Perhaps you don’t realize it enough but it is perfectly possible to create attraction and confidence by body language. Alpha males are experts in this and the more they learn about body language the more confident they become and the more they get laid. If you think that were born as an alpha male or a beta male you are wrong. Becoming an alpha male can be learned and the best way to do this is by changing your body language. Do you know that body language is responsible for ninety percent of a conversation? There are three main groups of men in the world; niche guys, jerks and alpha males. Out of these three groups the alpha males have the highest social status, the most money and a lot of positive attention from women. In the next few paragraphs you will discover five alpha male body language secrets that most people

don’t know.

1) Your eyes

Alpha males will always look someone right into the eyes when they are talking. On the other hand a beta male will look a woman into the eyes when she has the word, this way they are considered as less dominant. Obviously you don’t want that other people see you as a psychopath so when talking give your eyes a break every now and then.

2) Your voice

Successful people and pick up artists already know it but your voice is very important in a conversation especially when you are seducing a girl. Never speak to fast this is a sign of nervousness. Your voice should be calm and relaxed. Maybe you shout when someone says something to you don’t want to know. A real alpha male never shouts, when you are shouting to a woman it is most likely that she will stop the conversation immediately.

3) Relax

The number one secret of some of the top alpha males in the world like George Clooney or Tom Cruise is that they are always relaxed. Look when someone shouts there names they will never turn their heads very fast like beta males do. Instead they turn down their head slowly in the direction of the other person. It is very important that you control the situation and not the other person regardless of his/her sex or social status.

4) Choose the best location

When an alpha male is in a conversation he always choose the best location so he has an overview over the whole situation. I swear you if you go to a party and you start a conversation behind a group of people they won’t even notice you. You have to spread out your body. Take as much space as you need with your whole body.

5) Don’t check girls

If you go out and you check out every hot babe in the venue then stop this beta male trait immediately. My guess is that ninety eight of these people don’t know how to start a conversation with women and definitely the never get laid. Don’t prove yourself to a girl make sure she has to prove herself to you.

As you can see all of these body language secrets of the alpha male can be learned the only thing you have to do is changing your mind set. Don’t take my word for it this is just an article on the internet and you don’t know me. But I have a little challenge for you if you don’t believe that these tips are real. Next time you go out check out the men who have the most success with women and see it for yourself.

If you are wondering if it is possible to meet women without the fear of rejection. I’m going to tell you that it IS possible! And the reason I know is because of a fellow by the name of Joseph Matthews.

You see, he is the author of The Art of Approaching Women which is the guide that tells you how to eliminate your fear of meeting women. He will tell you how to go after the “9”s and the “10s”… and get them!

And yes, most guys have a fear of getting rejected by hot women. But let me assure you that the “fear” itself is just that… a “fear.” It has no basis in reality.

However, having said that… girls WILL reject you if you project yourself as an unworthy male… a beta male… you know what I mean… Do you act like you fully expect them to reject you before you even ask them for their email?

Now get this… many women and especially the HOT women get approached by jerks and creeps every single day. They are experts at rejecting men! And they have too because #1… insecure men are a turn off biologically for them. And #2… insecure men are creepy.

So the key thing is to project a confident male that doesn’t care whether or not the woman rejects them. How would you like to be that guy?

(EVERYONE RAISING HANDS!)

Yeah, that is what I’m talking about and this is where Joseph Matthews shines. I’ve actually seen videos of him approaching and talking to women and let me tell you this… Joseph is nothing special to look at. He is overweight. And in spite of this… his confidence is sky high and women fall all over themselves for him!

No joking here…

My point is this… most guys have this image (probably propagated by movies and TV) that a guy must be good lookin’, rich and famous to get hot women. The real truth couldn’t be more opposite… Women place more emphasis on the confidence and status of the man.

So… if you are interested in approaching women literally without fear… then I definitely recommend that you check out The Art of Approaching Women by Joseph Matthews.

If you want to stop being a beta male and display the characteristics of an Alpha male you have to know what not to do. There are certain things that Beta males do that alpha males just don’t indulge in.

Here is a list of eight things that alpha males don’t do:

Alpha males do not apologize for who they are. A common thread that runs through most Beta males is a need to apologize for who they are. They seem to go around and apologize for there very existence. You will often hear the average guy apologize before he even gives his opinion. It’s as if they need to apologize in advance before they even say something. The alpha male is proud of who he is and strong in his opinion.

