Asian girls… well, generally, we aren’t an elusive bunch. If you don’t believe me, walk down to Chinatown any day of the week and you will see just how easy it is to find us. However, when it comes to a night out there seems to be a scarcity of Asian girls in most Western bars and nightclubs. If, however – for some reason – you really feel the need to pick up an Asian girl (or see an Asian girl that you want to get with) there are some things that may help you along your way. Firstly, before you leave the house, make sure your hair looks great. We love guys with good hair like a university student loves cheap drinks.

Ever wondered why Asian guys always have the coolest hair? It’s because us girls made it that way. Spike it up, or at least make it look like you put a little bit of effort into styling your hair. This way, you make a great impression before you even talk to her. Also, get this into your head before you go out: Asian girls don’t like it when you ask “Hey, so do you eat weird food?” or “Wow, your English is really good!”. You might think you’re being cool and funny, we just think you’re being racist and rude. Force it out of your mind as one of those ‘conversation starters’ and opt instead for something like “So did you move here when you were young?” Believe me, the conversation will take you a lot further this way.

Now, when you actually find the girl, here’s an insider’s tip… we as a race are not the best at handling our alcohol. Every Asian girl that you see who has a red face has probably only had 2 or 3 drinks. Because of this, the obvious solution if you actually want to pick up an Asian girl for the night is to buy her drinks, drinks, and more drinks (it’ll only cost you a maximum of $10 before she’s drunk, most likely). Just remember to make them good drinks – in other words, not shot after shot – otherwise you’ll have scored yourself a very drunk Asian girl who’s throwing up in the bathrooms.

A lot of Asian girls can also be very shy (even with a few drinks), and may take some time to be comfortable around you. This isn’t a stereotype, it’s just a general observation I’ve made over the years. The best way to make her feel comfortable around you is to talk to her and make her realise that you’re not a creepy stranger her parents told her to stay away from. This goes for all girls, but is especially true if you’re trying to pick up an Asian. Lastly and most importantly: it’s probably better to go to a club where there are actually plenty of Asian girls to increase your chances. Think of nightclubs with names such as ‘Bamboo’ or ‘Shanghai Nights’… that’s probably where we’re hiding. Don’t worry about not having music to dance to: most Asian bars and nightclubs play plenty of hip hop and RnB, but if you’re looking for techno then you’ll most likely have to go elsewhere.

So the next time you suddenly feel like finding an Asian girl on a Friday or Saturday night, you’ll know exactly where to go and what to do… And if you remember nothing else, please remember this: don’t try to speak some sort of Asian language to her, mention eating some sort of animal, or buy her mountains of tequila shots.

So if you are one of the thousands of guys that are asking the question why can’t I get a girlfriend, go through each of the reasons below and be honest with yourself…

1. You Do Not Meet Basic Attractiveness Levels

Girls care about looks.

But luckily for us, not as much as we do…

There are some simple guidelines that each of us have to follow to make sure that we are not being disqualified as potential boyfriends due to our appearance.

• Don’t be fat

Thinking logically, what does being fat show a potential girlfriend girl?

It shows that you over consume (see reason 2) and that if we were back on the plains of Africa (the time that a woman’s genes have evolved to define attractiveness), what is the likelihood that you would be able to provide for her and her children?

The solution is simple: develop better habits, learn about nutrition and start to enjoy exercise.

• Wear good clothes

Now this one is harder to justify from an evolutionary stand point so I won’t try, you will just have to trust me, girls like guys that have some idea of fashion.

Read some fashion blogs and then head to eBay to buy some skinny jeans.

• Be well groomed

If you are not well groomed this suggest to the girl that you are unable to care for yourself, let alone her and her children?

So, take a shave, go to a barbers for a fresh cut and brush your teeth.

2. You Take Value

Are you creating or consuming?

Are you looking for a girlfriend because it will make you feel better in your sad and lonely life?

If so, I don’t blame you.

It could be argued that mainstream society benefits from a consumer culture. Take more value than you provide and you will be happy.

