It’s one of the world’s better-kept secrets. I can personally confirm that the phenomenon I am about to describe is almost unknown among North Americans. So if you are reading this in Asia, don’t tell anybody back home…

Guys, if you go anywhere in Asia except for Hong Kong, you might as well have a leather jacket issued to you as soon as you step off the plane, because you are the Fonz. Welcome to Alpha Male status. The first thing you will notice are dweeby-looking Western men with calculators in their pockets walking arm-in-arm with Chinese supermodels. These women are girlfriends, not prostitutes. I call it the “Charisma Man Syndrome”. After a couple of weeks your friends back home are going to start asking why you cancelled your return flight. A couple of decades later they’ll still be asking you the same question.

There are several theories on why this is the case; let’s explore them one by one:

1. Complex historical, sociological and anthropological reasons.

Gimme a break. Actually this was the topic of at least one Ph.D. thesis but hey, we’re not in the ivory tower anymore. Do you really think some Chinese woman ponders the Opium War before she decides whether or not to accept a date request from her British English teacher?

2. They want your money.

It stands to reason doesn’t it? Most Asian countries are poor, and most Western countries aren’t. What blows this theory out of the water is the fact that, if anything, this phenomenon is even worse in Japan, where (relatively) poverty-stricken English teachers date Japanese fashion models that make five times as much as they do.

3. They want a Western passport.

Well, marriage to a Westerner is indeed the quickest, surest route to a Western passport. And more than one Westerner has been left weeping bitterly in the Arrival Lounge when his new Asian wife climbed out the window of the airport Ladies’ Room to freedom. But then again there’s the counterexample of affluent Japan, where not all that many local women are seeking Western passports but still flock to Western men. By the way, since Western women are generally not interested in Asian men and since Western men in Asia are usually busy with Asian women, single Western women living in Asia tend to be a lonely lot. And they are NOT happy about it. The “passport motivation” is their favorite explanation.

4. They want free English lessons

Yeah, but why do they want to learn English in the first place? So they can talk to Western guys? Plus, my extensive research has shown that accomplished Western Language Nerds who refuse to speak any English in favor of the local language do just as well as (if not better than) starry-eyed Asia Greenies fresh out of the airport.

5. It’s a status symbol in Asia to have a western boyfriend

Yeah, and it’s a status symbol in Spain to have a matador boyfriend. What a lame theory. It begs the question of why having a Western boyfriend became a status symbol in the first place. After all, it’s no status symbol in Australia to have, say, a Bolivian boyfriend. Ah, Madison Avenue…

6. Western guys are better looking

Not some of the ones I see. Then again, it is true that Asia is the only place in the world where I get told I look I look like Brad Pitt – back in the states I’m more likely to be compared to Pee Wee Herman.

7. The grass is always greener on the other side…

So why aren’t women in the United States clawing each other’s eyes out for a Chinese boyfriend?

8. Asian men are somehow inadequate

As a male, I wouldn’t know about this. But I would be happy to hear from any interested females on this issue.

My next article will be entitled, “Why Western Women in China Hate Western Men and What You Can Do to Make It Worse”.

Are you frustrated that you just can’t seem to get the women you’re really attracted to? Are you afraid of going up and talking to the women you really want, and hate yourself and feel stupid because of your fear? Can’t understand why hot women always think of you as a ‘friend’ and never as boyfriend (or one night stand) material? There’s an even bigger problem…

Maybe you’ve tried to be the nice guy. Maybe you’ve tried to be friends with women, hoping that someday they’ll ‘see’ what they’re missing and fall in love with you. Maybe you’ve been the shoulder they’ve cried on about all the jerks they’ve dated, and they say how lucky some girl will be to have you as a boyfriend just before they go off to have sex with another guy. There’s a big reason for that, though.

Women are attracted to ‘alpha males’ – men who demonstrate certain characteristics. The good news is, these are largely behaviors that can be learned. The bad news is, if you ask women what they’re looking for, they’ll tell you all the qualities they think they want: a good listener, someone sweet and caring, kind and considerate…all the things you’ve tried, but which don’t work at getting the women you want.

