've all heard of the term 'fight or fright' when it comes to personal danger. Well, if you have a can of Pepper Spray in your hand when danger approaches, you will be ready to meet the challenge and take charge of your situation.

Here's a story of how Pepper Spray kept Jenny from being robbed and worse:
Jenny is a college student and during exams spends most of her time studying in the library, especially at night. If you have ever been through this, even in high school, then you know that when you leave the library you are generally very tired and you just want to get home. Because of this you are not very attentive to your surroundings. After all, you've walked this same path many times before and you could do it with your eyes closed.

Jenny's friends are all in the same boat but they decided to arm themselves with a canister of Pepper Spray just in case they might run into any trouble. Jenny said that it was just a waste of money – I only live a few blocks from the library and the streets are well lit. Besides (and here comes the line) "I can take care of myself". Anyway, we all walk most of the way together as a group so no one will ever bother us.

Luckily one of her friends gave her a can of Pepper Spray and made her promise to keep it with her, especially at night. Jenny said OK just to please her friend.

Well, one Saturday night Jenny had to stay at the library later than her friends to finish a report. She told them to go ahead, that she'd be all right.

Walking home that night, after two blocks she noticed someone behind her. At first it didn't seem any problem until she realized that there was no one else around which she thought was unusual. In a few minutes, the flight mode kicked in and she started walking faster.

Unfortunately, so did he. Jenny not a very good runner and so soon she was running out of breath. What she did next surprised her follower. Jenny threw herself down in the middle of the street.

Within seconds the creep got to where she was and pulled her up by the hair. What this bad guy did not know is that Jenny was using this time to pull the can of Pepper Spray out of her purse. (Note: She would have been better off carrying it in her hand for easy and direct use).

When the attacker menacingly demanded her money he pulled her close to him. That's when she let him have it. She squirted him twice in the face and eyes with the Pepper Spray. As he writhed and screamed, blinded by the pain, he let her go and she managed to get away to the nearest house.

Pepper Spray saved Jenny that night. Without it she could have at least lost her money and at most, well who knows what would have happened.

Don't be the next victim of a crime! Never leave your house without a can of Pepper Spray in your pocket or purse. It's best to carry it in your hand at night. This item comes in many sizes and shapes and can even come disguised as lipstick, spray perfume or even a pen. No one should ever be without it because you never know when trouble will find you out.

Guys will always have a keen eye for women. And though there may be many girls out there, there’d always be this one woman that will catch his attention, someone he would look up to and admire. Admiration and love may not be synonymous with each other but they have to go hand in hand if you want to achieve a lasting partnership.

Here are characteristics that would set you apart from all other women:

Confidence will always outrank many qualities

A girl who is not overly shy would always be approached by guys. Self-confidence will enhance a girl’s assets while diminishing her flaws. It is the ingredient to make her appear more beautiful in a dress, or cute on a stage play.

A good cook through and through

It is a must for women to know how to cook. Guys need good and real food as it is always true that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Since this is the case, it pays to know a few recipes. If you can concoct a certain meal that is uniquely yours, then he would appreciate you more.

Intelligence that outshines many

Guys admire a girl who knows more than just fashion and make-up. Being with a girl who possesses both beauty and brains is like hitting the jackpot. Intelligence does not really have to be just your IQ but also your EQ or emotional quotient. You have to make sure that both quotients are balanced in your life.

Creativity that stands out

A creative mind is resourceful and beautiful. Your creativity will also spice things up in your relationship so have an ample amount of it all the time.

A proper sense of humor

Being candid will make anyone’s mood lighter and adding humor to your life will make the relationship fun and enjoyable. But keep in mind that there’s a big difference between clean humor and making fun of someone. When you hurt someone just so you could look good in a party, then you’re no better than the worst comedian.

An innate leader in you

A guy must be able to see – with one glance – that you’re more than all the other girls combined. The way you talk and walk says it all.

You have a spirituality that evokes serenity

Being religious is different from being spiritual. A woman who believes in a God who will guide her conscience will make any guy fall in love with her. So stock up on intangible treasures and your dream guy would inevitably follow.

