10 Misconceptions About Gifted Adults

Gifted adults are largely invisible. One of the reasons very few apply the term to themselves is due to the misconceptions about giftedness – in adulthood as well as childhood. Many adults who have been part of the gifted community, either as children or as parents, still do not acknowledge themselves as gifted. Adults who were identified as gifted children were often not provided information about what it means to be gifted and, as a result, think they have outgrown their ‘giftedness’. For a variety of reasons, parents of gifted children also often fail to identify their own giftedness. Of course, there are many gifted adults not affiliated with the gifted education system in anyway- adults who simply feel out of step and don’t know why but would never consider themselves gifted because of the misconceptions as to what a gifted adult is.

The misconceptions of being a gifted adult fall into two categories: superstar overachiever or incompetent misfit. The reality is more subtle than either of these stereotypes suggests. While some gifted adults struggle and some achieve extraordinary things, most gifted adults are somewhere in the middle.

10 Misconceptions about Gifted Adults

All gifted people:

  • Are ‘nerds’
  • Are socially inept
  • Were exceptional students
  • Have attained a high level of formal education
  • Are ‘book smart’
  • Physically awkward
  • Excel at everything uniformly; have evenly distributed abilities
  • Have exceptional careers
  • Are able to ‘get ahead’ because of their intelligence
  • Cannot be successful with practical things because they’re ‘too intelligent’
  • A gifted adult may or may not conform to a stereotypes but neither stereotype explains or defines what being a gifted adult is. If you have rejected the idea you are a gifted adult based on any of the misconceptions above, I encourage you to reconsider but this time based on information, not popular misconceptions.

    Does He Care About Me If He Remembers All the Little Details? Discover If He Likes You Or Not

    A woman always has little doubts that make her wonder if her man really loves her or not. She has these doubts even if he remembers small little things and details about her. If you need to know whether he cares if he remembers details about you, then read these tips.

    If he cares – he will remember
    It is obvious that if he takes the trouble to remember small little details about you, then he really loves you. If he was not in love with you then he would not bother about details leave alone remember them!

    If he is courteous and caring about small things – he’s serious
    If he is really serious about making you happy, then he loves you. Your happiness and satisfaction will count. He will make sure that he remembers your birthday, the day you achieved success, how you like to eat peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and even the flavor of ice cream you love.

    It shows that he is sincere
    No man who is not sincere and really in love will bother with the nitty-gritty. He will make sure that your needs are satisfied. To do this, he will take care to remember all the little details about you so that he can satisfy your every need and craving. This shows pure devotion on his part. He will prove his love over and over again.

    It shows good character
    A man who takes the trouble to remember little details about you is a man who wants to make the relationship a success. He wants you to be impressed and satisfied with him. He does not want to take you for granted and shows that he has a good and decent character. He will do his part in making you happy.

    He wants to make you happy
    A man who makes sure that he knows what makes you tick is a man who is bent on making you happy. He is a person who wants to prove that you will never find him wanting in any way. He probably remembers all the details so that he can provide you with satisfaction in every area.

    He remembers those details because he wants to
    Only if a man really wants to remember details about you he will do so. No one can force or “make” him remember little things about you. If he truly cares for you it will come naturally to him. He will find it easy to remember all the things that you care about.

    He wants to impress you
    If he wants to impress you then he will anticipate your needs and supply them even before you hint or ask for them. This is a man who truly cares for you and will go to any lengths to make you happy. He knows that the fact that he remembers every birthday, anniversary and other milestones in your life as well as your personal likes and dislikes will prove that he sincerely cares for you.

    Understanding Dreams About Loss Of Control

    Crazy things happen in dreams… in real life you are unlikely to find yourself in the back of a car that suddenly has no driver, or about to deliver your keynote presentation when you realise you have no notes with you, or other essentials. Thank goodness for that, life itself is less random, and the kind of logistical screw-ups we’re presented with are usually less dramatic – and largely of our own making.

