Some of the Worst Ways to Breakup With Someone You Once Loved

In some relationships, the desire to break up with your partner is so strong that it forces you to take action before you even give yourself the chance to think about it. This almost always lands up coming across as heartless, cowardly, immature and can cause so much more pain than it should.

Some people try to take the easy way out or are just plain cruel by nature and have no regard for their partner’s feelings, the time and effort that was invested in the relationship which causes them to resort to some of the worst ways to break up with someone.

Sending any Sort of Written Message

It may seem like the quickest, simplest and easiest way for you to avoid conflict but by breaking up with the person you once cared about and spent time with through email, text, IM, Snapchat or social media will only cause more conflict and will drag the breakup process out even more as they will have so many questions for you to answer.

Breaking up with someone by sending any sort of written message is so cruel, cold and immature.

Another nasty and heartless way to break up with your partner is through a phone call. Do not be a coward and do it in person

While under the influence of alcohol

Drinking too much alcohol may give you the courage you think that you need to break up with your partner but it is not effective at all as your partner will not take you seriously and there is a chance that you will land up saying things you do not actually mean to say and later will regret them as it will all backfire on you. It is so much better to be in a clear frame of mind to explain and answer questions that may come your way honestly.

Getting someone else to do it for you.

By asking a friend or someone else to do your dirty work for you is really the lowest of low, immature and just shows how much of a coward you are. Have the decency to end your relationship yourself and in person.

By intentionally starting a fight.

Taking a small issue or past issue and using it to start a fight intentionally to end your relationship is just so sad and disrespectful to your partner. Once the relationship is over the fight will be the thing that will play over and over in their mind and they will soon realize how you manipulated them and resent you for it.

Getting caught cheating.

Making sure that your partner catches you cheating will definitely make them want to break up with you but it will cause a lot of unnecessary pain for both of you, they will hate you and your reputation will suffer too.

In a public place.

By using a public place with a lot of people around to break up with your partner is never a good thing to do as there will definitely be a reaction and maybe a scene which is embarrassing for both of you as it could land up being posted all over the internet and you both will have to re-live it over and over again.

One last romantic night out.

Having one last romantic night out with your partner and breaking up with them, does not mean that it will soften the blow or be any easier, it will only cause confusion on their part as they will think that you are trying to make an effort to work things out and everything will be fine.

Get Rid of Your Inner Coward in 6 Easy Steps!

It was not too long ago that I found myself (ex-coward) at a family dinner in a cute restaurant downtown. The waiter brought me what I had ordered (which was salmon by the way) and soon afterwards I realized it was not cooked as much as I had asked. I still finished my dinner but certainly didn’t enjoy it as much. I thought about letting him know but my inner coward didn’t let me.

I am sure you’ve found yourself in a similar situation in the past. You want to speak up but something inside you says you should play “nice”. But what if playing nice ends up against you and makes people think you cannot stand up for yourself.

I am not talking about being over-aggressive but a certain amount of assertiveness will certainly make you gain the respect of your surroundings. Maybe even the admiration of the other gender.

So here are 6 easy steps to get rid of your inner coward that worked great for me:

1. Initiate conversation. Although this might seem like a huge hurdle to overcome it really is easy. Start by talking to people in the elevator. I wouldn’t recommend commenting on anything personal, just casual conversation about something general. Personal comments will make you look weird and too aggressive. Talk about something in your building, or ask a question about the area you live. Something in these lines. This will help you overcome the inhibition of starting a conversation and give you confidence.

2. Look at people in the eyes. The one sign that will mark you as a coward is avoiding eye contact. You will look like you are lying or have something to hide. It works in the opposite way too. Look at people straight in the eyes and the last thing they will think about you is that you are weak or a coward. Now don’t overdo it and don’t stare for too long because it can turn against you.

3. Next time you walk in the street hold your head up and make eye contact. It might seem silly but some subtle signs like these can say a lot about your personality. They can not only affect the people around you but also your own self-esteem. Again avoid prolonged eye contact but try to look at them until THEY decide to look elsewhere. Like a game.

4. Express your desires. Most of us that have not suppressed our “inner coward” yet think that expressing our desires will make us sound rude and aggressive. This couldn’t be any further from true. Letting other people know what your opinion is and what you want from them will not only make you sound honest but gain their respect too. It is OK to do what you want and avoid what you don’t like. But listen to them too and show respect to their wishes.

5. Do not apologize too often. “I am sorry, can I ask you something…” or “Sorry to bother you, but…”. Nothing wrong with talking like this except for the fact that you start a conversation by putting yourself at an inferior position. How about being in an equal position? “Good morning, can I ask you something…” or “I noticed that…” would make you sound more confident. It is all about subliminal messages you pass to the other person. He might not even notice why, but he will probably think you don’t have a very strong character. STOP giving messages that make you look like a coward when you aren’t!

6. Join the local gym. Not only will it make you look better and feel better about yourself. It will boost your adrenaline and make you more aggressive. If you think I’m wrong, give it a try and see why it will make you forget you ever acted like you were a coward when you are NOT!

Last piece of advice: Don’t expect all those tricks to work just because you practiced once. Give it some time. At least one month I would say. Building a stronger character can take a lifetime but you’ll see yourself changing very soon and be PROUD of it.

Are You Being Bullied

According to the present day definition, I tend to believe everyone on the planet has been bullied at some point in their life.

It happened to me when I was a little bitty squirt.

In today’s world, some think that if another disagrees with you it’s bullying, or if they try to get you to actually do your job.

Kids as well as adults can be pretty mean and uncaring at times. That is just a part of life.

Like it or not, we are all human beings and being such we are part of the animal kingdom, and all animals have a pecking order, it has always been this way and will always be this way.

Nothing is going to change that. There are times as a final act, after all forms of diplomacy is tried that physical acts are necessary. Bullies are cowards, Most often if one stands up to them, they will back off and go pick on someone else.

