Ever thought “She likes me but has a boyfriend.”
It is a common theme in our popular culture. I cannot tell you the amount of misinformation I hear in songs or see in movies.
Guy sees girl. Girl has boyfriend. Girl realizes her boyfriend is a jerk and dumps boyfriend for our hero.
Problem is, in real life, the girl our hero ends up with generally has NO integrity.
If she did it to him, she will do it to you.
Let me be clear. If you are chasing a woman with a boyfriend, then you are WASTING YOUR TIME.
I do not care what she says.
“He is a jerk. You are so nice to me. I should be with you.”
“It is going to end soon. We just do not get along. Hang in there a little longer. I have never met a guy like you before.”
When she does that, and you hang in there waiting for her, she has 2 turkeys on the line. Her turkey of a boyfriend who is in a relationship with her, taking the beating and the turkey that wants to replace turkey 1 (you).
Can a woman truly be in a bad situation by choosing the wrong guy or by being with a man that changed? Sure.
But why do you want to be there for all the drama as their relationship is coming to a close?
Beyond the drama though, how do you know if it is just a good lady that is trying to extract herself from a bad situation or a girl playing one guy off the other? We tell guys on our dating women radio show all the time that women are great actresses when it comes to dating and relationships and they are BETTER at it than men are. Do not even try to figure where she is coming from. You cannot.
The point is, do not get entangled in this type of situation because there is no upside. We tell guys that you need a clean deal. No exes, fiances, husbands or boyfriends hanging in the background is the rule of thumb.
If she is not available with no strings attached then it is not worth it.
We use odds in dating women and relationships because we all have a limited amount of time. You have better odds of having a relationship with a woman with no strings attached than one embroiled in a boyfriend situation (plus, you never know if she is a disloyal type of person that will do to you someday what she did to the boyfriend she just dumped to go out with you).
Remember guys, if they have a boyfriend, KEEP YOUR DISTANCE.
