Ok ladies, let’s face it. Getting a responsible man to marry these days is difficult. I’m talking about a cool, smart, fun-loving and caring man who is alive to his responsibilities, especially when you’re not a celebrity, rich and famous or remotely good-looking. What do you do if your husband you truly love wants to leave you for another woman?

I bet you have been rejected by a man you liked when you were not yet married, whether he shut you down on the first approach, didn’t return your phone calls, acted cold and uninterested on the date or “closed up” right before sex. It is a painful, frustrating thing to experience, and the unfortunate thing about it all is that most women seem to either suffer silently, or accept their fate and settle for less.

If your husband wants to leave you for another woman, you will begin to feel unwanted which then diminishes your self esteem. The manner you choose to interpret the messages conveyed by your husband’s behavior, and how you choose to integrate the messages you get into your sense of self will determine how well you win back his love.

What to do if your husband wants to leave you for another woman. Do you start to feel that you earned his rejection because of some fault in your attitude, behaviour and personality, or because you have become overweight and looking older than your real age, or because you could not be all you were expected to be?

Here is a little exercise for you to do:

Get a piece of paper and write down all the reasons for which you suspect, or maybe have even been told, that may be the reason for his wanting to leave. You need to find out the reasons which detract from the uniqueness of who you are, your intrinsic talents and gifts, and most importantly the potential you have for change. If from your analysis, you did not find any reason, then my advice to you is to focus on your potential and how you can use it to repair and save your marriage and, not on the condemning messages of what you did or did not do.

Be empowered right now, knowing that you deserved the opportunity to evolve, to work on your marriage, and you deserved the chance to make your marriage last forever in a way that is healthy and fruitful.

Make a choice today to focus on how to make your husband to love you more and more and ensure he does not leave you for another woman. You have the potential to succeed and you will be victorious at the end if you will open your mind to learn new things about relationships.