You need to follow the advice of a man who has been in your shoes, a man who started off as a ‘wimp’ who has learned how to display the qualities that define an alpha male: goes after what he wants. Confident. A leader of men. Sexually magnetic. You need to follow the advice of someone who has been a failure with women, but then learned how to be a huge success – a ‘chick magnet.’

You can follow the advice of other women, but you’ll only end up playing the nice guy again. You won’t learn to sweep the hot girl off her feet so that she’s lusting for you. To do that, you need advice from someone who has walked a mile in your shoes and learned to be an alpha male.

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What is It?

The first question you probably have is what exactly is Alpha Male Plus? Well, this is a supplement specifically designed to offer benefits of a sexual nature. The following some of the benefits that the company claims you will experience with this supplement:

• No more problems with premature ejaculation

• More sexual stamina as well as more sexual energy

• More control over ejaculation during sexual intercourse

• Results that are fast and that work

• The ability to have multiple orgasms

How Does it Work?

This product takes natural ingredients to help provide the results that the product claims. The main plant that is used is Wapiti Elk, and it has had a few studies done on it for helping a man and his time of sexual recovery. One of the things they claim this ingredient can do is to allow a many to be able to get an erection even right after climaxing. It works by helping to provide various physical responses within the body. Some of them including elevating the testosterone levels, letting the body have more erections even after just climaxing, allowing men to have sexual intercourse repeatedly, and helping the body to replenish the testosterone stores it has. Helping the main ingredient to work are other ingredients:

• Cnidium Monnier

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• Niacin

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• Vitamin B6

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Alpha Male Plus and Side Effects

This is a product that is endorsed by a medical professional. However, it is still important that you note that the Food and Drug Administration has not approved Alpha Male Plus. When it comes to side effects, the company claims that there are none to worry about. However, it’s important that you realize that it is not clear whether or not some side effects can occur. For this reason you may want to speak to a doctor before taking this product.

A man, who never struggles with insecurity issues, or in fact, any other relationship related issues, can be considered an alpha male. But how does he behave in his relationships? And with what kind of mindset and expectations does he start a relationship?

Well, let’s just find out!

Just one thing before we start – don’t panic if you aren’t doing everything that is on this list in your relationship. If your relationship is going just fine, don’t try to force these things. Just keep them in mind and use them as guides to improve yours.

However, if your relationships always end in catastrophes, then this list will be of benefit to you. So, without further ado, here are 5 examples on how an alpha male behaves in relationships (and how you should too):

Has an abundance mentality. First and foremost, the alpha possesses an abundance mentality – maybe the biggest difference between him and a normal guy. When the average Joe gets into a relationship because he can’t stand to be alone, an alpha male gets into a relationship because he found a girl he wants as his girlfriend.

The biggest difference between the two: one of them needs the girl; the other one wants the girl.

When an alpha man decides to become exclusive with a woman, he goes into this relationship with a specific mindset – he know he has a lot to offer and that’s why he will never compromise his integrity by acting needy or desperate.

If it, for whatever reason it doesn’t work out with one girl, he knows that there are other women around. He won’t obsess about the girl he lost and therefore won’t be affected by the loss so much as other men would. This doesn’t however mean that he takes the relationship lightly. He cares like any other man, but with the exception, that he isn’t dependent on the woman.

Has his own stuff to do. Guys often make the mistake in relationships where they lose all interest in the things they used to do and dedicate all their attention to the woman. Before they had a girlfriend, they were busy with their own lives (friends and hobbies) but after she came into the picture, everything had to be suddenly dropped and she became the center of the attention.

An alpha male is always busy, even when he is in a committed relationship. He has his own stuff to do and places to be. He won’t suddenly drop everything just to be with her. He will always find the time to his friends and doesn’t dependent on her company alone. In fact, he balances the time he has for his girlfriend and friends.

He isn’t searching for a girlfriend to define him. When guys get into a relationship, they usually change for better or worse (depending on what kind of girl they are dating). The problem here is that many men don’t really have a firm sense of reality about who they are and when they find a girlfriend, they hope she will define it for them.

So, she will be the one who defines who he is as a person and he will become totally dependent on her. This will eventually backfire when she decides, that he isn’t worth her time anymore and leaves him.

