Premature Ejaculation was once thought to be caused by drugs and then by certain infections like Urethritis. All of these opinions by experts have proved to be far off the mark. One opinion you do not want to pay any attention to claims that some men are born able to control their ejaculation, thereby condemning the rest of us ‘mere mortals’ to a life of uncontrollable early climax. No one is born with the ability to control rapid ejaculation, while it is true that our sexual response and our awareness of ejaculatory control differ, it is a fact that ejaculation is an automatic response and the only way to control it is to learn how.
What is the Squeeze Technique?
One time-tested technique you can learn really fast is the squeeze technique. This method has been used for decades and that fact points to its usefulness and relevance. It works by using your hands or that of your partner to manipulate your penis when you are close to climax, this will make you flaccid, pushing back the urge to ejaculate.
Starting out
For you to get the best result, position matters. Your partner should be on top while you are at the bottom, thus ensuring minimal movement from you. You will need to communicate to your partner the appropriate time to slow down the thrusting. When you begin to feel the urge to ejaculate, withdraw from intercourse and squeeze the penis for several seconds until the urge passes. The place to squeeze is just below the glans, the rounded part at the top of the penis, if you have a foreskin, pull it back so the glans is uncovered. Note that this action will cause you to lose full erection which you will have to regain by foreplay before you resume penetration, at this point you can repeat this technique if the urge to climax returns before you are ready for it.
The cons
This method is a source of inconvenience for some, not least because it would be very embarrassing to practice in casual sex thereby limiting them to a trusted partner. What is important though is that it works instantly when done right as the Masters and Johnson research team( pioneer researchers into the nature of human sexual response) reported that 98% of couples who learned and used this technique had success treating Premature ejaculation.