If you are being bullied with just words, it’s no big deal.

It’s just a matter of having enough self esteem and confidence in yourself to know that what they are saying isn’t true. When you have that self confidence, the words will bounce off you like water off a duck’s back and mean nothing.

Maybe the reason someone is picking on you is so you will finally “get it” and realize you are not what they say you are, and you are above that kind of thing and you finally begin to stand up for yourself.

Many times the one being “bullied” likes the drama and popularity that comes with it, being a victim has become very popular these days, it can draw a lot of attention to someone, and it also shifts the blame for your short comings to someone else, it is their fault.

In this day and age, anyone can succeed if they have the desire and ability, it isn’t based on race, gender, creed or national origin, to think differently is just placing blame for your actions on someone else.

Once you build some self confidence and rise above that, the bullying will stop.

In the journey of life, people can and will help you, but in the end, it is your responsibility to solve your own problems, no one can do that for you.

As long as you belief you are a victim, life will treat you like a victim.

You are in control of your life, it is your decision to lead it as you desire, and not succumb to negative forces around you.

It’s all about you, not them.

There are billions of people in this world, you don’t need those kind in your life. Learn the lessons they are teaching you, and move on.

Dante’s Inferno – A Summary of the Circles of Hell

Dante’s Divine Comedy is a journey through the afterlife of Inferno, Purgatory, and Paradise.

The Journey begins with Dante lost in a dark wood. His only escape is down through Hell, Purgatory, and Heaven, guided by the poet Virgil.

This epic poem tracks that amazing journey through the afterlife. Dante first enters the afterlife through the gate of Hell.

The Gate of Hell – Cowards who refused to take a stand for or against God

Forever running and getting stung by wasps.

Circle one – Limbo

Virtuous pagans, Virgil, Plato. Unfulfilled desire and hopelessness.

Circle two – The lustful

Francesa and Paolo. Cleopatra. Eternally being swirled in wind.

Circle three – The gluttons

Guarded by the three-headed dog, Cerberus. Eating slime and muck.

Circle four – The prodigal and the miserly

Hoarders and wasters pushing an enormous stone against each other.

Circle five – The wrathful and the sullen

Thrashing and bodies torn apart in dark filthy water.

Circle six – The heretics

Living in smoking tombs.

Circle seven – The violent, the suicides, the blasphemers, the sodomites, the usurers

A river of boiling blood guarded by Centaurs. Souls become a forest of suffering trees, others torn apart by dogs, rain of fire, mutilation.

Circle eight – Fraudulent, pimps, seducers, flatterers, simonists, sorcerers, corrupt politicians, sewers of division, falsifiers, alchemists, thieves

Eternally walking and tormented. Living in excrement. Stuffed into holes. Heads turned backwards. Boiling tar. Lead capes. Snakes. Flames.

Circle nine – Sinners against family, betrayers, traitors against country

Encased in ice. Home of Satan. Cannibalism. Judas being eternally chewed by Lucifer.

Heroes – Heroism Quotations – Top 45

  1. “You lived too long, we have supped full with heroes, they waste their deaths on us.”
    — C. D. Andrews

  2. “Listen, my friend, there are two races of beings. The masses teeming and happy – common clay, if you like – eating, breeding, working, counting their pennies; people who just live; ordinary people; people you can’t imagine dead. And then there are the others – the noble ones, the heroes. The ones you can quite well imagine lying shot, pale and tragic; one minute triumphant with a guard of honor, and the next being marched away between two gendarmes.”
    — Jean Anouilh

  3. “True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.”
    — Arthur Ashe

  4. “I believe it is the nature of people to be heroes, given the chance.”
    — James A. Autry

  5. “Everyone is necessarily the hero of his own life story.”
    — John Barth

  6. “What is a society without a heroic dimension?”
    — Jean Baudrillard

  7. “The hero, in living her own life, in being true to herself; radiates a light by which others may see their own way. ”
    — Laurence G. Boldt

  8. “My heroes are the ones who survived doing it wrong, who made mistakes, but recovered from them.”
    — Bono

  9. “Unhappy the land that is in need of heroes.”
    — Bertolt Brecht

  10. “Heroes are people who rise to the occasion and slip quietly away.”
    — Tom Brokaw

  11. “The hero, therefore, is the man or woman who has been able to battle past his personal and local historical limitations. ”
    — Joseph Campbell

  12. “The cowards think of what they can lose, the heroes of what they can win.”
    — J. M. Charlier

  13. “Never in the field of human conflict was so much owed by so many to so few.”
    — Winston Churchill

  14. “Real heroes are men who fall and fail and are flawed, but win out in the end because they’ve stayed true to their ideals and beliefs and commitments.”
    — Kevin Costner

  15. “There are new words now that excuse everybody. Give me the good old days of heroes and villains. the people you can bravo or hiss. There was a truth to them that all the slick credulity of today cannot touch.”
    — Bette Davis

  16. “A hero is simply someone who rises above his own human weaknesses, for an hour, a day, a year, to do something stirring.”
    — Betty Deramus

  17. “The legacy of heroes is the memory of a great name and the inheritance of a great example.”
    — Benjamin Disraeli

  18. “Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”
    — Benjamin Disraeli

  19. “I think of a hero as someone who understands the degree of responsibility that comes with his freedom. ”
    — Bob Dylan

  20. “The characteristic of genuine heroism is its persistency. All men have wandering impulses, fits and starts of generosity. But when you have resolved to be great, abide by yourself, and do not try to reconcile yourself with the world. The heroic cannot be common, nor the common heroic.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson

  21. “A hero is no braver than an ordinary man, but he is braver five minutes longer.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson

  22. “Man’s greatest actions are performed in minor struggles. Life, misfortune, isolation, abandonment and poverty are battlefields which have their heroes – obscure heroes who are at times greater than illustrious heroes. ”
    — Victor Hugo