Business scholars and students throughout recent periods have studied the fascinating business model of franchising. In the most history of commerce under a common currency from Amsterdam forward to the Global Power House of the United States of America we have seen franchises lead the way. The first franchise was said to be that of the Singer Sewing Machine. Yet if one were to carefully study the Catholic Church or even colonialism itself you can see that franchising or at least its structure is all over mankind’s creations. This is on of the reasons we study franchising and franchised companies. From Ray Kroc at McDonalds to the modern day automaker dealerships, we see franchising’s mark all over our civilization.

However rarely do we study the makings and grass roots humble beginnings of niche franchise companies. This article is about the history of just such a company. It is intriguing to read how franchises occur naturally in free market systems. Below is the story of how the Aircraft Wash Guys wash founded and how they got started in the Aircraft Washing Business. Although there is tremendous data and written articles to back it up, the story is written from a fictional point of view and opinion, so we do not intend to try to prove anything to anyone, nor do we want to get the founders in any trouble for the fun of the past. We claim freedom of speech, of the press in its entirety since a good part of it is opinion based. This of course should be familiar to any of those who have read the history of McDonalds in Ray Kroc’s “Grinding it Out” or Subway Sandwich Story; “Start Small, finish Big.”

The Aircraft Guys was not always called the Aircraft Wash Guys. The founder Mr. Lance Winslow’s original company at age 12 was Speedy Waxers. He stared with partners. Andrew Rice and Mark Daily, who father both owned aircraft too. In Lance’s family they had a Piper Colt, two-seater, which Lance had some 80 flying hours in. Andrew’s dad bought a Cessna 150 and Mark’s dad had Bellanca Decathlon and a Beech Bonanza. It was in the business of aircraft washing and waxing. Mark Daily became a businessman, Andrew Rice joined the Air Force. All three were in the Civil Air Patrol at the time. Andrew and Lance were also in the Boy Scout Aviation Explorers. Lance eventually came to own the business by himself and later sold this business to a friend, Glen Tierney, who was in the Junior ROTC. This was in 1979 at Camarillo Airport (CMA) in California near the Coast above Los Angeles. After selling Speedy Waxers, Lance went to work for a local McDonald’s as an employee, for Clay Passion, Franchisee, who owned a Beechcraft Debonair that Lance use to wash on a weekly basis. Clay was a long time customer and his office staff were Car Washing customers for at least a decade in Lance’s other company the Car Wash Guys; http://www.carwashguys.com . Clay promised Lance a quick advancement due to his previous business experience and aircraft washing loyalty. Lance was waiting for a turn to go into training to be an assistant manager. Meanwhile he read Ray Kroc’s book and studied every single manual and videotape in the place and how every single detail was accounted for. WOW, he thought, this is how you really do it, this is when Lance decided he would emulate Ray Kroc whenever he could. Glen Tierney later joined the Air Force five months later and left the business.Lance recontacted all the customers and went back into business under the name Aero Wash, and then set up more units at Santa Paula Airport, Van Nuys, Oxnard Airport and even got accounts in Santa Barbara. Back then we washed 135 aircraft per week at approximately $10.00 each. (Can you imagine those prices today?)

Back then Lance thought he would try aircraft sales, however he was young and naive and nobody would give me a chance. He knew he would do well, he happen to know just about everyone at five different airports, contacts for sales would be a no-brainer. Not only was he young, but he was small for his age. It was hard enough to get people to let him wash their planes at age 12 let alone sell planes at age 15. So at 15 he formed an aircraft finders fee business and asked a commission for referring buyers. This was when the ITC-Investment tax credit was taken away, America was still in the energy crisis with high fuel prices and luxury tax law went into affect the next year and killed General Aviation. We still had the aircraft washing business, but Lance now armed with a driver’s license at sixteen knew no limits. He started washing fleets for utility companies, California Highway Patrol, Post Office Jeeps, anything. At the time we had several Independent contractors we called “franchisees.” Of course at the time Lance didn’t really understand the total extent of what franchising was, he understood McDonald’s and attention to details, but was only starting to grasp what he would some day become. Lance was winning in the market in the middle of the recession, he said we do not participate in recessions. We are good at the down times too, we have been there and we won and we understand the market and the sectors we are in. Here are some articles in the beginning.