However, if you want to turn the table and can finally realise where true happiness comes from you will start providing value.

And when you do, you will find that girls will start to congregate around you as opposed to avoid you.

3. You Chase

Did you ever play kiss chase when you were younger?

Yes, girls love chasing boys. They may not admit this but they do, they fantasize about it.

If you start chasing that perfect girl, you will be playing her role, the role of the feminine.

Now assuming that you are innately attracted to feminine energy (most straight guys are), the girl you will be chasing will be repelled by your actions.

Take a step back, assume the role of the man and allow her to do what she loves to do: kiss chase.

I hope you have now internalised the three reasons that answer the question “why can’t I get a girlfriend” and have been honest with yourself as to whether they currently apply to you, and if they do, get to work…

Every guy has that fantasy of getting two girls to sleep with you at the same time. People say that’s impossible, but in reality that’s not true! It’s very possible and I’m going to tell how you can do it! All you need to know is to learn these three simple rules! If you follow these rules and practice a lot, you can get two girls to sleep in your bedroom easily!

1. Don’t be shy of saying you like to have 2 girls at the same time.

What I mean is that you have to have the mindset at the start, that you like to have 2 girls at the same time, and you’re not shy or afraid of saying that to anybody!

If you have the opposite thought, you will not succeed because you’re always thinking of failure. This is a key as this will let your potential partners to know that you’re serious about your intentions. Girls will pick up on this and they will attract to your intention.

Girls who don’t like that idea won’t attract your attention. Hence, you won’t waste your time with girls who don’t want to do it, but you’ll get girls who do want to do it!

2. Be honest.

This is quite simple really. You have to be upfront and honest when talking to the girl to agree to sleep with another girl. But you’ll be surprised how many will agree to it.

Unlike guys, girls are more comfortable doing it with the same sex if there’s a guy there. So all you need to do is tell them honestly and truthfully which girl you want to do with. If not, just pick another.

3. Make it feel it’s going to be fun!

If you’re quite persistent or make it less uncomfortable, all you need to do is remind them its going to be fun! Girls in general will do anything that is fun and exciting. If you have read any women’s romance book, most of the story talks about girls having fun and getting excitement. They all crave for it. If you do this, they’ll agree to anything that is fun!

Mountains of Love is the latest novel from the prolific pen of Great Lakes Romances author Donna Winters. It also represents a new departure for Winters, who has previously set her novels along the Great Lakes where she has lived for many years. A few years ago, Winters moved to the Southwest and that has influenced her latest novel. Twenty-three-year-old Cedena Rossier, the book’s heroine, is from Fayette, Michigan, where Winters previously set a trilogy, but Cedena journeys to the Chicago World’s Fair in 1893 and then to Kansas City and Las Vegas, New Mexico.

And Cedena’s journey is quite the ride. Like the Ferris wheel Cedena rides on at the World’s Fair, this novel is full of wonderful views of the United States at the end of the nineteenth century as well as some gasps over the excitement that runs throughout its pages.

The story begins when Cedena accompanies her mother, aunt, and uncle to the Chicago World’s Fair. Cedena and her mother have fallen on hard times. Her father and brother were involved in the iron industry in Fayette, Michigan, until the Jackson Iron Company pulled out of town. They then took to fishing to support the family, but two years ago, they were lost in a storm on Lake Michigan. Since then, Cedena and her mother have struggled to make ends meet and Cedena’s Uncle James has had to send them money just so they could survive. Now Cedena’s aunt and uncle have invited her to attend the World Fair’s in Chicago with them, where Uncle James has a booth for Paxton’s Pharmaceuticals, his own company based in Kansas City. Running the booth for him is a young man named Matthew who immediately takes a liking to Cedena.

Cedena, however, is more interested in seeing the sights at the fair than being involved with Matthew. She finds him somewhat overbearing, and when she meets handsome Orin Young and his sister Alice, who seems to like Matthew, Cedena hopes Matthew will fall for Alice while she gets to spend time with Orin.