Confident men never seek approval. Approval seekers constantly wonder around the world doing things so that the social group accepts them. They display neediness and appear clingy. They often give approval just to get approval. Alpha males have an inner reference that they abide by. They don’t look for approval. They do what comes naturally to them and are unconcerned with what others are doing.

Alpha males never give up there own status to impress a woman. Many men believe that in order to attract a woman they have to supplicate there own status and give all the power to the woman. They believe that if they put the woman on a pedestal and shower her with compliments before they even know her that she will eventually see the same in them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Alpha males know this and treat all people as equals. Nobody is given a higher status.

Naturals never whine or complain. They are generally in control of there own domain. Everybody complains from time to time but the Alpha male will eventually take responsibility for his own problems. Beta males will often times use it as an excuse and become intolerable to those around them. They can often use it as a crutch to get secondary forms of pleasure. Alpha males don’t do this.

Alpha males do not idealize women. If you are idealizing a woman based on looks; stop immediately!! Most men will completely over look some unbearable flaws in a woman because of her beauty. This can lead a man down a brutal path of destruction. Having this kind of attitude towards a woman can lead to massive heart aches in the future when those flaws that didn’t seem so important in the beginning become amplified later on. Confident men know what kind of character and personality they are looking for in women and look for those attributes in women right from the beginning instead of focusing on looks.

Pick up artists never try to fix women. Most guys will decide that when they find a woman they like, they can eventually turn her into the ideal woman by fixing her and her problems. You might think that this will lead to a better relationship but the fact is, that you will only end up creating resentment in the other person. Self assured men give women the space they need to grow. If they’re not compatible they just move on.

Alpha males don’t try to impress women or support them financially. Many men jump in to relationships by trying to impress women with compliments, gifts, dinners and other means of support. I don’t mean not to compliment women or buy the occasional dinner. I just mean that they don’t set up a standard where they are the ones giving all the time. When they do decide to give, their women appreciate it more.

Naturals do not display nervousness in front of women. This means that you have to get rid of all your nervous ticks around women. A key example of this occurs at initial eye contact. When a girl catches you looking at her don’t look away as thou you were just caught with your hands in the cookie jar. The alpha male will just maintain eye contact nonchalantly and give a nod of acknowledgement before breaking.

If you want to be a natural with women start implementing some of these principles.

One of the hallmarks of being an Alpha Male is that he is willing to take risks to improve his situation. This contrasts with the Beta Male who, by his very nature plays it safe.

Perhaps it would be good to define what a Beta Male is versus an Alpha Male. In primate societies (of which we are a part) there is a social hierarchy that has evolved into us human beings from our primate ancestors. This hierarchy, expressed generally in the males of the primate cultures, can be separated into two basic groups. The first is the Alpha Male, or the leader of the troupe. The Alpha Male is in charge of the safety of the troupe from predators and other threatening males from other troupes. In addition, the Alpha Male is in charge of providing for the other needs of the troupe as well. In human society, the Alpha Male, the tribal leader, is in charge of the emotional, financial, social, nutritional, and physical well being of the members of his tribe. This is not new, it is simple human nature.

That being said, the Alpha Male is also going to find himself attractive to women. Women, being smaller and weaker physically, as well as slower needs protection if she is going to not only survive in the jungle, but survive long enough to reproduce and send her genes into the next generation. So women are hard wired to be attracted to the Alpha Male- this still holds true in humans. Women want an assertive male who is the leader of men, and who takes care of all their needs, and the needs of the whole tribe, and does it from a position of strength and authority.

The Beta Male, by contrast, is a follower. He is passive aggressive, which means that he does things covertly (whereas the Alpha Male is more straight forward). In human terms, this can manifest itself by trying to “bribe” people into liking them, doing favors for others to get favors back, chasing women that they are attached to and a whole bunch of other things. Beta Males are really categorized by their passivity to any given situation. What also follows is that the Beta Male will resort to back stabbing, gossip, and whining when he doesn’t get his way.

Now that we have that established, we can see the basis for why the Alpha Male and the Beta Male differ in the risk department. If a male is going to be an Alpha Male, that means that he will put himself in danger’s way, and open himself up to more risks. Frankly, who risks more than the leader of a group? Think about the Officer leading the Army, or the Quarterback of the team, or perhaps the CEO of a business. The higher up you go in the social hierarchy, the more people are waiting for your demise, and the quicker they want that to happen so that they can take your place. Sometimes that is done directly, by other Alpha Males, and sometimes it is done passively by the Beta Male types.