  23. “What with making their way and enjoying what they have won, heroes have no time to think. But the sons of heroes – ah, they have all the necessary leisure.”
    — Aldous Huxley

  24. “There is no such man as a one-person hero. ”
    — Daniel Inouye

  25. “A hero is someone we can admire without apology.”
    — Kitty Kelley

  26. “Heroism … is endurance for one moment more.”
    — George Kennan

  27. “It is surmounting difficulties that makes heroes. ”
    — Louis Kossuth

  28. “What is a hero without love for mankind.”
    — Doris Lessing

  29. “Without heroes, we’re all plain people and don’t know how far we can go.”
    — Bernard Malamud (The Natural)

  30. “You never have to wait long, or look far, to be reminded of how thin the line is between being a hero or a goat. ”
    — Mickey Mantle

  31. “In war the heroes always outnumber the soldiers ten to one.”
    — H. L. Mencken

  32. “Calculation never made a hero.”
    — John Henry Newman

  33. “I am of certain convinced that the greatest heroes are those who do their duty in the daily grind of domestic affairs whilst the world whirls as a maddening dreidel.”
    — Florence Nightingale

  34. “No heroine can create a hero through love of one, but she can give birth to one.”
    — Jean Paul

  35. “Heroes take journeys, confront dragons, and discover the treasure of their true selves.”
    — Carol Pearson (The Hero Within)

  36. “When the first Superman movie came out I was frequently asked “What is a hero?” …My answer was that a hero is someone who commits a courageous action without considering the consequences… Now my definition is completely different. I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles.”
    — Christopher Reeve

  37. “The hero is strangely akin to those who die young. ”
    — Rainer Maria Rilke

  38. “To know that the odds are so high that only through the perishing of your life will the minions survive, that’s love. That’s heroism.”
    — Sylvester Stallone

  39. “The world has no room for cowards. We must all be ready somehow to toil, to suffer, to die. And yours is not the less noble because no drum beats before you when you go out into your daily battlefields, and no crowds shout about your coming when you return from your daily victory or defeat.”
    — Robert Louis Stevenson

  40. “The more characteristic American hero in the earlier day, and the more beloved type at all times, was not the hustler but the whittler.”
    — Mark Sullivan

  41. “Who is a hero? He who turns his enemy into a friend.”
    — The Talmud

  42. “If everybody was satisfied with himself, there would be no heroes.”
    — Mark Twain

  43. “Villains are undone by what is worst in them, heroes by what is best. ”
    — Voltaire

  44. “The opportunities for heroism are limited in this kind of world: the most people can do is sometimes not to be as weak as they’ve been at other times.”
    — Angus Wilson

  45. “It’s true that heroes are inspiring, but mustn’t they also do some rescuing if they are to be worthy of their name? Would Wonder Woman matter if she only sent commiserating telegrams to the distressed?”
    — Jeanette Winterson

A Cowardly German Shepherd – A Coward?

Question – A Scared German shepherd

My dog, an 18 month-old German shepherd, has been obedience trained. I was quite keen to take this dog through a “personal protection” course for which I enrolled him for evaluation for suitability. The course was being conducted by a dog trainer in San Diego, Ca who has a high reputation for training in this field. The objective of the course was to determine whether my dog was suitable for undergoing this type of training.

I found that the course was interesting; it tested my dog’s capability to protect under various circumstances. I was asked by the dog trainer to walk along a specific pathway with the dog; when we were halfway along the track suddenly a shabbily-dressed man jumped down from a tree; he was shouting in a high pitched voice and fired using a real looking mock-gun. This act of his even scared me.

Immediately after the man shooting his gun off, my dog got scared and started running with short steps. Seeing this, the trainer opined that my dog can never become suited for protection training; he added that this dog was a coward. Can you advise me on what could be done under these circumstances? The purpose for which I am breeding my dog is to protect the family.

Answer:

To start with, you should not take cognizance of such recommendations boosting up the dog trainer. Many people are unable to distinguish between good dog trainer and bad dog trainer. They are confused on this issue. Coming back to the real issue – you should consider the whole situation from the perspective of the dog which is confused and scared because the man suddenly used his gun.

Irrespective of the breed and toughness of the animal, when the animal senses danger it is equipped with a survival mechanism in order to get away from danger and stay alive. There is no relevance in this “training procedure” to evaluate the dog’s protective abilities; it only has triggered his survival instincts to escape from an unknown attack which came as a total surprise.

If the person is mad enough to jump from a tree and shot off a gun anybody for that matter will be running at a breakneck speed to save his self. This test is not indicative of the dog’s capability to become a protection dog. This obviously means that the trainer has to work hard to make the dog a protection dog.

You can consider a trainer as good only if he takes charge of an imperfect dog and bring him to the maximum perfection. There is nothing great about the trainer if he handles only perfect dogs.

1) There is no doubt that your dog will become an excellent protector. In case you leave him in the yard and allow a stranger to cross over the fence you can see how he loves and protects the family.

Note: I suggest that you do not attempt this; this is shown only to illustrate the point.

2) Scout around for a trainer who is prepared to accept your dog’s behavior as a personal challenge.

Cybercriminals – Cowardly Thugs Hiding Behind Computer Screens

Some criminals attempt to “justify” their thieving propensities by suggesting they don’t take large valued merchandise, or they do it to “test” another’s cyber system. The inference of course is that they are somehow harmless. Criminals typically seek to ruse their law enforcement detractors, or any other person who questions what they do. They rationalize their thefts are non-violent and confined to smaller amounts of dollar losses, for which the items are easily replaced. Their matter-of-fact justifications don’t justify the unlawful taking of someone else’s personal or business property. They’re still criminals none the less and a breach of security means a contravention of the criminal laws.

