Let me just tell you a quick little tidbit about my sex life. I’ve been with the same woman for over 7 years. I consider myself a good lover because I’ve had lots of time to perfect my techniques. I currently have sex about twice a week and 98% of the time it’s mind blowing. I get her into my favorite positions almost any time I feel like, and it’s done without any asking. All it takes is gentle coaching while I am pleasing her and I’m convinced you can do it to if you follow this one simple philosophy.
Make sure she is satisfied first. Please her and she’ll beg to please you.
The best way to please her is with oral sex. I hardly ever have sex without performing oral sex for at least 10 minutes or longer. It’s easy for me because I honestly enjoy it. and What I’ve found is that I can ease her into any position I want by giving her good oral sex first and on average I am able to give her at least one orgasm before we even have sex.
And that’s what I want to tell you about.
The secret to good oral sex is to be attentive to her needs. Get into it. Experiment with different things. Learn to listen to her, to read her body language, and use this to give her more of what she wants and less of what she doesn’t.
Good oral sex is having a few techniques and recycling them, it’s knowing what to do and when to do it. A lot of this is a learning experience and each woman you are with will have different likes or dislikes. But the more tools you have in your tool box the more mind blowing sex you will have.
So here’s what you do to drive her wild.
Begin as you normally would but slowly work your way down to her Vagina. When you get into position take her clitoris in your mouth and begin to softly suck and kiss it. Gently massage it with your lips and tongue. Longingly grip the clitoris between your lips and squeeze softly. Try tugging it very lightly. Listen to her for feedback.
Work her into a frenzy. Gently suck and massage her clitoris and use your tongue as a penis, rhythmically driving it in and out of her. Start off slowly, see how she reacts to this, if you are well received try a deep slow thrust, driving the tongue against one of the inner walls of her vagina. If she enjoys this, give her more.
At this point she should be pushing back against you or showing you signs of encouragement. Every once in a while stroke her cheek or gently pull her towards you, show her how bad you want her. It’s contagious, and she will start wanting you just as bad.
Always take your time, don’t ever feel rushed. Sometimes just gently kissing and sucking on the clitoris is enough to drive her wild. It’s not a race, be attentive, always listen and adjust your technique according to the signals she sends you.
Use your hands to drive her to a climax. Try gently massaging one of her breasts or giving her behind a squeeze. When your ready for intercourse begin to move her into your desired position. If you’ve done a good job until now, she will be eager to comply. And the result will be the most mind blowing sex you have ever had.
The most important thing you can take away from this article is that to have great sex you have to work at pleasing your partner. Instead of trying to please yourself. What you will find is that it is a win win situation. She will be more satisfied and more likely to want to satisfy you. and She will also want to have sex more frequently because it has suddenly become more enjoyable.