One of the splendors of this novel is the Chicago World’s Fair. It was the spectacle of the decade, and Winters takes us on a tour of it, showing us everything from the camel races to the hot air balloon ride, the Fourth of July fireworks, and the Chinese Village. We feel drawn in, seeing it all through Cedena’s eyes, and only wish we could go back in time to see it for ourselves.

But eventually, Cedena’s visit to the fair draws to an end and she has to make some hard decisions. She realizes there is nothing in Fayette for her to return to, and she is also tired of her mother’s controlling ways. She has also met some people at the fair who make her want to remain in Chicago. When she takes her uncle up on his offer to stay and help him, she comes into immediate conflict with her mother, resulting in her mother disowning her. Worse, the Depression of 1893 is just beginning, and by the time the fair is over and Cedena returns to Kansas City with her aunt and uncle, her uncle’s business is in such decline that Cedena must learn to fend for herself. Then she has the brilliant idea to have the adventure of a lifetime by becoming a Harvey Girl.

To say more would be to spoil all the fun, but Cedena’s experiences in the Southwest are anything but dull as she meets new and unsavory characters, tries to be self-supporting, and struggles with the feelings of her heart and making the best decisions for her future.

Donna Winters has written many other novels and I have read many of them, from Mackinac to her Fayette Trilogy and her more recent Saving Mossy Point. After writing so many historical and Christian romances, one would think the books would become formulaic, but that is not at all the case. Winters writes about real people facing real-life struggles in historical settings that make you feel you are right there with the characters. I could feel Cedena’s excitement at the fair, her exhaustion after working long shifts as a Harvey Girl, her frustrations dealing with difficult people from family members to fellow employees, and ultimately, her courage in making the best decisions for herself. She and her fellow characters will remain with you a long time.

Anyone who loves historical fiction and romance will find Mountains of Love a wonderful saga to get lost in and wish there were mountains more of it.

Just about every woman at some point in her dating life will fall for a bad boy. From gangstas to thugs, OG's to Mac's in training, they all have one thing in common – they play the game of love by their own set of rules and if you break the rules you'll end up with a broken heart. What is a bad boy? He's a thug, a roughneck and a rebel without a cause. Or he could be the nice guy next door who's smooth as silk, but deep down inside he's a cold-hearted cad. Bad boys are the type of guys your mother warns you about, but because they've got thug appeal you throw common sense out the window and caution to the wind.

What you must keep in mind when dealing with a bad boy is that most of them see women as conquests – something to be captured and conquered. And when the thrill is over so is the relationship. Although many of you know this, some of you chase after thug love hoping to be the one to change him. In the end you're left feeling hurt and betrayed. And you know when you've got a guy who's not acting right because you're probably quick to tell your girlfriends what to do the minute their boyfriends start acting up. But sometimes it's easier to tell others what to do then to do what you know is right.

I know firsthand what it's like to be captivated by a bad boy, because up until I learned how to make healthier relationship choices I was a die – hard bad boy addict. I wouldn't even look at a guy unless he was a roughneck with a bad attitude.

But years of emotional roller coaster rides, baby momma's drama and being played for a fool made me wake up and smell the dysfunction. As a result I developed some common sense strategies that helped me break my bad boy habit. I share them in spirit of sisterhood, hoping that they help you too.

Why Do Girls Like Bad Boys?

If you ask most females why they like bad boys they'll say the challenge, the excitement or the thrill of living vicariously. But often what starts out as an exiting high-speed adventure ends up turning into an emotionally draining melodrama. Bad boys offer a double dosage of pain and pleasure. When they're bad they're down right awful, but when they are good they make you feel like you you've just hit the lotto. Here are the most common reasons that females like bad boys.

Secret Fear of Intimacy

If you are attracted to guys who you cannot really have, because they don't want a real relationship or they're involved with someone else – perhaps you have a secret fear of intimacy. The reason you may find a bad boy so appealing is because you can be with him without ever letting him get too close. As long as he remains unavailable he can never get close enough to hurt you.