So being the leader of the group means that you are exposing yourself to “attacks” by others. That means also that if the Alpha Male fails, the life of the whole tribe (or in our case company, military unit, or football team for example) is at risk. So the Alpha Male has to confidently take on the risks that come his way.

But the Beta Male, by nature is someone who stands in the shadow of the Alpha Male. Like the Alpha Male (and any male) he too wants to climb up the chain and be a leader, but for some reason he lacks the ability or perhaps the confidence to do that. The Beta Male nature is to “play it safe” and hope that opportunity falls into his lap. Again, the Beta Male will resort to passive tactics such as bribery or ass kissing or doing favors for someone so that they may reward him with a higher position in the tribe. (Remember, tribe in this sense means any organization or group that the male may find himself a part of)

So the Beta Male doesn’t take risks- in some sense, he eats of the scraps of the Alpha Male’s table and is happy with it. That means that his loyalty will shift quickly to whoever has the ability to best feed him, that is, give him what he wants. All males start out as Beta Males by the way, but some of the grow out of it and become Alpha Males- those are the guys who take the risks in life.

This can certainly be seen in a business setting. There are some guys who are drones- who play it safe- who do just enough work to keep their job and get by. Sometimes they get promoted, simply because someone else moves up or dies, but often they get a to a level of comfort and just stay there. They trade in the great lifestyle of the Alpha Male for the safety of the Beta Male.

How about in romance? Well, it can clearly be seen there too. Ever go to a club and see a bunch of guys who are standing around with a drink to their chest watching the action? The guys who go there hoping (or even worse EXPECTING) a girl to come up and talk to them? They dare not take the risk of getting shot down, so they stand there and hope people come to them.

Then there are the guys in the club who take the risk of getting shot down. They approach people, specifically they approach women- sometimes they get shot down, and sometimes they are successful in making a connection. But the fact that they are willing to take the risk opens them up to many more possibilities than the Passive Beta Male who won’t make any connections because they won’t take the “risk” of getting shot down.

In addition to that, women WANT men who are willing to take risks. Back in our ancestor’s days, the guy who could take risks was the guy who was likely to be the Alpha Male – that meant that he was going to be a leader- and THAT meant that he would not only have his strengths and resources to protect her and their potential offspring, but that he had the resources of the whole tribe at his disposal! If the name of the game is survival, then the woman who is attached to the Alpha Male has the best chance of surviving.

That means that the very act of approaching a woman at all, that is, showing he would take the risk, automatically clicks on all the attraction buttons in a woman’s brain. Just that alone gives him points in her book and increases the chances that the man can make a connection with the woman. The Beta Male, on the other hand, LOSES points by standing around and being passive when it comes to women. That means in the romantic world, no one starts with a zero score- you either start positive (the Alpha Male who takes the risk and approaches) or in the negative (the Beta Male who passively sits and watches).

We can’t escape the brain wiring that got us here. Back in our jungle days it was the Alpha Male who took risks who became the Alpha Male, who had the troop to help him survive (as he helped it survive) who got to reproduce with the females of the world. That brain wiring that got us here is still alive and well in our brains, so it is the guy who is assertive and takes on the risks who ends up winning the girl in the end. Not only the girl, but the job, the money, and even things like fame and fortune and glory.

Women are naturally and forcefully attracted to men who act like REAL MEN, and don’t display wussy beta-male behaviors. Are you an alpha man who has what it takes to date desirable women, or are you still making these tragic mistakes?

When I was a younger man, I made one mistake after another when I was trying to meet and date girls. I just couldn’t figure out what the heck girls wanted from me… Did they want me to be a “nice-guy” who brings flowers or some kind of dashing alpha-male “bad-boy?” I just couldn’t figure it out for the life of me!

Well, after years of seeking the answers, I’ve finally discovered exactly what you SHOULDN’T do, if you want to be popular with chicks… Here’s the short list:

1) Don’t let her run things. This mistake will make a girl lose interest in you quick! No woman that you want to date wants to be in charge of what you do when you hang out, what you talk about, or whether you get physical. It’s the mans role to take the lead, so be a man and take it.

2) Don’t follow her around like a lost puppy. Women like it when you give them attention, but don’t overdo it. Calling multiple times a day, showing up to see her uninvited, and staring at her lovingly every time you see her, is going to give her an icky feeling. Alpha-males have there own stuff going on and don’t smother women with constant company.