That’s why many men could learn a lot from an alpha male. He already knows who he is and there is not much a woman can do to change that. Sure, when he thinks that she can guide him to a better path, he takes it, but initially it’s still his decision. When an alpha starts the relationship, it will never cross his mind, that he needs her to define him as a person.

He is making the decisions. Women want a decisive man, period! If a guy can’t make a simple decision by himself and always has to rely on his girlfriend to make the final call, eventually she will start to lose attraction for him. Even when he is just trying to be nice and considerate, women oftentimes see it as a weakness.

An alpha is always the “guy with the plan”. His girlfriend knows that she can rely on him 100% to make the tough decisions. She will always turn to him when they need to make a decision and he will have the final say. This doesn’t mean he discards her opinion completely. He always considers the opinion of a woman, but when it comes to making important calls, he won’t hesitate to make them.

He isn’t a pushover. Many men in relationships lack a backbone. The woman is the one who makes all the important decisions and has always her way. These guys just don’t know when to take a stand and use the word “no” when it’s needed. They do everything to avoid a confrontation with a woman.

The alpha male isn’t afraid of speaking his mind and getting into a disagreement with his girlfriend. When it’s obvious that his girlfriend is testing him, he has no problems responding accordingly and making it clear that he doesn’t tolerate her behavior. She might not like it, but in the long run she will respect him for it.

These five simple examples represent how an alpha male would behave in his relationship with a woman. And of course, these are just some basic examples there are many more.

Taking up space is one of the alpha male characteristics that a guy should display to attract women. Men can attract women for dates by taking up space in public places. Also men who can take up space in a social event usually find themselves attractive to sexy women who usually come over to them and this creates an opportunity for such men to seduce women. Since many men are looking for alpha male characteristics to help them improve in their efforts to date more women, this article will briefly explain how taking up space can help men to attract women.

Taking up space shows that a man is confidence. Many women will immediately assume that a man is confident if taking up space in a public place. Women feel that men who take up space are bold. It is easy for you to take up space and you can do this by spreading your things around as if the area is occupied by more than one person and this act will immediately show that you are confidence and do not care about what other guys feel about you. Women will be coming over to ask you if they can use some of the space that you have created. Women coming over to you will give you the opportunity to seduce them. Also when beautiful women enter into a gathering they look for a man who is confident and has made up space which they can enter and begin a conversation with such men, this is one reason why men who are take up space always date beautiful women.

Women see men who take up space as the dominant male. In the lower animals kingdoms the strongest male usually mark up his territory to make other men know that the females who enter there are exclusively his own. Taking up space shows other men that you are in charge and many guys will naturally leave for another place but women will feel that you are the dominant man because you are able to have a personal territory in a public place. Since dominant males are allowed more freedom and space, women will want to go and check out who is that great guy who is having so much space. Since women has need for protection and it is the dominant man who can protect them especially from low status men who run after them, if you are doing anything that makes women feel that you are the dominant man they will assume you can protect them and they will come over to you.

Men can make themselves available if they take up space around them. A woman may find a particular man attractive to her for some personal reasons which she may not discuss with her friends. This sexual attraction is usually called good chemistry by some dating coach. If a woman sees a man whom she has strong attraction for, she usually starts a conversation with him at her own risk. However many women will not start such a conversation with a man when there are other people very close by who could hear and see the resulting embarrassment that can come from a negative response. So by creating such a space you are tactically inviting women to come to you and you are making yourself available to them. Some women who want to approach and talk to you may be also afraid of other women talking to you who may be violent and abusive when they suspect that another lady is trying to seduce their man. So by creating space for yourself you make yourself available for women who want to talk to you and such women can easily come over to you.

So taking up space is one of the alpha male characteristics you should be able to display to help you to be able to attract women to you and get a date.

Most dating and “seduction” advice out there is borderline scammy. Self-proclaimed gurus seem to like to push the “magic pill” solution – and as a result, guys are getting more confused about dating than they need to. Stop reading about pickup lines and “magic routines” which are supposed to give you the superpowers to seduce any woman you want. In fact, the answer is easy – you need to adopt an “alpha male” mindset and attitude in order to appeal to women. Read on to discover the killer ways to be an alpha male and be instantly attractive to women…

Alpha Male Attraction Techniques – Use These And You’ll Be 100% More Attractive To Women Immediately

“- Adopt The Alpha Attitude”. Women will always go for the man who seems to be the leader. After all, who would want to be with the runt of the group? The aim of this technique is to make you appear to be the alpha male in the eyes of the women in the bar through the use of conversational skills and constantly being the centre of attention. Doing so will guarantee that you receive extra attention from women and will enable you to get the girls with unimaginable speed.