For the net hoodlum operating in cyber space, their thinking plays an interesting con game, which they later rationalize and excuse as some “noble cause”. Bottom-line though, they’re criminals like their non-virtual counterparts. When caught, they invent all kinds of excuses and whine about their “victimization”. One wonders, when they sit there all day in front of their computers, what part of their anatomy are they really playing with most of the time? Some of these thieves try to scheme us with creative criminality, like “ransomware”, email schemes, credit card scams and other intrusive losses. The list of types of attacks is endless, as is the maliciousness behind the various illicit efforts for unmerited personal gain. Criminals no matter where they operate do so in a self-indulgent passion to misuse and abuse others for private purposes.

As always, one of our critical concerns is the injury, the loss and damages, caused to others as a result of internet criminality. Make no mistake, criminals choose to commit crimes of their own free will for the sake of getting something they didn’t earn or deserve. Make no mistake criminals dislike the responsible nature in others. Electronic breaches of the law are not unlike similar malevolent premeditated street-level crimes, in terms the psycho-dynamics. Some cyber criminals pose a danger to our banks accounts, while others risk the collapse of our economic system. And still others endanger our national security. In the amative stimulation for power and control, criminals will use any means. Like bank robbers or assailants on the street, cyber villains should receive the same levels of punishment. And, their conviction and subsequent sentencing should be sure, swift and certain and for long periods of time.

Criminals freely choose their particular criminogenic instigations. Of which, Cyber-crime involves billions of dollar losses every year to a global community. According to one source, the Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3), under the auspices of the FBI, in 2007, the agency received nearly a quarter million complaints regarding internet crimes. This likely has increased to more significant levels of late, and represents the tip of the proverbial cyber-criminal iceberg. No doubt a wealth of information flowing through the internet signifies targets of opportunities for criminals.

Naturally, what we often forget is that there is a difference between reported criminality and actual criminality, or otherwise known as the “dark figure of crime”. There’s a sizeable portion of criminal activity that goes unreported and therefore not investigated. Investigatively, law enforcement endeavors to respond efficiently as possible, given the resources available. And yet, the nature of virtual crime is complex, with such diverse challenges, as email and texting scams, business and banking intrusions, to commercial fraud, money laundering and market manipulations.

Electronic thievery, organized crime and terrorism, as well as other associated criminalities, present unique demands for law enforcement. However, valiant efforts continue, and the law enforcement, intelligence communities and private security forces remain undaunted in dedicated persistence. That’s part of the key to an effective investigation, methodical tenacious due diligence in application of effective resources. To rigorously search for every possible clue, cluster and clamor of activity, the investigative process must implement creative and proactive tactics.

Investigators gather the facts and analyze the evidence, apply rationality and reason, as well as ensure the critical implementations of forensic applications. Competent expertise is essential in the utilization of logical deductions. If in doubt as to how to proceed, where to go or what to look for, then efforts utilize those who have the know-how in this particular realm. The hunt for the thugs and terrorists who hide behind a computer screen is never ending. Sinister, wicked and malevolent, with malice aforethought, the “evil” cybercriminals fester adversely affects us all. Countermeasures have to be consistently applied, updated and reinforced. Vigilance has to be tirelessly maintained. You never know when they might strike. An individual, a group or other criminal enterprises, stay relentless in illegitimate pursuits at the expense of others.

To this end, from an investigative standpoint, such activities are still basically crimes against people, places, and properties. So, in a sense, we’re still dealing with the fundamentals of a criminal investigation. None the less, the criminal has taken his, her or their activities into an electronic neighborhood. Within this virtual world, the criminal can inflict horrendous damages to the selected objective.

To deal with such criminals, it is incumbent upon professional law enforcement agencies at all levels, as well as private commercial entities, to invest all available resources where possible, in a “cyber unit”. Special expertise is required within the virtual world of electronic anonymity. Upon development of a “cyber squad”, the next step involves the assignment of qualified staffing. The basics in organizational structure and design remain similar to other managerial frameworks.

That is, you need to plan, organize, budget, development and staff accordingly to fit the needs of the organizational environment. Expert support services should be lined up to assist the investigative team where ever necessary. For which, investigative personnel must either have the technical and tactical expertise, or strive to learn and acquire the essential fundamentals through appropriate educational training resources. Investigators must be determined to ferret out the criminal by enhancing their skills.

Within the scope of “white collar” criminality, organized crime, and particularly those criminals within an electronic landscape, investigating Cybercrime may not seem as glamorous as other investigative processes. Frequently, we forget the impact of commercial crimes (e.g. embezzlement, fraud, identity theft, internet schemes, etc) is ten to twenty times greater than the usual street crimes. For instance, murder, rape, and robbery investigations (i.e. Part I Index Crime of the U.C.R.), while vitally urgent to resolve, tend to be more sensationalized by the various media. More so, than say hacking into the local bank, or stealing someone’s credit card information.

Typically, the new investigator will be searching for action, adventure and excitement. Television and the movies have done much to fuel illusions, misconceptions and less than obvious deceptions about certain types of criminal investigations. Comically, we know that a major crime has to be solved within the telecast of an hour’s worth of viewing. In the real world however, we recognize it doesn’t happen like that. If you think otherwise, good luck and try to forget television portrayals projecting creative crime fiction.

That’s why the right personnel must be selected to fit within the scope of the unique challenges confronted by an ever expanding cyber world. Some investigations may take extraordinary amounts of time and resources to culminate solvability. Effective investigators must assert a high degree of patience and persistence. It might not be too untypical that such cases might require a couple of year’s commitment.

From an investigative perspective, you’ll want quality over quantity, facts instead of fiction and dedication to critical thinking skills. Dealing with a criminological problem necessitates the insistence upon avoiding fallacies of inference for the sake of subjective validation. Without a doubt, people do this every day. They allow emotions, feelings and reactivity to cloud the deduction reasoning aspects of problem-solving. Even though, we’re affected by our emotional influences, an astute investigator learns to balance between the two. Nothing is foolproof except the fool who proves you wrong.