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/beginning.html

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/hist2.html

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/hist3.html

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/museum2.shtml

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/museum3.shtml

http://www.carwashguys.com/history/museum6.shtml

Lance started a company he called Speedy Aircraft Finders. As part of this business he started the first Aircraft Multi-Listing Service, which was online. Although the Internet was not really being used yet and TRS 80’s were just hitting the market. He used dumb terminals and watts lines to send aircraft brokers updated listings. He sold approximately 40 or so aircraft back then and assisted other brokers in doing the same. He took on two partners and later they were able to squeeze lance out of the pattern. Two years later one of the gentleman later went to prison for embezzlement when he sold the same aircraft to three people, the other reprimanded on another deal and eventually lost everything.

Lance after being forced to sell his third of the business went to work for Air Camarillo and started the Aircraft Sales Department determined to out-sell those gentlemen. He did and everyone else too. Although he really did not like to do sales, he loved to fly the aircraft for sale. Sometimes he would insist that every buyer fly every single aircraft on the line for sale and many that Lance had brokered agreements, before they were allowed to make and offer, sign a conditional sales contract or buy an airplane. Thus Lance got more flying time in lots of cool aircraft and he doubts he ever had an unhappy customer, they always gave referrals and always came back. It was through this high volume of sales that Mira Slovak, a famous Russian Defector during the Cold War, came to Lance with a proposition to help him sell Partnavias. An Italian Built Aircraft, which Mira had the North American rights to sell. Lance became a dealer for that brand too.

One day Mira shows up in an Italian Bi-Plane and asks Lance if he wants to go for a ride. Lance says sure. Lance and Mira Slovak inventor of the aircraft maneuver the Lumshovak, fly to 300 AGL and do the inverted snap roll entry cartwheel and tumble through the sky. Lance was then hooked on aerobatics. There was a time when if Lance could not cage the gyros and in a plane so he could do a spin or a barrel roll or in aerobatic aircraft do a loop or tail slide he just wouldn’t fly. He got over that quick enough, sometimes it gives you a real head ache.

End Part I

Women often grumble about the inventory of single men saying, "There are no good men available." Well new evidence is in and it's quite the contrary. I spoke with eight single men in their 40's who are members of a local dating service. What an eye opener! We spent an hour together discussing their surprising dating experiences. Hold onto your hats ladies because this is a shocker!

Who Are these Good Guys?
The group varied, but were all very datable. Highlights include: Career: teacher, electrician, IT consultant, insurance underwriter, mechanic. Looks: 5'7 "to over 6 feet; athletic to huggable; dark brown or salt and pepper hair to balding. Education: two masters degrees to trade school. Interests: cooking, biking, dancing, hiking, movies. Seems like a bunch of regular guys.

Men Do Want Honesty and Monogamy
Overall, the men expressed a sincere desire to find a loving relationship. Monogamy is a must and honesty is a primary concern. Most want a partner who is close in age (plus or minus 5 years.) Surprised? These men want exactly the same thing that most women want. So what's the problem? Here's what the guys had to say about dating:

Women Won't Give Men a Chance
The number one biggest issue men have with women today is that the fairer sex just won't give them a chance. More often than not, the ladies they select from the dating service either say no without as much as a phone conversation or don't respond to the request at all. As a result, the men feel bewildered, baffled, and very frustrated by this high level of rejection and don't understand why women paid good money for a service they don't take full advantage of.

Men feel women's unwillingness to connect is because they are simply too picky and looking for a level of perfection that's unrealistic. The fellows worry that they're too short, not fit enough, losing hair, don't have a status job, the right education, or make enough money. Hmmm, could they be right?

