In this article we are going to look at hypnosis and speed dating. If you aren’t familiar with speed dating, it’s simply ALL about making a good first impression…and FAST! (as you only have about 8 minutes to do it before you move on to the NEXT date.) Conversational hypnosis is a VERY powerful tool to make all of the dates you “meet” on your speed dating excursion POWERFULLY, hypnotically and inexplicably attracted to you! Read on.

Body Language Modeling

One of the easiest ways to establish rapport in ANY scenario is through body language modeling. Nowhere is this MORE powerfully evident than in speed dating scenarios. If she leans left….you lean left. If he uses his hands to talk….you DO the very same thing! It’s a subliminal thing – but VERY effective in bonding beneath the surface. Remember, MOST of the science of love (and lust!) takes place on a subliminal level, and body language is a powerfully erotic dance between two people, that if you can MASTER…you are MORE than half way there!

Pattern Interruption

Simply looking for small, subtle ways to use interruption behavior is VERY powerful in a speed dating scenario. The handshake induction, for example, was one of Erikson’s most POWERFUL tools when he taught and lectured about NLP and conversational hypnosis. Where is a BETTER or more appropriate place to try this but in THIS atmosphere? It’s perfect! You are going to be shaking EVERYONE’S hand anyway – and of course you want to be memorable to boot.

This is a made for TV perfect way to use the power of something a LITTLE bit out of the ordinary when shaking hands, and then in that BRIEF moment where the subconscious of the subject (your “date”) is a little confused, uncertain and VERY receptive….you simply IMPLANT a powerful statement of positive suggestion. It’s FAR easier than these words can convey of course…and if you are already practicing this regularly, you know what I mean!