All too often, based on a superficial assessment of a crime problem, we falter to the slant of hasty generalizations about people, places and property. In short, we must bear in mind people commit crimes because that’s what they want to do. To the extent possible, we try to steer clear of logical fallacies. While this is not likely in an absolute sense, we strive to test and evaluate our inclinations toward cognitive bias. This of course suggests applying rigorous mental aptitude outside the proverbial box of toxic thinking.

No one is immune from biased pursuits to support investigative actions. But, in the overall process, it’s important to ensure a strong devotion to professional training and ongoing development of experience. During the course of an investigation, we want to look into every nook and cranny and leave no stone unturned. In support of relentless acts of discovery, one considers his or her perception of the facts versus the absence of facts. Three points are relevant. One is how do you know a certain crime has occurred? Another is how do you prove it based on what is known?

And, for a third possibility, is your theory of the crime valid? So, in short, how do you know and what do you mean serve to substantiate the necessity for evidentiary criteria. For the investigator, researcher or other practitioner, certain attributes are worth emphasizing. These include: self-discipline in thinking processes, lawful means to reveal the facts, bias control, efficient documentation, proficient capabilities and thorough utilization of forensic applications. Networking with others remains essential.

By use of various techniques and tactics, the more skillful investigator is creative, adaptive and inventive. That’s because productive investigations do not fit a simplistic template of trouble-free functionality, or “profiling” like on TV. One must focus and direct the scope and extent to which the investigative process develops. You consider how to determine the nature of the criminality under inquiry, like statutory authority of the investigation, appropriate jurisdiction, and lawful provisions.

As such, you also consider the issues as applied to the specific incidence, such as identity theft, email threat, electronic commerce, fraudulent activity, offenses against electronic properties, and sexual harassment or cyber stalking. Critical concepts to preliminarily assembling an investigative process necessitate an assessment of expertise needed to address digital evidence criticality and “crime scene” procedures.

When dealing with digital evidence, proper levels of Cybercrime capabilities must be used, along with unique needs regarding seizure, analysis, storage, retrieval and transfer of evidentiary artifacts. Additionally, the investigator has to appreciate there must be thorough documentation, preservation and otherwise protect investigative processes for lawful review by competent authorities. Overall, we must satisfy the fundamentals, as suggested by the basics of who, what, where, when, why and how.

Within the framework of the inquiry, efforts are directed to ensure proper legality in proven methodology, forensic processes and specialized expertise for all digital evidence collection, analysis and security. Investigative processes strive for the ongoing safeguards of logical deduction. This applies equally to the efforts directed toward locating and identifying, if possible, all suspected criminal participants. But, it doesn’t stop there; as such persistence also includes unmasking any and all collaborators.

Three key points in the overall perspective can be offered as reveal the perpetrators, restore and recover properties and services, and resolve the criminality of the incident. Expedient proactive well-planned efforts in apprehension, collection of evidence and prosecution of offenders helps reduce opportunities for misadventure. In addition, promotion of professional interaction among key investigative resources, such as people, places and properties, further enhance preventive countermeasures.

As to the latter issue, an investigator, whether corporate or public agency, ought to realize that criminality is selfishly motivated, highly personal, ego-centric and willfully premeditated. Criminals know exactly what they are doing. Criminal nature comes in all sizes, shapes and socio-economic backgrounds and pay grades. Criminal behavior, even in cyberspace, is a rational choice and for the sake of self-gratification for personal gain. Aside from many sociological theories of a deterministic nature, you are dealing with people who want to commit criminal activity for their particular proclivities.

With a self-centered focus and disdain of others, if given the opportunity in the work place, computer users can easily decide to become computer abusers. By doing so, they become a problem for the business, the organization or the government. From their lifestyle patterns, in the choices they have made, people who choose to commit crimes against their employers, the government, other people’s employers or any entity in particular. They are acting out their brand of salaciously devious behavior.

Their individual perspective is one of risk taking in order to achieve immediate satiation for the anticipated gain. This action comes at the expense of others. Unlike those who choose not to commit e-crimes, the computer criminal does so without wanting to perform the legitimate commitment to do the work necessary to acquire the same objective by lawful means. For the e-criminal, “business” activity means getting away with something, faking a “cause”, or conjuring all kinds of excuses. In contrast to those around him or her, working lawfully for commensurate compensation is not as exciting as taking it without having to wait for it. No matter the pretext, they’re still criminals.

As mentioned earlier, criminals will use anyone to ensure their illegitimate successes. They can be anyone, from colleagues to vendors and so on. Criminality knows no boundaries or respects any institution. How often have your heard, “that person didn’t seem the type”. There is no perfect so called “profile” of the typical criminal. In fact, from a security standpoint, you should be concerned with monitoring everyone’s activity. We can’t overlook the essential protection necessary within any setting. Security of computer systems and networks is crucial if not critical and vital. A criminal today can operate secretly in cyberspace, a cowardly thug behind a computer screen.

Sun Tzu Art of War – Five Fatal Characteristics of a General

Thus, there are five dangers that will plague any general. If he is reckless, he can be killed. If he is cowardly and desperate to live, he can be captured. If he is easily angered, he can be provoked. If he is sensitive to honor, he can be insulted. If he is overly compassionate to people, he can be disturbed and harassed. These five characteristics are the greatest pitfalls and mistakes of a general and the cause of disasters in any military operation. The destruction of an army and the deaths of generals are caused by these five dangers, thus they should be examined thoroughly. – Sun Tzu Art of War, Chapter Eight

The five characteristics mentioned in the section above are:

  • Recklessness
  • Cowardly
  • Easily angered
  • Sensitive to honor
  • Overly compassionate

And Sun Tzu briefly mentioned the consequences of such characteristics if they are found in the generals.

BUSINESS APPLICATION

So in business, what are these five characteristics analogous to what Sun Tzu mentioned?