Look Past Looks
What fascinated me most is that the men complain about the very same thing that women complain about men! Women whine that men select or reject them based on looks alone rather than taking the time to get to know them. The truth is that selecting a potential partner based solely on physical attraction represents a trap to which both sexes often succumb. This is why most matchmakers don't use pictures with clients, insisting instead that they meet in person. Attraction is important to a good relationship, but is perfection necessary?

Missing the Boat on the Good Guys
All of this begs the question: What is the cost of turning men away based on superficial qualities? Seems like it might be pretty steep. Could be a lot of women are missing the boat on the "Good Guys" because they won't even put a toe in the water to meet them. It's certainly something to think about. Of course, you must find a man attractive, but how important should looks be and how much job status is required?

Expand Your Datable Criteria
When you think about the qualities you want in a partner, what comes first; fitness or a warm heart? A high-powered career or good communication skills? Education or honesty? In this day and age, when women are fiercely independent and self-sufficient, do you really need his financial status or emotional support and friendship? Expanding your datable criteria opens the door for so many more possibilities. Before you dismiss a man because of his physique, hairline, or job, try stretching yourself to discover what's inside. Could he be worth a glass of wine, some light conversation, and 90 minutes of your time?

The bottom line on dating in the 21st century is – there really are lots of good men available. If you're looking for a loving partner, ease up on stringent standards and let a few more prospects pass inspection. Give the next guy who approaches you a chance. Say "Yes" to a man who may not be ideal, but could be a wonderful partner just the same. You have little to lose, but the upside could be finding the love you've been seeking all along.

Understanding men is one of the hardest things a woman has to do. Not only can they frustrate and confuse a woman because of their attitudes and strange behavior at times, but they can be so close mouthed that it seems impossible to read their minds. However, most men have certain traits and characteristics that are typical. Here are some tips that will help you know how they think and feel.

Your popularity will increase your attraction

If a guys notices that you are the center of attraction and are wanted by other men, it automatically makes him want you. In fact, every guy will secretly harbor a desire to have you. All you have to do is be the cynosure of all eyes around and you will get him to want you.

If other guys desire you it proves your sexuality

The very fact that other guys want you, proves your sexuality to men. They will start to be aware of your charms and sex appeal. The more you flaunt your beauty the more they will want to know you. It is important to have an exciting personality as well. You want the guys to have a high opinion of you.

Guys want to be the victor!

If a girl is wanted by all the guys she becomes a “prize” to be won. The more they try to win her affections, the more interesting and attractive she becomes. A guy will want to be the one who wins her heart. He will want to emerge as the victor and show her off once he is successful in winning her.

Guys always want what they cannot have

The more unattainable and unconquerable you seem, despite all the attention you get from the opposite sex, the more desirable you will become. Guys always want what seems unavailable. If you prove to be “out of reach” they will strive to get you.

Guys rate a woman’s sexual appeal by the number of admirers she has

The more the number of admirers around a girl, the more desirable she will seem. Men will be attracted to her like bees around honey! The moment she loses her fan following for some reason or the other, she will also lose her attraction and the guy might lose interest in her.

Guys always want to prove a point

The fact that you are so popular and friendly with other guys will make a guy want to see what it is that other guys like so much! He automatically becomes curious and wants to know her better. This proves that the more you are chased and pursued by others, the more tempting you become.

The more guys you have around you – the more irresistible you will be

A sure sign that you are irresistible is when you can draw the guys to you as moths to a candle flame. You become someone who is interesting, exciting and alluring. Men will rate your attraction by the amount of followers you have.

Being an Asian male rocks! While other guys are standing around trying to look 'cool' or 'tough', I move up to the hottest girl in the room, do my magic and leave the party with her, while the rest of the 'studs' are trying to figure out what just happened!

Wait a minute! It sucks to be an Asian guy, everyone knows that ?! We're short, scrawny and nerdy and we definitely can't pick up women! You know what? Keep telling yourself that and I'll continue to do my thing! Or try to put your negative thoughts aside for a moment and listen to my story.