3) Don’t buy her stuff. Spending money on a girl is a sure way to show her that you don’t get it. Yeah you can buy her a beer or two, or even pick up the tab for some grub, but don’t pop any Cristal, at least until your first anniversary.

4) Don’t push to be exclusive. Rushing to be her boyfriend is a real bad idea. I know you are in love with her or whatever, but you’ve got to tread gently here. Letting a woman know that you want to be exclusive, puts her in the power position. Just wait, if she wants to be exclusive, she’ll bring it up and then you can play with her a little bit. If you say you need to think about it and tease her a little first it will be all the more exciting for her when you finally agree to be her boyfriend.

This is a trait you might not immediately associate with the beta male but it is definitely a trait. There is nothing attractive to women about a guy who is always one step away from doing things, about to pay those bills, about to go to the gym, about to get a job. The alpha male is in control of his life and knows that procrastination is no way to get things done. Procrastinators blame themselves which causes guilt or they blame others for making things hard for them. I want you to picture yourself as the type of guy who gets things done ASAP and see if that sounds like the better version of you. Things don’t have to be perfect, just get them done and you will be one step close to becoming an alpha male.

What type of procrastinator are you? The first type I want to talk about it the overachieving procrastinator, I know it sounds a little funny to say but they exist. These are the people who seek perfection and by doing so make a big deal out of a small thing. Don’t get caught up on making things perfect just think about ways to get things done well and in a timely manner. The alpha male does not wait around stressing about how they will get something to be perfect, but instead immediately gets to work on their project just to get the ball rolling.

To stop procrastinating we have to first eliminate negative self talk. Make sure you are telling yourself that you can do this and it will not be that big of a deal, so you don’t stress about how hard it will be or your ability to do it at all. You need to recognize your excuses and try to climate them. This self control you are showing will increase your confidence and make you feel better immediately. A huge step to becoming an alpha male is taking on responsibilities you might not have felt comfortable with before. To be successful in life you have to learn how to control your procrastination.

The best example we can use here is someone like Donald Trump, do you think he got to where he is by putting things off and procrastinating? Of course not, people like this are the ones who tackle problems head on and do not get stressed out about it and give up. This is something that will separate you from the rest given the fact that people are getting lazier and lazier.

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If you want to become an alpha male you must get rid of certain beta male behaviours. Most men think that women are attracted to guys who are rich, big and good looking. Of course this plays a certain role but in fact women are attracted to men who are attractive. Of course you don’t have to act like a caveman to show your dominance, in today’s society being dominant means social power and self improvement. There are many nonverbal clues that you sign out to women that you are a beta male in this article I will describe five of them.

1) Walking only with your legs.

Walking with your legs only is a way to show off that you are a beta male. A real alpha male walks with his whole body. Don’t be afraid to move your torso and arms. If you walk it is very important that you keep your head straight. Looking down is probably the worst thing you can do it gives you the label “loser”. Keep your chin up and expose your neck.

2) Eye contact

Alpha males are masters in eye contact, sure some beta males are looking in the eyes as well but it is necessary to know how to use eye contact in your advantage. If you speak try to get as much eye contact as possible it shows that you are interesting. But on the other hand when the other person speaks you have to use a lot less eye contact.

3) Touch her

A dominant man will psychically moves a woman when he needs to. After all an alpha male is still a gentleman hold her hand to lead her around. Touch her also during the conversations a famous trick in the seduction world is put your hand on her shoulders. When you touch a woman it is important that you touch her with confidence, being nervous is a big red flag for your relationship with her.

4) Checking out every pretty girl

Maybe you are young from age and still go to parties or other matters where teenagers come together. I bet you take your time to check out every pretty girl you see. Don’t do this anymore they can almost smell it and they know that these people don’t get laid. By being not impressed by the bodies you see woman want to prove

themselves to you.

5) Be a good listener

Make no mistakes an alpha male is the one who leads the conversation and choose the topics. But on the other hand he is an excellent listener to. When a woman talks to you it has a deeper meaning most of the times. Suppose she asks you “How high is the Mount Everest”. Most men think that she is testing your intelligence, this is not true. In fact she is trying to show off her knowledge. Don’t answer with the Mount Everest is 8850 meters high like other men would do. Say something like could it be 7500 meter. Perhaps you think is it attractive to make mistakes. In this circumstance yes then she will fill that she have earned your attention.

It is not difficult at all to get rid of these beta male traits but it will take some practice. Becoming an alpha male is not difficult at all but you need someone who guides you reading this article ways your first step in discovering your new self.