    That’s the key – when we dream of the missing tickets at the airport, our subconscious mind is presenting us with our own underlying anxieties, about something we feel insecure or out of control of. In many of the typical scenarios, it’s a big event: your first day in a new job, or an important family occasion, something that in real life you would plan and prepare for minutely. But this very degree of attention that complex planning requires, sends concern deep into your unconscious – so, in the middle of the night, it gets reflected back to you in your dreams: yes, I remembered the cake, the gift, the flowers, the drinks, but oh my goodness I somehow forgot to get dressed this morning, and now everyone is staring at me… and because they are staring, I can’t make myself walk, or speak, or do anything they expect me to, and the shame and stress and level of attention is growing by the second… I have completely lost control.

    People who suffer frequently from this kind of dream often have a huge amount on their plate in the conscious, waking world – complicated personal and professional responsibilities, often coupled with a poor sense of being on top of things and managing their commitments successfully. This is tough one because, for many of us, life simply is very complicated, and keeping all the plates spinning demands constant vigilance. That external reality we probably cannot change (although a review of commitments never hurts to be sure), but what we can change is how we manage and respond to those commitments.

    You can use this kind of ‘losing control’ dream as a warning that you are becoming stressed and overloaded, and take it as a sign you need to call a time-out, and look at why your unconscious mind is telling you a plate is in danger of crashing to the ground (and even allowing you to rehearse how you’d feel about it, if you were to let it happen). Your dreams are direct messengers from your own unconscious, and if you are suppressing growing anxiety about your overload in your conscious mind, you have to learn to listen to and take advice from the rest of your mind.

    Fun Facts About the Spotted Bat

    There are thousands of bat species across the world, so there is never a void when it comes to learning something new and interesting about bats. Even better than fun bat facts is learning about a new bat species that you have never heard of before. How about the Spotted bat? This bat is unique compared to some of its related species. Continue reading if you would like to learn some great stuff about Spotted bats!

    Most Distinctive Features

    The Spotted bat is scientifically referred to as Euderma maculatum. In this article, both monikers will be used to describe this interesting bat species. Its most distinguishable features are probably their ears. They are large, and quite noticeable due to their pinkish tone. Their wings are a transparent pink as well. As for their body, they are easily discernable by their jet black fur and large white spots. They have two white spots on their shoulders, and two more on their rump. Underneath, their bellies are a soft, stark white fur.

    Habitat

    The most common regions to find the Euderma maculatum species are areas with open forests and rugged terrain, arid lands, and desert brush. In fact, they migrate to warmer regions once winter is on deck, even falling into torpor for the entire season. They spread across Canada, southward through the western United States, and even into Mexico. They enjoy large cliffs, open canyons, and of course, like any other bat, caves. They almost always roost near viable water sources too, such as springs, rivers, lakes, and streams.

    Diet

    Euderma maculatum are insectivores, which means they primarily eat insects. They particularly like moths. What’s interesting is that they do not eat the wings of the moth, only the torso!

    Predators

    Spotted bats, like all small bats, have a long list of predators that will choose them as a meal any time of day. This includes owls, mountain lions, coyotes, raccoons, skunks, and most of all, humans. Overdevelopment, pesticides, hunting, and more are all ways we threaten the lives of bats.

    Status

    Although the Spotted bat is not technically on the endangered species list, they are considered to be one of North America’s rarest bat species.

    Life

    Female bats produce one single baby every year, usually in Late May or in June. Baby bats are called pups. Researchers don’t know much about the lifespan of the Spotted bat species, however, bats can live up to 20 years in the wild, depending on the region, species, and several other factors. They live solitary lives as a colony, and tend to be very territorial.

    What Is the Song ‘Life In A Northern Town’ About? You May Be Very Surprised!

    This reached number 7 on the US charts and it peaked at number 15 in the UK. A song with a very wintry feel to it to match the title.

    Great harmonies. Their record company thought this needed more drums but the band said no. I think the lack of a strong drum beat is what makes this song somewhat timeless. This seems to be pretty cut and dry. The title describes exactly what the song is about…or does it? The lyrics definitely describe life in a northern town. The Beatles and John F. Kennedy are mentioned so it must be life in a northern town in the early 1960s. In fact they even mention 1963. If you listen close though you will hear them singing about someone telling them all this. “He took a cigarette out”…and…”He said in winter 1963”. Believe it or not, this song is not about life in a northern town, its about Nick Drake, with references to where he grew up in England.