I'm a short Asian guy and I'm by no means what some would call handsome. I'm also scrawny and I suck at sports, so how come I girls are attracted to me within minutes of meeting me? One word: Confidence.

Yeah, I guess you heard that before. Women like confidence. In fact, women not only like confidence in men, they need confidence in a man to be attracted. A man that isn't confident is simply a turnoff. It's like a fat chick for guys. Attraction is not a choice. Women are hardwired to go for confident men.

'What is this crazy guy on about?'. Hang on there, I told you to put your negative thoughts aside for a moment. If you want to get better with women, then you need to make a decision to get this part of your life sorted out. Period.

If you're anything like I was a couple of years ago then you've been scouring the net looking for clues on how to pick up women. You've listened to all the angry Asian guys moaning about racism and negative stereotypes and you've met these so called pick up guru's who unfortunately all happen to be caucasian. I know, where you're at, I've been there trust me. I know what it's like to only have date with yourself and some online porn star on a Saturday night.

Confidence comes from competence. Get it?

Being confident in social situations and with girls isn't just something that happens overnight, you can't just tell yourself to be confident and then all will fall into place. Confidence comes from an inner belief in yourself and your abilities. Part one in your journey to mastery is to let go of your negative thoughts; all those negative beliefs about how white girls are out of your league or how that attractive girls is going to shoot you down if you talk to her.

Need a break, time away from the office or an excuse to get away for a few days? Whether it's time bonding with your son (s), college buddies, or office mates, a great guys' "mancation" is just a short drive northwest from Los Angeles to VenturaCountyWest.

With miles of VenturaCountyWest coastline, water activities are a natural draw. Kayaking is big here. Beginners can rent kayaks for a leisurely outing in Ventura Harbor, or the adventurous can sign up for a kayak cave tour around Santa Cruz Island through Channel Island Outfitters and Channel Islands Kayak Center.

More experienced kayakers or those who want to experience the ocean on a wave runner can launch from Ventura Harbor and Channel Islands Harbor. Contact Channel Island Kayak Center for kayak rentals and Ventura Boat Rentals for wave runners.

Guys can also plan to spend a half day sports fishing with Hook's Sportsfishing and Channel Islands Sports Fishing out of Channel Islands Harbor in Oxnard or Ventura Sports Fishing leaving from Ventura Harbor. Fishing boats depart before dawn.

Depending on the season, even novice anglers can snag catches like white sea bass, lingcod, yellowtail and red snapper. Deck hands are happy to clean and fillet fish that are caught (for tips).

VenturaCountyWest land activities can be just as exhilarating. Jim Hall Kart Racing is where students suit up and learn to drive ultra-condensed, 160-pound formula karts. You'll quickly find out why Motor Trend magazine chose Jim Hall Kart Racing as one of the "49 coolest car things to do before you die."

If that doesn't get the adrenaline pumping, have your crew take turns as co-pilot in a vintage World War II P-51 Mustang. Veteran pilots from the Commemorative Air Force Museum in Camarillo take guests on breathtaking rides they'll never forget.

For golf lovers, VenturaCountyWest offers some of the best public golf courses in the country all with ocean or mountain views. In Ventura, take in a morning round of golf at Olivas Links , an 18-hole championship golf facility designed by Forrest Richardson or play at the adjoining course, Buenaventura. In Oxnard, tee up at one of two courses at River Ridge, while in Camarillo, Sterling Hills and Camarillo Springs offer challenging play in natural settings.

When the sun goes down, the night heats up. Downtown Ventura is the place to be. Make stops at the Ventura Improv Company for comedy, the Majestic Ventura Theater for a mix of music or nightclub and restaurant hop along Main Street. If your group feels lucky, head over to Players Casino for lively games and tournaments of Texas Holdem, Big-O and Panguingue or hang out at traditional poker tables or the casino's blackjack lounge.

By the end of your mancation, they'll be lots of memories and plenty of opportunity for bragging rights.