A Subconscious Wish to Bring Daddy Back Home

As you already know the relationship you had with your father shapes the relationships you will have with other males. If you grew up without a father or if he was emotionally unavailable you may find yourself getting involved with men who act just like your father. Although you risk getting hurt by being with a bad boy. You might be hoping that if you stick around long enough eventually he will give you the love you didn't get at home.

Low self-esteem

When you feel good about yourself you set high standards in every area of ​​your life – including your romantic relationships. If you are in a relationship with a guy who lies, cheats, talks down to you or mistreats you in any way then regardless of what you may want others to believe you do not feel good about yourself. When you value who you are you treat yourself with high regard and require others to do the same. Know that you are worthy of being treated with kindness and respect.

Media Brainwashing

If you've ever watched an episode of Jerry Springer or the latest music videos you can see how the media potrays the bad boy image as every girl's dream. Popular television and music videos try to make you believe that it is acceptable for guys to disrespect females and reduce then to sex objects. Think of Jay Z's "Big Pimpin '" video or the Lox's "Need a Ride or Die Chick" and you can see how the media pushes the bad boy image as the ideal. You don't have to buy into everything the media feeds you. You can make up your own mind regarding what is attractive and acceptable. There's no good reason whatsoever to stay in a relationship with a guy who doesn't appreciate or respect you.

Copyright © 2000 by Cassandra Mack

If you are thinking about finding a Thai girl to become your girlfriend than there are a few things that you should know first. Thai ladies for the most part are really easy to get along with and this (besides their incredible beauty) is one of the things that make dating a Thai woman so appealing. But if you are a Western man and truly want to be happy in a relationship with a Thai woman than you should read the following 6 things to keep a Thai girl happy.

1. Thai Girls Truly Enjoy Taking Care of You

Being so used to being with Western women, it was difficult for me to grasp the concept that Thai women are taught at a very early age that it is there duty to take care of their boyfriend/husband. They truly enjoy cooking and taking care of most of the chores. Bottom line is, this is a very different characteristic between Western girls and Thai girls. With Thai girls, you not only feel that they care about you, but they show it every day in the small tasks they so lovingly perform.

2. Many Thai Women Have a Jealous Streak

Many girls can be jealous, but Thai girls are known to especially be jealous lovers. It’s not a big deal if you are honest but just keep it in mind when you are out with other people. Your girlfriend likely won’t say anything about your behavior at the time but she’ll likely bring up a “questionable” situation when it is advantageous to her. Again, if you are a good and loyal man, don’t worry about it. Just make sure to know that the first few months of your relationship with a Thai girl means that you are on probation.

3. Thai Women Love Romance

This one shouldn’t surprise anyone. Thai women love romance and they love to have little romantic surprises mixed into the days and weeks. I have to be honest here and say that I’m not exactly the most romantic guy in the world. Fortunately, there are lots of websites out there that can give you tips on what types of things you can do for your Thai girlfriend. This site already has some gift ideas for your Thai girlfriend for wife. In the future, I will blog about other romantic things that I have found many Thai girls just love.

4. Thai Women Dress For Success and Expect You to Do the Same

Everything from their beautiful long black hair to their colorful and intricate nail designs, Thai girls love looking beautiful. Not only that but for every situation, there is a proper way to dress. Sure, there are times when you and your Thai girlfriend wear shorts and tee shirts. But if you are meeting people considered to be of importance, expect them to dress very properly. In addition, expect that your Thai girlfriend will what you to do the same. It’s a small thing that they ask and definitely worth it if you’ve ever had a Thai girl as your lover. So when the time comes, don’t put up a fight and shave that 3-day old stubble. Go ahead and put some nice pants on and a dress shirt. In the end, she’ll be happy and she’ll make sure that you are happy as well.