“- Play Alpha Mind Games”. Mind games are a staple of a woman’s repertoire when she tries to seduce men, so it stands to reason that using mind games on a woman will appeal to their emotional center and make her like you. What you need to do is this – appear laid back and unaffected by anything that the woman says or does. Your “dis-attachment” from her will make you appear as insanely attractive to women. Try this trick – it will work on a woman’s emotions covertly and make her like you.

Alpha Males have an inner core of detachment and self love. When talking about success the most important factor involved is confidence no matter what endeavor you pursue. In fact lack of confidence is the major cause of most failures. This is going to be your main driving force to get you to Alpha Male status. You need an almost beyond reproach confidence in yourself. If you ever been with someone who is truly confident in themselves there is something magnetic about them. Its almost mysterious because they have no need to explain why they are that way, they just are and you know it.

People love being around confident people because its kind of infectious, it rubs off on you and you in turn become more confident and bold yourself. Things you thought you couldn’t do or have now all of a sudden is in your reach. Confidence creates charisma which attracts desirable people and circumstances. It is the power to command, the quiet confidence to know for sure you will prevail, and the daring to go for it. True confidence is never explained or proved, it just is.

The source of your confidence comes largely from you self-image and image is a key ingredient in a alpha male consciousness creation. How you see yourself is intrinsically connected to what you expect of yourself. If you have a negative mindset, you’ll assume you will perform poorly and its likely your reality will meet those assumptions, but if you have a positive, dominant self image, you expect the best from yourself, your consciousness will create that reality.Your self perception will move outward to create your personal results. The brain cant distinguish between an image of experience and on of vivid imagination. What ever problems you are facing, and what ever negative self image may be haunting you, they can be turned around.

Only you can decide how to perceive, define, and imagine yourself. Your old negative conclusions were formed out of past experiences, but you can create new ones now. Since the world can only regard you in the exact same way you see yourself, its time to let go of the old self-judgments and make the choice to think highly of yourself now. To quote Tony Robbins” What would you do if you could not fail.” No one is better than you, you don’t have to be a genius to succeed, you don’t have to look like Brad Pitt to be confident and attract women. You just need self belief. Become the man you want to be now, think of what would your ideal self do in your present situation. Build a strong dominant self image. Act as if and eventually you will be.

You’ve no doubt noticed that women are drawn to certain types of men, while everyone else is just stuck on the sidelines. Have you ever wondered just what that is? Do these ladies’ men have some kind of secret they aren’t sharing?

Much as you might think it is, the reality is that becoming a real stud has nothing to do with how good looking you are or how much cash you have. Actually, guys who make women like putty in their hands have special tactics that make them impossible to resist. Keep reading and you’ll know those secrets as well…

Three Top Secret Mantras of Top Pickup Artists

Mantra #1: “I Can Give You a Better Life.” This one is all about confidence – you need to psych yourself up and truly think that you are a great catch for any girl. When you have this level of confidence, then you won’t be that chump who stumbles over himself when talking to girls. Women are drawn to confident men – so start here, and the rest will follow.

Mantra #2: “I Can Leave Whenever I Want.” Real pickup artists won’t think twice about turning their back on the hottest girl if that girl wants him to do something that would compromise their integrity. The best thing is that women respond to that – when a guy is willing to bail at a moment’s notice, a girl will work harder to keep him around.

Mantra #3: “I Will Go The Distance.” True masters of seduction aren’t held back by anything in their quest to attract women. They’ll even use a type of hypnosis, called “fractionation,” to get women to feel deeply connected to them. You could have a woman ready to leave the club with you in 15 minutes or less. It’s amazing!

Many guys are successfully using alpha male body language to attract women. Some of these successful men want to know how they can use smile to attract women and if possible make women to approach them on their own accord. This article will discuss how men who are using alpha male body language to seduce women can also attract women with smile.