    Drake was 26 years old when he died in November of 1974 of an antidepressant overdose which may have been suicide. His work was very influential to many British musicians and songwriters, and his legend grew after his death. He was best known for somber pieces composed on his favorite instrument, the guitar, and The Dream Academy intended the song as a tribute to Drake. It is certainly odd that his name is never mentioned in this song or any of his work. The last verse about going to the train station, watching it leave and never waving goodbye represents his death and how he won’t be forgotten.

    Thinking About Homeschooling? Teachers Are

    One might be surprised to know that the biggest influx to the home school arena today are professional teachers. The reasons they give are very interesting.

    •  In the 60s teachers had more say so about what happened in their class rooms. However the government is more in control these days. It is important to know that the Vietnam War taught us that the war cannot be won from the White House. Likewise the teacher, who is in the trenches (metaphorically speaking) knows what her kids need. Unlike the bureaucracy, She sees them as human beings, and not as statistics. Heck the school lunches were even much better in the 60s.
    •  Teachers rightfully complain they must now teach their children to pass the government mandated tests requiring them to sacrifice teaching the basics.
    •  Class sizes have become so large that kids are taught to act like robots rather than individuals. Teachers find themselves having to teach as if a one size fits all…they are less able to individualize their curriculum.
    •  Recess and play time are being decreased. Many teachers complain this is creating stress, and forcing little ones to fit into unhealthy and unnatural molds.

    Teachers are getting a bum wrap when they are blamed for the increasing decline in the U.S. public school system, and few people are listening to “those in the trenches”. It is more likely that government bureaucracy is to blame. Is it any wonder that so many teachers are choosing to home school their own families?

    Most home school students out perform public school children on college entrance exams. Obviously most parents are doing something right whether they have teaching credentials or not.

    Are there some sad stories about children that are not receiving an adequate education in the home school venue? The answer is yes, but there are more such stories found in the public school system. Government intervention is not a solution. Parent awareness and involvement (“those in the trenches”) is the solution. That is the case whether one has children in the home school or public school systems.

    This is not said to put an impossible burden or even blame on parents. I say this to empower parents. The solution to today’s education is noticeably coming from you, the people.

    12 Compelling Facts About Sedona, AZ

    Thinking of visiting Sedona but aren’t completely sure? Get to know the city in Arizona a little better first. Whilst having an amazing natural beauty that beckons millions of tourists year-round, Sedona is also a spiritual place with a rich cultural history.

    While Sedona houses well-known places of attractions such as Tlaquepaque, the Red Rock State Park and several Verde Valley wineries, it isn’t much fun traveling around the inspiring city without knowing something more than the average tourist.

    Here are 12 interesting facts about Sedona that will make you plan your next vacation here.

    1. The city of Sedona was named after its first Postmaster’s wife in early 1900’s.

    2. Sedona receives an average of 330 days of sunshine in a year. That’s more than Florida, the Sunshine State.

    3. Sedona looks amazing when it snows. The red rock formations are dusted with a majestic white.

    4. There are more national parks and monuments in Arizona than any other state, and Sedona is near most of them.

    5. Sedona has a rich Native American history. Archaeologists have found countless evidences of Paleo-Indians who were the first known humans to encounter Sedona’s region. Around 650 A.D, the Sinagua settled and prospered for several hundred years before abandoning the land for unknown reasons.

    6. There is only one McDonald’s in the world with turquoise arches instead of the iconic golden arches, and that’s in Sedona. The trademark yellow clashed with the natural colors of Sedona’s beautiful landscape.

    7. Sedona was a hot movie location after the 40’s through to the 70’s. Classic movies like Apache and Billy the Kid were filmed in the area, as well as over sixty other movies.

    8. In 2012, the comedy-drama movie Sedona was the first feature film too be filmed completely in Sedona since the 70’s. Cast of the movie include Frances Fisher, Seth Peterson and Barry Corbin.

    9. Sedona is known for its spiritual vortexes. A vortex is a funnel-shaped spiraling energy which can emanate a positive force, giving you an uplifting feeling days after you have left the site.

    10. Sedona’s canyon walls exhibit nine layers of stone. They date back to different geological periods and span millions of years. The topmost layer

    11. The famous red color of the rocks comes from the iron oxide (rust) which have stained the formation over a great period of time.

    12. Sedona is a tourist hub with four million people visiting the city every year. Its population is just slightly upwards of 10,000.

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