So you want to learn how to talk dirty to your partner? There are so many couples using dirty talk to enhance their relationship, even people you would never have guessed in a million years who would be spicing up their love life with a little naughty verbal play. It adds great fun to the bedroom and to your life overall.

Now, I fully recognise that it is normal to feel nervous or worried about talking dirty but there really is nothing to be scared or ashamed of. It is a lot of fun and not as difficult as you think.

Remember, dirty talk should be a shared experience. You and your partner need to feel comfortable and this short guide will assist you in being at ease with talking dirty and making it a regular part of your relationship.

Before you start talking dirty with your partner (but after you have decided to do so), have a conversation about which words are going to be accepted into the dirty talk by both of you. There may be words that you both or one of you do not wish to use or hear and that is fine. By discussing this before beginning you eliminate the chance of any shocks or mood decreasing words. There may be certain words that you or your partner simply object to. Promising not to use those particular words can assist you both.

The next step is to ensure you are relaxed and ready to go. You both need to be in the mood and there is no point starting dirty talk just like it’s a normal conversation! Making it all sound forced is a mood killer so ideally talking dirty should start AFTER you are both in a sexy mood. In other words, don’t make dirty talk the beginning of things, make it part of the greater picture.

A great way to break the ice is by giving each other compliments. This may be compliments about how you both look or what you are doing. Telling your partner you really love something about them heightens their confidence and will in turn lead them to compliment and admire you more. It is important obviously that you are both highly physically attracted to each other for this to work properly.

Everybody has a naughty side within them and making this part of you come out really is exhilarating and adventurous. If your partner and you can work together and be supportive of one another then talking dirty will make the relationship seem new again!