5. Family is Very Important to Thai Girls

Families are very close in Thailand so expect to become close to your girlfriend’s or wife’s family. The mother and father are especially important and you need to understand that the children are expected to take care of the parents in one way or another when they get old. This is drilled into them with their Thai Buddhism upbringing. This usually means either paying for things for the parents if they don’t have much money or even having the parents live in the same house. For Western men, this is something that you simply have to get accustomed to as it is very different from the way we were raised.

6. Thai Ladies Love to Be Seen

If you want a very happy Thai girl, than take her out on the town every once in a while. The Thai women I know love to dress up and go out for some drinks and dancing. Karaoke is also highly popular in Thailand and many girls like to get up and belt out the latest Thai pop songs. In addition, take here traveling from time to time and she’ll love you for it. Many Thai girls I know have very little travel experience so even a short trip to a different area in Thailand can be pretty exciting for them.

The bottom line is that if you understand and follow the few things that Thai women want than I guarantee you will be a happy man with your Thai girlfriend!

Why are Russian girls so beautiful? Historians estimate that over 25 million Russian people were killed during WWII, the majority of which were men. That was almost 20% of the Russian speaking population at the time and over 40% of the males in the population were killed or maimed. Almost every Russian family was affected either by death or debilitating injuries as a result of this war.

Let's look at the Russian men who survived WWII. Natural selection would dictate that the survivors were generally more athletic, stronger, and more adaptable to whatever situation might have occurred during the war. They could figure out how to survive. They survived famine, they survived watching their mates die right next to them, and they survived constant attacks and battle. Needless to say, when they returned to their own lives after the end of the war, life in Russia and the Soviet Union was never the same.

This lack of men of procreating age caused an imbalance in the number of girls compared to men in this part of the world. The result has seen girls in this part of the world almost in a hurry to find a good partner and caretaker for themselves and their offspring. Of course, better looking men, smarter men, more adaptable men, and even funnier men were more often than not chosen by girls in this part of the world as partner, husbands, and fathers by Russian girls. This situation has moved toward correcting itself over the past 65 years, but what we have as a result is a plethora of good looking or even gorgeous Russian girls.

The fall of the Iron Curtain led to the exposure of the plethora of beautiful women in the FSR countries. This opened western men's eyes to what is possible and what is available for them by choosing Russian girls. 15 years ago, it was rare, but thought of as cool to find an Eastern European bride, but now, it is almost a billion dollar industry.

In May of 2009, I moved to Odessa, Ukraine. Having unsuccessfully spent thousands of dollars myself prior to arriving in Ukraine, I feel like I can both relate to the western man trying to find a Russian or Ukrainian bride as well as relating to the people from Russia and Ukraine. I've worked in Ukraine for more than three and a half years, and I even tried to avoid English speaking people over that time in order to better understand the thought process and mentality of Russian speaking people.

I feel that understanding how the current situation was originally created, and understanding why girls from this part of the world have the attitude and heavier patterns that they do go go long way in helping western men who would like to have a long term, healthy relationship with a Russian speaking girl. This knowledge can help a western man to deal with the vast differences in culture and thinking.

With more and more people looking for tattoo designs, body art is becoming very popular. Girls are no longer satisfied with what they get at a tattoo shop. Finding tattoos for girls has become a very difficult thing. They want something more, something that is rare and exclusive. The internet has really thrown up a new world of opportunities. You can now find that rare and exclusive tattoo design which you wanted inked on your back provided you know where to look for it.

It can become a very difficult task if you start browsing each and every tattoo design website on the internet and it can take a number of days before you can come across something that is going to take your breath away. So, the first thing that you should do when searching tattoos for girls is to find a website that has a large collection of tattoos. Generally a popular and reputed website will have a very large collection of tattoos for girls. You will find a wide range of designs to choose from. These sites will have hundreds and thousands of tattoo symbols, designs which you can view and take a print out of. Ideally, an online tattoo website is one where you can find tattoos ranging from tribal tattoos to angel tattoos. This will allow you to go through the various designs and find something that is suitable to your style and personality.