  • Recklessness would still be recklessness
  • Cowardly would be indecisive and risk averse
  • Easily angered would still be easily angered
  • Sensitive to honor would be egoistic
  • Overly compassionate would still be the same

RECKLESSNESS

As I have mentioned just now, a lot of people focused on favorable factors without consideration for the unfavorable factors, thus they become reckless and jump into a decision too soon. Such quick decisions often result in fatal mistakes that could make a company incur huge costs. For example, seeing that most of your clients have move their factories to China, you also started to shift your factories to be near them, without considering the infrastructure, the labor, the regulations and so on before you decide to set up your factory. A factory with equipments and land costs a lot to a company. Moreover such assets are not easily liquidated. Such reckless decision would deal a huge blow to the company’s financial strength, and may render it insolvent.

COWARDLY

As mentioned would this would be analogous to being indecisive or too risk averse. Often, these people have what we call, analysis paralysis. They analyze too much into data and information so much so that they are not able to make decisions fast. If a leader commits too much time into making a decision, he would be reduced to inaction and in the end, not able to capitalize on opportunities or limiting damages by competitors’ moves. Again, damages if not limited would be again fatal to the company.

EASILY ANGERED

Have you ever try to do your planning in an angered state? Were you able to see a lot of loopholes in your plan after you come back and review it in a calm state? Anger will block off a lot of information from our brain and we are unable to think properly as well. So if one is angered easily, he is often not able to think and plan thoroughly and will miss out a lot of details. And we have seen in Chapter One of Sun Tzu Art of War, how much emphasis, Sun Zi place on a detailed assessment and planning, such a general would be a danger to its own troops.

EGOISTIC

Having a certain amount of self esteem is good as it boosts confidence, and with confidence people are able to carry out their tasks. But for someone who is egoistic, thinking that he is the greatest and the company would be dead without him. Such person is blind to the benefits to the company of certain project and will always be on the lookout for his own benefits. He is likely to be very protective over other people comments on him and would unlikely change and learn from lessons. Such person can be easily angered and also be reckless in their decisions. The consequences would be the same as that of a easily angered person and a reckless person.

OVERLY COMPASSIONATE

As I have mentioned before, if a leader is over compassionate towards his staff, it would sapped their fighting spirit and it gives the staff the idea that they are in control. The leader would not be able to make his team members carry out the instructions he passed down resulting in a breakdown of the department. If a department is not functional anymore, similar to a breakdown in an organ of a body, the whole company cannot function properly. Having an overly compassionate leader in the organization is tantamount to having a cancerous tumor in the company. Sooner or later, the tumor will cause death onto the whole company. As mentioned before, there need to be discipline. Usually, a leader who is overly compassionate is not able to instill discipline in his teams, not because he did not set an example but it is because the leader would not punish them even if they misbehave.

Of Fakes, Frauds and Fools – Cowardly Tools

In the disingenuous pretenses of social fakery, fraud and foolhardy performances, the cowardly behaviors of a devolving society hasten dystopic consequences. Contriving with the scheme of superficial memes, con artistry underscores the shallowness of interpersonal communication among many people. A glance and subtle view of facial expressions often returns the unspoken feedback of lingering ignorance as to any significant information exchange. Yet, in the short run, attention spans lurk back, look away or glaze over to the two-dimension screen of three-dimensional simulation.

The sham, the hoax, the fake news for instance, as well as the unproved conspiracy theory, forsake logical rationality for the satiation of the moment in emotion reassurance. Courage in the confrontation with the bluster and banter of social psychobabble frequently goes unchallenged for the want of political politeness. Of snake oil ruses and wooden nickel collective currencies, the double-dealing emanates from every cultural institution. Frauds and fools enjoy the safe mediocrity in secure conformity, from the cloakrooms of governing enterprises, to the boardrooms purveying gluttonous consumption.

Cons and schemes in social media and mass marking advertising insult and betray the few who seek a higher plane of civil enlightenment. Regardless of valiant adventurers, many choose mundane of paths of conformity. Like a zombie infection or an alien pre-invasion virus, communal stupidity spreads with pandemic proportions. By comparison, the fake or acts of fakery suggest the dishonest daily dealings of one person with another. As one investigator has lectured from a segment in the skeptical realm, humans are adept at things involving deception. So good at it, people easily deceive themselves.

Toxicity of “anti-thinking” dehumanizes, defrauds and degrades the very essence of human creativity and the quest for an evolved ascendency. Some have called the intentional communal schemes as that which “sissifies” the majority of the population. Others describe the diverse inclinations as a means for “dumbing down” most of the populace. Yet another unfortunate description has been that of “stupidity” or “idiocracy”. For such, additional detractors toward the mainstream include a variety of negative ascriptions. Oppressive conformity in status quo perpetrations are many faceted and insidious.

In the somewhat antagonistic proclamation as to the public, the “sheeple” foment the degradation of the human species in continues regressive stumbling into extinction. Flocks of the majority easy believe in the most simplistic hastily drawn conclusions about serious socio-economic and political issues. By the unvirtuous intentions of purposeful gullibility, most people flaunt their deceptions in sordid varied manners. Quick to follow the group, the crowd, the mainstream, or any other collective conception of “magical beliefs”, the majority recklessly engage in stupid thinking more often than not.

As some see it, the effects of human fakery, fraudulent actions and foolish behaviors mark an era that eventually culminates in the collapse of global societies. It is reflective of a time when arrogance smugly values unsubstantiated conjecture over profound intellectual analysis. Among families and coworkers, most are not honestly engaged in serious efforts directed toward mature growth and development. Satisfied with their static existence, the woeful lack of creativity, of stirring enlightenment, the many jeopardize and frustrate the few who long for change and transformation. Stupidity is rampant.