Men who are confident of themselves are always smiling. Many men are seen laughing and smiling when they are talking with their friends, playmates and family members. But these men do not smile and play when they are talking to women. Some guys think that for a woman to like a man, the man need to be serious and he should avoid all forms of play when women are around. Such seriousness which makes the face of the man tense is perceived by many women as timidity and that the guy lack confidence in himself. If a man learns to smile around women, women will see him as a confident man who knows how to care for women. If a confident man enters into a place you see him smiling naturally with all the people there and not worrying whether their partners are happy or not. Most women will start smiling back to him and feeling that he is among the guys who know how to start and date women that is why women are smiling back to him. While guys who are timid are trying to prove a point to women and taking their conversation seriously the confidence ones are smiling with one woman after another and getting dates from them.

Smiling make a man charming. Many women have been hurt in the past by some men whom they tried to be close to because most women are weaker physical and gentle emotionally than men. When a man who is approaching or talking to a woman is tense, bad memories which the woman have had in the past comes back to her mind and this will make the woman to start putting up a lot of resistance to the flirting of the tense man. However when a man is smiling when coming to a woman or while talking to her, she will immediately start feeling that the man will be among the few caring and good men who will take good care of her and will never hurt her. If one woman is not ready to talk to a smiling man, the man should leave her behind and go to another woman and then he should use his smile to start a conversation with the new woman. Another reason while smiling makes a man more charming is that smiling makes the face of a man more handsome. A wonderful smile can make an ugly face to look better because it make the good features more evident while many of the bad features or inadequacy in his face is will be less obvious.

Most women feel that smiling men are playful men. Everyone wants a friend not an enemy to be close to them. Some women have said that they love men who are aggressive because such guys could do anything to protect them. However, no matter how aggressive a man is to other people, a woman wants the man to be fun and playful to her. When a man is smiling and laughing with women while he is talking them or when he is coming to them, women will immediately start thinking of him as a man who will be playful and be fun. One main way which players use to start conversation with women is smiling and playing with women and then those women who enjoy their conversation with him will want to be with him another time. When a man is in the middle of women and he is smiling and making all of them laugh, the women will start saying to one another that he is a great guy who can make a woman feel happy even when she is in a bad mood. Women like men who can make them happy and a smiling man can quickly make a woman feel happy, so any guy who can make women momentarily forget their problems is always welcome in their lives.

From the discussion above, you can see that men who are successfully using alpha male body language to attract women are using smile to attract women to them and when possible they can make women to go on a date with them. If you want to use smile to attract women to you then start practicing today.

There are a lot of different messages that you can send out to people just by standing. You’ll be surprised to know that you can either be an average man, or someone that is stellar in nature. If you want to rise up and get any woman you want, you’ll want to look into body language. You need to specifically look into moving forward with alpha male body language. At first, you may not know how to have alpha male body language, and that’s fine. There are a few things that you can do right now to get started. If you can do the following, you’ll no doubt go far in regards to showcasing your true self.

Stand Tall

Before you go anywhere, you need to be able to stand up straight, and tall. If you aren’t used to this for whatever reason, it’s time to practice. Make sure that you focus on learning how to have alpha male body language by standing in your home against a wall. Stand up straight, and just keep your shoulders up and your back parallel to the wall. You do not want to let your posture show anything but confidence. Figuring out how to have alpha male body language is not tough, it all starts with how you stand.

Keep Your Head Up

Do not put your head down. Don’t look at the floor, and never look down unless it’s to tie your shoe or pick something up. Be vigilant about how you look at people, and keep your focus up. You’ll be surprised how many people put their heads down or try not to focus on people’s eyes. If you want to figure out how to have alpha male body language, you need to make sure that people see your eyes and you are confident in progressing forward.

Smile and Shake Hands

Want to really learn how to have alpha male body language, then start shaking hands and smiling. By introducing yourself and being sanguine, you will find that people respond better. They will remember your name, they will know who you are, and you will not have a hard time moving forward in any social scenario, guaranteed. Too often, people forget how to do this, or are too scared to do so. Nothing bad can happen if you put yourself out there like this. You’ll be bold, you’ll send a good message, and you’ll definitely figure out how to have alpha male body language.