Once you have short listed a particular design group, choosing tattoos for girls becomes a bit easier. You can now look at the various designs within the selected group. For instance, there are a lot of variations to the star tattoo, ranging from the classic ones to the more modern looking star tattoos. Similarly you will find gothic style crosses and medieval style crosses when you look for a cross tattoo. Whatever be the style you are looking for, one thing for sure, you will find suitable tattoos for girls when you visit these online tattoo stores.

If you want to get girls online, the first thing you’ll need is a Myspace or Facebook profile!

But before you start sending out messages to all the girls you find attractive, you need to make sure you have the best profile possible. So follow my tips below on how to get girls online.

1. Think about it from a girls point of view. When she gets a message from a guy she doesn’t know, alarm bells automatically ring, she will be very wary as to your intentions. For all she knows you’re some creepy guy behind a computer screen! You can remove this doubt from her mind by having many photos throughout your profile where you’re hanging out with platonic female friends.

2. In addition to the above, you need to make sure that you’re profile picture is one where you’re with a very hot female! She should be loving being in your company! This could be your Sister or childhood friend for all anybody knows, but the point is that this will create a massive amount of trust!

3. Don’t be one of the many guys who deletes all photos of their ex from their profile! You should be showing off the fact that you have women in your life and that women like being around you!

4. Delete any wall posts that show you up as being boring! If it looks like you’re on Facebook or Myspace most of your life then perhaps you’d like to cut down the amount of useless posts you make!

5. Instead you should be collecting wall posts from your hot female friends. Perhaps some of them can collude with you in sending you posts such as “hey babe, was hoping we could catch up for a coffee and a chat sometime next week, let me know!” You get the idea!

6. Show you’re an interesting guy by having photos where you’re rock climbing, dancing, surfing or taking part in any other extreme sports!

7. Get photos where you’re next to famous landmarks! If a girl you message has been there, then she will very easily be able to talk to you!

If you are a man looking to date a Filipina, then you should know what Filipino girls like in a man. Filipino girls by nature are sweet and romantic. They like to be wooed, the traditional way, of course. The traditional way of wooing a Filipina is to come to her house, get to know her parents and hopefully, they could see your intentions. During these modern times, if you do not want to court a girl the traditional way, you can show it differently. Flowers and chocolates are still a must. Dates are part of the wooing process and this is the phase where you must be consistent and persistent.

Consistency is one of the characteristics that Filipina girls like most in a man. This is a great trait because every girl wants someone who will continue to woo them. This characteristic is also a way they know whether a man can be depended on. When a Filipino girl is looking for a man to have a serious relationship with, they want someone who’s responsible. What they mean by responsible is being careful in making decisions. Once a girl sees that you are responsible and hardworking, it shows that you are qualified for long term commitments and possibly even marriage. That is the goal, isn’t it?

Another popular saying is, “You are what you attract.” This goes without saying that you attract what you put out. If you want a girl to like you, then you must make sure you are attractive both outside and inside as well. Clean and well-groomed are what Filipino girls like in a man. They don’t want someone grubby and greasy. Make sure to fix yourself up. It won’t hurt you if you smell good as well. Intelligence is something respected and looked up to. Be smart and witty. Talk to her about things other than the weather or your favourite sports team.

A girl needs a caring man, someone not just sweet, but kind and thoughtful as well. If she’s sick, visit her and show her you care. A bowl of hot soup and a glass of orange juice will make her feel better if she’s sick with the flu. Little things like leaving sweet notes or thoughtful texts will make her feel special. Filipino girls like a nice guy, someone who knows the right thing and someone who will be there for her. While crossing the street, you should be at her danger side. When you will eat at a restaurant, hold out a chair for her.

If you want a Filipino girl to like you, then you must be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone you’re not. If you’re funny, tell her jokes, make her laugh. Do not pretend to be richer than you are. Be honest and loyal. Somehow, girls have this internal radar which buzzes them if you’re telling a lie. It’s called women’s intuition, a gut feeling. So, you better be honest, because girls tend to know when you’re not. Romantic, sweet, thoughtful, honest, loyal and intelligent; these are what Filipino girls like in a man.