Deception weaves an intricate framework within the amative purposes of intentional stupidity. Foolishness in the immaturity of fraudulent perpetrations stems from the absurdity of using various means to achieve gain at the expense of others. Immediately someone might object that sometimes deception is necessary as in warfare, espionage or hostage taking. If common sense, as might be applied here, has degraded to that level for that person to counter such a claim, then perhaps an intelligent conversation is not possible. Of that posture, the generality suggested herein refers to social situations.

Noted, exceptions always occur, yet they are few and often remote. Regardless, in this slant, idiocy, silliness and generally being a nitwit, or a “yawner”, as in not enough oxygen to the brain, concerns purposeful illicit premeditated actions to deceive and mislead another person. By trickery and guile, one individual or a group intend to cause others to be harmed, discredited or misdirected in some way. Whether by information manipulation, or active inducement, persistent cons and schemes take place many times every day. From advertising to alleged “news reporting”, cowardly acts of dishonesty instigate all kinds of fakery. Rather than bold straightforward honest interactions, spineless performances of pretentious “transparencies” conceal a more sinister reality. In every organization, the majority will play the games of one-upmanship to selfish advantage.

With few personal examples of exceptional maturity and transforming differentiation, the majority within any human framework can be counted on to do juvenile and self-serving actions. Not on every occasions, but periodically stupid things will be committed for selfish reasons. As such, a framework is the organizational configuration in which people attempt to function, some successfully and others not so much, from day to day. Whether boardroom, classroom or playground, foolish behavioral antics will happen. The “organization” used here is the social matrix of interaction for the groupings people select in which to associate. Within these realms, a certain amount of collective conformity takes place. From which, immaturity spans a spectrum that exhibits a variety of behaviors.

From various mindful dimensional aspects of thinking complexity, choices are made with intentional effort directed toward satisfying personal gain. From a classical criminology standpoint, everyone freely engages in a deliberate and premeditated effort to maximize gain and minimize risk. Externalities such as the usual “suspects” used to excuse anti-social behavior, like poverty, bad parenting, poor environments, socio-economic disadvantage, too many guns, social media, etc., do not cause people to misbehave. People decide by self-interest the means and manner of their communal dysfunction. In the example often cited in the mainstream, many are quick to blame an “entity”.

These inanimate objects, processes or other non-human properties are easily called into perspective as “causative agents” by which human actors are “forced” to do dastardly deeds. Instantly, as though demon possessed by an unreal non-corporal entity, the pitiful human losses control of his or her will and weird things happen. It is as though fantasy and science fiction, along with every aspect of pseudoscience, becomes part of exaggerated storytelling. Reality is overwhelmed by stupidity of fakes, frauds and fools.

For instance, the internet in particular is often reviled as a perpetrator. In this unique realm of telecommunications, people become “radicalized”. Specifically, social media is labeled as a chief “conspirator”. While explanation as to how this actually happens remain nebulously questionable, the evidence to support such a claim is woefully deficient. Nonetheless, it makes people feel good to have some explanation even if false. From the standpoint of “magical thinking”, reinforced by the myriad fallacies of inference, people do not suddenly end up “snapping” as a result of exposure to assorted or sordid information found on the world wide web. Such a notion is foolishly immature.

Not only lacking in wiser spheres of realistic analysis, reinventing history at every opportunity to fit the feelings of the moment, and faltering in critical thinking, social interactivity degrades to purposefully shallow interactions. The superficiality of post-modern “anti-thinking” is an expression of moral cowardice. Spineless weakness is the fearful mantra of those too timid and unevolved to go what some have termed, the “hero’s quest”. To go out into the world, and serve others in selfless capacity.

For instance, as in policing or firefighting, the military, public health services, or other community forms of communal interactivity. For country absent a “public service” requirement, the post-high school learning process fails to ensure the adventure of growing up. Less than 3% of the population take advantage of such opportunities. Yet, growing numbers of successive generations play out their limited perspectives, and diminishing intellectual capacity, in the safe and secure fabrications of electronic mechanisms.

Why take risks and appreciate the value of pain, pleasure and the trials and tribulations of dealing with real world experiences? Why be honest, straight forward, bluntly candid and openly discerning, with a zealousness for wisdom in personal transformation? Instead, two thirds of the population are overweight and noncreative. Fat, complacent and bloated, overly consumptive in a burgeoning consumer culture, many default to the fakery of the unreal and the deceptive. Stupidity is rewarded instead of chastised.

Fiction is more emotionally gratifying than facts, proof and evidence that adhere to the rigors of scientific validation, based on a thorough investigation, and does not fit the personal agenda. Meanwhile, the pseudosciences, including the philosophies of the big three, criminology, sociology and psychology, and toss in the alliances with psychiatry, perpetrate diverse mythic illusions. With pretenses to being scientific, such philosophical endeavors have been successful in gaining widespread acceptance over a wide spectrum of mainstream society. The collusions are illicit and detrimental.

In the perpetration of the fakery, particular schools of thought, or perhaps better stated as philosophies, have gained what might be called a monopoly over the so-called “mental health” field. To protect the earning potential for the lucrative prospects in this realm, the complicity has successfully permeated every social institution throughout the U.S. Satirically labeled, “PIMP”, the “pharmaceutical industrial medical psychological” complex encourages easy acquiesce to simplistic notions of personal health.

To say conspiracy might be a stretch. Nonetheless, why not make the reference as an apt descriptor of the purposeful and intentional collusions to control and dominate an entire society. Where nearly an entire culture accepts a remedy for everything, a quick and painless fix, using some type of drug for whatever reasons, a concern is raised as to the long-term viability of society. Exceptionality always applies in certain narrow and descriptive applications. Seemingly, endless commercialization of almost every aspect of life, 24/7 infotainment advertising, and gluttonous consumerism abounds.

Regardless, by plots and schemes, intrigue of memes, social media, pretentious news organizations and movie making industries, promote myriad fallacies of inferences that become foundational “theologies” for the greedy to manipulate the stupid. In a devolving diverse culture, so many options are rampant to blaspheme intellectual advancement and healthy personal self-discipline, in favor of modern forms of magic and mysticism. Whether “dis-ease” possession or demonically possessed, the illusions continue, as mythologies assume respectability by sleight of hand trickery.

By way of research from a major “think tank”, working on behalf of the U.S. government, a glimpse into the deteriorating aspects of faltering creativity suggests the gloomy downturn of inventive artistic activities across the social spectrum. In furtherance of the perspective in the referenced investigative study, diminishing innovation, or critical thinking in purposed inventiveness, relates to authenticity of social advancement. To this end, prevailing expert opinion concludes that imaginative self-evolution, based on facts and reliable data are essential to the survival of the human species.

More so now than ever before, accordingly, “facts and data” devolved to mere speculation and regurgitation of anecdotal superficiality. With notable exception in small niches of science, the shallowness of contemporary opinion, notably in the pseudosciences, perpetrates a pompous social discourse that overwhelms and ignores scientific validation. Fiction stifles facts as specious conjecture goes unchallenged on many occasions.

Nonetheless, survivability of productive social interaction depends upon the veracity of factual evidence to ensure reasonable discourse. Decisive action requires the quality of relevant data to substantiate diverse actions. Critical policymaking decisions, for instance, rely upon the objective validation of factual representations. Inaccurate, unfounded and doubtful information does not contribute to efficient and productive processes.

Throughout the spectrum of socio-political and economic intricacy, success or failure in the real world depends upon complex processes. Of these interactions, reliability in the trustworthiness of information, and the authenticity of the claimants are to prosocial endeavors. Irrelevant and incompetent assertions and foolhardy actions do little to enhance the advancement of the human species. It’s disheartening to say the least that planet earth, given the current state of human habitation is barely a “type 0” civilization. According to some physicists, such a notion does not infer a complimentary status.

When there is agreement upon the factuality of evidentiary materials, following subjective yet mature well-reasoned analysis, even amidst controversy, confident decisions can be made more effectively. In post-modern American society, it frequently appears that counterproductive clashes offer more emotional reactivity, less sufficiency of proof, than well-found evidence driven discussion. Among some educators, there is the belief that a “dumbing down” has occurred in contemporary educational institutions.

Others would offer an explanation that explores the realm of I.Q. sustainability in the 21st century. Questions arise as to whether or not the majority of population is becoming increasingly less intelligent. To several researchers there is a growing body of data that suggests human I.Q. potential is regressing, as well as concerns regarding the devolution of humankind. As civil discourse degrades to a scheme of “tolerance for intolerance”, or one person’s feelings are more important than another’s, the human species devolves toward extinction. Most life forms on this planet have already done that.

Why would human beings be any different? Extinction has a way of rectifying evolutionary dysfunction. Foolishness in the smug piety of self-importance, with the arrogance of pleasurable ignorance, steeped in the sheep dip of immature superficiality, many allow their seduction to the cowardly fallacies of inference nexus. Stupidity relishes in the façade of disingenuous musings of emotional sensitivity. In one of several British studies appearing in a major business magazine, the assertion made as to how easy it is to deceive most people, since many quickly acquiesce to the path of least resistance.

As such, in the absence of self-willed, intentional and reasoned investigative analysis, the illusion becomes a rush toward the simplistic answer. Such effortless seduction become that which is the best choice over more complex solutions. Cognitive bias in the persistence to safeguard subjective validation assures a world of fakes, frauds and fools.

Slaves and Cowards

“Slaves got options: escape, revolt, death.

Cowards only have consequences.”

Franklin, from the Broadway musical, “Passing Strange.”

July 1 found us sitting in a theater in New York City, celebrating our one year wedding anniversary by going to see a Broadway musical. Now, you expect great entertainment in the city that never sleeps – and we got it! However, what I didn’t expect was to walk out of the theater, mouth still hanging open from some of the most profound statements I’d ever heard.

The quote listed above? Only Dylan and Springsteen have ever written lyrics that strike such an internal chord with me.

Quick summary: Stew is a teenage wannabe rock star growing up in south central L.A. in the 70s. During a marijuana-induced conversation with his youth minister, Franklin, Stew reveals his dream of relocating to Europe and becoming a rock star. Franklin has followed in his father’s ministerial footsteps and, until their rap session in the front seat of a VW bug, has never confessed how much he regrets not being true to his own dreams.

Franklin encourages Stew to follow his heart. Then, he painfully admits he’s trapped in a life designed by his father. It’s worse than slavery, he insists, because his whole existence is the result of fear. “Slaves got options: escape, revolt, death. But cowards – cowards only have consequences.”

Man, powerful stuff.

Is there anything worse than slavery? A quick answer is “of course not!” But, think about it one step further and you might find a different answer. Fear.

Being enslaved by your own choices – or rather your inability to make a choice… that’s called cowardess. And as Franklin so profoundly noted: cowards only have consequences.

We all have choices. Even choosing not to choose is a choice. And we know that all choices carry consequences. But when we allow fear to make our decisions, it’s the same as saying, “I’ll just take the leftovers life hands me.” Sorry, that’s just not good enough for me.

Making big choices is scary, no doubt about it. Anyone who’s ever faced a life-changing decision knows that it may seem easier to just walk away. But not making a choice for what you believe – for what your heart tells you – well, that means fear makes the choice for you. And then what’s left? A consequence.

Does this sound like I’m promoting control freakedness? Maybe I am! Because, well, I AM a control freak when it comes to my life. Fine. I admit it. I don’t want to give up input and influence over the only life I have. Do you? Would anyone?

If we avoid things that are intimidating, we’re allowing fear to choose – and that means we get the consequences of fear. Not empowerment, not opportunity, not adventure, not possibility… just consequences.

Thanks Franklin, for an important reminder of one of the things that makes life such a gift. Enjoy yours.

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